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Rian

@rianm.bsky.social
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Nerdy & goofy in my 40s, 🏳️‍🌈, 👬, 2 🐕 overlord. 📚 & 🎶 lover. Likes to 🎨 & 💻📖. Neurospicy. I'm for trans rights, women's rights, BLM, stop hate of any kind. 18+only, careful on my likes lol

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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
Made these.
Jalapeños and cream cheese and bacon bits.Now with cheese.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
"You are Fisto, you fist people" was pretty funny... And is there a video lol?
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
Ok, I watched this last night. I thought the beginning a bit boring, but hey, set the scene lol. Once the action started, I was into it. I liked it overall. I wouldn't mind a sequel. I totally blanked on this one characters name (battle fist/fisto). I was more a she-ra, Thundercats kid.
Masters of the universe movie 2026The character of Fisto played by Jóhannes Haukur Jóhannesson
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
Picture it, The early 90s... A snow storm Windy, cold, snow Me and friends Naked Trash cans blowing down the street like paper in front of us Sitting down in the middle of the street....
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
Finished this one, I liked it a lot. I even liked the AHS season based off the book as well.
Delicate Condition by Danielle Valentine.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
No...er well some boxes will go at some point, I was just wondering on the amount of banker boxes filled with books that I own lol
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
So, is 32 banker boxes filled with books too much?????
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
I have my moments, some family members were worried about my handling of his passing, since with me being neurospicy, and I thought I was doing well... But I have stress hives...yay.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
It's definitely weird, especially when I'm not really liking the person one moment to missing him the next, to not sorry he's gone, to his suffering in over with finally I think the swiftness of his passing, that it happened so fast didn’t help either, even if we knew he was leaving at some point
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
Anyone raising a kid(s), and for some reason, you decide to apologize for the things you did to them out of the blue, don't cherry pick certain things... Just apologize for it all!
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
It's an odd feeling after someone dies that you had a rocky relationship over the years... And taken care of him for 18 years after he had his transplant....
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
I finally got that I can call my step-dad, Dad now, without melodrama (the"oh poor me" pitty party) from my real dad now. It’s gonna be odd to be more open and free with saying that
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
I can understand this a lot
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
static.klipy.com
Affectionate Cats Grooming on Blanket
Alt: Affectionate Cats hugging on Blanket
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
So pops is already to be put in the veterans wall, and got a date set for that. I thought the plaque would be done, but I guess that after he's put in....
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
Unfortunately, my dad passed away on the 14th. He had 18 extra years after the liver transplant, and his anniversary was on the 13th.
Sterling and my Dad in 2010.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 29/04/2026
I always thought of it as Sniff-N-Lick 😉
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
So we've been dealing with that, everything's happened so fast, from hearing from the doctors saying he has 6 months to a year, to having a lot of strangers in the house. I haven't been on here that much, or Instagram, but I forgot I had sharing turn on for FB and Instagram.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
At least that doesn't cut into the hours with the home health aide we already had before getting him on hospice, since it's from a different program.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
Ok, so if you are on FB, some of you already know pops is now on hospice care, just now got him settled on the new meds to make him more comfortable. It's been busy with people here almost everyday, but that's slowing now til later when more help is needed.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 16/04/2026
I'm sending prayers and good vibes.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 10/04/2026
I love it when they rain down on me...we have one in our backyard.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 10/03/2026
True.
"Never get jealous when you see your ex with someone else, because our parents taught us to give our used toys to the less fortunate?
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
To have the confidence to say "hey I gotta fart, is that OK?" Then lift up on one cheek and let it rip
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Beauty might fade, but unfortunately, stupid is forever
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
After a social event, even if I had alot of fun, I need a nap, and depending on how late the event went, it could be bedtime by the time we got home.... So, for example, we get home at 7, 8, 9pm, it's bedtime, and I usually don't get up til morning....
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
It's definitely brighter here even though it's nighttime. Off to bed soon. I hope you have a great day.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
If you get it all the way in there to the hilt.... Could you just please keep it in there for 30 seconds Slide out and slide back in & do it all over again
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
I totally agree Benjamin. Just pisses me off when they don't vote and then complain, I say "hey bits, if you don't vote, you don't have the right to complain"
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Don't bite the hand that fingers you....🙃😉🤪
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Have a great Morning Patrick, nice pictures by the way
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Morning both of you, have a great day 🤗
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
I hope you have a happy Monday as well Mark
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
When you finally get all of the seed from nectarine out of the garbage disposal unit 🤦🤷‍♂️ Why not throw it away as you are making a late night yummy snack???????
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Damn I forgot to share my picture of a cup of morning coffee, watching miriam margolyes give advice sitting on a public toilet lol on YouTube 😭
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
So dad has nurses coming in and they sometimes put the dishes away (we've said they didn't have to worry about that, Dwight and I will do it), but they just toss them in the drawers....lol
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
I was always brought up to follow how people put their dishes and silverware away. I know my super OCD takes over when I'm at home. People call me anal! A picture of how I put the silverware away.
This is a picture of our silverware drawer is like (got dishes in the dishwasher, so it's not as full) but you see how I have them.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
I always vote, either for yes or no, or for a candidate, no matter what.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Watched this the other night. No one really seem sorry about how things happened, which I didn't think they really would, they made tons of money, never really helped any of the would be models, it did help the people involved in making/creating it though.
Reality Check
Inside
America's Bext Top Model.
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
I have this friend that preaches that Dumpster supports are feeling the pain as well/plus buyers remorse but I will never forgive/have sympathy because they aren't out there saying they were conned, there's still too many afraid to come out into the light in say it...
A person standing at a crossroads (aka Trump supporters). 
One way is "admit you were conned 
The other is "support a pedo"
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Back in 2013 at work.
Me at work, 2013
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
I feel this more as I've gotten older, especially lately....
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 06/03/2026
Hi Lynn, You're welcome. Thank you, so far so good 😉
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 06/03/2026
Afternoon, hope you are having a great Friday 🤗
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 22/02/2026
I should mention, my anxiety is situational, it's not on 24/7, just a thing that will happen on the 23rd I wish I didn't have to go to but unfortunately I do need to be there!
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 22/02/2026
You know, it burns my biscuits to know the hubs is on a med that keep his mood level. As for me, I can't hide my anxiety as well as he can, unfortunately 🤬😠😭 and I'm on meds for anxiety as well...grrrrr Think I can get a bad cold before we leave tomorrow????
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 22/02/2026
I'd love this...also if it said "questions" instead of help lol
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 22/02/2026
Very nice
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Rian @rianm.bsky.social · 22/02/2026
And I wonder who that would be...👀
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