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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 12/11/2023

Hello everyone friends and family this is C I hate to be the barer of bad news but our loved one S has passed away due to a asthma attack. -C I am one of S's partners, M. I have C safely with me. We are broken. S was misdiagnosed in having a heart attack by Denver Health. We miss her daily. -M

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Playing catch with a big muscle lady using a smol femboy instead of a ball

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

I kinda wish I was asked that more often tbh

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

I'll just say it: there is a large, organized and active online white trans community that is, de facto, a white separatist subculture. They should be avoided, ignored and ridiculed.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

There is no racism problem in the [white] trans community. To say so is to be against the [white] trans community. I have said elsewhere but if you just add in the silent "white" to most of their discussions, then it all makes way more sense. Which, fair, they have worked long and hard to exclude

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Lmaooo good in her tho. Added a bunch of names to my block list thanks to her heroic position that (checks notes) being less racist is good actually.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

It's not hard at all, the kinds of people y'all let into these spaces and absolutely tolerate with no pushback whatsoever, hell forget that you let them be your spokespeople, are nasty folks who should be in reeducation programs, not recycling tired Republican talking points but trans now.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

I'm mostly only in the online hookup space to be gassed up but every time I bother to respond I always have a good time. Scared him off. 🤔

A chat conversation

1: (sends a picture of himself)
2: hello there
1: ho
1: hi
2: well, shoot your shot. I'm listening.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Kinda guy who tells everyone he spent 4 years in the marine corps

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Hoooooooly shit this got a lmao in line at the 711

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

I thought this skeet was going in a very different direction when reading the first line

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

I have a cis guy friend I periodically talk to about therapy stuff I do specifically like okay sweetie take the hint

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Reminding them to talk about their feelings sometimes 😬

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

First base is rimming, second base is penetrative sex w no condoms, third base is asking what your name is and home plate is h*lding h*nds.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

*stays put but I'm not typing all that over again

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Ladies! Do you carry pepper spray? (You should) Are you annoyed when it tries to slide out of the useless quarter-pockets on your nice jeans? (I am!) Go to home Depot and get some friction tape. Wrap it around the canister like so. Stays out!

A canister of POM pepper spray with friction tape wrapped around it

A canister of POM pepper spray sticking out of a pocket slightly

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

She's not racist, she just hates race traitors like Polly.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

What a weird coincidence I wonder why that totally random confluence of facts happened 🤔

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

A very funny thing is C always sets their first alarm to 0430 for some reason, very aspirational. So far in the two week this has been a thing they have gotten up at 0430 a total of 0 times.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Dear asshole with the super loud car speeding down my road at 0400: fuck you, wheres your muffler

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Intentionality is a complicated issue when you get to it. There's no central committee issuing diktat but it still makes for a surprisingly robust social system that is highly resistant to change and self polices pretty thoroughly.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Ehhhhh you gotta view it from the standpoint of protecting and enforcing that worldview. It has its own internal logic and they will defend it. It's garbage and racist but it's there.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Being not-like-that is not considered a "better" state to these folks I do not think, and they resent highly any statement that implies they are wrong. So, hostility.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Stretch marks on my tummy from weight loss and it's weird to lose weight because I'm working out and eating better and not because I'm on so many amps that I skip eating for days at a time and don't notice.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

I'm betting C will come in for snuggles tonight so I'm sure it'll be a good one.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

Tired and sad and hurt tonight. But that's okay. Tomorrow is another day.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

The [white] is always silent with them so saying it out loud is always gonna go over bad with most of them.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

When yt trans people say we're being divisive for bringing up racism in their community I do think they are saying a true thing - we are dividing their [yt] community. We're at best some barely tolerated guests in those spaces so why are we being so rude as to rock the boat.

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Sobering Thot 🏳️‍⚧️ @sobering-thot.bsky.social · 14/09/2023

yes the reasons they do it are rooted in the social environment they find themselves in heavily incentivizing them to act that way.

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