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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 5h

Silhouette on The Hill goes so hard

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

I love my husband he got me new Torani bottles bc I was running out of flavors 😭

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

Me: un-traumatizes myself to the song The Night We Met so I can actually enjoy lord Huron Someone I know: dies Instagram: do you wanna see every grief post w this song added to it?

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

Thinking about you just reminds me to feel joy more deeply. Idk how

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

Accidentally stayed up until 4am again it’s gonna be rough getting back into sleeping at 10 and waking up at 4

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

Bored my husband to sleep lmao (Not legitimately, it’s 2am and I was talking about how I’m gonna do a deep dive on circadian rhythms bc I don’t understand how we as a species evolved from two 4 hour sleep cycles per day to one 8 hour but it’s not fully synchronous (within the same time zone))

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

I’ve started seeing you in happy strangers. I hope you know your legacy is joy

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

Avoided grief mostly today. But I still see you in ordinary things

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Can’t wake up at 4am if you stay up until then am I right

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Part of me wants you to be grieving like I’m grieving. Because you’re the only person who knew him too. But I know you wouldn’t. I know grieving with you would bring me no comfort. I think I just want to know someone else misses him too. I wish I could say you don’t deserve to miss him.

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

I know you wouldn’t want me to be so sad but I also know you would want me to always feel everything I need to. We talked about how good it feels to cry. And you deserve to be missed so much

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

I want an eyebrow piercing, yet again

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Man I’m so not in the mood to do anything ever but I’m still forcing myself to

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

I hate just sitting in grief all day but I’ve been getting stuff done early and then just. Left with wanting to reach out to someone who quite literally doesn’t exist anymore

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

It’s so dumb but it’s helping to be doing business stuff and feel proud of my work bc the last message I have from him was reminding me to celebrate even the smallest of wins and I know he would’ve been wanting me to celebrate this

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Ugh. I haven’t wanted to get out of bed in a couple days :/

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

I am unfortunately wide awake thinking about how unfair death is

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

I wish we had talked more recently. I wish we had ever talked about death, so I’d know what to look for if you ever visited me. I wish I knew more of the music you liked. I wish I had reached out when I briefly saw your post and thought you’d be okay. I wish I wasn’t so full of wishes

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Man. I’m still just sad. In a way that it’s hard to be anything but distracted or sad

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Man. It does make me feel better remembering we connected again several times since we stopped living together but I’m still sad that we agreed to visit each other again eventually and won’t ever get the chance

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I think this is the closest person to me and my age in my life to die. Shit dude

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Man I’m sad as fuck. I always brushed off how briefly I knew him bc of the circumstances but he was such a genuinely kind person. The kind that reminds you people are still good

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Damn man I remember seeing a post from someone I knew and lived with saying he had cancer and I just found out he passed two months later

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Man. I’m just thinking about how crazy it is that my husband and I can save up thousands of dollars so fast. Like it shouldn’t be possible to go from (what I can only guess from bank statements was) $0 to $2k in less than a month. We work so hard

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Got told someone’s budget was $500-800, I said I want $1200, and they said yes 😁

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

I’m gonna start playing a little game w myself where I see how fast I can get from junior to senior year lmao (I’m exactly 30 credits away)

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

UGH. 6am again for no reason. I’ve gotten 5 hours of sleep 🫠

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Are people allergic to apologizing why did I wait nearly half an hour for my professor to never show up and when I emailed them about it I got “I just walked through the door. Here’s the link” over an HOUR after our meeting time

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Sleep, my beloved emotional support song <3

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

My love language is finding something someone loves that’s been discontinued and buying it for them and then not being ignored for two weeks during a health scare in return

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I love that I got our save the dates embossed with foil it makes it practically look like it’s glowing in low light

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

I’ve been feeling a lot better mentally today and yesterday so I guess taking time off work was what I needed lmao

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Drowning Lessons 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼 Eventually “Without a sound, and I wish you away” “Wish I could turn you back into a stranger”

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

I only have two chapters left of what I’ve been reading for the past 5 days what do I do after this

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Kinda glad I’m off work for a bit bc I’ve somehow hurt my non dominant wrist to the point I can’t put weight on it ??

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Ugh day 2 of naturally waking up at 4-5 am

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I feel. Like I’ve done smth wrong

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I feel like garbage again but I’m probably just tired

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Can’t stop thinking about the song Millions

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

I’ve been having appointments with this psychiatrist(?) mental health specialist idk(?) and she’s been so not pushy and so nice 😭

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

*feel free to ignore this its slightly nsfw* Man I’m reading a… fanfiction… and the writing is actually astoundingly good. Like book good. I’ve never read smth before that didn’t use weird euphemisms, was completely accurate (safe) in nsfw things, and also addresses harm/abuse without being cringy

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

My /husband’s/ best friend sent me a lil gift card and said feel better and mine still hasn’t even asked how I am

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Border Collie Husband @resonateart.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I’m v grateful to have a job where I can just tell my manager I’m not coming back after today (for a month)

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