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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

i saw "the odyssey" yesterday. i first encountered this story in a children's book of greek myths as a kid, and i loved it instantly, but have never thought any film or tv version of it was especially successful. this one has some good points, but it was also lacking for me in certain ways...

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

i've been practicing walking a bit every day recently in a pair of pumps that have 6" stiletto heels and no platforms. i then spent this past weekend at a FemDom event in pumps that have 6" stiletto heels and 2" platforms - compared to the first pair, it was almost like walking around in sneakers!

two black, closed-toe pumps sit on the top of a wooden dresser, next to each other, heel to heel, with the toes pointed away from each other. both pumps have six-inch stiletto heels, but the pump on the left has no platform, while the pump on the right has a two-inch platform. a tape measure is set out in front of them, with the tape extended out just beyond the six-inch mark.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

the RISE! Power Summit in san diego was a really excellent event this past weekend! the saturday night masquerade was my favorite part of it. there's something profound about being part of this ceremonial, choreographed group experience! also, i don't think i was this blurry in real life...🖤

a tall, slender crossdresser with long, wavy dark hair is walking in front of a st. andrew's cross, and she is wearing a slave collar, a little black dress, a tightly cinched corset, black stockings, and black pumps with 6" stiletto heels, and she is carrying a single red rose in her left hand, while her right is behind her back.

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Lady Lilith Berlin @lilithberlin.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

A new chance. Want to be part? Don't miss out. San Francisco, CA 6 -8 August, with @theingalarsson.bsky.social

Lady Lilith Berlin is looking into the camera, yet Her gaze can not be met, as She is wearing mirror glass aviator sunglasses. She holds a black leather whip in Her hands. She is wearing full leather: muir cap, biker jacket, trousers, thigh-high boots, gloves. All in black leather, standing outdoors in the Joshua Tree, CA desert.

Mistress Inga Larsson is striking a supermodel pose as she tilts Her black leather muir cap. She is wearing red lipstick, black leather driving gloves and a black leather high neck long sleeve dress. Her full leather ensemble stands on contrast in front of the lime yellow vertical tiles that male put the background.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

today i learned that there is a pregnant man emoji: 🫃🏻 i'm not sure why this exists, or who is using it for what purpose, but it kind of gave my morning a small boost to learn that this emoji is out there, just quietly messing with standard, stodgy prepackaged notions.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

good times at the Chi Temple: red lights, and a red-light district outfit...♥️👠💋

a tall, slender crossdresser is taking a selfie while standing before a large mirror within a red-lit dungeon space - she has long, wavy dark hair and is wearing a shiny and short black minidress, a tightly cinched black corset, black stockings with a bit of her garter belt visible below her hemline, and black closed-toe pumps with very high stiletto heels.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 03/07/2026

restaurants who hide their prices in their online menus seem shady to me, and not worth a visit. can i hide my credit card number after i've eaten, and make you guess at it?

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

i wasn't wearing make-up, hence the cut-off at neck-level, but i got excited to try this newly re-laced corset that i haven't worn much with this dress that i also haven't worn much. i ended up really liking the combo, and i'm now looking forward to working it into my ongoing rotation! 🖤👠💋

a tall, slim crossdresser is shown from the neck down, standing in a corner while wearing a very figure-hugging red and black minidress, a dark collar, a very tightly cinched black corset, black stockings, and black closed-toe pumps with slight platforms and very high stiletto heels

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

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Lady Lilith Berlin @lilithberlin.bsky.social · 18/06/2026

NYC June 23 - 25 Boston June 25 - 27 Los Angeles June 28 - 3 July With the formidable Mistress Inga Larsson @theingalarsson.bsky.social #FemDom #Leather @dirkhooper.bsky.social @hogspy.bsky.social

Mistress Inga Larsson is seated on a leather armchair wearing eyeglasses and a full leather outfit - jacket, pants, boots. She is adjusting her heeled towards the camera. Lady Lilith Berlin is also seated, with a high neck long sleeve leather top and thigh-high leather boots.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 17/06/2026

i don't remember the professor ever crossdressing on gilligan's island, but if Mary Ann and/or Ginger made him do it, i might need to see that episode...

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 14/06/2026

just before last night's play party at the Chi Temple - it was a really fun gathering, and this little black dress had me feeling slinky...🖤

a tall, slender crossdresser stands with her hands on her hips in a red-lit dungeon setting next to a rolling bondage table and in front of a st. andrew's cross - she has long, full, dark hair and is wearing a little black dress, a dark purple collar, a very tightly cinched corset, black stockings, and black open-toed pumps with very high stiletto heels.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

this is the first non-purple wig i've had in, like, 5 or 6 years! it feels very "charlie's angels" to me, and when i received a Jaclyn Smith comparison yesterday, i felt very validated!

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

what is this? for days, i've been weathering this weird new bluesky phenomenon, in which some strange account with no common connections to me will randomly like 3 otherwise unrelated posts of mine. no comments, no follows, just the 3 likes. it feels like bots trying to legitimize themselves. 👎

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 07/06/2026

DomCon 2026. there was no Academy booth this year, but i was still privileged enough to spend time with many Academy Dommes, and of course with Mistress Damiana! ❤️‍🔥🖤❤️‍🔥 only about 11.5 months until DomCon 2027...

on an outdoor terrace, a beautiful Asian Dominatrix with long, black hair stands wearing a black sleeveless top, a red leather miniskirt, black stockings, and red, stiletto-heeled pumps, with one arm around Her kneeling slavegirl, a crossdressed sissyslut with long, dark hair, a tightly corseted waist, a black miniskirt, black stockings, and black stiletto-heeled pumps.

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Mistress Blunt @mistressblunt.bsky.social · 01/06/2026

The censorship of sex workers marks the decline of every social media platform.

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BDSM PROFESSIONALS @bdsmprofessionals.com · 28/04/2026

HEADS UP: GRIFTERS/SCAMMERS/AI SCRAPING DommeDirectory.com is an AI-built site, scraping Dommes' content. "Lawrence" is sending unsolicited emails telling you that he has seen your work & wants to offer you a free profile. No one knows who this is & what relationship they have to our community.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 16/05/2026

i went out for a walk at sunset hoping to see some nature... i'd been picturing bats, some deer, maybe an early-rising owl...and while i got none of those, that doesn't mean that nature was withholding or being lazy! 🌈

above a small residential bit of street and a helping of various types of trees, a huge and vibrant rainbow stretches across the sky at sunset.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 26/04/2026

i got bondaged again! this time, through the nylon-only artistry of Mistress Siouxsie Seductrix! stockings and pantyhose only here, no rope at all...and hosiery bondage felt very on-brand for me. thank You, Mistress Siouxsie! 🖤

a slim crossdresser in a short skirt with visible stocking tops and garters, all black, is bent over a bondage cage topped in red leather, her upper body parallel to the floor. the girl's arms are behind her, sheathed in pantyhose and bound together with several stockings creating a sort of harness. a pair of red and black pumps with very high stiletto heels has been balanced on the girl's flat upper back such that if she moves too much, they will topple. mirrors hung on the wall in front of the girl reflect some of the dungeon space behind the girl, and a floor-stand off to her right is bristling with canes. everything is bathed in red light.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 26/04/2026

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

a rare rope bondage moment for me (and an early one, too - this was happening around 9:30am today...). [i had to take down a second photo i'd originally posted with this - the photographer was visible in one of the mirrors, and i hadn't gotten consent to post - the mirrors are a serious factor!]

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 04/04/2026

submission and service - they have their sprints, and they have their marathons. there's exertion in them. submission and service are challenging. there's a lot of joy in them if you're wired for them, but if they don't feel hard and demanding at times, i think you might not be doing them right.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 03/04/2026

i have a very intense fetish for stiletto heels 👠👠...so it feels tragic and like a crime against nature to me when an otherwise outstanding photo of a Domme or fetish model cuts off the image at the ankles...😬

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

why does the "discover" option for feeds here show accounts i'm already following? i've already discovered those, right...?

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

dildos or dildoes? they both look wrong...

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BDSM PROFESSIONALS @bdsmprofessionals.com · 06/03/2026

Los Angeles' Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD @damianachiphd.bsky.social is a Legendary Dominatrix with 25+ years providing world-class, immersive subspace experiences. To have your own, visit: DamianaChiPhD.com

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Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. | Legendary Dominatrix, Kink Sexologist, BDSM Educator

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C I R C E /sɜɹsi/ @circeuk.com · 04/01/2026

Someone asked me for suggestions on how we can work together to leave X behind and bring our clients over to Bluesky. I wrote a few ideas below. Please feel free to repost, and reshare on any social media platforms:

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BDSM PROFESSIONALS @bdsmprofessionals.com · 01/02/2026

Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD (@damianachiphd.bsky.social): World-Class Domination Book: DamianaChiPhD.com/sessions

Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD, Los Angeles Dominatrix & FemDom

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 22/01/2026

"why do you like being submissive?" in this life, being submissive to other forces is mandatory. i have to submit to people, institutions, the laws of physics and biology, and i don't get any say in any of it. in FemDom, though, i have agency. i *choose* who i submit to. also, it's super-hot. ❤️‍🔥🖤❤️‍🔥

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 20/01/2026

psa for subs, from someone who serves as secretary for a well-known ProDomme: the one-word overture to Dommes, such as "hey," "hi," "yo," or anything similar will utterly fail you 1 million out of 1 million times. 👎

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 20/01/2026

i received a message on another platform from someone i don't know whose username includes the phrase "fun guy"...and i couldn't help but immediately hear that in my head as "fungi," which can't possibly be what he was going for! 🍄

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 12/01/2026

wanda: "i can't stand people. i hate them." henry: "uh, yeah." wanda: "do you hate them?" henry: "no...but i seem to feel better when they're not around..."

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 22/12/2025

life is busy at home, because my cats don't just want me to throw them a toy and let them tear it apart while i do other things - they want me to watch their performances intently and offer constructive feedback, and they will hound me and harangue me if i don't. 😼😼

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MISTRESS EM² @mistressemnyc.bsky.social · 16/12/2025

She is one of the best in the industry 😍

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BDSM PROFESSIONALS @bdsmprofessionals.com · 16/12/2025

Looking for psychological slave training? Contact Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD (@damianachiphd.bsky.social) of Los Angeles: DamianaChiPhD.com/sessions

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BDSM PROFESSIONALS @bdsmprofessionals.com · 05/12/2025

Los Angeles Dominatrix Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD has been providing immersive subspace experiences for over 25 years. Go to damianachiphd.com to schedule yours.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 15/11/2025

i've still never watched "john wick." it seems very well-loved, and i want to check it out, but every time i get near it, i remember that it all flows out of his dog getting killed, and i don't do well with any kind of violence in movies or tv shows being aimed at animals.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

DomCon new orleans 2025! i'm hoping to see more of the city than just this booth while i'm in town, but this has been a great home base so far! 🖤

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BDSM PROFESSIONALS @bdsmprofessionals.com · 17/10/2025

Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD: Serve, Obey, and Worship Her. damianachiphd.com

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 05/10/2025

i didn't feel like this outfit was okay for public wear, so i settled on dining in and snapping a few selfies instead...

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 28/09/2025

i'm settling back in after returning late friday night from a week in london. what an amazing trip, and it culminated in a midnight oil-burning visit to the FemDom loveliness of club pedestal, where i was privileged to accompany the incomparable Mistress Jezebel Chi and Goddess Roxy Red! ❤️‍🔥🖤❤️‍🔥

two Beautiful, dark-haired Dominatrices stand on either side of a kneeling, crossdressed slavegirl at a FemDom event in london, each with a hand resting on the slavegirl's head.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 28/09/2025

if anyone had told me back in 1985 that stripped down versions of "take on me" would serve as madly effective tear-jerking additions to multiple tv show scenes, i wouldn't have believed it...but shows like "the leftovers" and "the magicians" and now "the last of us" keep proving it to be true!

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 04/09/2025

after having been away for over a week in the very kink-free context of visiting my family, it's been very rejuvenating to get back into long days of full slavegirl-mode at the Chi Temple!

a tall, slender crossdresser i taking an iphone photo of herself in a tall mirror - she is wearing a black blouse, a light purple miniskirt, black stockings, and black pumps with very high stiletto heels. she has long, dark purple hair, dark burgundy lipstick, black nail polish, and a dark purple purse with metal studs decorating it. she is standing next to a large cage with silver bars and a top and interior of padded red leather. she is in front of a backdrop of long, red, floor-to-ceiling curtains.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 04/08/2025

a big thank You to Mistress Leanne and All/all who came together to create and present the RISE! mini-con in san diego this past weekend! 🙏 it was lovely to be immersed in the high protocol and community, and waiting on Mistress Damiana @damianachiphd.bsky.social at the masquerade was a high point!

a Beautiful, Dark-Haired Dominatrix in red is seated at a table in a large crowded space, and using Her phone to record Her slavegirl - a tall, purple-haired crossdresser in a little black dress and corset and a silver masquerade mask who is holding a plate of food in one hand, the other behind her back - as the slavegirl serves Her dinner.

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BDSM PROFESSIONALS @bdsmprofessionals.com · 25/07/2025

For an immersive subspace experience, contact Legendary Los Angeles Dominatrix Mistress Damiana Chi, PhD DamianaChiPhD.com

damianachiphd.com

Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. | Legendary Dominatrix, Kink Sexologist, BDSM Educator

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 27/06/2025

Mistress Damiana laced me so tightly into my corset last night that there was no gap left in the back whatsoever. 27" - i now foresee a new and smaller corset in my future...

a tall crossdresser is standing at a black upright folding screen in front of red curtains; she has long, wavy purple hair, and she's wearing a collar, a long-sleeved black top, a tightly cinched black corset, a black and white floral print miniskirt, black stockings, and black pumps with very high stiletto heels. she is looking up and off to her right, away from the camera, and has a submissive expression on her face.

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Mistress Natasha Jocasta @natashajocasta.bsky.social · 26/06/2025

PHOENIX SLUTS: For one day only, I will be offering 1-hour experiences. This is a rare opportunity to breathe the same air as Me, be in My presence, and experience My high protocol training. Feel My power, learn how filthy I am. Apply for consideration through My website.

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secretary stacy @secretarystacy.bsky.social · 17/06/2025

actual headline i just saw in my news feed: "doctor who supplied ketamine to matthew perry will plead guilty..." how i saw it for a second: "doctor who (the uk sci-fi character) supplied ketamine to matthew perry; will plead guilty..."

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