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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 26/09/2026

Also, AOT was never meant to have a happy ending. If I interpreted it correctly, it shows the reality of oppression, that no matter how much you try to demolish an oppressive system, it will come back if you’re not vigilant. See: 2026.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 26/09/2026

I recommend watching Attack on Titan to see how upholders of oppressive systems move & cause harm among their people. The first time I watched it, I truly understood how upholders of patriarchy, the “pick-me”s function. It’s very eye opening.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 25/09/2026

UPDATE: I’m in a new AP!! Session two is on the 26th!!!

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 25/09/2026

PMS has punched me in the face. I don’t like this. Lemme get some snacks & curl up in a foetal position. We’ll try the day again tomorrow.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 29/07/2026

This doesn’t apply to me cause well, I’m married now, but I was just thinking of how many friends I lost cause my homies thought I was sending them signals. If I had wanted them, I would’ve told them. Did that straight up with the husband. Anything else is me being friendly.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 29/07/2026

Vashti is my role model. You can never make me hate her.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 28/07/2026

One thing about adulthood that I can’t stand is: you have your week planned and something that requires you to be the adult derails everything. 😭

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 26/07/2026

I take people’s words very seriously. Never speak recklessly around me or make lofty promises because I will remember & take you to task for what you said.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 24/07/2026

The older I get, the less I tolerate unintelligent people.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 21/07/2026

If a male “nerd” ever quizzed me about my hobbies, I won’t prove my knowledge at all. I’ll look them straight in the eye, say “I don’t know,” and walk away. Will your little “you’re just a tourist” comments stop me from enjoying my hobbies? No. So go away.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 16/07/2026

If anything, my biological dad’s ancestors should be losing sleep trying to make things right, otherwise those ancestors are useless & I want no parts. That’s why culturally, if the dad’s a deadbeat, the mom’s ancestors become the child’s.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 16/07/2026

If my biological dad’s ancestors are waiting to punish me for some arbitrary slight cause we “didn’t do things the right way,” they can honestly fuck right off. Cause where were they when my mom & dad were taking care of me? They actually should be grovelling & begging for forgiveness.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 16/07/2026

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: fuck purity culture.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/07/2026

After replaying every Danganronpa, I’ve concluded that Hope’s Peak Academy was the Ultimate Villain & should’ve been razed to the ground at the very beginning.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 11/07/2026

I need to start being like Jesus & call out harmful “Christians”, calling them children of the Devil, cause you can’t tell me they’re children of God.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 08/07/2026

It’s past 1am & I can’t sleep. Maybe it’s cause I had to put down my sweet ass dog cause she was terminally ill. I am not okay. At all.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 07/07/2026

I thank my mom everyday for giving me her mitochondria & these defined cheekbones. 💁🏾‍♀️

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 07/07/2026

Listen!!! When we were rooting for them last World Cup they said that their wins aren’t wins for Africa. That told us everything we needed to know.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 06/07/2026

I have the JJK song stuck in my head. Specialz by King Gnu

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 04/07/2026

Bringing this back to remind myself…

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 04/07/2026

I’m very fascinated by my male colleagues who have very “strict” wives; the ones who tell them to come home early and all that other stuff. I sometimes wonder if I’m wife-ing wrong, cause I’m not about to monitor the behaviour of a grown-ass man.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 27/06/2026

Do my enemies drink mojitos? Let me find out & get back to you.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 26/06/2026

Sometimes, just admit certain things to yourself, and set yourself free.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 26/06/2026

The Polygamist is a documentary, not just a series or book. I know 2 family members & men MY AGE (who I went to church with mind you), who are fully fledged Jonasis. And the wives are praying for God to save them from Jezebels. We’re witnessing this in the year of our Lord 2026.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 25/06/2026

I’ve been very consistent with my workout, so guess what happened today? Exactly. I pulled a muscle out of nowhere. Fun. 🫠

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 25/06/2026

From the bottom of my heart I say this: FUCK purity culture.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 23/06/2026

You know what… I need to use that. Build relationships I thought I had no business building. They might think much higher of me than I thought.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 23/06/2026

One thing I find interesting is people trying to play up their achievements so they feel worthy enough to be around me. I mean, I’m just a normal person trying to build this business.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 20/06/2026

Must be nice having tiny-ass feet. 😒

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 20/06/2026

Year of Audacity. This week I’m gonna be even more audacious. I had forgotten.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 20/06/2026

Update: my DM’s got it!!! We’re switching over for next session! Ha! This is gonna be great!!

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 18/06/2026

When I really lock in. Like really really lock in, I’m an excellent writer. Maybe that’s why I wanted to be a writer when I was a kid.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/06/2026

The Polygamist has taught me that being called a “good woman” is actually a curse.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/06/2026

My entire body is drowning in luteinizing hormone. I’m in hell. Also, RIP to the husband’s back. 😭

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/06/2026

Sorceress gay bar. That sounds like a good time, especially with the right spells.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/06/2026

There has to be a local who can tell me how to approach the place in a way that appeases the ancestors, because their story deserves to be told. I’m African, I don’t just barge in a place without respecting the people of the land.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/06/2026

I’m taking the Werthers original candied apple with gooey caramel core.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/06/2026

Confront her. If she really is my homegirl, she’ll know that I’ll get her some of her favourite snacks & we can sit through any show together, so what’s her issue now?

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 15/06/2026

Smell like an artificial scent. I love the satsuma scent, I’ll go for that. It’s mild & citrusy.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 14/06/2026

The older I get & the more I unlearn these harmful -isms & purity culture, the more stifling & uncomfortable Zimbabwe becomes. The way Zim is so conservative is a lot! My people doing the same work are like a secret society. We have to say some code words to find each other, lolol.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 14/06/2026

Because Jonasi laughing & saying his wife is not going anywhere after his shenanigans filled me with an ungodly amount of rage. May that love never locate me.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 14/06/2026

The Polygamist has taught me that these men know when you’re a lick. May my husband always remember that I’m not a lick & I will ruin him if he tries to embarrass me.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 14/06/2026

Since I’m cool with the fae community & depending on the amount of spells I have access to, I’m getting the money, and telepathically telling my fae homies we’re on the way so they can take the crew out.

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Dr. Businesswoman @ruematongo.blacksky.app · 14/06/2026

Listen…that sounds like a good time if you’re adventurous. Let them have their fun with the couch & bed. Just warn them to keep everything in their bedroom. & lock it.

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