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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 18/02/2026

There’s so much “we don’t believe in divorce” propaganda in this season and I feel so bad for the women because they are settling and will continue to settle #LoveIsBlind

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 16/02/2026

I don’t want to go through a stylist for maintenance. I’m gonna attempt it myself. Maybe the fact that it’s for a wedding will galvanize me 🙃

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 16/02/2026

This breaks my heart. You will walk again girl!!

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 29/12/2025

Also Danessa got me again. Her blushes are so cute.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 29/12/2025

A friendly reminder to freeze your credit so scammers cannot take out loans or credit cards in your name 😭 what a night

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 25/12/2025

Merry Christmas to all who celebrate 💕 if today is tender for you, I hope you are surrounded by love and good food.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 25/12/2025

Catering Christmas was one of my better ideas this year. I just need to brew some coffee and I can have espresso martinis for the rest of the day

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 08/12/2025

Got tipsy at the holiday work party and was best dressed 😌

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 01/12/2025

I’m gonna get an artist to design some patterns for my own personal stationary. I want note cards, birthday cards, and pretty paper for letters.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 26/11/2025

My hobby is really eating out and I have been so pleased this month 😌

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 26/11/2025

Bacon wrapped dates upon orange marmalade, crab and potato croquetas, lobster rolls, and a duck confit agnolotti in a cream sage sauce

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 24/11/2025

I am planning four events this December 😵‍💫 I fear I am biting off a bit too much lol I wonder how I’m gonna pull this off

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

Lord knows I hate video based content especially for training. I much rather read and be quizzed. Why do you want me to spend hours watching anything when I can read in a fraction of the time?

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

Capital Grille has a deal at their bar today. A Wagyu burger, fries, and an excellent glass of wine for $35. Enjoy 💕

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

Summer Walker already dropped a deluxe version and added Take Me Out This Club. As she should have

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

I wanted barefoot shoes to lift in so I bought the vivos and they’re perfect but I cannot walk an incline on a treadmill without it killing my heel. Reddit is saying I have a weak foot but I don’t have pain any other time. The wellness stuff is difficult

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

And a man this week was spouting how there’s a singleness epidemic (ok sure) and how women promote being alone but we are meant to make connections to each other and I just found that so funny bc women are making connections just not with you and you cannot see that.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

This past vacation just solidified how important having diverse women around me is. I feel positive I can never be lonely if I have my friends, sisters, and cousins around.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

Belize showed me such a beautiful time

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 15/10/2025

Just remembered the air traffic controllers and TSA are working unpaid. Never mind. May everyone stay safe

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 15/10/2025

Tickets to NYC are very cheap… I almost wanna fly just to eat.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 14/10/2025

I understand why they tell people dieting to drink a lot of water. It is not for the hydration benefits at all it’s bc it will mimic your stomach being full when you’re starving. This is crazy

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

There’s a org here that hosts salon discussions. They talk about everything from reality tv reflecting the lack of intimacy in dating today to why there’s an increase of loneliness in the age of social media. That was such a good venue to meet people

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

I wanna host team game nights and Pilates classes so people can make new friends. The only thing the people will cover is the cost of materials/venue. I don’t really wanna make any money from this.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

For my dance parties, ladies and dolls will be in free for the first 90 minutes of the event and men will be $5, idc. We need to get back to our roots. After that, $10 for everyone.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

It’s getting expensive to party and dancing is scientifically proven to put you in a better mood. The world is in need of more joy so I think I’m gonna start planning events by the top of the year.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

I deleted LinkedIn bc of this bullshit and I will never go back lol

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

I am very lucky to surround myself with women (including my sisters and cousins) who pour into me, cheer for me, and can check me lovingly. I do prefer to see those dynamics in my books.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

Part 3 of the book was beautifully done. The poetry was engaging.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

I did think it was ambitious, following 5 Black women and jumping back in the past or future randomly to tell their stories. Each voice was unique but these women did not speak to each other either warmth. In fact, the sisters hate each other.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

I read The Wilderness this weekend after I got the recommendation that it reminded them of Insecure, Harlem, and Living Single and it just did not do that for me lol #BlackBooksky #Booksky

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Usually I break my goals out in 12 different areas (financial, learning, physical, family, ect.) and look at them quarterly but I’m finding myself still falling short 😅 I think I need to condense it to like 6 and start looking monthly.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 02/10/2025

Out of 43 ships only 3 are still sailing 😕

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 01/10/2025

I am just hoping that flotilla makes it to Gaza. Everything has been so bleak.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 01/10/2025

They give us so much material. Where’s the fun in that 🤭

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 22/09/2025

Him was a head scratcher. That was not the movie I thought I was gonna see. Interesting allegory on the rejection of football.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 20/09/2025

There are just so many coffee shops that open in the valley and it hurts my heart when I see Black women open them and don’t get traffic bc it’s such an oversaturated market (maybe it’s easy to run) we don’t have enough lounges for the nighttime tho. An untapped market

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 18/09/2025

Saw this on TikTok and I just have zero faith in Disney adults to boycott. The issue is affordability not this

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Butlerian Jihadist of House Dornick @shimminykricket.blacksky.app · 18/09/2025

"The professions that will be most impacted by the shortage of workers will be: accountants, attorneys, construction workers, doctors, engineers, managers, nurses, teachers....."

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 08/09/2025

I love a clean room ✨ I forget how much I love it until every single thing is deep cleaned and organized.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 10/06/2025

It’s very hard to respect any troops when they set out to attack their fellow citizens for rightfully rioting. If this goes against your morals can you just deny the command?

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 19/05/2025

Can’t Get Enough by Kennedy Ryan is the best book in the Skyland series. The billionaire romance, the social commentary about Alzheimer’s and black entrepreneurs, a child free by choice female protagonist, it was amazing.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 19/05/2025

Monday morning and I would do anything to be on vacation right now

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 15/02/2025

When a restaurant has both a mango and a passion fruit cocktail on the menu, I know I’m home

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 11/02/2025

Bad. I think if a dad wants to date me, he needs the order and support to make that a priority. 7 whole days went by and he couldn’t find ten minutes to call and set something up? Shaky ground to start on.

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 11/02/2025

A week! It’s just dinner or drinks, this is not hard to plan. I don’t date fathers with kids under 25 so it shouldn’t affect a thing 🤭

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Shade @shadelikesade.bsky.social · 04/02/2025

It released at the start of a boycott for Palestine 😕

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