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@reflectivegem.bsky.social
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•Beautifully Vintage. •Hella Proud. ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽 •Pretty Wise. •I’m the perfect verse over a tight beat & a magic not meant for everyone’s comprehension. •My posts = MY perspective. •I reside in my own little corner, keep the drama & chaos in yours.

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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 20h
Always, in ALL ways.
Protect your peace like it’s a priority because it is.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
TGIF.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
‼️‼️ because literally…
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
Aloe Vera face wash followed by aloe Vera gel for hydration and then I lock it in with Shea butter moisturizer
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Somebody’s mama 💎
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
Today’s affirmations courtesy of Too $hort ✨
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
“Xx bill needs to be paid” At what point are the bills going to start paying ME??!??!
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Reminders to lil gem that she is too.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Having a stuffy nose is so annoying because after awhile, what is left up there to blow?!?? Enough has got to be ENOUGH!
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
🙏🏽
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Show me. 🌸
“Universe, show me how good it gets”
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
I remember this dude slid in my DM’s trying to get my number, I simply asked , “Are you married?” He responded with “Kinda yes and kinda no.” 🤨
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
“But what if the VILLIAGE is—“ you know what, nvm.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
I—
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Back in the clouds..☁️
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
This is horrible. My condolences 💐
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
Accurate.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Let me tell you something… Those that know, know.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Audio - Silent Patient and Physical - Daughter of the Merciful Deep
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
I was correct.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
From my point of view, the sky is gonna fall soon…
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
“I have my own.”
Short excerpt from Toni Morrison’s BELOVED: “He licked his lips. ‘Well, if you want my opinion -‘
‘I don’t, 'She said. ’I have my own.”
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
🫂
Etreinte
(n.) a close, heartfelt embrace that goes beyond physical touch; an expression of comfort, love, longing, and unspoken understanding, the kind of hug that quiets the mind, eases the heart, and says everything words cannot.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Yeah, the synopsis made me buy it
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
I finished Die For Me, which was interesting and not at all what I expected a few days ago. Made me curious about her other books so maybe I’ll check those out. 🤷🏽‍♀️
Book cover of Die For Me by Shirlene Obuobi
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Trying to figure out my next read - do I want to go historical fiction, dark psych, or suspense? 🤔
Book cover of With Love From Harlem by ReShonda TateBook cover of Nemesis by Harper BlackBook cover of The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Today’s message to lil gem:
A lunchbox message on a blue sticky note that says, “Do your BEST and try your HARDEST. I’m proud of you! ~ Mama”
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
A mantra:
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
The number of promptstitutes growing every day is quite unfortunate. 😔
PROMPTSTITUTE

one who has fully surrendered their critical thinking to ChatGPT; asks the AI to write their thoughts, feelings, and occasionally their grocery lists.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
My head kinda stays in the clouds
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Know me 🤦🏽‍♀️
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Daily Bentobox reminders for lil gem
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
Reminder to self: You are HER, sis.
Gems standing in front of a mirror, hand on hip with a white crop top on and a multicolored boho skirt. Long twists in hair and big hoop earrings on.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
Nah.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Thoughts be running rampant on the late night…
Gems with a tan head wrap and pink top laying on a brown pillowcase
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Update: I just had my first 90 min session and it absolutely won’t be my last. After the first 5mins of being in the chamber and trying to relax - my body became immensely calm and I entered into a hyper meditative state. 10/10 - WOULD recommend.
Float deprivation therapy chamber
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Speaking of books, just started:
Andromeda book cover by E.S. McLeod
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Finished one of my reports before deadline today and collected all my reading book marks in the Goodreads Summer challenge when I finished Giovanni’s Room last night. I say again, if you gon’ talk to me today, make sure you talking NICE. 😌
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
Finally 40. 🎂
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Literally me.
“You’re so quiet”

Virgos: “Actually, you said something I didn’t like 10 minutes ago so you lost my personality privileges.”
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
♍️ Women…
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Always in all ways.
Protect your peace.
Create your happiness.
Cultivate your joy.
Curate your life.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
Keep moisturizing spray near the shower. Pat dry your skin and then simply spray
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
Reminder:
10 Things You'll Probably Never Know (But Should)

1. You're someone's favorite part of a day you barely remember.

2. Someone has repeated your advice long after you forgot giving it.

3. A stranger noticed you & smiled
- you just didn't notice that day.

4. Someone still remembers something kind you did years ago.

5. You've been the reason that someone didn't give up.

6. Someone defended you when you weren't in the room.

7. Someone became a little better because they knew you.

8. Someone has missed you without ever reaching out.

9. You've made someone feel less alone without even realizing it.

10. You've mattered in moments you didn't know were important.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
Reminder to those who need it:
“One of my favorite life lessons has been: Just because you have history with someone, does not mean the chemistry is there or will remain the same.

You don’t owe anyone loyalty or access because of the history or title you share. Loyalty and access should only be given to those who prove worthy of those things from you.”
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Happy Friday Eve 🤎
Gems sitting in her office with glasses on, long twists over one shoulder, ear buds in her ear wearing a brown top.
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
🙏🏽
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Gems @reflectivegem.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
🫶🏽
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