iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 10/12/2025

Do you believe you are in control of your own destiny? P. S. Why isn't there a poll option on this app? Like seriously, come on..

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

You can have full and complete acceptance of the stage you are at in life, whilst still working towards improving it. A desire to improve is not the same as lacking self-acceptance or self-love. When playing a game, you are in acceptance of every stage, whilst still working towards progression

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

When you truly want it, it will never be a question of whether or not you can or can't. You will find a way. When your will is strong enough, nothing can stop you from pursuing your goals. Welcome to my tough love motivational talk🫶

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

When you truly, wholeheartedly desire something, nothing will deter you from pursuing it. Saying that you "can't" is a defense mechanism designed to make you feel less guilty for not putting in the work to realize your desires. 👇

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

If you truly want something, you will never make an excuse for why you can't have it. You'll go after it, and you'll keep pursuing it until you have it. "I don't have time," "I don't have the energy." These are just various ways of saying you don't truly desire it👇

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 06/11/2025

Whenever I read a book, I will either appreciate it, or I won't appreciate it. I won't waste my time trying to either condemn or justify it. I'm only interested in what kind of wisdom I can get from it. If there's no wisdom, I discard it. I don't condemn, I simply discard.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 04/11/2025

Does arrogance breed stupidity, or does stupidity breed arrogance?

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

Do you know what Star Wars needs? More women. More female roles. More female baddies. It has far too many Sith Lords, and far too few Sith Ladies. Come on Disney, you've already pissed off the fandom menace. Might as well Shake some grounds, go wild, feminize the Star Wars universe💅

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 31/10/2025

What it looks like in my room when I say "happy Halloween."😈 Happy Halloween everyone, and happy Samhain for those who celebrate 👻🎃🔮 P. S, image is not my own

A pentagram drawn on a wooden surface, with a candle burning in the center

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 25/10/2025

Knowledge itself is not power. It's only a key to power. If you don't use the key, then it is useless... Knowledge must be integrated, if it is to be transmuted into personal power. Otherwise, you are just holding a shiny key to a treasure vault, without ever actually opening the treasure vault

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 23/10/2025

When a religious person becomes obsessed with being "righteous," they turn violent. When a secular person becomes obsessed with being "virtuous," the exact same thing happens. Hello again, it's been a while since I've been on here🖤❤️

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

I remember someone once said, all that is required to be far ahead of the average person is to read 1 book per month. If you're competitive, this might be encouraging to you. But if you think about the state of society, it is rather concerning..

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

We are informed, yet ignorant. We are "in the know," yet we do not have a real understanding of the things we think we know. To have information without understanding is not knowledge. It's like having a machine without electricity. It has no real power.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 12/08/2025

We live in an information age. Not a knowledge age, but information. It's about consuming as much information as possible, as quickly as possible, without taking time to acquire depth of understanding. We read headlines, not articles, reviews and summaries, not books...👇

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 05/07/2025

Good morning 🖤❤️ Thought for the day: What you believe will ultimately govern your life, regardless of whether it is "true" or not. Faith, or belief, can thus be used to either empower you, or enslave you.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 01/07/2025

Good afternoon 🖤❤️ Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will rule your life, and you will call it fate. And whatever emotions you suppress will not go away; they will simply go from conscious to unconscious. And then your suppressed emotions will rule your life.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 25/06/2025

Whatever falls away in silence, was never worth holding on to in the first place..

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 11/06/2025

Once you really take the time to sit with yourself, take an honest look at yourself, and ask who you want to be, you start realizing how much bs you've been fed from birth. So much of what you believe were never truly your beliefs. You were conditioned to them by society. Goodnight 🖤❤️

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 09/06/2025

Greed kills creativity. There is a significant difference between desiring wealth, and being greedy.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 08/06/2025

I am at a place where I will no longer fight for beint accepted. There are people in the world who accept me without a fight. So why would I waste my energy fighting for my acceptance from others? Even if no one accepted me, I would choose solitude over prejudice.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 07/06/2025

I am not looking to escape my darkness. I am learning to love myself there. - Rune Lazuli

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

Good morning ❤️🖤 I have manifested the greatest blessings in My life when I wasn't even actively trying to "manifest" anything. I was simply working on My own self-development. And that is what manifestation actually is. Internal growth always equals external growth.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 29/05/2025

Good afternoon 🖤❤️ You can always choose how to perceive something. And your perception of the thing will have a deciding factor in how you handle it. Regardless of the actual nature of the thing, your perception of it is what determines how you handle it.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 27/05/2025

Healing isn't about fixing yourself. It's about remembering you were never broken. Goodnight 🖤❤️

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 25/05/2025

The prerequisite for being a bigot, is to be a very weak and fragile person. This fact is very helpful to keep in mind when dealing with a bigot. Know that you are dealing with a weakling. A weakling who will crumble from just a little bit of pressure.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

I read a lot, and also listen a lot to what other self-development teachers say on various subjects. And I naturally reflect on things as a result. I've always been very passionate as a person. And studying the topic of "detachment" made me reflect on it like this

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

It does depend on where you come from, and your self-belief. Some people, a lot actually, have very limiting self-beliefs which distorts their desires. That is what leads people to corruption. Cause they don't believe they are enough on their own, so they must exploit others, for example

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

12/12: your desires are your passion, and your passion is what drives you to rise above mediocrity. Detachment from your desires is a detachment from your passion, which detaches you from your power, leaving you disempowered and complacent.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

11: True strength is to have the courage to face all the emotional mess that might come from your attachment to your desire, and still find a way to rise above it. It is not strong to flee from your emotions. To feel your emotions, fully and wholly, and harness them for your fuel, *that's* strength

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

10: Passion is your power. And you cannot have passion if you do not allow yourself to feel all your messy negative emotions. Being 100% detached will leave you an empty void that doesn't care about anything. That doesn't make you empowered. It makes you complacent.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

9: passion is a mixture of positive and negative emotions. Positive emotions over getting closer to your desire, negative emotions towards anything that threatens your desire. That combination gives you the drive you need to fight for your desires

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

8: if you do not care one whit about losing your desires, then you will never have the drive that is needed to succeed in your desires. There is power in embracing *all* your emotions, both positive and negative. You're frustrated over things not going your way? Good! Let that fuel your drive

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

7: in a way, yes it does. If you struggle to reach your desires, you will inevitably feel sadness and frustration over that. But so what? It is a *good* thing to feel frustrated over your desires. Cause that is what drives you forward, propels you towards success

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

6: wanting to escape suffering is also a desire. To be alive is to have desires. It is impossible not to have them, unless you become literally brain-dead. Desires is not something to detach from. But what about suffering? Does attachment produce more suffering?

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

5: then why are you here in the first place? If you have zero desires, what are you even doing here? You just want to be a mindless drone who doesn't have a mind of their own? And also, trying to detach from your desires is a desire in itself...

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

4: what happens if you detach from your desires? Well, if you detach from them, you won't be upset if you lose your desires. And in this, you may just escape suffering... no desires, nothing to be sad about, right...?

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

3: Detach yourself from things you *don't* want in your life. Like the opinion of others, others' validation, others' approval. Those are things that would do you well to detach from. But your desires are your passion. They are what drive you forward..

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

2: many teach "detachment" from your desires. This is supposed to make you less needy, less dependent, less subject to suffering, etc. The whole idea of "desirelessness." But I think this idea couldn't be more wrong. Do *not* detach from your desires! That's not what you should detach from..

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

1/12: If you've studied any form of self-development, you've inevitably come across the art of detachment. But I think this concept is widely misunderstood, and widely misused. A🧵

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

Life is just as much about unlearning as it is about learning.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 24/05/2025

Good morning 🖤❤️ Desire is the spark of creation✨️

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 23/05/2025

Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate - Carl Jung

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 23/05/2025

Good morning 🖤❤️ It is not about achieving your desire. It's about *becoming* your desire.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 21/05/2025

Good morning..🖤❤️ Emotions are not weakness, as society has conditioned you to believe. It is lack of *control* of your emotions that is weakness. Emotions themselves are not weakness. In fact, they are your greatest source of strength. Your emotions are not your enemy.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

Your time, attention and energy are your most valuable assets. They're more valuable than gold.

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Rubi♦️💜 @rubinia.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

I like metric stormtroopers better🤭🤭

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