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All said and done, I’m doing great now. Living and learning. Doing better everyday. Trying to get back into old hobbies I abandoned for a while. Cleaning up the messes in the house she left behind. Getting rid of shit from my old life with her. It’s a process. A little bit at a time.

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Pretty fucked up that he misses the dude who wrecked the family. That’s the hardest part of all this these days. One day both my kids will learn exactly what happened. I have the receipts saved. I watched her like a hawk for three months and knew everything which she had no idea I knew.

I still exist because of them. I’m now dealing with my 6yo son telling me he misses the affair partner boyfriend every once in a while when he stays with me. He’s too young to understand that dude he tells me he misses is why his mom left me. My son was begging me not to un marry her.

I’ve spent that better part of the last year in therapy trying to salvage what little of my sanity I had left after suffering through last summer with her. Watching her continue to choose her affair partner (current boyfriend) over me and the kids. While the kids watched me fall apart daily.

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She was never wrong. Anything I brought up to make the relationship better for me was always met with resistance and the conversations ended with me apologizing instead of her being curious and trying to make things work better for me and us. The dominoes toward relationship collapse starts there.

I feel the most like myself for the first time in probably 7-8 years. I didn't realize I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. Well I had some inkling. My ex liked to remind me that I googled it once and she saw the search. lol. But did she question her actions? Of course not.

Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 29/04/2026

Im still alive and thriving. Who would have thought that shedding a 125 hag from my life would have been all I needed to finally enjoy life again. I divorced my cheating ex wife June 1 and have just been enjoying everything life has to offer.

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The last year has been fucking wild. I now feel the most the most whole I’ve ever felt in probably a decade now. I finally moved on and have been enjoying life like I’ve always wished I did in my twenties. I’ve learned so much about my self, life, love, relationships over the last year. Oof.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

I’m finally getting around to installing my Transformers CD Single collection into these cd single cases. I think I bought these like 4 years ago. Lol. I have spares if anyone needs some. I bought a ton in 1 lot. lol.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 09/01/2026

Man. I don’t even know where to begin. 2025 was beyond fucking awful. Looking forward to 2026 and having a fresh start on life albeit with baggage in tow. Making big life changes in your 40s is never fun but here we are. Im glad I was blessed with amazing friends. They came in clutch last year.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 07/12/2025

We’re set up. I’m a bit hung over. Lol.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

Waiting on the email from them.

Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 10/09/2025

Missing Link Magnus on display at Volks!

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 08/09/2025

I went to the Grand Chaos Mandarake in Osaka. It is actually very much in control and calmed.

Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 07/09/2025

I’m already smuggling Gundams over. Suitcase is full. Lol.

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lol. ALL THE THINGS WERE GONE

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Nope. I went to the Dallas one and on the last day. Lol. All the good stuff was gone.

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Also, I’m helping! Ecopla, here we come.

Still in hell but the only way out is through and the path is clear now.

Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 18/08/2025

42. Dead inside but still alive.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 08/08/2025

Can’t DM pics yet I guess. But here they are. Sealed.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 07/08/2025

I have both for sale. Lol.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

I’m just done collecting most things I think. I don’t find joy in it anymore. Most of what I’ve bought over the last 6 years has stayed sealed so that’s my biggest sign that I’m done.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 05/08/2025

I still function!! But FUUUUUUUUCCCCKKKKK doesn’t even describe the hell I’ve been through and continue to live through. But with that said, anyone looks for any MPs?? I’m looking to sell.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 09/06/2025

Fuck. Absolutely what the fucking fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

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So I’ve been away from hobbying for a bit. Haven’t been hunting either. I did just order this on its own. It’ll be in my next shipment.

He plans to return to my store for more this weekend. Lol.

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This dude put 26 of my things in his cart. Lol. I had to put my store to away so I could just deal with him. Lol. Had to figure out shipping. Offer a little discount. But 8 hours later, I’m 26 figures lighter. Bought almost all of the 86 figures I listed. So wild.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

I decided to start downsizing more of my hoard. I have so much sealed stuff from the last 6 year that I haven’t opened and I really need to stop it. I listed like 50 modern TFs like SS86, wfc, etc today on eBay. Within seconds of start on ss86, I had a dude flooding me with messages.

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Have you seen the original box it first released with?

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

Switch 2 preorder war tonight right?? I’m ready just in case.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 13/04/2025

Starting a Build Fighters watch through with my 10 year old.

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Puma @pumathehero.bsky.social · 12/03/2025

Still trying to make it through Macross 7. Episode 13 now. Veffidas Feaze is my favorite Fire Bomber. She nails the drummer vibes 100%. I love it.