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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺

@positivelad.me
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If you say I'm too much, baby go find less. HIV & Sexual Health Expert. Here for your questions, not for your shit.

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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 09/10/2026
Five hours (and three coffees) of Wordpress later...
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 08/10/2026
Thinking of getting a new rear window sticker for my car…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 01/10/2026
I might have gone out for a pint or two after… home for Chinese delivery food!
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 01/10/2026
Meet my two new bum-buddies, Vocabria (cabotegravir) and Rekambis (rilpivirine). Thirty minute consultation for my first session, two jabs that didn’t hurt. All done.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 24/09/2026
Ok, well, I guess I’ll just piss on the floor?
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 19/09/2026
Before and after. Less than a week, but several blisters and much swearing, later…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 15/09/2026
Also today, Spain withdrew from the world and began trading with itself.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 12/09/2026
No. Nope. Not now. I can’t deal with The Troubles Revisited on top of the war in the Middle East, the genocide in Gaza, the cost of living crisis, and… well… *gestures wildly at fucking everything*
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 11/09/2026
Dear MAGA...
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 27/08/2026
I’ve never been one for sport, but this kind of racing I can get behind. Are you #TeamSushi or #TeamWine?
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 25/08/2026
Colin from Clacton says he wish that there’d been more fuss, that his wife had booked those Vera Lynn themed strippers. Squish squish 😭
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 20/08/2026
A kingsize bed please. - for one? Well, sort of…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 13/08/2026
What a week, eh?
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 13/08/2026
I know it's not an official met office station, but our local one up in N22 has been showing 41c this afternoon. HELP.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 13/08/2026
Well, I guess I'm going to just die then. RIP me.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 11/08/2026
Persistent beggars.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 11/08/2026
Hope everyone is having a rock and roll Tuesday evening. I’m in bed, with wine, reading the prescribing guide for the new HIV treatment I start soon. That’s the kind of rockstar lifestyle you can expect in your forties.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 11/08/2026
Yes, I’m cooking chicken. No, you can’t have any. 🦊
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 09/08/2026
Don’t make me go back to gainful employment tomorrow. Please. I beg of you.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 07/08/2026
My libido in this heat…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 06/08/2026
Having a lovely bottle of Nyetinber at Tower 42, with my cruise wife Alice, before going to a Princess Cruises event this evening.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 06/08/2026
Well, that tastes like a coldsore.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 04/08/2026
Je suis Tamsin.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 04/08/2026
Repeat after me: I am a hornbag.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 31/07/2026
Now, that’s a good way to end Friday. Fresh seafood in the sunshine. ☀️
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 24/07/2026
That’s quite enough of this week, thank you. 🍷 🏊
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 23/07/2026
I ate too many hot wings… 🥵
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 23/07/2026
I wouldn’t want to live under the flight path… 💩
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 22/07/2026
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 22/07/2026
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 22/07/2026
Gays and theys! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ I host LBGTQ+ socials & mixers in Bowes Park & Bounds Green (North London) every other month They're held in a lovely community-owned, super queer-friendly, pub 🍺🍷 Love to see some of you there on Sat 5th Sept! Feel free to DM me 📨 More here: www.facebook.com/events/20142...
A decorative image of Bounds Green Tube Station, overlaid with a transparent pride flag, and a circular logo for the Bowes & Bounds LGBTQ+ group.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 15/07/2026
Hydration break… #ENGvARG
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 15/07/2026
Me trying to attract attention at the gay sauna…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 13/07/2026
Fun for all the family…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 12/07/2026
Just a bit of light t̶r̶e̶a̶s̶o̶n̶ gardening…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 06/07/2026
That’s enough Monday
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 01/07/2026
POV: You're the browser tab I just opened and immediately forgot why
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 30/06/2026
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 30/06/2026
I've got something I'd like to talk about...
A three panel meme. 

Panel one shows Sabrina Carpenter talking to (a stand in for) Madonna. saying "Madonna, I've got something I want to talk about".

Panel two shows Madonna talking to (a stand in for) Sabrina saying "Sabrina, I've got something I want to talk about".

Panel three shows Goldie Hawn, as Helen Sharp from the film Death Becomes Her, saying "I would like to talk about Madeline Ashton".
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 28/06/2026
Our bedroom is so cold, I might die of frostbite, but I am here for it.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 25/06/2026
Every conversation in the UK right now…
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 23/06/2026
Poppers? In this climate?
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 15/06/2026
By Grabthar's Hammer, what a savings...
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 09/06/2026
🚨 BOUNDS GREEN, BOWES PARK, ALEXANDRA PALACE AREA 🚨 Immigration enforcement officers spotted walking in large groups down Bounds Green Road. Stay safe everyone. Please share.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 03/06/2026
Live footage of me driving @jimmyavenger.me to work each morning during the #tubestrikes.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 02/06/2026
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 01/06/2026
Had such a blast at #MightyHoopla yesterday 🤩
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 31/05/2026
Just amazing.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 31/05/2026
Jane McDonald at #MightyHoopla may have been the best live performance I’ve ever seen. She was incredible.
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Tom [PositiveLad] 🏳️‍🌈 🇪🇺 @positivelad.me · 31/05/2026
OH MY ACTUAL JANE
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