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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

“I sent you shitty poetry about my undying love for you. Your dad read it but good thing my name is gender neutral. PS sorry for the terrible poetry you had to sit through every day. Love Terry”

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“I sent you shitty poetry about my undying love for you. Your dad read it but good thing my name is gender neutral. PS sorry for the terrible poetry you had to sit through every day. Love Terry.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

“Write on Queeringthemap.com location a black trans woman needs her medication after hospitalized but she can't afford to pay $400 join me to donate at least $10 Cashapp $Bttconnection ”

Queering The Map
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after hospitalized but she can't afford to pay $400 join me to donate at least $10
Cashapp $Bttconnection

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

“you told me you still weren't ready to sleep with a woman but when you did you wanted it to be me”

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“you told me you still weren't ready to sleep with a woman but when you did you”wanted it to be me

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

"Oh no. She's cute." You're damn right I am. And now I'm also your girlfriend.

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

“looking in the mirror after my first post-op shower and finally loving myself”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

“Where I first kissed the woman who would become my first girlfriend before getting on a flight back to the States. I'm so glad she gave long-distance a chance, and I love that I'm able to be here with her now”

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“Where I first kissed the woman who would become my first girlfriend before getting on a flight back to the States. I'm so glad she gave long-distance a chance, and I love that I'm able to be here with her now”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

“First kiss with a girl in high school”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 28/06/2026

“My wife and I bought our first house together here with our 3 kitties. Although we are currently separated, it has been a good home and a welcoming community”

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My wife and I bought our first house together here with our 3 kitties.
Although we are currently separated, it has been a good home and a welcoming community

#queeringthemap

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“Our first apartment, with my first girlfriend after I moved from the States. I'm so excited to start a life here with her!” #queeringthemap

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Our first apartment, with my first girlfriend after I moved from the States. I'm so excited to start a life here with her!

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“Where I met the woman who would become my first girlfriend” #queeringthemap

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Where I met the woman who would become my first girlfriend

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“The best game of queer poker! Now my thesis is all over the place because of it” #queeringthemap

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The best game of queer poker! Now my thesis is all over the place because of it

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“where we decided it wasn't going to work. later i realized i could see your front door from the VIA rail line and now i make sure to sit on the other side of the aisle” #queeringthemap

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where we decided it wasn't going to work. later i realized i could see your front door from the VIA rail line and now i make sure to sit on the other side of the aisle

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“Moved into a triplex inhabited nearly entirely of amazing queer women who introduced me to my first queer mtl events. The building is fittingly called "the gay castle". #queeringthemap

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Moved into a triplex inhabited nearly entirely of amazing queer women who introduced me to my first queer mtl events. The building is fittingly called "the gay castle".

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“Walked them all the way out of the metro so we could have our first kiss in the dark. Got back on the train and realized you were already burrowed into me.” #queeringthemap

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Walked them all the way out of the metro so we could have our first kiss in the dark. Got back on the train and realized you were already burrowed into me.

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“I spent five years loving you from a distance and putting your happiness first so I could be in your life. Here, in your apartment we fell in love again and now we can be happy together.”

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I spent five years loving you from a distance and putting your happiness first so I could be in your life. Here, in your apartment we fell in love again and now we can be happy together.

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“We snuck in between classes and they serenaded me on the piano. That song still makes me think of them.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“We met on a dating app and you took great care of me when I first came to Montreal :)” #queeringthemap

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We met on a dating app and you took great care of me when I first came to Montreal :)

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“Got sucked on the third floor during lunch by a trans mtf, was awesome.” #queeringthemap

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“Got sucked on the third floor during lunch by a trans mtf, was awesome.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“I supervised you during a testo-shot as a friend. I'm both incredibly excited for you, and equally envious. I didn't want to understand why”

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“I supervised you during a testo-shot as a friend. I'm both incredibly excited for you, and equally envious. I didn't want to understand why.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 09/12/2025

“I got my first binder here for my birthday. I was so nervous, I just bought it and ran without trying it on. It was too big, but did the job well enough. I couldn't stop looking at myself in the mirror. You were so kind and I wish I could have thanked you more.”

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“I got my first binder here for my birthday. I was so nervous, I just bought it and ran without trying it on. It was too big, but did the job well enough. I couldn't stop looking at myself in the mirror. You were so kind and I wish I could have thanked you more.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

“Held her hand for the first time. HP +NJ”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

“She kissed me right here. I wanted her to kiss me all day I kept applying chapstick. Then she leaned in, and I got insecure and pulled away. So she got insecure and I had to tell her that I did want to kiss her. And she told me the same. And then I finally leaned in for the kiss”

Queering The Map
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“She kissed me right here. I wanted her to kiss me all day I kept applying chapstick. Then she leaned in, and I got insecure and pulled away. So she got insecure and I had to tell her that I did want to kiss her. And she told me the same. And then I finally leaned in for the kiss”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

“First timing living with out trans people, where I lived when I had my first boyfriend. I'm a whole dyke now!”

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“First timing living with out trans people, where I lived when I had my first boyfriend. I'm a whole dyke now!”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

“This is one of the appartments where we spent everyday together like we were joined at the bussy.”

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“This is one of the appartments where we spent everyday together like we were joined at the bussy.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

“I proposed to my GF after 3-4 months of dating. We are now 2 years in and still madly in love. Love u bebe ❤️

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“I proposed to my GF after 3-4 months of dating. We are now 2 years in and still madly in love. Love u bebe ❤️

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 01/07/2025

“in love with a boy <3 - some trans dude”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 01/07/2025

“I'm so happy I don't have a crush on you" she said.

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 08/06/2025

Queer Memory “married the most amazing woman and learned how to be happy“

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 08/06/2025

Queer Memory “I told you I loved you”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 08/06/2025

Queer Memory “came out to my favorite teachers here, they were wonderfully supportive”

Queering The Map
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“came out to my favorite teachers here, they were wonderfully supportive”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“Where at first, thought i met someone who is funny and interesting, but realised it was a person i would care a lot more than anything.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“Came out to my aunt here after she accompanied me to the pride parade (thinking the entire time we were there that | was straight). It was my first time coming out to extended family.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“First time we saw each other in a long time. We held hands. Finally I fell on the ice, and got a concussion.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“One day, when your depression lightened, you invited me to listen to you play violin on the mountain. It was so hard for you to express love through your depression, but I felt it powerfully that day”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“I came out to the 70 people on my private instagram story on bi visibility day (is it bi awareness day? idk)- some reactions were yuck, but most were great and that really helped me clean up some of my relationships.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“First same gender kiss that brought on giddy/butterfly feelings, followed by a plummeting feeling of fear as I realized I was bisexual”

Queering The Map
Image shows a pink map with a black pin drop on location with message that reads “First same gender kiss that brought on giddy/butterfly feelings, followed by a plummeting feeling of fear as I realized I was bisexual” #queeringthemap #pride

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“This is where we snuck into park to crush a couple tallboys and hold each other close.” #queeringthemap🌈

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“Where I first kissed my gf - worst kiss ever cause I was young gay and afraid. But three years later and we're still dating so I guess it wasn't as life-ruining as I thought.” #queeringthemap🌈

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“Where I first kissed my gf - worst kiss ever cause I was young gay and afraid.
But three years later and we're still dating so I guess it wasn't as life-ruining as I thought.

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“we went on our first date here without even knowing it was a date. we went back a few months after and this time we had already said i love you to each other” #queeringthemap

Queering The Map
Image shows a pink map with a black pin drop on location with message that reads “we went on our first date here without even knowing it was a date. we went back a few months after and this time we had already said i love you to each Other”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“You told me you were so into me and I believed you.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“Now the best of all my Tuesday nights! Thanks Tom and all the gang for those lovely hangouts at the sauna, being naked and chating in the steam. Long live Colonial!”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“I met my queer partner in Highschool and I've transitioned since then. Trans stuff is very hard here in rural NZ. l am lucky to have Him and all of my support network.”

Queering The Map
Image shows a pink map with a black pin drop on location with message that reads “I met my queer partner in High-school and I've transitioned since then. Trans stuff is very hard here in rural NZ. l am lucky to have Him and all of my support network.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“I was walking down this road with my best friend when we both let each other know we were bisexual, and I will always love her for being the first person I spoke it out loud to - however casual it all was.”

Queering The Map
Image shows a pink map with a black pin drop on location with message that reads “I was walking down this road with my best friend when we both let each other know we were bisexual, and I will always love her for being the first person I spoke it out loud to - however casual it all was.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

“I'm gay in Masterton. Come find me.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 05/06/2025

“we used to email back and forth, you from mactown, me from wherever I could walk. we decided then that if half the world couldn't keep us apart, nothing could. though I do wish you read fewer Crichton novels.”

Queering The Map
Image shows a pink and purple map with a black pin drop on location with message that reads “we used to email back and forth, you from mactown, me from wherever I could walk. we decided then that if half the world couldn't keep us apart, nothing could. though I do wish you read fewer Crichton novels.”

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 05/06/2025

“Gayest seal of the waters. Maybe one day us gay seals will get the love we deserve... Any gay seals in my area? ;)

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QUEERING THE MAP 🌈 @queeringthemap.bsky.social · 05/06/2025

“maybe we are alone after all, darling”

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