iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 01/07/2025

They tell you when you get hearing aids you will adapt and it gets less overwhelming. It hasn’t for me after almost 2 years. It’s weird to be grateful for something while also never look forward to popping them in.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 30/06/2025

OCD is not quirky or cute. Just a reminder. I was already running late to work and then I get stuck in a loop of locking my car. Like bitchhhhh we don’t have TIME for this!!!

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

I am ALWAYS cautious with authors who only write about sapphic couples when it involves a tragic/sad ending.

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kayla📚 @kaylasbookbog.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

I have nothing profound or witty to say. i’m just so heartbroken and angry. so many lives will be lost all for the elite.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 17/06/2025

My niece is reading Legendborn for the first time and the text thread is MASSIVE right now 😂

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 14/06/2025

I write out a lot of posts, then reread 3 or 4 times just to hit “discard post” and take it to the notes app instead. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 07/06/2025

My niece picked Legendborn for her book at the store today! So excited for her

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 07/06/2025

Me and the niece are going thrifting today and I think the shirt I ordered for pride is going to come in just in time for tonight 🙌🏻🙌🏻 may the mail gods be on my side

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 05/06/2025

What is your FAVORITE sapphic book you’ve read to date? 📚🌈 I’ll go first. Of all time, Outdrawn by Deanna Grey still takes the trophy. #sapphicbooks

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 05/06/2025

GOODBYE NELNET! That last student loan payment has been submitted! 😭😭😭😭 heavy sobbing

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 04/06/2025

I’m making my last student loan payment tomorrow and I’m already crying about it. 🖕🏻 them for exploiting us then and continuing to target HS children now with predatory loan practices.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 04/06/2025

My niece texted me super excited because she’s watching Rupaul’s drag race starting at season 9. She said it’s pride month so she needed to do it. I don’t think I’ve laughed this hard in a while. She really said “for the gay in my life🏳️‍🌈 ALLY”

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 03/06/2025

Yall, please respect your library books. Don’t dog ear pages, toss them around, bend the spines harshly. Accidents happen but try your best to be gentle and leave the copy in good condition. Library funds are scarce. There isn’t always money to fix or buy another copy.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 03/06/2025

Millennial Authors 🤝🏻 magical chosen ones with white hair or mysterious streaks of silver 😂😂 I love us

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 03/06/2025

happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈 post you and your flags!

A picture of a white woman with brown hair and circular framed glasses.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 02/06/2025

VERY excited to be adding this shirt into my pride shirt line up. I only have two others but I love this one. It is from @gayprideapparel.com

Description from website: Pride means nothing if it isn’t for all of us. This tee honors the revolutionary legacy of Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera, marching beneath the rallying cry: No Pride For Some Without Liberation For All. Behind them, a subtle Pink Triangle reminds us that queer liberation is rooted in resistance and we are still fighting.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 02/06/2025

I kind of want to redo my introduction post now that we are 6 months into this

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 01/06/2025

Also garden progress! 🌱🪴🫛Tomatoes are doing great, beans are growing well. Marigolds bloomed! My luffa plant is dealing with a flying ant problem but I’m doing my best to keep the plant going.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 01/06/2025

Library Haul from today. I loved Rachel Gillig’s Shepherd King duology so the new release was a given to grab. The midnight feast is the book club’s pick this month. 📚❤️

The Knight and The Moth by Rachel Gillig

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 31/05/2025

Sinners Movie DVD is coming soon and I’m at the ready to purchase it. Already planning a watch party at my place for my friends that couldn’t afford to see it in theatres. I’m so excited

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 29/05/2025

So many video essays on the death of hobbies but rarely any of these acknowledge how many MORE hours people are having to spend at a job to pay essential bills. 16 hrs a day doing work to come home exhausted. When did having hobbies become a moral high ground? People are TIRED and want to rest.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 20/05/2025

Some people mean “chill in a setting with not much going on plot wise but the vibes are cool” when they say Cozy Fantasy and others mean “low stakes plot line with fantasy setting that doesn’t include combat scenes” when they say cozy fantasy. These are two very different recs.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 19/05/2025

Me, a chronically ill 31 year old doing any mundane task on a bad flare day: “Baddies don’t quit” 😂😂 I have to laugh or I’ll cry

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

Libraries need our support, always. That’s the goal. Promoting what YOUR library has access to for your community is different. That’s spreading awareness but berating people online for not using a resource they don’t have access to is losing the plot. You’re focused on the wrong thing

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

“Just use hoopla, omg why aren’t you just using hoopla.”NOT EVERY LIBRARY HAS HOOPLA ACCESS. Or kanopy. Or the language learning databases. Here once again to remind yall that not all libraries are funded equally. Your library may have video games, seeds, and tools while others barely have books.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

Thrifting win today!! I finally found the coffee table I wanted. It’s solid wood and in such great condition. #thrifting

A solid wood coffee table with decorations on top of it

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 15/05/2025

I don’t know if this is felt across the board but social media in general is overwhelming me so bad. I feel like if I’m not on it, I can’t keep up with important info, but if I stay on it, my brain is going to rot out of my head with the amount of info thrown at me with one scroll.

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teva 🐒 @stiinken.bsky.social · 14/05/2025

we are all sinners

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 12/05/2025

Using junk mail for journaling will always end up being my favorite. Summer Bucket List has been completed!

A journal is open on a desk decorated with flowers, butterflies, and strawberries showcasing a Summer Bucket List

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

Wishing a very happy Mother’s Day to those celebrating. For us who are grieving today, you’re in my heart as well. ❤️

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

I’m on a roll after this reading slump finally wore off. I’ve finished 3 books now?! ❤️🌈📚

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

The Worcester raid. The screams. I can’t get that out of my head and if you can, you’re precisely the problem. They did nothing wrong. And yet they slammed a 16 year olds face on the ground. I’m sick. This has happened to countless others

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 09/05/2025

My ultimate goal is to move out of Florida (been here since I was 6) but I’m starting to lose hope that I’ll ever be able to afford to move. Yall said FL cost of living was the highest but that turns out to be very wrong.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

My niece did her leadership tryout for color guard to a paramore song and I couldn’t be more proud.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 07/05/2025

Queer bars are being raided again strictly for intimidation tactics. This is why I’m so adamant about gen z and younger generations taking the time to learn their history. You assumed it wasn’t “a big deal to be queer anymore” without realizing what was at stake if you looked away.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 07/05/2025

Finished The River has Roots by Amal El-Mohtar ❤️📚 last night and sobbed so bad over the ending. It’s such a short book, but it is packed with emotion.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 06/05/2025

Library Haul from today! Support your local library as often as possible. Books aren’t the only way you can support your library but it’s my particular favorite. #library

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 04/05/2025

Yall I posted this on Threads too and I had to start moderating and deleting comments constantly because people are ANGRY that I don’t want to deal with hurricanes, heat, and sandy soil anymore. 😂😅 what

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 04/05/2025

TikTok algorithm is really trying to push sermon videos at me and I have blocked every possible tag to keep it from happening yet they keep popping up.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 30/04/2025

“Florida isn’t in a drought” then what’s this? And it’s only rained once this April and for a few minutes at that. This is supposed to be downpour season for us. No April showers to bring May flowers over here.

This photos shows a patch of the dry and crunchy yard.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 28/04/2025

I’m awake. Which means I’m listening to the Sinners Movie Score on repeat. There is a specific part in Smokestack twins melody (01:22-01:32) that goes straight to my bones. I can’t be the only retired band kid freaking out over this score.

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 28/04/2025

“I hated the man that forced me to learn that prayer, but the words still brought me comfort” this scene among so many others refuse to leave my brain this evening #SinnersMovie

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 27/04/2025

I saw Sinners today, FINALLY. I mean it when I say if you didn’t like that movie, we can’t be friends. IT WAS SO GOOD!!!!! #SinnersMovie

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 27/04/2025

My picture is on the right. My hammock is atrocious but this was fun!

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

Used Books I’ve recently picked up: •Notes of a Crocodile by Qui Miaojin •The Intersectional Environmentalist by Leah Thomas •Patrica Wants to Cuddle by Samantha Allen

Patrica Wants to Cuddle by Samantha Allen

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

I’m going to a paint & sip (non-alc) at the lgbtq center tomorrow with my girlfriend and I’m so nervous because she’s about to witness how bad I am at painting 😂😂

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 23/04/2025

Trying to just hang in there. My nails are falling off, my hair is falling out in chunks, the chronic pain is doing its big one, bruising like crazy. Being chronically ill sucks. Having sjögren’s sucks. I just want a break

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Jess 📚🪴🏳️‍🌈🍉 @sobremesa18.bsky.social · 21/04/2025

Store bought “bee hotels” usually don’t attract solitary bees but I am hoping that this will encourage the wasps and other insects to make homes in this vs my windows and doors. Wasps are pollinators too and keep aphids down for veggie gardeners but I don’t like staring into their eyes 😂

A wooden insect hotel is attached to a post. There is text that reads: “Hotel For Insects”.

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