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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 12/04/2025

Tried to attract a raven that flies over the house by leaving out some peanuts and a shiny thing up on the wall. No raven has come down to eat. But now I have a curve billed thrasher that comes to get peanuts every day. Don’t get me wrong, he’s adorable. But not a raven. 🤣

Picture of a curve billed thrasher (brown/grey bird with bright orange eyes. Bird is about the size of a grackle) sitting on top of a cactus. Photo by Peter Moulton.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 31/03/2025

I got a new tattoo today. My child came running out of his room when I got home and asked “what tattoo did you get, Mom?” So I showed him…and his response was, “Nah. I don’t love it.” 💀he’s 4. I’m so fucked when he’s a teenager if this is how he is at 4. 😆

Black and white photo of tattoo on upper bicep that is a heart in Americana style with the word “me” in the center and flowers round the outer edges

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 14/03/2025

Astrology told me not to do. *is he really about to do it?* But I did it anyway because it’s also time to let shit go. And I’m officially letting go of the narrative in my head that I look better with long hair. And my mom always said I’d look bad in bangs. I beg to differ….

Picture of androgynous femme with naturally curly bixie haircut and bangs, green eyes, and olive skin looking at the camera.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 02/03/2025

Like the gays I saw on tiktok, I will be blowing this up and having it framed. Thank you.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 03/02/2025

I climbed a bloody Mountain while I myself bled. Could you, sir? No chance.

Picture of steep mountain trail surrounded by pines reaching to the ski, in Michoacán, Mexico, leading to the monarch preserve.

Three monarchs in a row, sunning themselves on two leaves with more monarchs blurred in the background.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 27/01/2025

Gonna make some pico de gallo and throw some chicken breast in it to make a salad to eat on tostadas for dinner tonight. 🤤 All of these tomatoes and limes were only 16 pesos (74 cents) at our little local grocer on our street. they just opened a few weeks ago and now we finally have a cheap option!

Picture of bags of fresh ripe tomatoes and limes on marble countertop.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 13/01/2025

We did it! 🥰 My baby is off to preschool today! First day of school of the rest of his childhood.

Picture of 4 year old boy in yellow polo shirt, blue jeans and white shoes with a blue sonic backpack and a blue sonic beanie.

Same boy turned facing away from
The camera showing off his sonic backpack.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

Red pill or blue pill? Nah. I choose both because my uterus wants to kill me.

Picture of OP’s palm holding a red Advil liquid capsule and a blue Aleve liquid capsule.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 30/12/2024

My baby is 4. Hard to believe it’s been 4 years. Happiest of birthdays to my happy, cranky, sweet, standoff-ish, smart, silly, adventurous, skeptical, outgoing boy. 🥰 and yes, we had cake for breakfast. 😋Because you’re only 4 once.

Picture of same boy sitting, smiling holding up two 16 inch plush grasshoppers that are brown, green and yellow.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 28/12/2024

Today I drove 4 hours round trip to take my child to an aquarium for his birthday on Monday. If that’s not love I don’t know what is lol.

Picture of 6 ft tall Latino man in plaid jacket, black pants, white rimmed glasses, and grey shoes with his hands in his front pockets, looking up at sting rays resting on glass in walk-through aquarium tank. Next to him is 3.5 ft tall boy with red hoodie, black pants and red sneakers pointing up to stingrays. The two pictured are OP’s spouse and child.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 26/12/2024

This price is extortion of this autistic person’s 2 special interests from childhood. RUDE.

Picture of Ernest Shackleton’s ship Endurance made of LEGO.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 22/12/2024

They cloud seeded two days ago 😍and now we have this!!!! A rare winter thunderstorm in the desert! I’m so happy right now.

Picture of gloomy, rainy courtyard obscured by raindrops on the window glass. A plastic colorful Christmas tree yard ornament is visible through the rain drops.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

I’m officially a proud legal resident of Mexico. As someone who was brought to this country illegally as a child for 7 years without a choice, this feels like redemption. 🥲

Black and white Picture of OP, brunette femme with black sweatshirt and shoulder length hair holding a Mexican residency card, smirking.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 18/12/2024

This is the idiot (Xiomara) who’s been locked in this crate since last Tuesday. Why? Because she got spayed two weeks ago, immediately went feral and gave herself a hernia, had a hernia repair, and has been confined for her own good ever since. 🫠

Picture of brown and black tabby cat lying down on a blue towel in a dog kennel, looking up at camera. Pictured next to her is her food bowl, water bowl, and the edge of her litter box.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

Sigmund the therapy cat is ready for our last session of the week.

Picture of OP (brunette tomboy femme) looking at camera with white and grey striped tabby sitting on table behind her, looking off to the right.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 05/12/2024

Please enjoy this picture of one of my hummingbird friends that visits us every day. #BirdSky

Picture of small green hummingbird sitting on trip of a metal post with a string of patio lights wrapped around the post below. Blue sky with white clouds.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 03/12/2024

Cuando te dicen “ponte las pilas,” tú díles que no porque son muy caras. 😘

Picture of batteries in Mexican grocery store. Prices ranging from $149 to $359 pesos for 4 packs which is roughly $7.50 to $17 dollars.

Caption says “when they tell you to put the batteries on, tell them no because they’re too expensive” (put the batteries on is basically like saying pull yourself up by your bootstraps.)

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 01/12/2024

Cat on a tree skirt! This is Osiris. He’s 6 (we think). He’s a void. He enjoys humping a fuzzy blanket, yelling at birds, showing everyone his fancy butthole, and running away from trash bags (he was found around age 2 with his brother in a trash bag by the road). #CatsofBluesky

Picture of a black cat lying on a red velvet tree skirt underneath decorated Yule tree.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 01/12/2024

I was in the US from 2006 to earlier this year and I had to be living out of the country again to finally try Cheesecake Factory. 😂

Picture or exterior of a cheesecake factory in a mall in Mexico.

Picture of friend cheese sticks and two mezcal cocktails.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 30/11/2024

I made a new friend today. This is Tinka. She’s Norwegian. Built like a tank. Very sweet. She was a solid ride lol. #HorseSky

Picture of blonde colored Norwegian draft horse with red halter, western saddle, and a spiky mane with a black stripe in the middle.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 29/11/2024

Cat on a table! This is Daniel (as in Daniel Tiger). He’s 4 years old. He likes sitting on the new table, scratching the new chairs, hiding under the bed at night so I can’t kick him out of the bedroom, being a momma’s boy, and making me spend all my money on mysterious allergies no one can fix.

Picture of an orange striped cat on a round wooden dining table, with black dining chairs and some art of abstract faces on the wall in the background.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

Cat on me! This is Mara(short for Xiomara). She’s 7 months old. She’s also the neediest but sweetest girl to ever grace the earth. She enjoys chatting me up, hunting anything that moves, sneaking out of the house to see her boyfriend (she is getting fixed next week), and snuggling. #CatsofBluesky

Black and white photo of OP (brunette femme) holding small tabby cat with ear tassels.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

Cat on a waterspout! This is Sigmund. He’ll be one on Friday. He’s my bestest boy. And apparently he thinks he makes a good gargoyle…I have to agree. He loves snuggling, talking to me(which he was doing in this photo, too), following me around all day, and trying to be my sous chef when I cook.🤦🏻‍♀️

Black and white photo of a Grey and white tabby cat standing on a water spout, meowing down at the camera, balcony rail in the background.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 27/11/2024

These were presented to me at the same time. Poetic.

Picture of OP’s post under one on my TL that says “I write about the handful of Trump cabinet picks that keep me up at night”

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

Cat in a bag! #CatsOfBluesky (This is Percy. He’s 5. He loves sitting in bags, yelling at me for food, and being the mom to our other 4 cats.)

Brown and black mackerel tabby hunkered down in a bright green and red reusable shopping bag.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 24/11/2024

For about 10 minutes today, I was not cold. These boys understood the assignment.

Black cat and grey and white tabby cat lying on white blanket (which is on my lap). Leather chair and piles of books blurred in the background.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 23/11/2024

Always check your washer before you start the laundry. #cat

Small black and brown tabby cat lying on dirty clothes inside front load washer

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 22/11/2024

My half Maine coon baby Sigmund is turning 1 next Friday. #cat #CatSky

Brunette femme with masculine nose and jawline
Holding large grey and white striped cat with blue-green eyes.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 20/11/2024

I think I figured out who’s buying all the glitter… (it’s Bayer in Mexico for this unnecessarily beautiful nighttime cold and flu medicine.)

Hand holding two shiny green pastilles that look like emerald green lizard eggs.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 17/11/2024

Today, my 3 yr old got to experience his first concert. It was free to the public and we had an amazing time. 🫶🏼 Long live my fellow Romani people.

Large crowd in front of cathedral in Mexico lit by lights for Gipsy Kings concert.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 16/11/2024

My almost 4 yr old and our 7 month old, half Maine coon kitten. (The child is 42 inches tall, for reference.)

Picture of young child with brown hair holding a brown and black tabby kitten in his arms.

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Rebecca (loves the psych) Ward, MSW, LLMSW @rnward.bsky.social · 10/11/2024

Enjoy these two pictures of my very beautiful cat, Sigmund. Feel free to suggest anyone I should follow over here! I’m coming from Twitter since it’s a fucking cesspool over there and I got my first rape threat today.

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