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Julie

@slightlyunblended.bsky.social
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Makeup is my passion. Cat mom 🐱 🪐 ✨ 🌙 💫 Libra ♎️

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 10/02/2026
Take the promotion making yourself smaller against your wants to please someone else never ends well
AITAH for accepting a promotion my boyfriend doesnt want me to take because he says itll change our relationship

I got offered a promotion at work. A real one. Not a lateral move not a fancy new title with the same pay. An actual step up. More responsibility better money and honestly something Ive been grinding toward for a long time. When they told me I almost cried in the meeting because Ive wanted this for years.

I came home that night so excited to tell my boyfriend. Thought hed be happy for me. Thought wed celebrate. Maybe open a bottle of wine and talk about what this could mean for our future together.

IG & Threads: @ask_aubry

THEInstead he got quiet. Then he started asking questions. But not excited questions. Worried ones. Like how many more hours are you gonna be working. Does this mean no more spontaneous weekends. Are you gonna be stressed all the time now.

He said this isnt the life I pictured for us. The life HE pictured. Not the life WE talked about. The life he decided we were supposed to have. Which apparently involves me staying exactly where I am professionally so that things stay comfortable and easy for him.

He keeps talking about how he wants a simple life. Less stress. Less ambition. More time just hanging out and being chill. And I get that. I love our chill time too. But Im also a person with goals and this opportunity means something to me. Its not just about money its about me feeling like Im actually going somewhere.tried to reassure him. Told him a promotion doesnt mean I turn into some corporate robot who never comes home. I said wed figure out the balance together. I asked him to trust me that I can handle more responsibility without abandoning our relationship.

He wasnt hearing it. He said hed seen it happen before with other couples and that once one person starts climbing the ladder the relationship always suffers. He said he didnt sign up for that.

Didnt sign up for what. For me succeeding? For me wanting more than what I have right now? That part really stung.

THE ENDEvery time I bring up anything work related he gets this look on his face like Im already choosing my job over him just by being excited about it. And I feel like I cant even be happy about this huge thing that happened to me because his reaction has completely overshadowed it

I havent officially accepted yet but I know Im going to. And I think he knows it too which is probably why things feel so weird between us right now.

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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 03/01/2026
Star girl ⭐️🌟⭐️
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 06/12/2025
Say hi to Gary Mitchell 🫶🏻
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 10/09/2025
Omg I rarely post here.. blonde was fun… but now this feels right 🫶🏻
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 09/08/2025
This took me soooo long to do but I’m excited about it 🖤
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 07/08/2025
🖤💔🖤
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 06/08/2025
My first look to ever get over 10k likes on tiktok! I’m so thankful 🥹🖤⭐️🖤⭐️🖤
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 16/07/2025
All done 🫶🏻
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 09/07/2025
Ethereal makeup 🧚🏻‍♀️
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 08/07/2025
Just woke up from such a real feeling nightmare. The sounds were so real. I was already anxious now I’m a mess. 😔
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 02/07/2025
New ink 🫟
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 24/06/2025
Ethereal ✨
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 16/06/2025
Some recent looks I’ve done for pride month 🫶🏻
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 13/06/2025
⭐️🌈⭐️
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
Had to do something extra with this look cuz i didn’t go anywhere so no one saw it & I was excited about how it turned out 😭❤️🧡💛💚🩵💜
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 04/06/2025
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 03/06/2025
Pms/bad cramps & it’s the second anniversary of losing my Grammy. Decided to try and comfort myself.
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 03/06/2025
If Zoro betrays luffy im gonna be so mad… I love Zoro so much but I also love luffy dukb ass. 🙄
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 03/06/2025
Happy pride yall!!! ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💜
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
Star Cut Crease | Terra Moons Cosmetics Ophiuchus Palette Swatches Included youtu.be/FJkojQPEQNA
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Star Cut Crease | Terra Moons Cosmetics Ophiuchus Palette Swatches Included
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 23/05/2025
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
The world is a sad place. I’m so tired of seeing starving/blown up babies. I’m so tired of seeing people being homeless when we could help them. I’m so tired of it being a luxury to eat or be healthy (cuz stupid health care that’s unaffordable) I’ve lost faith in most of humanity man. 💔
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 18/05/2025
Makeup is my favorite part of the day
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
🫧✨🫧✨🫧
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
🌦️✨☁️✨🌦️
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 08/05/2025
The makeup & outfit of the day 🫶🏻
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 30/04/2025
Some fun makeup ideas for you 💜
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 29/04/2025
Makeup is my life 🫶🏻
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 28/04/2025
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 26/04/2025
Went to watch Star Wars episode 3 in theaters for the 20th anniversary. Absolute cinema! Came home & grilled. It’s been such a lovely day 💜
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 22/04/2025
Butterfly kisses summer time breeze
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 21/04/2025
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 15/04/2025
Coachella makeup looks 💜✨💜✨💜
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 15/04/2025
Can’t sleep 😩
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 15/04/2025
On our 16 year dating anniversary back in Jan. My husband broke his toe. He’s been off work since. I’ve been trying to do my normal stuff & housework. He helps w/dishes. On top of that we have a tiny human w/ us 4 days a week. To say I’m stretched thin feels like an understatement. I’m exhausted 😩
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 15/04/2025
Coachella makeup id do if i could go!
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 14/04/2025
Sad tired eyes
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 11/04/2025
💐🧚🏻‍♀️ Spring flower fairy 🧚🏻‍♀️ 💐
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
Fingers crossed this video gets approved 🤞🏻 😭
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
I’m doing some work WORK with makeup & I had to refilm a look so did 2 looks today. I knew I was way late to bed when Floof Marie was sleeping behind my chair & when I got up & she followed me. I know bby girl, I know. Still haven’t been to bed & need to be up at 9am at latest 😭 send caffeine plz 🤣
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 10/04/2025
I’ve got to stop dreaming about cigarettes 😑
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 07/04/2025
He loves the new cat tree 🥹💜
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 30/03/2025
I’m far from perfect & 10000% of the time I’m so unsure that I’m good enough to help raise a tiny human but I’ll do whatever i have to do to ensure they’re happy/healthy & raised right. 99.9% of the time I’m so much more exhausted but I gotta make this life good for this lil one. Idc.
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 26/03/2025
Tiny human said to add more stars so of course I obliged 🥰
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 18/03/2025
I’m so tired. We lost another one of our cats today. My heart hurts so much.
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HasanTheHun (automated mirror) @hasanabirepeater.bsky.social · 18/03/2025
israel is isis w unlimited support from the usa
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 16/03/2025
✨Lil Peep plays in the background✨
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
My eyes are raw but I did eye swatches today then got kitty lovins 🫶🏻
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Julie @slightlyunblended.bsky.social · 13/03/2025
Nostril piercing has hit the second tower 🤗
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