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It's not you. I talk this much to everyone. Psychologist. Soprano. Shutterbug. She/Her 🍉

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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 19h
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
LOL. Just canceled Adobe Suite. I hate to be this excited about an AI thing, but they had it coming. Those jerk faces. They are no more immune to greed than any of us.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
At the eyeglass store. Just had my yearly exam. Trying to convince them to order me just one lens, since the new prescription makes a huge difference in my right eye but not my left.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
I just got that, too! I’m not a vegetarian, but I’ve never liked steak. Not in my whole entire life.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Sure. But now I’ve muted his name, so hopefully things will improve.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Let us not forget that square dancing is a tool of White Supremacy. It all started because Henry Ford hated Jazz. qz.com/1153516/amer...
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America’s wholesome square dancing tradition is a tool of white supremacy
If you live in the United States, chances are high that, growing up, you had to take square dancing in gym class
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
This post reminds me that I need to check and see if it's possible to mute keywords here. There's a certain narcissistic Scientologist who I'd prefer to never hear about again.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
I feel like the #GBBO doesn't really understand the American drop cookie. We don't decorate them.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
I love yoga, but the bum wrist thing always cuts things short, even with lots of modifications.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
It’s such a bummer. I really really liked them.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
OK privileged tantrum over.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Guess I'll just let the top half of my body atrophy. No big whoop. I know. I know. I'm being overly dramatic, but let me be a little annoyed. It'll get it out of my system. Pilates was the gateway to me getting stronger, and it lead to me feeling safer doing other harder things.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Considered going back to Pilates reformer classes. It's the one form of exercise I really enjoyed that didn't hurt my bum wrists. When I stopped going to classes just before the pandemic, classes were $30, less if you bought a 10-pack. Now classes are $45 each. FORTY FIVE YOO ESS DOLLARS EACH!
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
I had dismissed it as too expensive, but then I got sucked into their social media and decided we had to find a way to make it work!
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
It was! One of the best parts of the trip. Just pulled up the bank statement. I recall that we ordered REALLY carefully, and it was just under $200. No desserts, and we shared one app. One cocktail each. It’s pricey, but it was worth the Sainsbury microwave lasagna we ate during some other dinners!
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Here’s my view from that counter seat. A student who worked in the College of Design happened to have a brother who was working at Fallow, and he learned my husband was going to be in London, and he recommended we go. It was our bug splurge meal, and it was so worth it.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
And yes, the potatoes were insane. The way they get them super crunchy and textured is next level. We got to seat at the counter that looks into the kitchen.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
It was a Sunday, and we both got the Sunday roast. Mine was vegetarian (I’m not vegetarian, but the mushroom seemed interesting). Read the alt text.
Potatoes, red cabbage, sprouts. His int he background. Mushroom mousse/pate and toast. Yorkshire pudding and cool mushrooms they grew in the basement.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
We went to Fallow when we were in London, and it was exceptional!
My photo of the London restaurant Fallow.
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Allison Gill @muellershewrote.com · 27/09/2026
Punxsutawney Jill is sticking her head out a little early this cycle.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Sure. I feel like it make sense at the beach, but there’s this new “neighborhood” that plopped down near me a few years ago, and people who have actual cars seem to use their golf carts to drive short distances instead of their cars. But why?!
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
😂
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Why do rich people like golf carts so much?
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I’ve been a massive Nigella Lawson stan since the late 90s, so I’m pretty psyched for this season of the Bake-off. Watching the first episode now. I’m remembering how much I enjoy listening to her speak. Such a way with words!
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Happy Fall, Fuckheads! www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/its...
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It’s Decorative Gourd Season, Motherfuckers
For the seventeenth year: Welcome to autumn, fuckheads.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I'm so glad Phantogram are still touring. They still look and sound great. I particularly liked their cover of Cold War Kids' Hang Me Up to Dry.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Jack White is a god damned rock start. I'd seen White Stripes and Raconteurs but never his solo shows. Man is such a fine musician and showman. He has so much fun. He loves his job. Perfect guy to close out the festival.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Angine de Poitrine has been in my ears constantly for the last several months. They were as weird and wonderful and precise as a band gets. Lots of the kids were dressed like them - polka dot city. But I'm not sure that many people had been listening to them like I had been. I was in heaven.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I have been wanting to see LCD for years, and god damn, it was so great – exactly the energy and power I was hoping for. People talk about how innovative James Murphy is, but his voice is truly exceptional. The whole crowd of them has such perfect synergy. One of the best sets I've ever seen.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
I'm a massive Geese fan, but they seemed cranky last night. I've seen them b4, and this wasn't nearly as good. Cameron's voice sounded great, they all played well, but it seemed like they were playing way too fast through songs they knew the crowd were waiting for. Are they bored of their own stuff?
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Went to the Iron Blossom Festival in Richmond this weekend. Saw Phantogram, LCD Soundsystem, Geese, Angine de Poitrine, and Jack White. Really exceptional lineup. Mini reviews coming up.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
😂 So lovely to see you yesterday! We loved Richmond and will be looking for reasons to return.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
It me.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Phantogram covering Hang Me Up To Dry by Cold War Kids. So good! #ironblossommusicfestival
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Jon Cooper @joncooper-us.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
I’m so sick of people saying they are on the side of peace. It’s such a naive take. Of course we all want peace. This take is only made by people of great privilege who haven’t met or listened to people who are not.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
(I just called you a hippie!)
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Animated Bear Dancing on Colorful Background
ALT: Animated Bear Dancing on Colorful Background
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
That tracks! 😃
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Last year I started using US Mobile. I prepaid for one-year for both our phones. It was $390. Now I’ve gotten back $140 in rewards for referrals. So I’m sharing a referral link again. If you switch your number over we'll both get $30. Here's a link. www.usmobile.com/referrals?re...
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
What are you going to see?
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
I’m really tired because I saw a bunch of bands at Hopscotch Music Festival last weekend here in Raleigh. I also have a cold, but damnit! I’m powering through!
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
This weekend, I'm going to see Geese and Angine de Poitrine and LCD Soundsystem and Phantogram, and I'm really really fucking excited about it! richmond.com/life-enterta...
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Jack White, LCD Soundsystem lead a bolder Iron Blossom lineup
Iron Blossom sounds different this year. Jack White, LCD Soundsystem and an eclectic undercard are pushing Richmond’s festival into grittier, broader territory.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Miles from Nowhere by Cat Stevens rules. I love when I come across a really really old song I love that I've forgotten about.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
The way every single opener INCLUDING HIS BACKING BAND have exited the Ed Sheeran tour is so damn satisfying. Sheeran claimed he doesn't like to be political, but he supports BLM and Ukraine. I'm so sick of these Zionists pretending they are neutral & talking about "conflict" in the Middle East.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Nash Hall on the way home is a frequent approach I've taken over the last several years.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Perfect. I’m in the middle of his audiobook.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Death to all leaf blowers.
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
I’m so psyched for Richmond!!
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Barney Panofsky's Best Intentions @mynamesnotgordy.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Area man promises free pony and bouncy castle pizza party to anyone who says they like him.
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Trump offers $5,000 US to every American if Republicans win midterm elections | CBC News
President Donald Trump said on Wednesday he would pay every American adult a $5,000 US "Trump dividend" if Republicans retain control of Congress in November's midterm election, an extraordinary attem...
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Abby @proactivebusybody.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Plus I need to save energy for next weekend in Richmond, which is going to be SO GREAT!
Iron Blossom festival lineup. Includes Jack White, LCD Soundsystem, Phantogram, Angine  de Poitrine, and Geese! ,
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