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National peak body for sex workers & sex worker organisations in unceded Australia. Fighting for our rights, health & safety since 1989. linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance

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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
Connect, organise and get inspired at National Forum, 17-19 November on Kaurna Country (Adelaide). Head to linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance to register today (this is a sex worker only event).
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SWOPTAS @swoptas.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Have you heard? Sex worker pride is REAL! September 14th is International Sex Worker Pride Day, and we're so proud of you all. ☔️ 🖤 ✊️ We can only post 10 slides here, but slide into our DM's over the next couple hours if you want us to post a custom SW pride poster 💋
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Today is Sex Worker Pride Day! It was established by the Global Network of Sex Work Projects (NSWP) in 2019 to celebrate sex worker leadership and the achievements of sex worker rights movement in the face of criminalisation, stigma and discrimination.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
Sex workers and adult entertainment workers deserve to be safe at work. A note on terminology: We consider all adult entertainment workers to be sex workers. In this statement, we have used both terms to acknowledge that not all adult entertainment workers identify with the term sex worker.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
It's time to register for the Scarlet Alliance National Forum! It's open and free to all sex workers and it's a fantastic way to connect with peers and find out about the issues that are important to us.Register at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
REGISTER FOR THE 2026 NATIONAL FORUM
The Scarlet Alliance National Forum will be held on Kaurna Country (Adelaide) from 17-19 November. We’d love to see you there!The Scarlet Alliance
National Forum is the annual
sex worker only conference in
unceded Australia. Registrations are
now open via linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance.
Tuesday 17 November to Thursday 19 November 2026
Kaurna Country (Adelaide)
You can attend online or in person.
National Forum is for sex workers only. 
Sex industry owners, operators and managers cannot attend Forum or become members of Scarlet Alliance.
For sex workers, by sex workers.
The Scarlet Alliance National Forum is open and free to all current or former sex workers*. This includes:
Independent sex workers, escorts, fetish providers and content creators
Erotic massage and brothel workers
Strippers and peep show workersStreet based, opportunistic workers, and anyone who has traded sex for money, drugs, or favours* We verify all registrations to help protect the privacy, safety and integrity of the event. If we don't already have a connection with you, we may ask for additional information to confirm that you are a current or former sex worker.
Register today!
Go to the “What’s New” section at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance to find the registration link.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
In unceded Australia, an estimated 300,000 people are living with hepatitis B or hepatitis C, and many remain undiagnosed or are not currently engaged in care. We are following the lead of @hepatitisaustralia.bsky.social and encouraging the sex work community to "take the next step".
CAN I HAVE HEPATITIS & NOT KNOW?In light of World Hepatitis Day on July 28, we break down what hepatitis is and how it can be managed.
Hepatitis B and C are viruses that damage your liver. They can be chronic, which means you could have them your whole life. Nearly 300,000 people in Australia live with viral hepatitis and nearly 1000 people in Australia die every year because of hepatitis B and hepatitis C. This year’s theme for World Hepatitis Day is “take the next step.”“Take the next step” refers to taking the next step to look after your health when it comes to hepatitis. That means getting any appropriate vaccines, getting tested, and if you test positive, making sure that you follow up with consistent treatment.What is hepatitis B and how do you get it?Hepatitis B is a virus that causes damage to your liver, and is the most common liver virus in the world. It can be chronic, which means having it your whole life. However, it’s still possible to live a healthy life with hepatitis B if you receive treatment, including medication. Adults can also get vaccinated against hepatitis B, which offers lifelong immunity.Ways you can contract hepatitis B:
Vaginal, anal or oral sex without a condomAt birth if the birthing parent is positiveTattooing, body piercing or medical procedures with unsterile equipmentSharing needles, syringes or other injecting equipmentHow common is hepatitis B in unceded Australia?Nearly 230,000 people in Australia live with chronic hepatitis B. In 2024, 432 people died as a result of the virus.Deaths from hepatitis B are avoidable. There is a vaccine and effective treatments.One in 3 people living with chronic hepatitis B are undiagnosed.Almost half of all people with chronic hepatitis B haven’t received care in 10 years.More than half of people living with hepatitis B speak a language other than English at home. This means we need more resources available in languages other than English.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 25/07/2026
AusAlert is a new national warning system, which will send emergency messages to mobile devices during local and widespread disasters. On Monday 27 July, a test Critical Alert will be sent to most mobile phones across unceded Australia.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
On Tuesday 21 and Wednesday 22 July, sex worker organisations from Australia and Thailand gave testimonies to an expert panel at the Feminist Inquiry into Violence against Sex Workers, organised by ARC Centre of Excellence for the Elimination of Violence Against Women (CEVAW)
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 20/07/2026
We're looking for our next CEO. We're looking for a leader with sex work experience, strategic vision, and a commitment to community accountability. Head to buff.ly/h7cIe9H to read the full position description and application details. Applications close 5:00pm AEST, 31 July 2026.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
There are just three more days to get your idea ready for a sex worker-led session at the 2026 National Forum. This year conference will be held on Kaurna Country (Adelaide) from 17-19 November. Submissions close at 11.59pm this Sunday, 19 July. Find the submission form at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
NATIONAL FORUM IS BETTER
WITH YOU.Time is running out to submit your idea for a sex worker-led session at National Forum in November! Submissions close this Sunday, 19 July.The Scarlet Alliance National Forum is a sex worker only conference.It is held annually, with the 2026 event held from 17-19 November on Kaurna Country (Adelaide).
National Forum provides an opportunity for sex workers to come together to network and talk about what is important to us. It includes peer-led sessions like workshops, panels, presentations and events. 
Do you have skills, knowledge, or experience to share with other sex workers? 
We want to hear your ideas for sex worker-led sessions at National Forum on Kaurna Country (Adelaide), 17–19 November. You don't need to be an experienced presenter, we're looking for sessions that come from peer knowledge, lived experience, and practical skills. Applications close this 11.59pm this Sunday, 19 July. Tell us your session idea for National Forum 2026.Forum is about sharing our skills, knowledge, and experience in sex work, organising, and advocacy. What are the issues affecting sex workers currently, and how can we influence these?
You will need to fill in an online application for your idea which includes a session outline, why it matters, and how you will engage your audience. We are looking for ideas that come from peer knowledge and skills. This could include:
Traditional presentations and panels.
Workshops and skill building sessions that sex workers can apply to their work.
Interactive lunchtime activities and social and networking events.Submissions should be about sharing something with the room. We are not seeking consultation sessions or sessions that ask for feedback or advice on a project, service or idea. If your session touches on potentially difficult topics, please consider how you will keep people safe, supported, and respected. Some topic inspiration:
Digital security skillshare.Sex work and ageing.Criminalisation of survival and poverty.Building alliances with disability and migrant justice and prison abolition movements.The religious right and anti-porn movements: mapping actors and strategy.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
Are you across the latest changes to My Health Record? Swipe through to read our latest flyer on how your privacy may be affected, and share with a sex worker friend.
Protect your privacy.
Recent changes to My Health Record create privacy concerns for sex workers. Learn what has changed and what you can do to protect your medical information.
My Health Record is an online record of your health history, including sexually transmissible infection (STI) test results.
My Health Record (MHR) is run by the Australian Government, and can be accessed by any healthcare provider involved in your care. These providers may include:
DOCTORS AND NURSES
Medical providers and admin staff at general practitioner (GP), specialist clinics or hospitals.
PHARMACISTS
Staff at chemists (or pharmacies), or anywhere you get prescriptions filled.
ALLIED HEALTH PROFESSIONALSReceFrom July 2026, unless you ask them not to, labs must upload test results (including STI tests) to MHR. This creates privacy concerns for sex workers.How will the changes affect me?
Sex workers choose to see different healthcare providers for different reasons. For example, you might visit a sexual health clinic for STI testing but see your family doctor for general healthcare. You may not have disclosed all aspects of your life, work, or health history to that doctor.

From July 2026, your regular doctor will be able to view your STI test results if they are uploaded to MHR. For some sex workers, this may feel like a loss of privacy or control over who can access their sensitive health information. Understanding how MHR works, and what options you have, can help you make informed decisions about your healthcare and privacy.
You may have MHR and not realise. Unless you’ve already opted out, every person with a Medicare card also has MHR. You can opt out of My Health Record completely, or manage your privacy settings to control who can access your information.

You can cancel or manage your My Health Record by calling the helpline on 1800 723 471, using the 1800Medicare or Healthdirect apps, or through your myGov account.

Cancelling your My Health Record permanently deletes all information stored in the My Health Record system. However, healthcare providers may still keep copies of your health records in their own practice systems.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
It's NAIDOC Week! Celebrating 50 Years of Deadly, this week is a celebration of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander excellence. Head to linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance to find the NAIDOC Week educational resources, an to donate to the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander sex worker advisory group.
50 YEARS OF NAIDOC WEEK
5-12 July is NAIDOC Week. This annual celebration recognises the history, culture and achievements of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.NAIDOC Week is celebrated in the first week of July every year and has been for five decades. To celebrate this milestone, this year’s NAIDOC theme is “50 Years of Deadly”.

NAIDOC Week was born out of one of the world’s first civil rights gatherings. On 26 January 1938, protestors demonstrating
for the rights of Aboriginal and Torres
 Strait Islander people, marched
through the streets of Sydney in what
 was known as the Day of Mourning.

In 1955 the day was moved to the first Sunday in July after it was decided it should be a celebration as well. In 1974, it became a week long event.What happens during NAIDOC Week?
Across the country, communities celebrate NAIDOC Week with local events and the NAIDOC Committee awards grants. The flagship NAIDOC Week event is the National NAIDOC Awards ceremony which celebrates Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander excellence in various fields.
Get involved with NAIDOC Week.
Download the NAIDOC Week educational resources from naidoc.org.au and/or attend a NAIDOC event.Read books and purchase artwork by Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander authors and artists.
Support an Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander business or community organisation.You can also donate to the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander sex worker advisory group via the ‘Donate’ section at linktr.ee/scarlet_allianceArtwork shown is Paralpi by Zaachariaha Fielding | 2026 Winner
The National NAIDOC Week Poster Competition is a prestigious part of the celebration with a rich history beginning in 1967. This year’s winning work, depicts the sounds of Paralpi, a significant place just outside Mimili on the Eastern APY Lands in South Australia.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
For some of us, dealing with urinary tract infections (UTI) is unfortunately, a common thing. There are a few things that you can try to prevent a UTI from giving you trouble. Swipe for the tips, then share with a sex worker friend who can use them. Visit redbookonline.org.au.
UTI SURVIVAL GUIDE
Here is why your urinary tract might be asking for better working conditions.Feeling like you really need to pee, when you only just went to the bathroom. Burning and stinging when you do go. Pain in the lower abdomen. Dark, cloudy or smelly urine.
These are all symptoms of a urinary tract infection (UTI). A UTI happens when bacteria enter the urinary tract and cause an infection. There are different types of UTIs depending on which part of the urinary tract is affected, including the urethra, bladder or kidneys. While UTI aren't sexually transmitted, sex can increase the chance of bacteria entering the urinary tract, making a UTI more likely.Who is more likely to get a UTI?
UTI are fairly common, although people with a vagina are more likely to get them. The urethra in a vulva is short and straight which makes it easier for germs to travel into the urinary tract. 

Some people are more prone to UTI at certain times in their menstrual cycle. An increase in sexual activity can also contribute to UTI, which can explain why back to back bookings may trigger a UTI in some workers.Sex can make it easier for bacteria to end up where they’re not wanted. Excessive friction during vaginal sex can contribute too. Can I still take bookings if I have a UTI?Short answer is yes, UTI are not contagious. The long answer is that UTI symptoms can make sex uncomfortable or painful. If you’re on medication to treat a UTI, remember that some antibiotics can reduce the effectiveness of oral contraception.Frequent UTI are not a sign of poor hygiene, but they might be a sign that something needs attention.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
On National Day of Protest, we recognise the power of collective action among the sex work community and resist increasing threats that restrict the right to protest. Sign the Declaration of our Right to Protest buff.ly/Qb6XFbJ
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 03/07/2026
Not all wh*res have claws, but those who do are definitely sick of people asking how they work with them. Swipe for some cultural history on long nails and some tips on safer sex with a stiletto manicure. Share this with a sex worker friend. 💅
THOSE NAILS LOOK... DANGEROUS
Don’t listen to the haters who say you can’t do sex work or kink services with sharp claws.Long, sparkly, elaborately decorated nails wouldn’t exist without women of colour.
Long before elaborate nail art was embraced by the mainstream as a global beauty trend, Black women were creating and wearing colourful, heavily embellished nail designs as a form of creativity and self-expression. 
When acrylic nails were introduced in the mid-20th century, white, heteronormative beauty standards favoured French manicures and pastel, neutral shades. Bold nail aesthetics worn by women of colour (some of whom were LGBTQ+, and sex workers) were dismissed as "lower class" or “unprofessional”. Not just for looks: long nails for extra services. False (or fake) nails are extensions added to natural fingernails using materials such as acrylic or gel. For many sex workers, long nails are not just for visual appeal or fashion; they can also enhance the sensory experience for clients.Lightly dragging nails across the skin or gentle head scratches can feel pleasurable and intimate. You can incorporate long nails into BDSM bookings. For example, combining nails with other sensory tools or as pain play. Some clients may have a fetish for long or false nails so you may be able to charge 
more for this as an extra or fetish service.Nail it: safer sex tips for wh*res with claws.If you like the aesthetic of long fingernails but provide penetrative services with your fingers, you could try a ‘queer’ manicure where two fingernails are kept short while the others are long. This can reduce the risk of scratching your client during vaginal or anal penetration. You can also cover sharp tips with tissue and wear nitrile or latex gloves. Alternatively, stuffing cotton wool into the tips of the glove will reduce the risk of them tearing. If you like the tissue or cotton wool idea  but don’t need a whole glove, try a finger cot!
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 28/06/2026
June 30 is the end of the financial year, so now is the perfect time to donate to our work if you can! Your support keeps our work responsive and able to sustain the advocacy, policy and sector support that falls outside of our general funding's scope. Donate here: www.givenow.com.au/scarletallia...
HELP US CONTINUE FIGHTING FOR SEX WORKERS
It’s almost the end of financial year! Your donations enable us to be responsive and support work that does not receive government funding.Your support makes a difference.
As the financial year draws to a close, now is the perfect time to support our work. We know many people are doing it tough in the cost-of-living crisis, so if you’re not in a position to donate, sharing this post still makes a difference in reaching those who can.
Our rights are under attack from emboldened anti-sex-work actors, whose politics are often aligned with anti-trans, anti-migrant and anti-women agendas. Scarlet Alliance continues to stand and fight for decriminalisation, dignity, safety and justice.Scarlet Alliance does not receive flexible core funding, which means much of our work is either tied directly to project grants or self-funded. While our STI and BBV prevention work and new migration project are government funded, donations help us remain responsive and sustain the advocacy, policy and sector support work that falls outside funding scopes, keeping Scarlet Alliance vibrant, sustainable and able to meet emerging needs.Anyone can make a donation, and if it’s over $2, it’s tax deductible! Head to linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance or givenow.com.au/scarletalliance
If you’re a philanthropist interested in discussing other giving options, please contact mish.pony@scarletalliance.org.au
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 25/06/2026
You don't need to be a skilled presenter to host a workshop or session at National Forum. All you need is knowledge that can benefit other sex workers and we've put together a few past session examples to inspire you! Head to linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance to find the session submission form.
TEACH US YOUR TRICKS
Share your sex work skills, knowledge, and experience at this year’s National Forum on Kaurna Country (Adelaide), taking place from 17–19 November 2026.The Scarlet Alliance National Forum is the annual sex worker only conference in unceded Australia.
National Forum provides an opportunity for sex workers to come together to network and talk about what is important to us. It includes peer-led sessions like workshops, panels, presentations and events. 
Do you have skills, knowledge, or experience to share with other sex workers? 
Submit your idea for a sex worker-led session at National Forum on Kaurna Country (Adelaide), 17–19 November. You don't need to be an experienced presenter, we're looking for sessions that come from peer knowledge, lived experience, and practical skills. Applications close 19 July. If you're looking for inspiration, check out a few sessions from previous years to get your ideas flowing.Need some inspiration?
You don't need to be an experienced presenter to run a great session at National Forum. If you have knowledge, skills, or experiences that could benefit other sex workers, you already have something valuable to share. Here are some examples from previous years to inspire your submission.
F**king your lover...on the clock.
Jenna and Katia held a discussion about the unique adventures and challenges of bringing their partners into their work. This light-hearted chat was full of
humorous anecdotes, candid oversharing, and special guests.
Private advertising hacks.
Rosie’s 2024 session was a structured skill-share focused on creating effective private ads, covering topics like branding, photography, and social media. The session left participants better equipped to explore new income avenues.
Building sex worker cooperatives.
Participants in Mama B, River, Paprika, and Tilly’s 2025 session gained an understanding on what a sex worker cooperative is, and where in unceded Australia it may be possible to start one.
Sex worker storytelling.
At the 2025 National Forum, Hilary Caldwell and G Pleitez held a workshop to empower sex workers to write their own story and to share tips on finding their voice, privacy, and privilege.
The brothel hustle.
From nailing the client intro to keeping the vibe sexy in a health check, Nyla, Katia, Salem and Greta shared their tips as experienced brothel and massage workers. The workshop offered concrete skills and scripts for participants to follow.
If you’ve got an idea for a skillshare, workshop or session at National Forum 2026, we want to know about it. Head to linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance to find the Scarlet Alliance 2026 National Forum session submission form.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
We want to hear from you at National Forum! Submissions are open for sex worker-run sessions until 19 July. Submit your idea at buff.ly/ZazL0eb
SHARE YOUR SKILLS AT NATIONAL FORUM 2026
Ever attended National Forum and thought, “I’d love to present a session?” Well, now is your chance! Submissions for sex worker-run sessions are open until 19 July.The Scarlet Alliance National Forum is a 
sex worker only event.
It is held annually, with the 2026 event held from 17-19 November on Kaurna Country (Adelaide).
National Forum provides an opportunity for sex workers to come together to network and talk about what is important to us. It includes peer-led sessions, such as workshops, panels, presentations and events.

Whether you’re an experienced worker or new to the community, National Forum is a great place to develop peer education skills and learn about policies and laws.
Registrations to attend National Forum will open in August. So for now, save the following dates: Tuesday 17, Wednesday 18 and Thursday 19 November 2026.Got a great idea for a session to run at the 2026
National Forum?
Submissions for sex worker-run sessions are open from now until 19 July.
You will need to fill in an online application for your idea which includes a session outline, why it matters, and how you will engage your audience. We are looking for ideas that come from peer knowledge and skills. This could include:
Traditional presentations and panels.
Workshops and skill building sessions that sex workers can apply to their work.
Interactive lunchtime activities and social and networking events.Submissions should be about sharing something with the room. We are not seeking consultation sessions or sessions that ask for feedback or advice on a project, service or idea. If your session touches on potentially difficult topics, please consider how you will keep people safe, supported, and respected. We welcome a mix of session styles and topics.
What are the key points you will cover?
Would you like to present the session solo or with peers?
Applications for National Forum sessions are open to sex workers until 19 July. Find the application form at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
On 2 June 1975, around 200 sex workers occupied a church in Lyon, France to protest police harassment, violence, discrimination. . Their eight day occupation sparked a global movement for sex worker rights and is why we mark International Whores' Day each year. . #InternationalWhoresDay
IN 1975, SEX WORKERS IN LYON SAID: ENOUGH
Today we acknowledge their legacy on International Whores’ Day.On 2 June 1975, around 200 sex workers occupied Saint-Nizier Church in Lyon, France. 
Why were sex workers protesting?
In the 1970s, French sex workers faced: Constant police raids Fines and arrests Loss of income and housing Surveillance and harassment
Their children being taken from themThe final straw...
Police crackdowns intensified in Lyon. Workers reported being repeatedly targeted, pushed further underground and left less able to work safely. After years of being ignored, they decided to take action where nobody could look away.
Slide shows a picture of the occupation with a banner that reads  ‘the prostitutes of Lyon have taken refuge in this church’.On 2 June 1975, sex workers (many with their children) and their supporters entered Saint Nizier Church and refused to leave. They hung banners, spoke to journalists, organised collectively, and demanded an end to police repression. For eight days, the church became a centre of resistance.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
Dental dams are a practical harm reduction tool that can make oral sex safer. . ✨️ Works well with lube ✨️ Can be cut from a condom in a pinch ✨️ One more tool in your safer sex tool kit. . Do you have any tips for easier dam use? Let us know in the comments.
LET’S LICK RESPONSIBLY: DENTAL DAMS
Awkward? Sometimes. Underused? Definitely. But if you do oral on vulvas or engage in anal play, dental dams are just one more option to add to your safer sex toolkit.Let’s talk about dental dams.
A dental dam is a thin latex or polyurethane sheet used as a barrier during oral sex on a vulva or anus (rimming).
Think of it like a condom for mouths.
Dental dams create a barrier that 
reduces fluid exchange and can provide extra protection during some oral services.
Not everyone uses dental dams, and that’s okay. Safer sex is about having different options available so you can choose what works best for you. Dental dams can help lower the risk of some sexually transmissible infections (STI) while giving you another protection option for oral services.How to actually use a dental dam without fumbling.
CHECK THE PACKAGING
Make sure the wrapper isn’t damaged and check the expiry date before use. A torn or old dam is more likely to break during play.
PLACE IT FLAT
Lay the dam over the vulva or anus so it fully covers the area before any licking or rimming starts. Smooth it out gently so it stays in place.
If you’ve never used a dam before, practice unfolding one, adding lube, and holding it in place before you try to do it in a booking. Keep it sexy and clients will follow your lead.WATER BASED LUBE
A little lube between the skin and the dam can increase sensation and reduce friction. You can warm the lube up first so it’s more comfortable.
HOLD IT IN PLACE
Use your hands or gentle body pressure to help keep the dam in place. The more relaxed and confident you feel using it, the more natural it tends to become.
DON’T FLIP IT
If the dam falls or slips, get a new one. Don’t flip it over and use the other side. It’s also important to get a fresh dam when switching between body parts or different people.
THROW IT OUT AFTER
Dams are single use only. Once you’re done, put it in the bin, and wash your hands.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
Your face isn't the only thing that can identify you. Backgrounds, tattoos, reflections, even that one hotel painting that is always in the background of your pics. 📷️ Swipe for practical ways to stay anonymous without sacrificing your aesthetic. Do you have any tips? Let us know in the comments.
KNOW ME IRL? NO 
YOU DON’T.
Photography is an important part of sex worker advertising strategies. But how do we maintain our privacy?Photography plays
 a major role in how sex workers advertise our services, professional style, and brand.
Whether it’s through a personal website or social media account, an ad on an escorting platform, or a profile connected to an agency or sex work establishment, images are often a key part of marketing and attracting clients. This week on FAQ Friday, we’re talking about some of the privacy and anonymity risks that can come with using real photos of yourself for online advertising, and a few things to consider before posting.
Privacy is not one-size-fits-all.
Every sex worker has different circumstances, and may assess risk differently. There is no single “right” way to approach privacy in sex work. What matters is having the information and tools to make informed choices about our own safety.
First, let’s talk about reverse image searching
Reverse image searching lets people search the internet using a photo instead of words. It can show where an image has been posted online or link similar photos together. This can create privacy and safety risks for sex workers. Clients, (and other people like media or law enforcement) can use this function to search images of a sex worker to find out their personal information.
 using the same images across your sex work and personal accounts can put your privacy at risk.
For example, using the same selfie on your work profile and your personal social media could make it easier for someone to identify you, find your personal accounts, or learn your real name.Professional photographer vs. selfies?
Taking and editing your own photos, and keeping them separate from your personal images, is often the safest option for protecting your privacy. But if you want more professional content, asking trusted sex worker peers for photographer recommendations can be a great place to start. Some photographers are sex workers themselves.

Before working with a photographer, it’s important to have clear conversations and agreements in place. Things you may want to include in a contract to help protect your privacy include:
How will your images be stored, shared, or backed up?
Who owns the copyright or licensing rights to the images?
Can the photographer post your images on their own website or social media?
Will the photographer delete your images after delivery if requested?
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 27/05/2026
As the end of the financial year draws to a close, now is the perfect time to support our work if you can. If not, sharing this post helps reach those who do have the means for financial support. Visit buff.ly/mSaaWkx
SUPPORT US TO FIGHT FOR SEX WORKER RIGHTS
Your donations enable us to be responsive and support work that does not receive government funding.Your support makes a difference.
As the financial year draws to a close, now is the perfect time to support our work. We know many people are doing it tough in the cost-of-living crisis, so if you’re not in a position to donate, sharing this post still makes a difference in reaching those who can.
Our rights are under attack from emboldened anti-sex-work actors, whose politics are often aligned with anti-trans, anti-migrant and anti-women agendas. Scarlet Alliance continues to stand and fight for decriminalisation, dignity, safety and justice.Scarlet Alliance does not receive flexible core funding, which means much of our work is either tied directly to project grants or self-funded. While our STI and BBV prevention work and new migration project are government funded, donations help us remain responsive and sustain the advocacy, policy and sector support work that falls outside funding scopes, keeping Scarlet Alliance vibrant, sustainable and able to meet emerging needs.Anyone can make a donation, and if it’s over $2, it’s tax deductible! Head to linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance or givenow.com.au/scarletalliance

If you’re a philanthropist interested in discussing other giving options, please contact mish.pony@scarletalliance.org.au
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 24/05/2026
Menstrual sponges are one of those products that more workers should know about. They can help some people feel more comfortable and confident while working on their period. Do you have a Sex Ed Sunday topic you would like us to cover? Tell us in the comments.
Sex ed sunday
Bleeding booked and busy
How to use a menstrual sponge
Working on your period?
Here's your guide to using menstrual sponges safely and confidently.Whether you’ve heard horror stories about stuck sponges, have no idea what a menstrual sponge actually is, or are looking for ways to work more comfortably on your period, this guide breaks down how to use sponges safely, confidently, and with less stress.Many sex workers 
work on their period 
by using a sponge to soak up menstrual fluid.
Menstrual sponges can be purchased online or at your local sex worker peer organisation. They come individually wrapped and are sterile for single use only.
Sponges can be left in for up to eight hours. They are available in a variety of sizes and shapes and some come pre-lubricated.

We do not recommend using sea sponges, as they are not sterile, may contain debris and can scratch the inside of your vagina or tear the condom.
“If I know a client is 
bringing a lot of energy...or size, I’ll sometimes use a sponge for extra cushioning even if I’m not on 
my period.”How do I use a sponge?
A simple step-by-step guide to using a menstrual sponge safely, comfortably, and with confidence at work. Remember, if you feel pain or discomfort remove the sponge straight away.
Wash your hands with soap and water and take the sponge out of the packet.
Wet the sponge with water or lube, and wring out any excess liquid.
Squeeze the sponge into a narrow shape and push it up inside your vagina.
You can squat or lift one leg while standing to make it easier.
Do not leave sponge in for more than eight hours, or reuse the same sponge.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 22/05/2026
Boundaries don't stop once the booking starts. . You are allowed to: ✨️ redirect ✨️ pause ✨️ say no ✨️ change your mind ✨️ end the booking if needed . A client pushing limits during a booking isn't "bad communication", it's a boundary test. . For more sex worker skill shares visit redbookonline.org.au
FAQ Friday
The Other Worker Let Me Do it
PART 02 OF 02 
BOUNDARIES DURING THE BOOKING
Just because someone has paid for a booking does not mean they are entitled to push your boundaries.Negotiation doesn’t stop when the booking starts.
Last week on FAQ Friday, we discussed negotiation tips and asserting boundaries before a booking begins. This week, we’re talking about maintaining and asserting boundaries during the booking or service.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to negotiation, and not everyone will have the same level of negotiating power at work. This post may not reflect your exact circumstances, but it can offer ideas to support confidence, communication, and assertiveness at work.
You are never obligated to be polite to someone who is disrespecting your boundaries. You are entitled to end the booking at any time.“Can’t you make an exception?”: when clients push for more
Sometimes a client may try to challenge, negotiate, or ignore your boundaries. Sex workers often refer to these people as “boundary pushers”.
Some clients may cross boundaries
 accidentally because they are inexperienced,
 nervous, or lack social skills. Others may do it intentionally to see what they can get away
 with, gain a sense of power, or pressure you into providing something you have already said no to.

Boundaries can be physical, such as the services you do or do not offer, or the safer sex PPE (personal protective equipment) you choose to use. But
 they can also be emotional, like not sharing
 personal information or discussing parts
 of your private life.

Boundaries work best when stated early, communicated clearly, and repeated calmly if
 needed. You do not need to justify, soften, or
 defend your boundaries to make them acceptable.Maintaining boundaries often starts with the health check.
For many in-person workers, maintaining boundaries starts with making sure a visual health check happens in the first place.
Checking clients for visible sexually transmitted infections (STI) symptoms can happen at the start of a booking or more discreetly throughout (see our FAQ Friday post from 30 January for more).

Most clients understand that health checks are a normal part of the booking process, but some may feel awkward, not understand 
their importance, or 
try to avoid them
altogether.
“I make it sexy and tell them if they show me theirs now, they’ll get to see mine later.”
“I think it is a huge 
red flag or warning sign if a client attempts to negotiate or refuse a 
health check.”
“My go-to is saying it’s nothing personal and every client I see needs to have a health check.”
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
It's almost that time again! The Scarlet Alliance 2026 National Forum will be held on Kaurna Country from 17-19 November. Applications are now open for sex workers who would like to facilitate a session at National Forum. You can find the online application form at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance.
NATIONAL FORUM 2026
This year, the Scarlet Alliance National Forum will be held over 17-19 November on Kaurna Country (Adelaide). Submissions are now open for sex workers who want to facilitate sessions.The Scarlet Alliance National Forum is a 
sex worker only event.
It is held annually, with the 2026 event held from 17-19 November on Kaurna Country (Adelaide).
National Forum provides an opportunity for sex workers to come together to network and talk about what is important to us. It includes peer-led sessions, such as workshops, panels, presentations and events.

Whether you’re an experienced worker or new to the community, National Forum is a great place to develop peer education skills and learn about policies and laws.

Registrations to attend National Forum will open in August. So for now, save the following dates: Tuesday 17, Wednesday 18 and Thursday 19 November 2026.Are you keen to present a session at the 2026 National Forum?
Submissions for sex worker-run sessions are open from now until 19 July.
You will need to fill in an online application for your idea which includes a session outline, why it matters, and how you will engage your audience. We are looking for ideas that come from peer knowledge and skills. This could include:
Traditional presentations and panels.
Workshops and skill building sessions that sex workers can apply to their work.
Interactive lunchtime activities and social and networking events.Submissions should be about sharing something with the room. We are not seeking consultation sessions or sessions that ask for feedback or advice on a project, service or idea. If your session touches on potentially difficult topics, please consider how you will keep people safe, supported, and respected. We welcome a mix of session styles and topics.
Think of a catchy title for your session. What will draw people in?
What are the key points you will cover?
Would you like to present the session solo or with peers?
Applications for National Forum sessions are open to sex workers until 19 July. Find the application form at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
Scarlet Alliance's Asian Migrant Sex Worker Advisory Group (AMSWAG) is looking for new members! If you are an Asian migrant sex worker who wants to support their community and grow skills in advocacy, you can find the expression of interest form in the 'Join Us' section at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
JOIN THE Asian Migrant Sex Worker Advisory Group (AMSWAG)
AMSWAG is seeking Asian migrant sex workers who want to bring their lived experience into national advocacy and help strengthen community support across Australia.Why join AMSWAG?
Your lived experience guides national advocacy and decision‑making.
You gain experience in advisory, consultation, and community leadership.
You build connections with peer educators, advocates, and community leaders across Australia.
We welcome speakers of Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Vietnamese, Indonesian, Thai, and other languages.
You will be supported by peers throughout the process.Who are we looking for?
Asian migrant sex workers who:
Care about rights, safety, and fair treatment
Want to support their community
Can join monthly meetings
Can communicate in any language
Want to grow skills in leadership and advocacy
Want to help build a stronger, more connected network.
What will you do?
Share your experiences in a safe, peer‑led space.
Bring community perspectives into national conversations.
Help identify issues affecting our community and 
Support outreach and community connection.
Strengthen the national voice of Asian migrant sex workers.Your voice matters.
The experiences of Asian migrant sex workers are shaped by unique challenges.
Your participation in our monthly online meetings will provide invaluable insights, helping us create better policies, offer more effective support, and drive positive change within our community. 
Your time and input are appreciated, and compensation will be provided.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
Syphilis is not a condition of the past. Cases have doubled in the last decade. This week on Sex Ed Sunday, we discuss ways to prevent transmission at work. To read more on signs and symptoms head to Red Book Online at redbookonline.org.au
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
Sex workers welcome the Federal Court’s decision in Tickle v Giggle for Girls, which reaffirmed that excluding a trans woman from a “women-only” app was unlawful discrimination under the Sex Discrimination Act. Read the full media release at scarletalliance.org.au/sex-workers-...
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
How a client responds to your boundaries in early communication tells you a lot of what you need to know. . A respectful client doesn't need to be convinced to respect you. Find more sex worker skill share tips at redbookonline.org.au
I’M CLEAN. CAN WE SKIP THE CONDOM?PART 01 OF 02 
NEGOTIATING WITH CLIENTS
If a client gets mad at your boundaries, that’s a red flag. Your service = your rules.Sex workers often negotiate boundaries with clients, managers and other workers.
Negotiation is when people talk to each other to find a solution they agree on. This week, we are covering negotiation strategies prior to a booking. Next week we will discuss negotiation during a booking.
In sex work, negotiations can involve rates, boundaries, and services, and can happen both before and during a booking. Sometimes these conversations are very direct, while other times they are more subtle or discreet.

There is no one-size-fits-all approach to negotiation, and not everyone will have the same level of negotiating power at work. A worker’s ability to refuse clients or certain services can be shaped by many factors such as workplace conditions, financial pressure, criminalisation, and migration status. This post may not reflect your exact circumstances, but it can offer ideas to support confidence, communication, and assertiveness at work.
For independent workers, advertising is often the first point of contact with a client.
Online ads, websites, social media, and print advertising can all help communicate expectations before a booking even begins. Clear advertising can help filter enquiries, reduce misunderstandings, and encourage clients to engage appropriately. Here are some prompts you might consider including in your advertising:
CONTACT & BOOKINGS
• How do clients contact you (text, email, platform)?
• Are there times you do not respond?
• What information do you require (name, 
booking day/time/length, service desired, 
screening requirements like a license)?
• What days and times are you available?
• Do you accept same-day bookings?
• Do you offer incalls, outcalls, or both?
• Are there locations or venues you will 
not travel to?
SERVICES & BOUNDARIES
• What services do you offer and what services you do not provide?
• Do you ‘package’ your services? If so, what specific services are included in the package?
• What expectations or boundaries do you want clients to know (barrier protection, showers, health checks)?
RATES & PAYMENT
• What are your rates, and do you require a deposit?
• Are there additional costs for travel, longer bookings, or specific services?
• What payment methods do you accept, and when
       (e.g. cash in full before the booking)?

If you work from an establishment, your 
ability to control what is included in 
advertisements may be limited. However, 
you may still be able to communicate 
boundaries and expectations through conversations with reception, your online profile, your ‘intro’ and or discussions with clients before a booking begins.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
Sex workers who use drugs already know how to keep themselves and their communities safe. What they need is support, not stigma. Read "Words Matter" by International Network of People who Use Drugs (INPUD) and the Asian Network of People who Use Drugs (ANPUD) at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
STIGMA WON’T SAVE LIVES, HARM REDUCTION WILL
This International Harm Reduction Day we focus on the rights and dignity of people who use drugs.Today, Thursday 7 May marks International Harm Reduction Day, a day that highlights the importance of evidence-based public health policies, practices and programs that reduce drug-related harms.
For sex workers who use drugs, these approaches are essential. Overlapping stigma, criminalisation, and barriers to care continue to shape access to safety and support. Harm reduction is about safety, not judgement. Sex workers who use drugs deserve dignity, autonomy, and access to care without stigma.     Harm reduction saves lives, improves lives, and is absolutely crucial to ensuring health equity and safety for all people who use drugs, as harm reduction helps prevent overdoses and BBV and STI transmission in 
our communities.
John G, CEO of Australian Injecting & Illicit Drug Users League (AIVL)We recently produced a print magazine, Whoretonomy: Policy, Power, and Sex Worker Resistance, for the Women Deliver Conference in Naarm. It features policy, opinion, and peer voices from unceded Australia and internationally. Below is an excerpt from Accalia (SWOP NT).
 One of the gaps in creating truly inclusive sex worker spaces is discrimination and judgement towards sex workers who use drugs. Accalia from SWOP NT talks through what we all need to do to silence the cop in our own heads.Everyone's experience is their own. It’s your choice how you identify and how you live your life. At the same time, consider what informs your attitudes towards sex workers who use drugs and all people who use drugs. Your own experiences of drug use is about you and is completely valid for you. Your own experiences of drug use is not about all sex workers who use drugs and the experiences of each sex worker who uses drugs is as valid for them as yours is for you.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Where should we draw the line between harm and expression online? The Drawing the Line Principles highlight why policies must distinguish between real abuse and protected forms of expression. Learn more and endorse the principles via the link in the 'Resources' section of buff.ly/ycVhKz9
WHERE IS THE LINE?
A lack of nuance in digital spaces means that consensual sexual expression is often conflated with abuse.
What happens as a result is censorship and silencing.Drawing the Line Between Personal Expression and Lived Abuse is a research and advocacy project that examines digital content regulation and moderation.Scarlet Alliance has endorsed the Drawing the Line Principles.
The principles are a set of guidelines that  inform the development of rights-respecting approaches to sexual expression, censorship and content moderation.
Drawing the Line is project initiated by the Center for Online Safety and Liberty (COSL), and developed by an Advisory Board which includes academics, journalists and other professionals who represent the arts, sex work rights, and LGBTQI+ rights.Drawing the Line
Why digital policy must distinguish between real harm and protected expression.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 03/05/2026
It's better down where it's wetter. Lube is PPE for sex workers, but how do you know which one is right for you? Swipe to find out, and to learn how lube can make sex safer. . Do you have a Sex Ed Sunday topic you'd like us to cover? Comment below or DM us!
Sex Ed Sunday
SPIT IS NOT A STRATEGY
Safer, smoother, better services start with making sure everything is lubed up! Lubricant (lube) isn’t a nice extra, it’s core PPE.Why does lube matter?
Friction during sex can cause tiny tears in the skin and mucous membranes. You may not notice them, but they can make it easier for STI to be transmitted. Using enough lube helps protect your body and keeps things feeling good for longer.
Lube helps reduce friction and makes sex more comfortable across different bodies and types of play. Some parts of the body don’t self-lubricate at all and even where natural lubrication happens, it can vary with stress, hormones, medications, long shifts, or back-to-back bookings. Using lube is about comfort, safety, and working smarter, not harder.Choosing the right lube.
When choosing a product, consider the kind of sex you have and whether you’ll be using condoms or adding sex toys. 

A chart with three types of lube: water, silicone and oil

Water is affordable, compatible with condoms and sex toys but can dry out quickly and isn't great for sex in water.

Silicone can be more expensive but good with condoms although it can degrade silicone toys. It's long lasting and works in water.

Oil is affordable but degrades condoms and can damage some toys. It's long lasting and works in water settings.“Flavoured lube 
can be good for oral if you’re going down on someone using a condom or dental dam. I hate the taste of latex so it helps mask it.”
“I like to put a bit of 
lube on discreetly before a booking, or when the client isn’t looking. Then I’ll tell them how ‘wet’ they’ve made me...”
“I work at a brothel and I don’t use the shared lube bottles unless I have time to disinfect them myself. Sharing bottles can be a contamination risk!”
“I prefer not to play into the idea that bodies should just ‘get wet’ on their own. I make lube part of the experience and apply it in a really sexy way.”
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 01/05/2026
What you call us matters. The word 'pr*stitute' isn’t neutral, it's a slur and carriers a long history of stigma, shame, and harm. Want to understand why? Start here. Save this post and share it.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Using a pseudonym isn’t about deception. It’s about safety, privacy, and control. Everyone deserves the right to set boundaries around their personal information. For sex workers, a work name is one way we do that.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 30/04/2026
Assessment based on actual risk, not outdated assumptions. Lifeblood's donation questionnaire no longer asks about sex worker status. Find the new Lifeblood eligibility quiz at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
Outdated questions? Gone.
Lifeblood Australia has updated its donation assessment.

It no longer singles out sex workers, gay and bisexual men or trans and gender diverse people.Lifeblood’s donation questionnaire no longer asks about sex worker status. 

Everyone, regardless of sex worker status, gender or sexuality will be asked the same questions.What questions will Lifeblood ask?
The assessment quiz now asks the same two questions about sexual activity for all people who want to donate.
First, the quiz asks about new or multiple partners in the past 6 months. If you answer no, you can donate.
If you answer yes, you’ll then be asked if you’ve had anal sex in the past three months. If you answer yes, there will be a wait to donate blood or platelets, but you can give plasma.These changes have meant that some trans and gender diverse people are no longer able to donate due to hemoglobin levels being outside the range for their sex assigned at birth.
Lifeblood now only records sex assigned at birth. 

Some blood products are only made from donors who are male assigned at birth  – for example, to reduce the risk of antibody-mediated transfusion-related acute lung injury
(TRALI).

We hope Lifeblood is able to address this to ensure that trans and gender diverse people are able to have their gender accurately recorded and donate safely.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
Are you a current or former sex worker who wants to shape the future of sex worker health? We have an opportunity to join our team! Find out more via buff.ly/ycVhKz9
SHAPE THE FUTURE OF SEX WORKER HEALTH AND RIGHTS.
We’re looking for a Health Promotion Coordinator to lead the development of our health programs and resources.Health Promotion Coordinator
Part time role | 22.5 hours per week
Based in Gadigal/Sydney | with flexible options
SCHADS Level 5
Permanent position 
Generous salary sacrifice benefits and extra annual leave over New Year period.
This is a dedicated role for a past or present sex worker.
We strongly encourage applications from sex workers from a diversity of backgrounds and experiences.The Health Promotion Coordinator supports Scarlet Alliance’s health promotion programs and resources through the development, maintenance, and promotion of key health information, training, and resources for sex workers.
You will work collaboratively with sex workers, member organisations, the policy team, and the communications team to ensure resources are current, accessible, culturally relevant, and clinically accurate.This role is perfect for someone who has:
an understanding of sex worker rights, self-determination, harm reduction, and community wellbeing.
experience in health promotion, resource development, training, community education, and/or peer-based approaches.
strong consultation skills and the ability to turn community feedback into practical, relevant outputs.
a commitment to cultural safety and inclusive practice with diverse communities.
lived experience of sex work.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 28/04/2026
Sex work is work and safety at work is our right. The decriminalisation of sex work is the first step towards sex workers being able to access work, health, and safety measures. For more information on what WHS/OHS can look like for sex workers, visit linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
   SAFETY AT WORK IS 
OUR RIGHT
It’s World Day for Safety and Health at Work. What does that look like 
for sex workers?Decriminalisation means that sex work is recognised as work.

When sex workers are recognised as workers, we are entitled to work health and safety (WHS) protections, like every other worker.
Sex workers have always shared work health and safety tips with each other.

Under decriminalisation, this sex worker expertise should be reflected in guidance materials created in partnership with the WHS regulator. This guidance should reflect the diversity of sex work environments and services.Stigma and discrimination and unsupportive WHS regulators can make it difficult to access these protections, and weak industrial frameworks can make it difficult to push for better working conditions with managers and operators.What should effective WHS look like in sex worker workplaces?
It looks like workers operating safely and confidently on our own terms and can include:
A tour of the facilities and venue layout - including location of toilets, emergency exits and first aid supplies.
Having policies that protect the autonomy, choice and safety of workers.
Providing free supplies of a variety of condoms, lubricants and other safer sex supplies.
Consulting with workers on policies.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 28/04/2026
First panel underway in the Sex Worker Networking Space @womendeliver.bsky.social Talking all things decriminalisation. #WD2026
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 24/04/2026
This week on FAQ Friday, we unpack U=U. Equipping yourself with accurate knowledge about HIV, U=U, and other STI helps you make informed decisions, challenge misinformation, and support a safer, more inclusive community. A great place to start is redbookonline.org.au.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Do you know who can access your private medical history? There have been recent changes to how My Health Record works, and there are things you can do to ensure you have control over what is kept private from certain health professionals like your GP. Visit redbookonline.org.au for more.
WILL MY GP KNOW I’M A SEX WORKER?
Understanding recent changes to My Health Record and how this may affect your medical privacy.My Health Record is an online record of your health history, including STI test results. 
My Health Record (MHR) is run by the Australian Government, and can be accessed by any healthcare provider involved in your care. This includes:
Doctors, nurses, and admin staff at GP, specialist clinics or hospitals where you access care.
Allied health professionals like physiotherapists, occupational therapists and at pharmacies. 
Changes to My Health Record may put your privacy at risk.
The law around My Health Record has changed. Labs must now upload test results (including STI tests) to My Health Record unless you ask them not to. This change could be risky for some people, such as sex workers, people who use drugs, LGBTQIA+ people, people living with STI or BBV, or culturally and linguistically diverse, and migrant communities.
For example, you might see your family doctor for normal healthcare, and get STI tests at a sexual health clinic.
Now, your family doctor will be able to see your STI test results. This might not be safe or comfortable for you. Unless you’ve already opted out - every person with a Medicare card also has MHR.  Even if you don’t have Medicare, you may still have a My Health Record and not realise. So it’s a good idea to check if you have one. You can call the My Health Record helpline if you are unsure whether you have one. The helpline is available 24 hours 
a day, 7 days a week.
My Health Record helpline
1800 723 471 | health.gov.au/contacts/my-health-record-help-line
If you need an interpreter, call Translating and Interpreting Service (TIS National).
131 450 | tisnational.gov.au
For hearing or speech assistance, contact the National Relay Service (NRS).
1300 555 727 | accesshub.gov.au
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
This Friday, we are tackling 'sex worker exclusionary feminism' - the kind of feminism that harms sex workers. Let’s unpack some common statements made by SWERFs and explain why they don’t hold up.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 05/04/2026
Part 2 of our fisting series is all about understanding that anal play is its own thing. Different anatomy means different risks and a whole lot more need for patience, lube, and communication. Find more sexual health information at redbook.org.au
Sex ed sunday
FISTING WITHOUT F**K UPS
PART 02 OF 02 
ANAL FISTING
Whether you’re giving or receiving, anal fisting can be a (w)hole lot of fun.Welcome to Part 02 of Fisting Without F**k Ups: Anal Fisting
Today we’re talking about anal fisting. Some of the information from last week’s Sex Ed Sunday Vaginal Fisting is relevant to anal fisting.
But there are lots of differences between the anus and vagina. For example, anal tissue tears more easily than vaginal tissue, and the anus isn’t self-cleaning.

Anal fisting is the gradual insertion of a hand into the anus. This is an advanced sexual activity that requires time, trust, and communication. It’s not for everyone, but anyone of any gender or sexual orientation can enjoy anal play.
Anal fisting carries a higher physical risk than other activities. Over time, preparing for anal fisting can involve gradually training the body with fingers and toys. This can slowly increase size across weeks or months to allow the sphincters 
to adapt. A douche or enema before anal fisting can be helpful for hygiene but it’s not necessary. If the fistee does want to douche, it’s best not to do it within two hours of play.A step-by-step guide: safer anal fisting.
This resource provides general guidance on how to approach anal fisting with a focus on safety and communication. Some fisting basics that apply to anal fisting were covered in last Sunday’s vaginal fisting resource, such as glove use and short nails.
TALK BEFORE TOUCH
Discuss boundaries, experience levels, expectations and agree on clear check-in language and a signal/word that will stop the action at any point. LUBE, LUBE, LUBEUnlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. Anal play needs way more lube than you think. Use thick, long lasting lube (silicone is often preferred). Reapply constantly, not just 
when it feels dry.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 03/04/2026
This Friday, we're exploring the common misconception that you can't get STI from kissing. While STI transmission via kissing may be considered lower risk, it’s still a risk. For more sexual health information and tips by sex workers, for sex workers head to redbookonline.org.au
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 31/03/2026
There is no sex worker pride without trans pride! Today we celebrate the achievements of the trans and gender diverse community, and vow to continue to fight discrimination and stigma. Go to the 'What's New' section at linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance for resources on Trans Day of Visibility.
SEX WORK PRIDE INCLUDES TRANS PRIDE
On Trans Day of Visibility we celebrate trans pride and resilience while fighting injustice and discrimination.Trans Day of Visibility is recognised on 31 March to  celebrate transgender, gender diverse, and non-binary experiences and achievements. It is also an important time to challenge transphobic discrimination and injustice.Fighting the anti-rights movement.
With a concentrated global effort by anti-trans and anti-sex work voices doing their best to roll back protections and hard fought freedoms, it is important we all continue to fight against politicians weaponising trans people for their own agendas.

Trans sex workers face compounded stigma and discrimination, even more so if they are Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander, an Asian migrant sex worker, a person of colour, or have a disability and/or chronic illness.
“We will not be silenced. We will not be erased. Our fight is one of survival and justice, and together, we will win.”
Mish Pony, Scarlet Alliance CEO for Trans Day of Visibility 2025 rally held on Gadigal Land.The fight for trans rights and sex worker rights have been and always will be intertwined. Trans sex workers are an integral part of the sex worker rights movement historically and in the present day. 
Find more resources about Trans Day of Visibility at the ‘What’s New’ section of linktr.ee/scarlet_alliance
You can also head to the ‘Advocacy’ section to find briefing papers on the decriminalisation of sex work, and the policing of Asian migrant sex workers.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
This week, we are learning about vaginal fisting! Despite the name, it’s not about force. It’s about slow expansion, relaxation and responsiveness. Join us again next Sunday for part two: a guide to safer anal fisting. In the meantime you can find more sexual health tips at redbookonline.org.au.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 27/03/2026
We keep us safe! Peer education is the backbone of the sex worker rights movement, not just within sex worker organisations but also more broadly among our community. * * Tell us in the comments how you've benefited from sex work peer education and/or support.
FAQ FRDAY

What exactly is peer education and why is it so important to sex workers?
I LEARNED MORE ABOUT CONSENT IN A BROTHEL THAN ANYWHERE ELSE...Peer education is a foundational aspect of sex worker rights.
Sex worker peer education means outreach, health promotion, resources, support and information designed and delivered by sex workers, for sex workers. It values lived experience and recognises that sex workers are the best people to share relevant, practical and trusted information with our own communities.Evidence supports peer education.
Peer education is a proven HIV prevention strategy and has been central to achieving very low HIV and STI rates among sex workers in Australia. 
It encompasses everything from safety information, client negotiation strategies to navigating workplace rights. It is done via outreach, workshops, community events, online and print resources, and one-on-one peer support. Research shows these models reach communities that mainstream models don’t.
IMPROVED SAFER SEX PRACTICES
Research shows that peer education increases access to healthcare and STI testing, improves safer sex practices, and reduces stigma and isolation.INFORMAL AND NOT INTIMIDATING
Settings where peer education takes place are mostly informal, removing the power dynamics associated with mainstream healthcare.
COMMUNITY BUILDING
Peer education strengthens networks and solidarity rather than just simply transferring information.
NON-JUDGEMENTAL SUPPORT
Peer education is grounded in harm reduction and sex worker autonomy.
It is non-judgemental and doesn’t push sex workers to exit the industry.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 26/03/2026
Sex workers are part of the community. So what happens when we need to seek support from anti violence services who think we are the cause of the gendered violence problem? Read our briefing paper on "sex workers, family, domestic, and sexual violence" buff.ly/fddeG5o
Monthly Mythbusting
Sex Work is a driver of violence against womenMYTH
Anti-violence and gender equality work in Australia often positions sex work and porn as key drivers of violence against women.
To understand how this view exists in contemporary Australian culture, let’s go back to the emergence of women’s anti-violence work during the ‘70s. 

Much of this activism was influenced by second wave feminists who conceptualised sex work and pornography as drivers and instances of gendered violence. This ‘legacy’ has ongoing impacts today.
Many anti-violence organisations, leaders, and researchers still view sex work and pornography as incompatible with gender equality.
Policy and media discussions often frame sex work and pornography as enablers of violence against women.Perspectives that portray sex work as inherently violent leaves sex workers excluded from mainstream feminist anti-gendered violence campaigns. 

These beliefs contribute to the stigma and discrimination that means sex worker victim-survivors are not believed and often prevents them from seeking support services and access to justice.
SWERFS (sex work exclusionary radical feminists) oppose sex work using the language of feminism as a smokescreen for their anti-sex work bias.TRUTH
Anti-sex work and anti-porn rhetoric shifts the blame onto sex workers rather than holding perpetrators accountable.
Research shows that anti–sex work rhetoric is linked to increased violence against sex workers, helping create a culture where harm against us is seen as acceptable. The misconception that violence is “part of the job” ignores the boundaries we create at work and overlooks our vulnerability to intimate partner violence. Similarly, the myth that sex work and porn drive gendered violence creates barriers to justice and support and allows perpetrators to evade accountability, perpetuating the cycle of violence.
Violence against sex workers is compounded by the attitudes we face when we seek support and justice.
Experiences of violence and barriers to services and justice are even greater for sex workers experiencing multiple forms of marginalisation.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
Today is part 2 of our series on what to do when a condom breaks. How do you manage client reactions and assess the risk? Share this one with a sex worker friend. ☂️ Find more more sexual health information at redbookonline.org.au
WHAT TO DO IF A CONDOM BREAKS
Having a condom break or slip off can be stressful, but there are things you can do to assess the risk and manage your client’s reaction.Last week, we covered step-by-step instructions on what to do when a condom breaks in a booking. This week, we discuss risk assessment and client reactions.
Certain factors can increase the level and type of risk of STI and pregnancy when a condom breaks. If any of these apply to your situation, it does not mean you did anything wrong. Being aware of them just means you can take the steps you need to best look after yourself.
Part of looking after yourself also means being prepared for how clients might react. Having a few go-to responses in mind can help you avoid being put on the spot.Risk factors to consider when the condom breaks or slips.
IS THERE CUM?
Did the condom break before or after ejaculation? While there is still a risk of STI/BBV transmission and pregnancy before ejaculation, it is significantly higher after it.
IS THERE PREGNANCY RISK?
If you can get pregnant, pregnancy is possible if any sperm is present, including in ‘pre cum’.
SOMEONE CAN GET PREGNANT!
Emergency contraception (the ‘morning after pill’) is available over the counter at pharmacies without a prescription. It is most effective if taken within 24 hours, but can be taken up to 4 - 5 days after unprotected intercourse.
Did you know that a copper intra-uterine device (IUD) can be inserted by a healthcare provider up to 5 days after unprotected sex?DID YOU SPOT A SYMPTOM?
Was the condom covering any potential STI symptoms? If you find something that could be an STI symptom, make a note (or take a photo if you feel comfortable asking for the client’s consent). This can help you describe it to your healthcare provider.
WAS IT A ROUGH SESSION?
Were you having sex for a long time, or was it a rough or vigorous session? This can create tiny tears in the thin skin of your genitals, anal area, and mouth which make it easier for bacteria and viruses to get in. If a condom breaks or slips, avoid causing more irritation to the area.
HIV TRANSMISSION RISK?
If you are HIV-negative and think you may have been exposed to HIV, you can access Post Exposure
Prophylaxis (PEP) within 72 hours, which can reduce the chance of HIV transmission.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 20/03/2026
Today is the International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination. Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander sex workers, Asian migrant sex workers and other sex workers of colour are on the frontlines of our movement, often failed and ignored by laws that should protect them.
SEX WORKERS WANT RIGHTS, 
NOT RACISM
Today is International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination.Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander sex workers, Asian migrant sex workers and other sex workers of colour are on the frontlines fighting stigma and systemic racism, yet they are too often ignored and failed by laws that should protect them.
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Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association @scarletalliance.bsky.social · 20/03/2026
Girlfriend experience or porn star experience? Any sex worker who uses or has used these labels for services knows that both are (sometimes) useful marketing tools. 💅 Drop your most chaotic "real life" girlfriend habits that clients would definitely not want included in the service in the comments.
FAQ Friday
IF I WAS YOUR REAL GF, I WOULD...
What’s the difference between Girlfriend Experience (GFE) and Porn star Experience (PSE)?You might have heard the terms ‘GFE’ and ‘PSE’, but what do they actually mean?
‘Girlfriend Experience’ (GFE) and ‘Porn star Experience’ (PSE) are fantasy frameworks. GFE leans into chemistry, connection, and intimacy, while PSE focuses more on performance, intensity, and visual explicitness.
Both terms are commonly used as a shorthand by sex workers and clients, but what they include ultimately varies from worker to worker. Defining the difference between them and being clear what you include within these services (if you offer them) is important as it protects your time, energy, and boundaries.
How you label your services is up to you. Some sex workers don’t like these terms because they don’t reflect how they work, they feel too gendered, or they oversimplify services.GFE
Girlfriend experience generally creates the illusion of genuine interest and intimacy. It might include kissing, mutual oral sex, cuddling, and a slower pace.
There might be more conversation     
and emotional attentiveness.
PSE
Porn star experience might include
more explicit positions, dirty talk, sex toys,
a higher energy pace, and less emphasis
on conversation and connection.
THEY’RE BOTH JUST LABELS
What activities you offer for either service are up to you. Both services can be pre-negotiated within your boundaries and you should never feel pressure to do anything because a client wants it or other workers offer it.Girlfriend, porn star, or something else? You decide.
Talk to any full service sex worker and you’ll soon understand there’s no set activity list within any service label.
“My service is kind of 
a mix of both PSE and GFE, like ‘naughty girlfriend’. I just offer that one service and I’m up front about what is included and what isn’t. The price is the same whether they want to do all the activities it includes 
or not.”
Mixing GFE and PSE to get ‘the naughty girlfriend’.
“I find it important to set the boundaries early on. I’ve had experiences where clients think GFE means access to my personal life.”
Some workers dislike the term, but use it because it’s well known amongst clients.
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