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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 2h

She's trying her hardest to do the least amount of work today.

Jessa has her hand under her chin and is looking up while smiling.

jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 4h

Ok friends! I found my old Amazon wishlist & added some new stuff. ⊹ I have both spicy & vanilla items ⊹ If you buy a spicy item, I will send you pics/short clips as a thank you! www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...

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Check out my list on Amazon

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 18h

Do we still use hashtags seriously? Like, do they actually work anymore? Haha.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 19h

Y'all are sleeping on this one if she's not on your skyline already.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 19h

How do I know my autistic ass has body awareness problems? I wanted to sniff a plate and I brought it up too fast and smacked myself in the face lol.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 19h

It has been a hot minute since I've had some Disaronno. 🥃

Jessa is in a purple shirt and holding a short glass with ice and an amber drink. The Disaronno bottle sits on the counter behind her.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 19h

(one of) Geoff's nicknames is Bath Mat. Why? Because he plants himself in the middle of the kitchen when I make dinner and does not move. I have to walk around or step over him. 🤣

A large, fluffy, grey cat with a big fluffy tail is laying on a tile floor with his legs tucked under him. The shot is Jessa pointing the camera down on him with her feet in the shot.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 20h

Why does it feel conceited, self centered and cringey to make an Amazon wishlist for yourself? I feel like I'm over here going TEEHEE I KNOW YOU LOVE ME SO MUCH SO PLEASE SPEND MONEY ON MEEEEE. I promise I'm not that annoying. At least for that specific reason. 😅

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 23h

What's something intimate about you that you feel may be a weird take? I'll go first: I'm not a fan of kissing. I'm happy not doing it at all lol.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 23h

Woo getting lots of blocks today! Which actually makes me happy because it means my posts are actually being seen. Now if they just show them to the people who WANT to see them... 🤣

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 23h

Not gonna lie, I'm feeling pretty salty every time Snapchat emails me memories... “remember this?” Fuck off.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Holy crap it's 75⁰ this morning in Florida and I feel like I want to put on a cozy sweater and drink a PSL. Ok not really, I hate PSL.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Can someone tell me what it means when you have a swarm of giant flies in the walls of your microwave???? 😦😳

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Do people even use the "stories" feature on OF/Fansly? Do followers even look at those?

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

A quick #WagonWednesday post featuring my very awesome Rick & Morty underwear. 🔫

Jessa is standing in front of her mirror, facing away. She has a black sleeveless top and white brief underwear with Rick & Morty on them.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

The question is, do I have a drink while making dinner...? 🥃

Jessa is on her couch in a black top. The camera is above her looking down and she has an expression of consideration on her face.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I wish social media platforms had the ability to like, categorize your own posts. So you could curate separate timelines depending on what people want to see. Example: I post cats but also tits - and I realize that audience-overlap is small lol. It would be nice to have more control.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Hey. 👋🏼 Sex-positive, body-positive, and 43 and unapologetic. 🖤 Plus size and middle-aged folks: you're hot, and I'll keep saying it. 🔞 NSFW + thirst traps (none in return, thanks!) 💎 VIP content, DM for info 🐱 6 cats · 🎶 loud music · 🧠 AuDHD No trading.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

If you see this do it! ⊹ name: Jessica ⊹ height: 5’6" ⊹ star sign: ♎/♏ cusp ⊹ nicknames: too many to name! ⊹ siblings: 2 ⊹ relationship: almost 20 years! ⊹ crushing on: a healthier version of myself ⊹ fav season: 🍂 ⊹ pets: 6 ⊹ fav color: indigo ⊹ live: in a fantasy world in my head 🫶🏼

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Well, if nothing else, I got $200 in gift cards for my job ($100 at Ulta and $100 at Amazon) for my 5-year anniversary. Although technically I've been here for 9 years but we got bought out 5 years ago so yay for me lol.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Do you ever get the anxiety where you think that you don't care about what people think about you, because you've said all the mean things to yourself already... But then worry that they'd think of something else I hadn't thought of to be critical about yet? Just me...? 😅

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Wow I'm at 14.9k here?? When did that happen?? I feel like I should do some sort of celebration if I hit 15k. Like, maybe I'll share a full nude on the skyline or something. Or should it be like a one-time live access of Q&A on my discord? Hmmm...

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Today's #OOTD is another very simple and comfy outfit because I'm alone in the office again today. Time to blast some kpop and talk to myself all day. #softbutdangerous #wilf

Jessa is in front of her mirror wearing light grey leggings and a sleeveless black tunic. Her hair is half up in space buns and she has one toe pointed toward the floor.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

So I'm kind of in love with this shot. (Also, I'm totally making WILF a thing. Or should it be a WILD (wife I'd like to do) 🤣 #softbutdangerous #onlyfans #fansly #contentcreator #nsfw #nsfwsky #sw #lingerie #wifenextdoor #wilf

Jessa is kneeling on the floor in front of her mirror, leaning forward on one hand. She is holding the camera in the other hand, and looking into the screen. She is wearing a hot pink lace bra and sky blue underwear.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Someone please explain to me why taking selfies outside of Snapchat is so freaking time consuming?? How is that possible? Also they come out crappier, too. WHATEVER HAPPY TUESDAY. #shemaybegrumpy #dontjudge #adultingisdumb

Jessa is sitting in a black, faded green and pink floral pattern dress and glasses.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Left work a little earlier than I had to so I could wander Target for a little bit.

Jessa is in her car. She has her seatbelt on and is looking at the camera with a small smile.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I can't tell you how happy I am to be leaving work early to go to therapy.

Jessa is in a black floral print dress with round tortoise shell glasses.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

This is the epitome of comfort outfits... It looks like I'm wearing pajamas but today is one of those IRDGAF kinda days. #IYKYK #OOTD

Jessa is in front of her mirror wearing a black and pale pink floral pattern dress with an oversized grey cardigan over it.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I'm surprised I haven't heard of Shining Vale until now... It's been really entertaining and Courtney Cox is hot as fuck. That is all.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

When repetitive patterns helps calm you down and you're super stressed 😅

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I took PTO, logged in and did a few things, made myself some coffee and now I'm back in bed and going to try to art my way out of this brain of mine. 🎨

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

It feels weird not plastering my face all over my Snapchat all day. 😂 Have a barely-slept-mentally-unstable proof of life selfie. 🫶🏼

Jessa is bare faced and smiling softly at the camera

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Ghostie pfp was short lived but I forgot about this spooky photoshoot I did a few years ago...

Jessa has a short blonde bob. She is wear a half moon diadem on her forehead, and her makeup is dark with black lipstick. She is wearing a black sheer bathing suit and looking off camera at the sun.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

In case you would like to know what life in my house is like: I woke up, it's still dark, I had to go to the bathroom and I had to step over what I think was puke to get in here and the cats are literally scaling the shower curtain in the pitch black. It is far too early for this. 🫩

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

God damnit I just accidentally took my morning meds instead of my night meds. 😩 I'm already dreading what this means for me tomorrow.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Halloween mode: activated (and I know some people have ✨feelings✨ about people who don't show themselves in their profile pics on here but you know what I just wanna be spooky.)

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

When it's Halloween but you're in Florida... 🎃🌴

Two giant Halloween decorations in the lawn. The first, a giant pumpkin man with a stovetop hat and holding a crow staff, and the second, an even taller skeleton with a pumpkin head. A palm tree and blue skies are behind them.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Look at this regal looking doof. Geoff is a fluffy boi. Also pictured: the remnants of how badly the cats want to get outside with the paw prints all over the glass. 🤣

A large, fluffy, grey cat laying in the sun on the couch.

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jessa 𑣲⋆ ⌞ 🎂 10•23 ⌝ @softbutdangerous.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

A pretty accurate depiction of our home: 🐈‍⬛ Cats ⚠️ Chaos 🎃 Spookiness

A black cat with gold eyes is sitting on a tattered looking green area rug. The morning sun is illuminating her. Behind her are Halloween decorations: a jack-o'-lantern and a totem pole of skulls with red glowing eyes. There is a rolled up rug leaning against the wall and there are delivery boxes behind her.

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