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Sha

@shacaro.bsky.social
88 followers 146 following 95 posts

I'm Sha. Old enough, Dutch, ND, ball of anxiety, and supposed artist/writer. Every interaction is a struggle, and I don't mean to be abrasive. I might reply late. Waiting for the mythical bot purge so my follower count goes to zero where it belongs.

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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
Honestly, I just need (art) friends. People to get along with, to share resources and joy with. And OCs. But in the most general sense, people like to receive and rarely want to give.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
He's saying that after all this, Russia is still there. So we should be harsh BUT not too harsh lest Putin won't be nice and give us gas later. Rutte is not a good guy. Never been.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 02/03/2025
I like demons and hate gravity. (I just wanted to see the DH intro but loved how much faster it was compared to my slow lock and blood dk. Also it took me less than one day to get that 'falling from a great height without dying' achievement.)
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
That was a very well-written and relatable essay. Thank you again for the link. I enjoyed reading that, as far as 'enjoy' applies. I'm sorry that happened to you.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
Thank you for the link! I'll give it a read :)
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
Hey, that exact thing happened to me last year. Glad and sad to know it's not a unique experience.
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🦇 Hexavier 🎃 @xavierck.com · 28/02/2025
Tumblr post from poinsciuri:

when u dont like ur art take a deep breath and remember u created it from nothing, like a god
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
The issue with DEI has always overtly been "I'm racist and sexist and don't like this". The whole "I want quality" excuse has always been a transparent smoke screen.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 30/01/2025
Yeah I feel you on the doom spiral. Thank you for the suggestion! Unfortunately I feel like it wouldn't help much. Lots of people don't spell things properly, if they mention the topic at all. But it wouldn't hurt to try, so I will.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
Would still prefer to return this account to art (perhaps with a sprinkle of autism shit) though. Wish I could just block (US) news.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
My main art struggle is probably that I don't know what my art should look like, so it never looks good. (Also anxiety, but that mostly relates to posting.)
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 29/01/2025
The right wing here is extremely anti-islam and pro-jew so maybe don't spread misinformation?
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TheHadou @thehadou.com · 28/01/2025
If it exists you can refine it — but it must exist first. Make the sketch. Combine the ingredients. Try the routine. Be not deterred. You can make it perfect faster with the experience gained.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 27/01/2025
It's not a photo.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 25/01/2025
Yeah, the light pollution is unfortunately insane. So much stuff is lit up for no reason.
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KID ♦️🔞 COMM CLOSED @kidwma.bsky.social · 24/01/2025
this is literally me these days ,,,
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
Genuine advice from someone who's been making internet friends for 15 years: don't get attached to things you do not own. If you make a real friend, get their number/address/discord/skype/myspace/other social media. Do not trust companies to handle your relationships for you. Take responsibility.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
The only reason I responded in the first place was to see if they were careless or ableist so I have my answer, I guess. What a waste of a follow they were.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
Damn, this message got me blocked.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 20/01/2025
That is true. Well said :)
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 19/01/2025
I think lists are iffy for reasons you seem to be aware of also, so I'll leave it at that. Just to be clear, I don't feel strongly about this. I doubt real people will get caught in this if mods do their job. Most will be bots (good riddance). And I don't care to see surprise untagged porn either.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 19/01/2025
Just so you know, disabilities are not purposeful. You're insulting people who are trying their best.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 19/01/2025
To be clear, what kind of list are you thinking about? Because "if they get caught up in lists" sounds like the lists are the issue.
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Miranda Keeling @mirandakeeling.com · 26/12/2024
Me (to a little boy beside me in a cafe who is wearing a yellow coat): Nice coat. Little boy: Thank you. It means when night comes I can hide as a star. Art by Penny Neville Lee. Words by me.
A line drawing and block colour-little boy in a yellow coat, shoes and pointy hat surrounded by large yellow stars and a crescent moon.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 17/01/2025
Yeah, the takeaway here should be "Tag your shit", not "Make a secondary account".
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angel💀 @sabattons.com · 16/01/2025
I hate ai. I hate the ai-fication of every facet of life. nothing is real. the images are fake, the products are fake, the websites that host these images are fake. creativity and curiosity is stifled by the ai-ification of search engines. the internet is junkspace now. everything feels like spam.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 14/01/2025
Project Zomboid, Dwarf Fortress, Empires of the Undergrowth, Merchant of the six kingdoms, Power wash simulator, Thronefall, Dorfromantik, Mini motorways, Monaco, Mechanicus, Dungeon of the endless, Kunitsu-gami? Lots of strategy for me I guess. I hope you find some you like (from me or others).
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 14/01/2025
To be fair, it would be an option that would affect them regardless of their own settings.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 14/01/2025
The entitlement/ignorance is insane but unfortunately extremely common place.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 14/01/2025
Can unfortunately confirm that there is entirely too much (extremely unwanted) surprise furry fetish porn showing up in my feed as of late. But luckily it's catching all your references??? I hope it will be at least improved soon. Must be frustrating and can't be good for exposure.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 12/01/2025
Ah, like so. Thank you for the clarification. And thank you for pointing this change out: I never actively considered just how it actually changed the experience (and I was there pre-DS2).
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 12/01/2025
What exactly do you mean when you say estus upgrade system? Because at first glance that sounds like something DS1 very much already had.
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Mt. Rainier 🏔(təqʷuʔmaʔ) @handle.invalid · 10/01/2025
Don’t be afraid to make a mistake. Just learn from them.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 11/01/2025
Makes sense. I'll have to look into it more. Still amusing though that the article says the opposite.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 11/01/2025
Regardless though, an interesting theory I hadn't come across before. Thank you for mentioning it :)
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 11/01/2025
You may have misunderstood a little. Going by your article: "People with autism don’t have more Neanderthal DNA than those who do not". "The hypothesis is not, ‘Did Neanderthals give us autism?’ It’s that Neanderthals gave us some of the gene tweaks that give a higher susceptibility for autism."
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
"confusion and disarray" is such a good way of wording that feeling.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
You don't know the way if you use AI. You are part of the problem.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
I don't think this person has malicious intent. We just communicate in a different way. When allistic people say autists struggle with communication, this is what they refer to. When autists say neurodiversity is a thing, this is what they refer to. Bit frustrating. You have a very nice smile.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
Double empathy problem. If I tell you you have a very nice smile, you know exactly what I mean when I say that: that you have a nice smile. But to a non-autist, that's odd. Am I flirting? Am I being creepy? Am I actually just lying? WHY would I say that? There must be a reason.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
Congrats on the perfect score. She sounds like she has a great parent.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
And more power to you for that! I was just making sure you don't spend too much energy on this person with clear ill intent (like I might at times). I hope you had that nice day!
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
No? They wrote: "I did a detrimental thing to myself because of autism." You misinterpreted it as: "I did good deeds because of autism." The miscommunication here stems from you. It happens.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
Well said. Not to mention 'high' implies autism makes you lesser somehow.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
I feel you on the shutdown being terrible. I have no suggestions unfortunately, but you're not alone.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
And you have a chance to get a ticket in an unknown way? So really only Southern English people can attend.
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Sha @shacaro.bsky.social · 10/01/2025
Genuinely disappointed that the world does not include Europe and it's such short notice.
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