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Soaps & Rums Apothecary

@soapsandrums.bsky.social
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Welcome to my apothecary! My name is Astin Gaël. I'm a 37 yr. old #TransMan who is also an #Herbalist, #Poet, member of a #DIDSystem, & hopefully someone you can call friend. Posting daily 'soaps' & keepin' you stocked in 'rums'.

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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 13/10/2026
If I don't feel safe enough in your presence to feel soft & sensual without it being misconstrued as seduction, than I don't care what gender you are... you're not a safe person. Gender doesn't have an abuse. #HealthyMasculinity #BalancedEnergies
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
This 'Mulan' #parody goes out to my fellow #TransMen. The tinctures I've concocted, however, are for ANYONE who thinks they could benefit from boosting their androgens. #CisMen NOT excluded. soapsandrumsapothecary.mayhem.my #HealthyMasculinity #PlantMedicine #Herbalism #SongCover #Singing
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Hello, #WitchSky! If I was following you from my system's personal acct. --- @4islesandco.bsky.social --- I'm now following you from this acct. Compartmentalizing! Feel free to unfollow the personal acct. Me & my headspace bros will be using it for boosting #MutualAid & #SWers from here on. 👌
A screenshot of someone's BlueSky acct. It reads, "4 dudes in a meat suit. We hear voices. #DID #Plural --- Poly & Partnered x1 --- 37 --- He/They with a preference for He/Him --- Pansexual as in I love people's souls not their gender." You can also see the top portion of their pinned post, "September #PromoSky --- Things we love: - Reading [mostly non-fiction] - Psychedelics - Music [Chet: Red Dirt Country; Liam: Rap/Metal; Astin: R&B/Pop; Percy: Jazz] - FOOD [#EatLocal] - Tarot/Storytelling - Poetry..."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
He is indeed! My partner has had him since he was the size of his palm. 😻
A very old gray cat lies stretched out on a brown couch. Arms are thrown out in front of him, head is tucked.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
While I recommend the formula for #WaterSigns in this short, I've been taking the one for #AirSigns for the last 21 days... Clearly, it, too, is helpful for arms 💪 soapsandrumsapothecary.mayhem.my #PlantMedicine for those seeking to boost their androgens & their biceps... 😉
A trans man wearing gray athletic leggings stands over his camera & looks down with an intimidating demeanor. He has both arms out to the side in a flex. His biceps are bulging. He is dripping in sweat.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Cheeseburger for breakfast. Free oracle cards found at a 'lil free library afterwards. All in all a good outing, even if there was multiple displays of the parts of humanity I have a hard time swallowing. 🫶
A plate sits on a wooden table. On it is homestyle potatoes, fixins for a burger, & an open faced cheeseburger with mushrooms & a fried egg. Behind the plate is a can of Dr. Pepper with a glass full of it sat next to it. A pile of oracle cards lays splayed out on a brown couch. There are various animals on each card & they are square shaped.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
You know I'm exorcising [or maybe exercising 🤔] my demons when I queue up this playlist. #MusicSky #WitchSky #DanceWorkout
A screenshot of Pandora playing Cardi B's song, 'AH HA'. The title of the radio station is 'Booty Poppins 🍑'.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Chonky chipmunk chomps melon 🍉
A chipmunk is holding a piece of wwatermelon up to his face. The piece of melon is almost as big as his face. A side profile of the chipmunk holding his melon. There is another piece of melon to his left. [He came back for it later]Another picture of the same chipmunk and his melon. There is less melon now, because he's been chomping so quickly.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
Today is 💉 day! My dr. reduced my shots from 100ml/18 days to 75ml/14 days. I've had 3️⃣ shots @ that level since the change was made. I've not lifted in that month either. Starting today, I'll take a dropper of the #AirSign formula twice/day. I hope to maintain my testosterone levels ⬇️
A jar full of herbs, alcohol, & water sits next to the bottle of alcohol that is inside the jar. The jar is a simple mason jar. The alcohol is DryFly wheat whiskey.A jar of tincture is on the left. An empty jar with some remnants of herbs on the walls is on the right. Between the jars is a bag full of herbs that has been strained into tincture. There is a wall of blue & pink ombre mailers behind them, serving as a 'photographic backdrop'.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
Cutting my hair off because 'The Morrigan told me to. A bond with a person I've mentioned more times than I want to [my partner's mother] is now complete. She will likely die soon [we believe she has lung cancer]. I know the bond between us wasn't a healthy one. ⬇️
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
Muddy boy is muddy.
A trans man sits in a wicker chair on his back patio. He's only wearing underwear because from his face down to his chest he's covered in mud. A mud mask that is. His face looks dopey.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
If you see this, please post a picture from your device without explanation
A scrying mat that shows the Past [Mind & Body], Present [Material world & soul world], & the Future [Conscious & Subconscious] has several charms & runes tossed about on it. In the center of the mat is a tarot card. It is from the Viking Valor tarot deck. It is the Page of Swords. This card features a warrior set out for the adventure we call life.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
Good morning, friends! I was blessed to wake up in time to catch this GORGEOUS sunrise & I couldn't keep the beauty all to myself. Blessed First #QuarterMoon in ♏️ from my house to yours.
Clouds gather over the top of mountains. They are red, orange, & yellow because the sun is just barely risen over the mountain top. Juniper trees are scattered across the land in front of the mountains. Another photo of the same sunrise. This one is taken with the camera positioned long ways instead of vertically, so you can see how far the clouds stretch out over the mountain top.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Plain & simple, my pipe & lighter. In the past, I have even dedicated my lighters to a deity that I was closely working with. Also, all three of my pipes were hand-blown by my partner, so they carry an immense amount of love. My relationship with psychedelics is a HUGE part of my practice.
A man's legs are lounging on top of a small outdoor table. Balancing on his knees is an orange lighter & a pipe full of cannabis. In the background are trees & to the left of him is a hot tub.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Should chipmunks eat cheetos? Probably not. But, they look real fuckin' cute doing it.
A distance photo of a chipmunk picking up a cheese puff. He is standing amongst a bed of rocks. In the background is a guy sitting in a chair watching the chipmunk with a look of awe. Slight zoom on the chipmunk eating the cheeto. Very close-up look at the chipmunk holding the cheese puff. He is delicately munching every bite.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
*drum roll* NOW ANNOUNCING the apothecary's name... sOaPs & rUMs Apothecary! Yes, I meant for the logo to imply that the name is actually OPIUM Apothecary. No, I don't plan on selling opium 🙃
A simple black & white logo. It reads sOaPs *upside down Y with a poppy flower springing out of it* rUMs Apothecary. It is meant to give the illusion that the name of the Apothecary is OPIUM Apothecary.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
Made it to the free box... One of these items came home with me, can you guess which one?
A piece of fabric featuring a shirtless cowboy lies atop a pile of clothes. He has rippling biceps & carefully carved abs. His face looks determined, focused, and seductive. A person holds up a book. The title: 'I Need A New Butt'. The author: Dawn McMillan. The illustrator: Ross Kinnaird. The cover image is a young boy who is blushing looking back at his butt, which is on full display.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 18/07/2026
Energetic? Not exactly. Somatic? Absolutely! Yesterday's dance workout was an INCREDIBLE reminder! When you LEAST feel like dancing, is when you should be dancing MORE. 👌 Funk BE GONE!
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
It was indeed! Fairly certain my 'secret admirer' was just this chipmunk who happily ate the candy sprinkled cookie I tossed out at the river today. But, honestly?!?! This is the EXACTLY the type of soul mate I'd expect. 👌😍
A chipmunk sits in a bed of rocks. It is holding a cookie up to its mouth & nibbling away.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
While taking care of others be sure you don't neglect yourself! The Queen of Cups in exaltation is nurturing, kind, open-hearted, & unconditionally loving. In their deteiment they can be needy, whiny, & possibly even catty. The remedy is self-care! Be sure to pour into your cup before you pour out 🖤
Two tarot cards are displayed on a keyboard of a laptop. To the left is the 10 of Wands. To the right is the Queen of Cups in reverse.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 09/06/2026
I mean who would want to spend time with anyone BUT this guy?!? 🐾
An old gray tomcat shows a spark of kittenhood. He is mesmerized by whatever is going on outside the blue window he's standing in front of. He looks at the camera wide-eyed & full of wonder.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 06/06/2026
"I am feminine. I am masculine. I am ANYTHING I want..." Thank you @tantrabutterfly.bsky.social for your kindness. I remember telling a former friend that I don't like dancing with others, but I'd like to be 'one of those sexy dancers' & them responding unkindly. It's been nice healing from that. 🖤
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
They make good family 🐾
A pink hued photo of an old gray tomcat. If you look closely enough at his face, you can read his mind. He's saying, "I KNOW you're photographing me. And, I KNOW you know that I don't like my soul captured in a photo." But, really he's a lover. An old gray tomcat lies in the last remaining sun beam. His tail is extended out all the way, almost touching the edge of the screen.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 30/05/2026
The job is done. We remain friends. Helps that half of my herbs got here yesterday & there was a nice catnip treat waiting for him post-torture. 😅
An old gray tomcat hangs his head in shame. He had no idea baths existed until today. He believes he could've gone longer not knowing about them. An old gray tomcat struggles to sit properly because his tail has lost its poof. He awkwardly hovers in the air, drowned rat tail flopped on the floor.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 25/05/2026
My 'foolproof' method of record-keeping when I set my moon water out & brought it back in. Take a screenshot at the EXACT time I go outside. Hand write it in my grimoire later on. 👌😅
A screenshot of the Daff moon app. It shows you where the planets are any given time of day. This screenshot was taken on 5/24 [Sunday] at 7:41 AM [MST]. The moon was in a Waxing Gibbous phase; 61.6%.A screenshot taken on 5/23 [Saturday] at 8:26 P.M. [MST]. This is from the Daff moon app, which tells you the precise placements of every planet. At this moment in time, the moon was a Waxing Gibbous; 56.8% full.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
Got the celebrating in already, actually. Made a day trip to Jemez Springs, NM on Monday. We landed at Fenton Lake & WOW... just beautiful. Ate snacks. Smoked weed. Delightful.
A view of a forest clearing. The sun is beaming down atop the tall trees. A peaceful lake awaits ahead. Take a stroll past the pines & settle in. A forest clearing with a lake in front. Lay out a picnic blanket, settle in with your spread, & enjoy the day!
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 20/05/2026
I HAVE ARRIVED 🙌🏴‍☠️ #seashanties #pirate
A screenshot of a person's BlueSky notifications. It shows that they just received a new follower. The follower being 'Wellington Sea Shanty Society'.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 16/05/2026
"She was morning & I was night time..." #NeilDiamond #songcover #singing #NewMoon in #Taurus vibes 🌜
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 03/05/2026
Gramps said, "It's been too long since you were here, kid. Don't be a stranger." Gramps is the 90+ year old man that let me live on his land for free when I first arrived in NM.
A guy is sitting on a couch in front of a grave. He is looking behind him as if the old man is sat right there talking to him. He is smiling. He is wearing a gray shirt, an Isis pendant, & headphones. A guy's legs are sprawled out in front of him. In the distance you see nothing but blue skies. There is a large mason jar full of weed & a pipe next to his legs.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
April 28th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- #222 **repost with your song selection**
A giant #2 is in the middle of the page. It is a black block number surrounded by purple. To the left & right of the number are words that read, "In numerology, the #222 represents unions coming together, masculine & feminine energies, within self, integrating, & guidance from ancestors being heard. In astrology, the 2nd house represents one's resources & their inherent value. --- Select a song for the lovers OR a song for the love of money."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 27/04/2026
April 27th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- # 111 **repost with your song selection**
To the left is a large black #1. To the right are words, in purple, that read "# 111 --- In numerology, the # 1 represents a fresh start or a new idea. In astrology, the 1st house represents the first impression or our physicality. Select a song that represents your physical personality or a song that inspired a spark!"
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 26/04/2026
April 26th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Zen **repost with your song selection**
To the left is an outline drawing of a person seated in lotus pose. Flowers & the Earth envelope them, as if they are becoming a flower themself. To the right are words in a light blue ombre that read, "Zen --- the art of being at peace. The feeling of being rooted to Earth & tied to the cosmos. Select a song that creates a zen environment."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 25/04/2026
April 25th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Youthful CALLING ALL PUNK ROCK, EMO BOIS/GIRLS, SKATER BOIS TURNED BAD ASS PAGAN WITCHES. Share your favorite tunes that keep your youth alive. **repost with your song selection** #WitchSky #EmoSky
To the left is a group of teenagers. They are all pastel. Blue, purple, & pink hair wearing various shades of blue, purple, yellow, & pink clothes. The one closest to the front is holding up a peace sign. They are clearly 'punk' or 'emo'. To the right are words that read, "Our bodies keep aging, but something 'bout a witch is inherently youthful. We know not to lose touch with the parts of ourselves that rebelled. Select a song for your inner teen. Or, inner child[ren].
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 24/04/2026
April 24th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- ❌ At A Crossroads **repost with your song selection**
The text to the left reads, "Standing at a a crossroads... Hekate is the goddess of 'X emoji' & the symbolize choices --- Select a song that you've listened to when making tough decisions OR A song to honor Hekate."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 23/04/2026
April 23rd --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Wiccan **repost with your song selection**
To the right is the classic image of a witch riding on a broom. To the left are words in a lovely shade of violet that read, "Not every witch is a Wiccan but every Wiccan would probably claim to be a witch. Wicca has been around for AGES. It is a nature-focused, dualistic belief system. And, can be practiced along or in a coven. Select a song that represents the long lasting belief system that is Wicca &/or witchcraft."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 22/04/2026
65% Viking Warrior 35% Girly-Pop
A guy turns to the side to show off his high ponytail. He is wearing a gray shirt with a coffee cup on it. Beneath the coffee cup it says, "Need a lift?" You can also see his talisman for the goddess Isis.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 22/04/2026
April 22nd --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Visionary visionary [adj.]: having or marked by foresight & imagination --- comes to us from the Latin word 'vidēre', meaning to see. Akin to the word 'wit', meaning a person of superior intellect **repost with your song selection**
To the left is a person standing in front of an easel. They are painting. To the right are words in pink/yellow ombre that read, "Not all witches are artists & not all artists are witches... But, they're both visionaries! Select a song that inspires adding color to a blank canvas 'energetically speaking'.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 21/04/2026
April 21st --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Utopic Fun Fact: After reading this in 9th grade AP English, our teacher asked us to write a letter to the author detailing how we felt. Apparently, mine was SO compelling, Mr. Jennings wanted to send it. **repost with your song selection**
To the left is the book cover for Lois Lowry's book 'The Giver'. It is a book about a utopic society & all the problems that come with it. To the right are words that read, "Utopic societies... We write about them. We hypothesize about them. We aren't really sure how to create them or live in them... Select a song that says, 'Utopia' to you."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 19/04/2026
April 19th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Symbolic I could honestly post just about any song I've come across on my witch journey. I see symbolism in EVERYTHING. 😂 **repost with your song selection**
To the left is the eye of Horus. To the right are words that read, "Whether you're noticing repeating #s, keying into specific lyrics, or catching onto birds 'acting strange'... witches are ALWAYS looking for 'a sign'. --- Select a song that you could've SWORN was trying to tell you something."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 17/04/2026
April 17th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Quiet the Mind A former mentor of mine used to say, "You gotta get rid of the monkey mind!" Tbh, I had no idea what they meant, at the time. I get it now. --- MEDITATE, my friends... it's good for ya. **repost with your song selection**
To the right is an avocado with a halo. Their eyes are closed, their fingers are in a mudra, & they look peaceful. To the left are words that read, "A quiet mind is a clear mind. Select a song that keeps the 'monkey mind' at bay."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
Bisexual ballerina boy believes in beauty... And love... And you. 🫶
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 13/04/2026
April 13th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Mystic The number 13 is often associated with mysticism. Pisces are often assumed to be mystics. Today is the 13th & the moon is stationed in Pisces. One might say, today's topic was fated. **repost with your song selection**
Surrounded by sparkly stars are the words, "Webster simply defines mystic as having magical properties... A person who is a mystic would claim there's more to it... Either way, there are plenty of songs written about mysticism... Select your favorite."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Don't forget to charge your tools, witches 👌 #catsky #catdad
A gray cat is perched on a decrepit cabinet. His eyes are squinting at the bright sun. His solar battery, however, is powering up.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
April 12th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Lawless **repost with your song selection**
To the left is an image of an imaginary webpage. At the top it says, "Illegal" with skulls around the word. To the right are words that read, "Whether you're pirating Disney movies, growing marijuana &/or shrooms, or being gay in public people who are 'upright citizens' see you as 'lawless'. Congratulations... you're a witch. Select a song to celebrate."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
Our system just went through another ego death. [Shout-out psychedelics] During the trip, we 🗡☠️ off our original host & solidified the fusion of Austin, Lo, & Gemma. Lo was our persona. Our sexual protector. And, our social protector. This song is in her honor... youtu.be/lkQ6uHr0TQE?...
A collage of 9 photos. They all feature a person who never looks directly at the camera. Often has a smirk on their face or their tongue sticking out. And, without a doubt doesn't take themselves or the world too seriously. This was our alters, Lo --- Lola --- Lolita. We miss her, but we're doing much better without her.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 11/04/2026
April 11th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Killin' the Ego **repost with your song selection**
A mask stares blankly back at you. To the right of the mask are words that read, "Killin' the ego --- The persona --- The ego --- The mask --- Whatever you wanna call it, we all know it's not you. --- Select a song that could assist in *sword emoji* *skull & bones emoji* your ego."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
April 10th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Journaling **repost with your song selection**
The text reads, "Whether you're keeping track of your moods, doing shadow work, or penning love poems a journal is a great tool for a witch. Select a song that sets the mood for a journaling session." There is an open journal being written in. It is surrounded by a pen, a cup of coffee, & a piece of paper.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
My grimoire this year represents our system's name --- 4 Isles & Co. We're exploring what it means to be a collection of Isles, rather than 'a man who is an island'. Obviously, this has us into sea shanties... youtu.be/ob9zIqygSSc?... #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge #seashanty #skullandbones
A book is sat on someone's lap. Their hand is covering the bottom corner [price tag]. The cover of the book features a puffin with its head tucked into its back. It is looking at a ship being tossed about by waves. Above the ship flies birds & a plane. In the distance, there are mountains.
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 07/04/2026
April 7th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- Grimoire Some witches prefer to refer to this book as a 'book of shadows'. Both terms are valid 👌 **repost with your song selection**
To the right is a person with long hair & no face looking into the pages of a book. They are laying down on their stomach with their feet kicked up behind them; very relaxed. To the left are words that read, "A grimoire is a collection of spells, secrets, & sometimes songs that are important to the witch it belongs to. If you're comfortable sharing... Select a song that is in your grimoire or represents its theme."
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Soaps & Rums Apothecary @soapsandrums.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
April 6th --- #AudiblyWitchyApril #MusicChallenge --- F.E.A.R. Artists use their art to express themselves. Sometimes, it evokes FEAR. Sometimes, it evokes LOVE. Sometimes, it transmutes PAIN. **repost with your song selection**
A scared expression is in the center of the page. It is in bold black. Surrounding it are the words, "False Evidence --- F.E.A.R. --- Appearing Real --- Select a song that strikes FEAR in one's heart." The words are written in neon green.
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