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SΞX WOЯK CΞO

@sexworkceo.bsky.social
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FREE adult creator education for adult entrepreneurs. Sharing what’s worked for me to modify & use if you wish. stan.store/ceosquad

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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 2h
What's your actual best performing promo platform right now and what does your posting strategy actually look like on it? Not the platform you think you should be on. The one that's genuinely bringing in subscribers.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 18h
Saw a post on here telling newer creators to stop bending over backwards trying to build long term dynamics with every fan, because most of them are just there for quick fun. I agree but I want to hear what you think. Is chasing the deep connection with everyone burning newer creators out?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 22h
Buyer follow-ups are one of the most underused tools in fan engagement. Most creators focus entirely on getting the first purchase and never follow up in a way that leads to the second one.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Creators who have dealt with impersonation accounts, how long did it actually take to get them removed and what worked? Let's share strategies so we can help each other.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Your best-looking content might be your worst-performing content, and not because it is bad. A video of you walking to music gives the platform almost nothing to categorize. A video of you talking gives it everything. More on this in Episode 203 of On The Whorizon.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
It's been awhile since I've asked this and since the algorithms keep changing I'm wondering.. are your DMs open here to catch potential buyers or are they closed to force traffic to your paid platform?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Four checks before you post a single trial reel.. Account is public. You clear the follower limit (200 professional or 1,000 personal) Account Status says you can be recommended. Nothing suggestive in your trial reel. PS: Miss the third one and the rest stops mattering..
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I'm remembering when SWCEO used to have a planner and I'm curious if anyone still uses a physical one? and what actually are you putting in it these days?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Test the niche before you spend a month building for it. Post the trailer and say if this gets a hundred dollars in tips, you will drop the full video. You are asking one question. Is there money behind this interest...
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
TikTok published this and almost nobody in our industry has read it. Your follower count is not a direct factor in what gets recommended on the For You feed. Neither is how your last video performed. We got into what that changes on Episode 203 of On The Whorizon.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
Adult creators, what did you do before this, or what degree is collecting dust in a drawer somewhere? The narrative that we all fell into sex work because we had no other options needs to die and your skills and experience are the fastest way to kill it.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
The stigma around SWers in relationships is real and it affects how honestly people feel they can show up while dating. Have you ever had to choose between your work and a relationship?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
If you could sit down with a top 1% OF creator and ask for one piece of advice about what actually got them there, what would you ask?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Saw a creator on here explain her whole OF strategy is small purchases from a lot of fans because she refuses to let one guy blow his paycheck on her content. Where do you land on this? Are you building for volume, for whales or both?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
It's officially spooky season where being a little scary is a brand strategy! May you have zero chargebacks, your bank accounts full & your boundaries respected 👻🧡🖤
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
There is a ceiling on how many trial reels you can post and Instagram has never published a number for it. You find out when your trials stop going out, or when the Trial toggle stops appearing. Post to your feed first. Remix whatever performs and run that as the trial.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I used to preach a version of discipline that was mostly punishment. Get up at five, get through the list, feel bad when you don't. I said versions of that on our channels in the early days and I was wrong about it....
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
"DM me for the video" works because it opens a conversation and conversations convert better than passive unlocks almost every time. it's good to work toward passive income but it rarely beats a good DM strategy on its own.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Locked voice notes might be the lowest effort upsell in the DM toolkit. One sentence description of what's inside. They unlock it themselves. No minute counting, no heavy lifting on your end.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Zero. That is how many of your followers see a trial reel. None of them, by design. The floor to use them is 200 followers on a professional account, 1,000 on a personal one. Your numbers come back at 24 hours.. Are your trial views beating your regular posts?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
The industry moves on gossip when we should be moving on strategy. I hope more of us send the DM instead of screenshotting it into a group chat this month.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I gave you bad advice about trial reels, so here is the correction. Mosseri confirmed in a Q&A this week that posting the same trial reel repeatedly can be detected and its reach limited. Instagram wants a meaningful change between versions. Nobody has ever defined meaningful.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
There's a real argument that selling discounted videos to anyone who clicks undermines the whole "my time and attention are exclusive" brand positioning. There's also a real argument that it doesn't. Creators in CEO Society seem split on this. What's your take?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Every burnout cycle I have seen a creator go through started with her ignoring her own tell. Yours might be dread before opening the app or putting off replies you actually want to send. Whatever it is, watch for it earlier this cycle.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Adam Mosseri said trial reels are going to get less reach almost always, and he meant that as reassurance. No warm audience, no early boost from your own followers, so the number comes back smaller. Compare trials to other trials. Watch time, bookmarks, sends.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Instagram built a post type your own followers cannot see, and most adult creators still are not using it. Trial reels go to non-followers only. Zero overlap with the audience you already have.. If you post them and get nothing back, there is one setting behind it. Guess which one..?.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
The concern trolling in our replies about "what your future self will think" is almost always coming from people whose past selves and current selves are locked in a legal dispute. Take the moral guidance with the salt it deserves.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I spend a lot of time in the car community, around people with a lot of expendable income and very impressive cars. Every time someone asks what I do for work, I reach for the answer that sounds most respectable...
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
A subscriber who never responds isn't necessarily a lost cause. They're paying to stay. They just haven't been given a reason to talk yet. The onboarding message that changes that is almost never the one you wrote first.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Creators who transitioned from dancing or another part of the industry, what's the one thing about adult content creation that surprised you most?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
If you're new I want you to remember that every creator who looks like they have it together was completely lost in their first week (most times longer lol). Be gentle with yourself 🫶
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Every DM that opens with "I'm not like the other guys" is followed within four messages by an ask that is very much like every other guy has asked. Filter faster.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
I saw some discourse on here about how the reason so many creator accounts have low engagement is because all they ever post is complaints. Do you agree? Is the constant venting killing our reach or is it just the algorithm?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
The strangers writing paragraphs about our morality on our public posts are almost always the ones with the most filthy search histories. Ask any creator who's been in this industry more than a year and they'll tell you the exact same thing.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Four rules I run on every objection I get: Never discount the thing he objected to. The cheaper option is a different thing, not less of the same one. Ask the price question last. Write down his payday. Do you do any of these?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Are your subs actually buying the mystery unlocks with no preview and no description? "Something Special" for $50 with nothing to indicate what it is has always felt like leaving money on the table. Curious what your conversion rates look like on vague vs. specific.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
What happens when your career ends without any warning at all? You can be a decade in then one accident or illness and suddenly there's no disability, no unemployment, no safety net waiting to catch you...
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Seeing an uptick of creator posts about platforms deactivating accounts for TOS violations and refusing to say what people did wrong. How many of you have lost an account with no explanation and no path to appeal? I have, multiple times. We need to start tracking this.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
Fans who track down our personal socials and send friend requests are not fans. That's a stalker. Take what we give you and don't go looking for the rest of our lives. This should not need saying in 2026.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Which objection from fans do you get most? A) "Too expensive" B) "I'm broke right now" C) "I can get it cheaper or free somewhere else" D) "I don't pay for things like that" Just tell me which. I want to see what's actually most common right now..
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
The two highest earning words in my inbox are "what else" He says it's too expensive. I don't defend it and I don't drop it. I ask what else. The first objection is a reflex. The second one is the real one. What do you usually type back?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
adult creators only: If you were starting completely from zero followers today, no existing audience, no warm contacts, what would your first 30 days of marketing actually look like?
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
The emotional labor of this job lives in the inbox. In the ask that gets ignored. In staying warm after the silence. New post on what that actually costs and what to do sexworkceo.substack.com/p/the-emotio...
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
okay this one surprised me.. a creator in CEO Society ran an actual experiment on her SpoilMe wishlist. she listed an expensive desk as a crowdfunded gift and got nothing. crickets. then she relisted the exact same desk as one single gift and it was gifted immediately. She said..
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
The double standard of these anti corn people where we are supposed to hide the work or be ashamed but the fans are not held accountable for consuming it is one of the more silly opinions I've seen and you can't convince me otherwise.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
What do you say to a dormant subscriber who's been quietly renewing for months but has never once responded to a message? There's a version of that re-engagement DM that actually works and most creators haven't found it yet.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
There are five kinds of "no", and they all sound identical .. Answering the wrong one is how a sale dies in front of you. 🧵
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Every creator who looks like they have it figured out has at least three group chats they're not going to tell you about. The community happens in the DMs and the public timeline is just marketing.
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
For a long time I thought a disciplined day meant clearing the whole list. My daily requirement now is two things. One texting set I can monetize in DMs, and the three most urgent items on my Asana board....
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SΞX WOЯK CΞO @sexworkceo.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
The fan who tips before you have posted anything spicy is telling you what he actually wants. He's paying for the attention itself and that's a different product than the one on your subscription page.
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