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Men feel entitled to women's trust because they're Nice Guys, because they've gone to therapy, because they have the correct political views, and it all feels to me as belonging to the same spectrum as rapists feeling entitled to sex

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 15h

Personally I don't want rapists to be better people, I want to know who they are so I can avoid them in all areas of life

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

sometimes he would just tune out and get factual stuff wrong. half his reviews are pure vibes

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I don't know, I found Decoy Dan the more compelling character. Her trajectory felt short and her motivations simple and transparent. She gets a call during the climax of the movie where they ask her again about jumping ship and she outright says, "I was considering it, but I changed my mind"

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BearhAHHH!!t @fussybabybit.ch · 28/09/2026

You catch that big video essay last night?

coworkers deviously luring you over to the water cooler

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

For oblique and cranky reasons I am adding to this the seeming sudden rise of the "breeding kink"

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Books I'm working on: -Get rich quick airport bestseller called How To Kill People -My technocratic pop economics manifesto Futurenomics -Collection of poems about living in America as a member of the Dutch diaspora

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

I always hate these things. I'm from the rust belt but they always give me northern California because I talk like a gay person!

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

What is there to consider? Her school of feminism has failed, as you say. Would you like us to repeat her mistakes, or are you just asking for unquestioning deference?

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 28/07/2026

(reflecting on my past behavior) ah, it must have been the demons again

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

Even if someone doesn't have a literal "clothes chair," they have a metaphorical one, somewhere in their life

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

does the trainer call them that

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 10/07/2026

spoken with maoist aforethought

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 03/07/2026

the banks did. they're all out

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 03/07/2026

The way people talk about Robert Eggers is so wildly dissonant with what I see on screen when I watch his movies that I think I must be doing something wrong

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 29/06/2026

"Why do lesbians hate bisexual women so much?" what a neutral, unbiased question. I'm sure it will elicit only productive dialogue

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 26/06/2026

the incel dialect is just how the younger generation talks

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

had to take a screenshot because the text of this chat is too long

Hi! Welcome to my alt text ☺️
This is like a special little zone where we can hang out and just chill!
Anyway, if you can't read the image, it's a screenshot of a comment I made on discord today (no you can't get an invite you silly billy! 😝)
If you're wondering what it says... well... let's just say, it goes a little something, like this:
"I think it's funny that people attach screenshots of text documents to bluesky posts, because the body of the post itself is much more limited. but then people will beg for an alt text caption to make the image readable as plain text, and the caption is not limited like the post body is. so why make it limited to begin with?"
That's basically it!
Thanks for coming and hanging out with me here... I had a really nice time with you. Maybe we could do this again sometime?

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 23/06/2026

Keep your ass off my shit.

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👁️🍄🪸 @bloomfilters.plus · 22/06/2026

"deconstructing gender roles" to most people means nothing about familial relations or heteronormativity or altering your sexed body or interventions in gendered labour anyway. it means wearing different clothes and posting it on instagram for marketing deals

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 16/06/2026

yeast cultures should make a low gurgling sound

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 02/06/2026

The previous comment just said he already does not hire storyboard artists. Should he be obligated to make work for every kind of artist?

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

Also, as a trans woman entering middle age, I find the tendency to criticize or mock reactionaries based on their (lack of) desirability a bit uncomfortable. it seems like a thread that leads to misogyny if you tug on it hard enough

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

The powerful ones like to flaunt their ability to have sex despite it, because their sexual ideal is rape

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 29/05/2026

I think maybe you should stop watching that stuff

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

blowing up the spot is historically progressive

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 21/05/2026

It's been a year, but I finally decided to step up to the plate! redblair.substack.com/p/the-labor-...

redblair.substack.com

The Labor of Love

Who's Feeling Lonely and What Do We Do About It?

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

I literally cannot believe that it's not

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

I just saw an AI video of Kim Jong Un hip hop dancing and I think this must have been what it was like to watch a cartoon in the 1940s where there's ragtime music playing and Bugs Bunny is doing a Peter Lorre impression

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 03/05/2026

I will never "support artists" of any kind

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

Rachel Bitecofer will deploy a tank battalion to suppress dissenters

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 28/04/2026

the would-be assassin is a Brianna Wu replyguy... the forces coalescing against Trump are going to replace his administration with a 100 year centrist liberal Zionist regime

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 09/04/2026

I think part of the contract of a shoes-off household is that you need to keep the floors reasonably clean. If I come over to hang out I don't want to go home with your last 3 meals and an entire cat stuck to my socks

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 27/03/2026

Alright, I think I'm comfortable placing her in the controlled opposition camp

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 24/03/2026

One half of the things she says and writes are useful (if not the most insightful) feminist critiques and I want to like her for that, but the other half feel like straight up controlled opposition

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 18/03/2026

I think we all suspected it, but the proof of just how vibes based our economy is still astounds

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

capitalism is, basically, a way of making clothes that necessitates nuclear bombs

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

The whole mythology of national security, nation building and being "greeted as liberators" is already saturated into our culture and doesn't need restating, instead they can just gesture to it with symbols that remind you of the 2000s

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

As a millennial I must also point out that this is essentially just a more farcical repackaging of Bush II War on Terror pop culture

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

We're going to make America Batman or halo again

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 05/03/2026

I've come to slowly realize that Futurenomics, my new book, if made well, could potentially be my Abundance, and it feels crazy.

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 03/03/2026

McDonald's should sell roasted cauliflower with parmesan

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redblair @redryder.bsky.social · 28/02/2026

I must dislike living in a bubble because this website is aimed squarely at 38 year old transsexual communists and I hate it

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