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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 23h

I got the perfect cargos and a really cool leather jacket at the car boot sale thank you butch gods for shining on me today 😌🙏

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 23h

I got the perfect cargos and a really cool leather jacket at the car boot sale thank you butch gods for shining on me today 😌🙏

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I genuinely feel really bad that it's become so common for teenagers/young adults to bring their interpersonal fuck ups to social media you're GOING to fuck up relationships at that age bc you're still figuring it out and it's not really fair to have thousands of people know all the details

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

running my dressmaker business into the ground bc I just love fabric shopping

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

my gf has an infected tooth which obviously sucks but finding out this is the first time she's ever taken antibiotics has filled me with a truly unhealthy amount of jealousy

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

it's always the same formula of "I've been thinking about trans men based on what this other person who isn't a trans man said about trans men and here's my conclusions" and when trans men are like "hey so that's not true" they go "oh you're calling me -a woman- I'm a liar?? typical man 🙄" omggggg

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

it does grind my gears a bit that the majority of content I see about trans men is not by trans men and when they reference other content it's also not by trans men and all the top comments the creator has liked aren't from trans men like can we be allowed to weigh in on our issues please?

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

fine with tattoo artists having whatever preferences they want for showing up early but you all either need to standardise this or tell me it stresses ME out when sometimes it's "oh god you're 2 minutes early aaaa" and sometimes "I thought you weren't coming it's only 5 minutes til your appointment"

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.·*.♡ 𝓅𝓇𝒾𝓃𝒸ℯ𝓈𝓈 𝓅𝓊𝒹𝒹𝓁ℯ ♡.·*. :3 @raynpuddle.useless.pet · 01/10/2026

i have CPTSD, Completely Perfect TransSexual Disorder

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

oh to have the confidence of the guys at the gym that are patronising towards me and then who lift less weight that I'm using proper form with

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

house boywifing again made a load of soup and shortbread and cleaned the kitchen

a baking tray of shortbread biscuits half with chocolate buttons on top and half with milk way chocolate magic stars on top

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

it's the same reason I don't like using the word talented and prefer to say something like skilled bc I know it took time and work and practice to get good at this thing and I want to acknowledge that

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I kinda hate comments like "how did you discover you could do this?" when someone is doing something impressive but niche baby they learnt and practiced it's not some innate superpower you too can do impressive things if you practice

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

got assigned clockiest t-slur at group therapy

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

mars doesn't relapse while studying eating disorders challenge (aaaaaaaaaa)

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

you look sillier swinging 25kg dumbbells around with terrible form for lateral raises than you would just using a low weight you can actually do

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

there's a guy on tiktok (@/darrenlitterjnr) making videos about youth culture in south east London in the 2000/10s and it's really making it hit how traumatic those times were bc growing up in it I think we all kinda had to joke about/glorify it to cope

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

a bouncer at berghain has confirmed that the criteria for entry is about whether you look like you want to be and are safe to be in a queer kink club and not about fashion or language or how many people you're with which is exactly what I've always suspected lmao

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

"but plant proteins are incomplete!!" may I introduce you to the idea of a varied diet?

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

anyway I am no longer venturing into the countryside people are so fucking weird there and can't handle transsexual swag

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

some 15 year old boy walked past me with his mum and went "omg mum I've just realised I think my new hair cut looks like I have a mullet" in a very distressed tone and uhhh why did that thought occur to you when you saw me??

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

walked into a pub with my gf yesterday in some fuck ass village in the middle of nowhere and literally everyone in there immediately turned and stared us down I have never left an establishment so quickly

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

also when there's 30 points on the person spec and they want 1 A4 page for a cover letter how am I meant to fit everything???

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

I think it's fine to want a microlabel that describes your specific experience, I also think it's fine to want broader labels and explain your specific experiences as and when you want, I also think it's fine to not want a label at all, I dont think any of these are superior

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

look I don't think you SHOULD start smoking/drinking/using any substances but every so often I see a post that's like "hey younger trans people don't let older trans people convince you smoking etc is cool, you don't want to start doing that" as if being cool is the reason we all started

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

I hate when job applications are like "please address every point of the person specification in this statement" and the person spec is shit like "nice to be around" how tf do I prove that????

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I will grow my biceps to make up for not being able to grow my penis

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

STOP!!! MAKING ME LOOK AT FUGLY AI EVENT POSTERS!!!! I DONT WANT TO GO!!!!

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

letting my gf microdose being butch by asking her to put my favourite shows on the jellyfin server bc I refuse to learn how that thing works

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skeeter devilpenis @guypussy.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

DOCTOR GIVE ME TENTACLE PENIS

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I need a non cringe way to tell people I'm monogamous

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

love wins ♥️ (she said we can get one tonight)

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

my wife just said she hates me and she wants me to die (said no to getting a Chinese takeaway tonight (I was going to pay too))

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

actually I very strongly believe that every paid position in trans orgs(/charities/CICs/etc) should be held by trans people, yeah sure allies are important to the cause and can help but why are you paying cis people when you're one of the few places that'll be safe for trans people to work??

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

I wish they would give me a penis :((

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

would you hate me if I became a right wing grifter to pay for bottom surgery? (/j I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH THIS IS A JOKE)

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

experiencing man-made genders beyond your comprehension

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

a hill I am willing to die on is septums are a better first piercing than lobes

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

you can tell when I film a tiktok in the morning bc my voice is like 10000 octaves deeper lol

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

everyone watch black burns fast now it's so cute and so creative and so lesbian and so gooooddddddd everyone watch it NOWWWW

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

trans guys listen to me, taking testosterone after an oestrogenised puberty doesn't make your voice drop in the same way as cis boys, that's where the "t boy voice" comes from if you don't want that you have to voice train

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

everyone watch black burns fast now it's so cute and so creative and so lesbian and so gooooddddddd everyone watch it NOWWWW

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

my hair is kinda pink again oh we're so back

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

cw eating disorder it still makes me laugh that the first time I got sent to ED treatment when I was severely underweight (and visibly so) in the assessment they asked what I normally eat in a day and I blatantly lied but they still went "well you're eating enough so you don't need treatment"

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

listening to American boy to remind myself being a 5ft 7 guy is okay

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

seeing Hayley Williams with badges that say "revelation" and "queer boy" bro if you need to speak...

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

it was actually so fucked up that my abuser would constantly keep going after I'd tell him I was triggered by something and needed to calm down to the point that I would end up lashing out at him so he could seem like the victim

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

we got a little crt monitor and now I can play old super mario games the way god intended

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futch fairy 🧚🏻 @solar-mars.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

somehow the dwp know when I'm having a bad time and will choose that moment to contact me

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