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Very succinct and real, I hear you

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Yeah mannn but I put him on to that coffee shop and I out him onto my neighborhood that shit suuuuucks

Is posting about this messy, unsightly, and cringe? 100% I’m just so pissed 5 year relationship down the drain with no warning or talks ab him feeling dissatisfied and now I can’t grab coffee in my own neighborhood without running into them while they’re on dates

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 11/10/2025

Update for those who perceived me talking ab my breakup He had an affair, asked to be poly “bc theres less pressure on you to be perfect” and when I said no he left me for the other guy Theyre still together and they go to all my neighborhood spots but says “it’s up to you if we can be friends”

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I feel like ai probably could which has me shaking in my booties

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 08/10/2025

Hope you have a good comic con!!!!

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 08/10/2025

Omg hey!! I knewww your name was Tyler but was looking on Twitter!

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

Sending good energy friend 💛

Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

Everyone’s very sweet and supportive thank you for everyone who engaged with me and help me collect my thoughts a bit

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 02/08/2025

I don’t think that’s fair to say across the board even if some situations DO play out like this one

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 01/08/2025

Some prize indeed.. Thank you for the kind words friend :)

Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 01/08/2025

So true I only wanted the opinions of people who would engage in good faith

Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

Thank you for this!! Having known poly people of varying ages and experience throughout my life this is sort of what I thought/ took away from their experiences, like it’s about expanding upon bountiful love not like “here’s my other boyfriend so you don’t feel pressure to be adequate”

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

That’s the vibe and it’s frustrating to me that he thinks he’s being reasonable and fair

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 30/07/2025

He does not hence why I’m talking about this here.. Also -almost- no one here knows me irl

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Thankfully I know the answers to all of these questions and we’ve dug into all of it, we spent 4 hours talking about it last night

I mean I don’t wanna just take that much of your time and attention on a whim but any and all thoughts are welcome friend 😌 I agree it is fraught this these two conversations are happening in tandem

You may be on to something but Im trying to extend him the same grace he is hopefully extending me

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Well he wants me to have a new job that makes enough money that I can move in with him and split bills, like he wants a traditional partnership in that sense

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Well one argument is that it gives me more wiggle room to do things at my own pace while he feels less trapped waiting for me to make progress

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I’ve been moving towards applying for grad school but it’s been hard getting the prof refs bc I graduated in 2020

Well he says he wants to be able to root for me and help me with career moves but I’ve had decision paralysis on which direction to head in

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Also to be clear I still live with my family, so his bills are his own but also the lack of independence on my part is understandably not sexy

It does feel strange, on one hand they are adjacent conversations so maybe it’s worth getting them over with in one big blow out, but on the other hand it feels like a thinly veiled ultimatum

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It does feel strange, on one hand they are adjacent conversations so maybe it’s worth getting them over with in one big blow out, but on the other hand it feels like a thinly veiled ultimatum

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 24/07/2025

Well he rightfully wants me to be able to split bills where w my current income I can’t offer much

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Some of the guys doing showtime on the train are so fucking not Like I kinda wish you WOULD kick me in the face 😮‍💨

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 22/07/2025

Elder lady asked a young guy in a suit if she could sit by the window of the train car next to him and he told her there was gum on the seat… Like okay nice of you to point that out now offer her your seat you goon!!! This old lady shouldn’t have to stand 🙄

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 18/07/2025

I ordered these for the store and everyone was like “well you better sell them then” Jokes on them bc it completely sold out within the first day

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 16/07/2025

Hung w a cool guy and we fucked twice in-between chilling We were chatting while I was getting ready to head out and he was like “you’re quick” Me: “oh yeah my fault I could stand to take my time but also in my defense you’re really hot” Him: “what no I mean like witty” I wanna DIE LMFKAHDHDJE

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 13/07/2025

You can’t tell me Cecilia aka Isis isn’t devouring

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 13/07/2025

Haven’t played Dislyte in over 2 years but but checked back in to see who some of the new baddies were cus it this game has ONE thing it’s S tier character design

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Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 11/07/2025

I wanted more ngl They just reprinted old variant covers 😢

Oontz Oontz @snoozyy.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

open.spotify.com/playlist/0NR... this has been my summer playlist so far Open to recs as well ;)

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