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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥

@saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy
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I write about power dynamics in engineering management Insecurity Princess. Previously led Clod Security for Netflix. Queer femme mathematician. Dismantling […] 🌉 bridged from ⁂ infosec.exchange/@saraislet, follow @ap.brid.gy to interact

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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 31/07/2026
War Games? Skynet? Sneakers? Matrix? GladOS? HAL 9000? No, no, no, the dystopian AI future we're getting is The Tick in AI form
Three panels of The Tick comic starting with the Tick scratching his head
"ΗΜΜ… I'M NOT TOO UP ON MY WHALE ANATOMY, BUT I DON'T RECALL THEM HAVING TWO METAL RAILS IN THEIR STOMACHS."

Second panel: Tick scratches his chin
"IT'S PROBABLY A BLUE WHALE"

Last panel: Tick reaches toward a rail 
"WAITAMINUTE, THERE'S THREE RAILS IN HERE."
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 31/07/2026
@atax1a ad infinitum
Screenshot of tweet from @dril
"im not owned! im not owned!!", i continue to insist as i slowly shrink and transform into a corn cob
10 Nov 2011
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 27/06/2026
HOW AM I ONLY NOW LEARNING THAT MARY PARKER FOLLETT WAS GAY!? #MPF
Picture of book paragraph in which "companion" is circled:
In 1926, Follett's companion, Isobel Briggs, died. Devastated by her loss, Follett later moved to London where she was to renew old acquaintances and make new friends. In 1933, after completing a series of lectures at the London School of Economics, Follett made a brief visit to Boston. While there, she had to go into hospital, and there she died in December 1933.

A brave, pioneering life ended; but her work, vital and insightful, lives on. Indeed, in practically every area when we begin to see the light, we find that Follett has already lit the pathway for us to follow. She remains startlingly modern and in many respects is still avant-garde. The assessment of Follett is unanimous: very much ahead of her time in the 1920s, she remains today, in Peter Drucker's telling phrase, the "prophet of management."
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 30/04/2026
My methi dal recipe is coming along well!
Saute pan with minced turmeric, ginger, garlic, and serrano peppersPan with a red creamy mix of lentils, mushrooms, methi leaves, tomato, coconut milk, and a variety of spicesRed dish with basmati rice covered with red lentil curry
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 10/04/2026
This is entirely accurate, and completely useless.
LinkedIn notification with Netflix logo: "You're a top applicant for Engineering Manager, Cloud Infrastructure Security at Netflix and 230+ other jobs"
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 01/04/2026
The best description of a kitten I've ever read: "you need to imagine that you have a toddler who can fly!"
Picture of book text: THE PERFECT KITTEN

Try to accept that your house may not always stay looking at its best, especially when your kitten is at the "running around the walls and up the curtains" stage. Put away any precious ornaments, even if they are fairly high up - you need to imagine that you have a toddler who can fly! Choose a litter box big enough for the kitten to scratch about in and become used to - the hooded type may be better than an open box, as this will prevent spillage. These boxes also often contain air fresheners, to help keep smells at bay.
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 25/03/2026
Sure, Peter Drucker, sure. The lady doth protest too much (he goes on to write several pages about how there were successful women leaders in business during that time period)
Picture of book text with interrobang in the margin after the paragraph «The expedient and politically correct answer today might seem to be, "Because she was a woman and had been discriminated against." It would be the wrong answer.»
Full text:
I owe to Hopf's list the realization that there was a discipline of management waiting to be born. But Mary Parker Follett's name was not on the list. Her books, of course, were in Hopf's library; but evidently he did not consider them "of the slightest importance."

Follett, however, had been the brightest star in the management firmament. And to change the metaphor-she had struck every single chord in what now constitutes the "management symphony." Ten years later, not even her memory remained, at least not in her native America.¹ She had become a "nonperson."

WHY?
The expedient and politically correct answer today might seem to be, "Because she was a woman and had been discriminated against." It would be the wrong answer."Sure, Jan" meme: a white blonde woman raises her eyebrows in skepticism
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 19/03/2026
I think I need to put into my talk this line that keeps running through my head So many leaders want people to trust them, which is exactly backwards In organizations, positions are typically appointed through the hierarchy and authority of the […] [Original post on infosec.exchange]
“I need you to trust me.”

“I need you to be trustworthy."

In the thick dimness of the room she watched the black-garbed girl in front of her struggle around a thing that had set-tled over them like a net; a thing that had fused between them like a badly broken limb, shattered numerous times, healing gnarled and awful. Gideon recognised these strictures all of a sudden: the rope tying her to Harrow and back to the bars of the House of the Ninth. They stared at each other with shared panic.

Harrow said finally, “In what way can I earn your trust?”
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 15/03/2026
It was hard to leave my teams and the small Cloud Security org that I grew, but days like this are why it was worth it After 5 years at Netflix, I've sorely needed time off to recover. I'm deeply proud of the work that Netflix Cloud Security did, and I will […] [Original post on infosec.exchange]
Top down photo of a plate of french toast, a large cup of matcha, and a notebook on a table. The lap of a black leather skirt is visible at the edge of the table
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 05/03/2026
I captured a photo of the elusive rainbow kitten in her natural domain!
Tuxedo cat with a subtle rainbow of light highlighting the white patch on her chest
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 08/02/2026
I tried taking a selfie with a wide angle lens but it keeps coming out like this
Survivorship bias plane
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 07/01/2026
Please — and I can't believe I have to say this — please do not lick your employees.
Margin note in red: "please do _not_ lick your employees"

How then can you be sure you are being truly heard? What techniques can you employ? Is it enough to have your subordinate paraphrase your words? I don't think so. What you must do is employ all of your sensory capabilities. To make sure you're being heard, you should watch the person you are talking to. Remember, the more complex the issue, the more prone communication is to being lost. Does your subordinate give appropriate responses to what you are saying? Does he allow himself to receive your message? If his responses — verbal and nonverbal — do not completely assure you that what you've said has gotten through, it is your responsibility to keep at it until you are satisfied that you have been heard and understood. 

This is what I mean by listening: employing your entire arsenal of sensory capabilities …
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 06/01/2026
And that brings us to one of the worst examples of what continues today to be among the most highly recommended leadership books: High Output Management, by Andrew Grove. The historic context above ties into what Andrew Grove writes here. When Andrew Grove […] [Original post on infosec.exchange]
For most of Western history, including the early days of the Industrial Revolution, motivation was based mostly on fear of punishment.
[margin note: and this is BAD]

Over the past thirty years or so, a number of new approaches have begun to replace older practices keyed to fear. Perhaps the emergence of the new, humanistic approaches to motivation can be traced to the decline in the relative importance of manual labor and the corresponding rise in the importance of so-called knowledge workers. The output of a manual laborer is readily measurable, and departures from the expected can be spotted and dealt with immediately. But for a knowledge worker, such departures take longer to determine because even the expectations themselves are very difficult to state precisely. In other words, fear won't work as well with computer architects as with galley slaves; hence new approaches to motivation are needed.

My description of what makes people perform relies heavily on Abraham Maslow's theory of motivation, simply because my own observations of working life confirm Maslow's concepts. For Maslow, motivation is closely tied to the idea of needs, which cause people to have drives, which in turn result in motivation. A need once satisfied stops being a need and therefore stops being a source of motivation. Simply put, if we are to create and maintain a high degree of motivation, we must keep some needs unsatisfied at all times.
[Margin note: i.e., abuse]
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 05/01/2026
We spent almost 3 hours parked at Donner Pass (yeah, THAT Donner Pass), due to multiple spin outs on I-80 — long enough for several centimeters of snow to build up around cars, and this guy went snowboarding down the middle! It's eerie to watch […] [Original post on infosec.exchange]
Snow covered 2-lane highway of parked cars covered with snow. Visibility is short, but you can see evergreen trees bowing under the weight of snow covered branches. A single snowboarder is barely seen in the distance, surfing over the highway snowA tree line of snow covered trees are seen looking up a hill. The fog lays thick over the tree-line, obscuring any trees further up the hill
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Insecurity Princess 🌈💖🔥 @saraislet.infosec.exchange.ap.brid.gy · 04/01/2026
Chain Control to Major Tom Chain Control to Major Tom Take your protein pills and put your snow chains on (Ten) Chain Control (Nine) to Major Tom (Eight, seven) (Six) Commencing (Five) countdown, engines on (Four, three, two) Check ignition (One) and may snow's love (Lift off) be with you
Parked cars covered in almost a foot of snow
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