iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

who is planning to watch "9 to 5" tonight? RIP Dolly

Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 13/08/2026

it takes zero energy to accept another person's way of life that does not impact you. "oh, that's not what I would choose for myself but I'm glad it's working for you!" if you can't say that, maybe examine why you feel the need to control this person's choices?

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

if you have an excellent point but call the OP the r-slur at the end of it I'm blocking you

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

calling someone "low IQ" is ableist and can also be racist in some contexts so remove it from your insult deck

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 02/08/2026

every morning if my dog has refrained from shitting in the house, I give him a biscuit when I get up. this morning giving him his biscuit I said to him: "Only a boy expects to keep getting rewarded for doing the bare minimum."

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 01/08/2026

if generative Ai and LLM's were instead called by the number of gallons of water a single prompt uses, or the number of cancer diagnoses in an impoverished community of color... at least we'd know those still voluntarily using it have no ethos remaining

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

made a quiche, wore white without spilling on myself, and talked a friend's ears off about the novel I'm working on. I AM INVINCIBLE.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

Did we ever come up with an official name for the phenomenon of there being 30-40 feral subs to every one available dom?

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

insomnia is the weirdest curse, because why am I up at 3am just chilling? reading, picking up the house, making banana bread at the strangest hour

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 04/07/2026

Instead of participating in propaganda today, check out #SettlerSaturday and give directly to an Indigenous person or family in financial need

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

when you call other people slurs, I block you. maybe one day you'll want to do better, but until then I'm not here to hold your hand or convince you of the power of kindness. do that work on your own.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

getting sick of the "unethical dom harms their poor wittle subbie" trope in every piece of kink media. please tell another story. maybe one about subs who don't communicate effectively and have poor emotional processing, sending every dom they play with into years of therapy...

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

the first ethical billionaire will be the person who invents a wearable device that only does one thing: crash hidden camera glasses so hard they can never turn on again

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 21/06/2026

very important lesson: learn to recognize the difference between an ignorant person speaking, and a person who gets off on getting yelled at saying inflammatory things to bait you into participating in their fetish without negotiating or gaining your consent first

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 19/06/2026

when a man calls a woman in his past "crazy" he's really saying: "She correctly identified my pattern of bad behavior. I prefer to malign her character rather than take responsibility for my actions. And if you attempt to hold me accountable, I'll do the same shit to you."

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 17/06/2026

cops murdered a 1 year-old baby in his car-seat and a golden-doodle wearing a Knicks jersey. do you understand why we say ACAB? why we say Defund The Police?

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 15/06/2026

Make Yourself Harder To Control: - build a supportive diverse friend group - be active in hobbies & clubs - volunteer - read - after watching entertainment media, write a reflection or review - practice bodily autonomy (change your hair, wear makeup or nail polish, get body mods)

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 10/06/2026

when his legs are RIPPED but he refuses to wear the 3" inseam shorts that body was made for 😭

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 10/06/2026

giving yourself permission to do something poorly or at 50% or just to try it, that sets you free

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 08/06/2026

lotta people out there trying to frame their desire for control as "loving gestures"

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 06/06/2026

after a 3 year hiatus, my stalker has returned like a sequel no one asked for

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 05/06/2026

you would be shocked to know how non-existent the "safety net" is for disabled people. believing that sick people receive help and dignified care is like believing in the tooth fairy.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 01/06/2026

Happy Pride! 🏳️‍🌈 There are a lot more than two genders, please feel free to be attracted to as many of them as you like!

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 30/05/2026

people are being really cruel to bisexuals lately. writing a little smutty trilogy where all the bisexuals end up loved and happy just for us 😘

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

dudes who run around being inconsolably bitter and caustic... you know this makes you unfuckable, yes? no one wants to bang a joyless sack of shit. try smiling. give a compliment instead of an insult. stop taking your feelings out on other people, I swear it'll help.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

every person who has uploaded a fanfic past 1am their-local-time is an infinitely better writer than someone who uses AI

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

How To Be Attractive: - be open to learning new things - find joy in the mundane - be free with compliments, compassionate in criticism - take care of your meat-sack - show up for your loved ones - put on a good song and shake your ass Repeat until the right people find you!

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 26/05/2026

If the NHL is so worried about how they'll be fictionally portrayed in S2 of Heated Rivalry, perhaps that's an opportunity to reflect and confront the history of real-life homophobic behavior that the fiction is drawing from.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

if you won't go to bat for trans people, unfollow me right now, we are not friends

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

I've had to intentionally alter my writing style because of AI. I need people who read my writing to know that I'm a person putting my thoughts into a keyboard, not a data center giving everyone in a small town cancer.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

One-Handed Novella: when a horny man randomly messages you a wall of text inserting you into his detailed sexual fantasy without your consent, riddled with typos or other grammatical issues, because he typed it while jerking off

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 23/05/2026

people who won't take accountability always perceive a public announcement of their actions as an attack

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 10/05/2026

the tastiest food is the food you didn't have to cook yourself

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 27/04/2026

which do you find more irritating: inattentiveness or incompetence?

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

Just watched S8 E7 of Outlander and... the Faith retcon? Narrative absurdity. This means William fucked his niece. They're running with this so Jane was his niece. Who greenlit accidental incest as a final-4-episodes plot twist? I'm watching Outlander not Game of Thrones.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 19/04/2026

having a good day: got groceries, and a bacon & leek scone from the local bakery

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 06/04/2026

friends who are on dating apps! how many of the profiles you see are Ai or bots?

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 01/04/2026

Posting about Trans Day of Visibility is the bare minimum you can do. Are you supporting trans and intersex people in your community? Are you volunteering, sending kind messages, protesting, or contacting your legislators? Your words need to be backed up by action.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 24/03/2026

you don't "take" someone's virginity. that's a truly gross view of sex rooted in rape culture by reducing the consent and agency of your partner. a sexual debut is an experience someone shares with you.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 24/03/2026

today I learned the new Kindles have speakers because my partner left his on the tv stand here. it scared the crap out of me when it randomly announced, "someone is at your front door" because his mail got delivered across town. how was I supposed to know the e-book could TALK?!

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 18/03/2026

transphobia is misogyny wearing a different color outfit then trying to convince you that's an entirely new villain

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 18/03/2026

I was thinking about women's visibility in the workforce and realized I have NEVER had a female pilot on any flight, even though 5% of commercial airline pilots are women. It would bring me so much joy to hear a woman's voice from the cockpit. Anyone gotten to experience that?

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

shoveling snow with my headphones on and "Where Is My Husband!" comes on...

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

there's no reason to ask "what do women want?" because it was definitively answered on Lip Sync Battle in 2017 women want a goofy little freak with quiet confidence, who will be ridiculous and sexy at the drop of a hat just to make her smile

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a man in a maid costume is dancing in front of a wall with the number 3 in the corner

Alt: Tom Holland in drag confidently dancing in the rain to "Umbrella" by Rihanna

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 15/03/2026

Decided to torture myself tonight by watching "Babygirl" I'm 10min into it and pausing to remind myself out loud: "This is someone's kink and sexuality, and that's ok, but it sure ain't mine!" Glad this movie exists for whoever needed it, but I don't know who exactly that is...

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

I feel bad that cis men will never know the god-like power boost of another woman randomly giving you a compliment.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

many grown men don't comprehend the difference between "being weirdly cute" and "being an annoying nuisance." while the line between the two is very different from person to person, y'all need to learn to read a glare or accept a correction when you've stumbled over that line.

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Šárka Świdziński @sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

As someone with a professional background in DV and coercive control, the most familiar part of Louis Theroux's Manosphere documentary is when he asks them simple questions in a gentle voice then waits in silence while these awful, often violent men gleefully tell on themselves.

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