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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 10/06/2026

Dating gets simple when you stop trying to convince someone to see your worth.

Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 03/06/2026

If I could remarry at 40, meet my wife on Instagram, date long distance, and get married just six months later, there’s still hope for you

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 01/06/2026

Back in 2017, my wife and I were dating long distance when I proposed to her over Skype. The funny thing is, she wouldn’t get her ring in person until I saw her again three weeks later!

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 01/06/2026

There were many things I didn’t do because fear drove my decisions. But overcoming my fear of remarrying was my greatest breakthrough and the moment I stopped letting fear control me

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 28/05/2026

What life event changed your relationship the most?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 27/05/2026

Can someone be toxic without knowing it and how do you approach that conversation?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

Your mind is a home. Don’t let your inner critic be the loudest tenant in the building you’re trying to rebuild.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/05/2026

Some people are great at starting relationships. Very few are great at sustaining them

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/05/2026

Drake’s new album dropping this Friday? I think Kendrick will be Boogie Man and drop GNX2 the same time 😆

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 14/05/2026

A healthy marriage isn’t the absence of conflict. It’s two people who refuse to let conflict become the absence of love

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

What’s one of the boldest moves someone can make in their healing journey that most people are too afraid to take?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 05/05/2026

Instead of complaining about everything your spouse isn’t doing, pour that energy into praying for them.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 04/05/2026

Clarity is an act of love. Stop making people guess what you need

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 03/05/2026

The gap between the love you want and the love you keep getting is called unaddressed patterns

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 02/05/2026

To me, “doing the work” means not just memorizing Scripture but living it out daily

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 02/05/2026

Divorce didn’t break you. But going back out there the same way you went in will

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 01/05/2026

A true leader knows that covering his Wife in prayer is the ultimate act of love

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 30/04/2026

If one of you is always giving in (compromise) that’s not peace. That’s quiet resentment

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

You think you’re saying “I do” to them. You’re also saying it to every version of them they haven’t shown you yet

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 26/04/2026

The person you attract next will be a direct reflection of the work you did in between

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 24/04/2026

Loneliness will make you negotiate with people who should’ve been dealbreakers.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

To everyone who’s been divorced and remarried, how did you gain the confidence that you were choosing right this time around?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

Men express themselves where they feel valued. Pay attention to where he’s most vocal

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 21/04/2026

“We never fight” isn’t always a flex. Sometimes it means nobody’s been honest in years.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 20/04/2026

How long did it take you to trust your decision-making when it came to dating after divorce?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 19/04/2026

When it comes to relationships, what conversations do people avoid but need to hear?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 19/04/2026

When it comes to dating… what’s a habit you know isn’t working, but you keep going back to anyway?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 19/04/2026

Choosing wrong once doesn’t make you a bad judge of character. It makes you human. Refusing to choose again makes you a prisoner

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

It’s not that you don’t want love…you just don’t trust your decision-making anymore. Get the free pdf Yeah… But Is He Lord? 11 Dating Questions Every Christian Needs to Ask Comment “FREE” if you’re ready to trust your choices again scarytoremarry.substack.com

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Yesterday was rough. I was sitting on the couch trying to refocus when my 6-year-old, who is autistic, came over, gave me a hug, and gently patted my back. 🥹

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 16/04/2026

Have you ever ended a relationship that was actually healthy? And do you really believe that every relationship ends because it was bad?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 16/04/2026

Have you ever ended a relationship that was actually healthy? And do you really believe that every relationship ends because it was bad?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 16/04/2026

Have you ever ended a relationship that was actually healthy? And do you really believe that every relationship ends because it was bad?

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

I proposed over Skype with a ring in my hand and love in my chest. Three weeks later I saw her again as my fiancée. Worth the wait. 💍

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

I was nervous flying to Texas. What if she wasn’t who I thought? She was better. Always trust the process.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

A DM, a phone number, a Skype call, a plane ticket, a ring, and a yes. That’s the whole story. Simple. God-ordered.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

My wife and I talked for HOURS every night before we were even official. We built something real before we made it a title.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

We did holidays in different states, flights back and forth, Skype calls at midnight. Nobody said intentional love was convenient.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

We talked every single evening for months before I ever touched her hand. That’s how I knew the connection was real.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

I didn’t know a double tap on Instagram would lead to a wife. Tap wisely out here.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

Long distance will either kill a relationship or confirm it. For us, it confirmed everything.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

My wife described her dream ring to me once in passing. I walked into the mall and found it on the first try. That wasn’t luck.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

I told myself “if I don’t find the perfect ring today, I’m not forcing it.” Found it in 20 minutes. God was already ahead of me.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

I proposed on Skype. Held the ring up to the camera and asked her to marry me. She said yes before I could finish the sentence.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

My wife and I lived in different states when we met. Love made me buy a plane ticket before I ever held her hand

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 15/04/2026

I slid into my wife’s DMs on Instagram and she actually responded. That double tap changed my whole life.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 14/04/2026

If your peace depends on a person, you’ve already made them your god.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

You can’t find “your person” while agreeing with every negative post about the opposite gender.

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Shon Hyneman @scarytoremarry.bsky.social · 13/04/2026

Commitment looks different when people believe someone “better” is always one swipe away.

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