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Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

It wasn't her first experience with the condition, but the timing left her unsure about her future on the show. Instead of stepping back, Weedman leaned in — collaborating with the team to write her condition into the script. Her choice turned a personal challenge into a powerful part of the story.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

While filming Netflix's hit dark comedy "Sirens," actress Lauren Weedman was suddenly hit with a Bell's palsy flare, which caused temporary paralysis on one side of her face.

The Validation of Netflix's "Sirens" Spotlighting This Rare but Real Facial Condition

Netflix's "Sirens" features an actor with Bell's palsy.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

"If a woman chooses to be a tradwife, that's a choice," sex therapist Ty David Lerman, PhD, tells PS. "That's still feminism. Feminism would also say it's a man's choice how he wants to show up and live his life, whether he's the breadwinner, the housekeeper, or the stay-at-home dad."

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

Traditional masculinity often discourages vulnerability, and cooking for someone — especially a loved one — can feel deeply vulnerable. In many cultures, home cooking is still seen as women's work: essential, yet undervalued and unfairly seen as simple or unimportant.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

But a new trend is also on the rise on social media: boyfriend chefs. Men in straight relationships are sharing their home-cooking routines — and while men have always cooked, it's rarely shown in media.

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Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

Tradwives have rebranded the housewife for today, sparking fears of a backlash against women's progress. Their nostalgic, picture-perfect domesticity appeals not only to young women but also to far-right men — making the trend as troubling as it is visually charming.

Tired of Tradwives? Get a Boyfriend Chef

The "tradwife" trend aims to get Gen Z women cooking for their husbands. Boyfriend chefs who cook for their girlfriends are challenging gender norms.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

But here's the key: beauty is whatever you make it. Swift's style proves that sticking to what works for you will always be in style. No need to chase every trend.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

Swift's capsule-wardrobe approach to beauty was ahead of its time — a go-to haircut, hair color, or makeup look takes the guesswork out of getting ready. Effortless and polished every time.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

In a world obsessed with micro trends, Taylor Swift's look has barely changed in nearly 20 years, despite her access to just about every stylist on earth. Dirty-blond hair, classic red lips, winged eyeliner, and neutral nails — simple, timeless, and totally achievable at home.

The Mystery and Allure of Taylor Swift's "Basic" Beauty Aesthetic

Taylor Swift is beloved for her songwriting abilities, but part of the allure is her extremely relatable beauty aesthetic. A psychologist explains why.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 30/05/2025

"You may experience increased horniness and seek out sexual activity as a way to cope with the unpleasantness of your hangover or just as a way to enhance your mood."

Why You're Horny When Hungover

Two experts explain why you may be horny when hungover, and also the best sex tips for having hangover sex.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

But Beyoncé, Kendrick Lamar, and their respective fans are inspiring her to view the American flag, and Americana fashion, in a new light.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

"I can’t recall the exact moment when our country’s symbol began to feel exclusionary to people like me: Black folks or anyone who doesn’t fit that white, male, heterosexual, cisgender archetype," writes PS shopping director Jessica Andrews. "Maybe it always felt that way."

I Thought the American Flag Excluded Me — Then Came Beyoncé

PS Shopping director Jessica Andrews explores the significance of reclaiming the American flag for her concert outfit at Beyoncé's "Cowboy Carter" tour.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

For Emma and her partner, that means honoring the first time they cooked a meal together. They call it "co-soup day" and celebrated their first one this March. Throw those anniversary conventions out the window . . . celebrate what feels special to you.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

For the dating-app generation, the classic rom-com meet-cute and linear relationship timeline are pretty much outdated. So why not embrace "arbitrary-versaries"? Meaningful, personal milestones worth celebrating, even if they don't follow tradition.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

PS editor Emma Glassman-Hughes (@fried___egh) and her boyfriend weren't sure which day to call their anniversary. Like many zillennials, they met on a dating app, they're nonmonogamous, and there was no single moment when they became "official."

Why the Dating-App Generation Should Embrace the "Arbitrary-versary"

Gen Z hardly knows the rom-com-style meet-cutes and relationship timelines of the '90s. Instead, they can mark milestones with "arbitrary-versaries."

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

Now, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists and the CDC are urging doctors to take IUD pain seriously — and offer women real, better options for relief. It's a long-overdue shift, but a hopeful one.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

"Getting my IUD inserted hurt worse than my C-section did," says Caitlin Kavanaugh, a mother to twins. "Having not gone through labor, I had no idea what cervical dilation felt like. I remember feeling like I had to dissociate from my body to make it through."

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 29/05/2025

For too long, women's pain during IUD insertion has been dismissed. But that's finally starting to change.

Finally, IUD Pain Is Being Taken Seriously

The ACOG updated its guidelines for IUD pain management. What took so long?

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 28/05/2025

"Divorce coaching is designed to help you hold on to yourself as you walk through the many steps of breaking and remaking."

Could a Divorce Coach Make Your Separation Smoother?

Divorce coach Andrea Hipps explains what to know about the profession, including what a divorce coach is and what they can help divorcees with.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 28/05/2025

No tropes. No trauma as the main plot. Just soft, sweet, messy, honest Black love in all its fullness. "Forever" isn't just a show; it's a cultural reset.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 28/05/2025

The awkwardness, the sweetness, the messiness, the softness . . . it's all there. And when harm does occur, characters are shown as whole human beings, not reduced to tropes or stereotypes.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 28/05/2025

Reimagined by "Girlfriends" creator Mara Brock Akil, "Forever" follows two Black teens in Los Angeles as they explore love, friendships, and growing up. The series provides what's been missing on television: Black love in its fullness.

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Popsugar @popsugar.com · 28/05/2025

Black love rarely gets the screen time it deserves — and when it does, it's often rooted in trauma. That's why Netflix's fresh take on Judy Blume's novel "Forever . . ." has people buzzing.

Netflix's "Forever" Captures the Sweetness of First Love

Have you binged the Judy Blume adaptation yet?

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 27/05/2025

"My hoe phase helped me realize exactly what I want in a partner, and I have a strong sense of my nonnegotiables and expectations on how I deserve to be treated."

In Defense of My Hoe Phase

One PS contributor shares why she's grateful for her hoe phase, and how having a hoe phase helped her feel more confident in serious relationships.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 27/05/2025

The difference between swinging and soft swinging? Swinging involves full-on sex with other people, while soft swinging includes everything but penetration. However, soft swinging looks different for every couple, so be sure to set clear boundaries based on individual comfort before getting started.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 27/05/2025

"Soft swinging often involves kissing, touching, and other forms of intimacy, and it's a way for couples to explore their boundaries and interests in nonmonogamy without 'going all the way,'" relationship therapist Nicole Moore tells PS.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 27/05/2025

If "soft swinging" is taking over your TikTok, you can thank "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" star Taylor Frankie Paul. Back in 2022, she rocked the internet by revealing that she and some of her fellow MomTok couples were into "soft-swap swinging" — and the drama hasn't stopped since.

Wait, What Is a "Soft Swap," Exactly?

Soft swap or soft swinging is at the center of the Taylor Frankie Paul TikTok drama and Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Here's what it means, per an expert.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 26/05/2025

Loneliness among men is a serious issue. But this viral moment proves that even something as simple as a goodnight call can be a lifeline. Call it a prank, call it a trend — either way, it's connection. And that matters.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 26/05/2025

In a world where men's vulnerability is often brushed off or hidden, this trend is sparking joy. Social media is loving it — not just because it's sweet, but because it shows something we rarely see: men showing affection, without shame.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 26/05/2025

Men are now calling their friends just to say goodnight — and while it may have started as a TikTok prank, it's turned into something surprisingly powerful.

Is This TikTok Prank a Secret Cure For Men's Loneliness?

Men are calling their friends to tell them goodnight as a TikTok trend, and many people think this viral prank could cure the male loneliness epidemic.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 23/05/2025

"I went into my treatment doubtful, but feel that the treatment helped me leverage it into personal growth. I can say unequivocally that ketamine helped me heal my worst-ever heartbreak, and I can always go back for intermittent "booster" infusions if needed."

I Did Ketamine Therapy to Heal My Heartbreak — and It Worked

Can ketamine therapy help heal heartbreak by way of regular IV infusions? One writer puts the theory to the test.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 23/05/2025

Because true progress doesn't just cheer success — it protects the people who make it possible.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 23/05/2025

This isn't just about sports. It's about the toll of being asked to perform and inspire — all while navigating a world that questions your worth. Supporting these athletes means more than buying tickets. It means standing behind them when they set boundaries and prioritize their mental health.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 23/05/2025

Yes, this surge in visibility is a victory — for gender equity, pay parity, and cultural recognition. But with every sold-out game comes new pressure. More eyes, more expectations, more scrutiny. And with that? More hate. More threats. More emotional strain.

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Popsugar @popsugar.com · 23/05/2025

The WNBA season is back — and shining brighter than ever. Packed arenas, A-list front rows, record-breaking endorsements. Women's basketball is finally getting the spotlight it deserves. But behind the celebration is a deeper story: the mental health of the athletes powering this movement

WNBA Players Deserve Better From Their Fans

Alongside record-breaking endorsements and sold-out arenas, female athletes are also facing increasing threats to their safety.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 22/05/2025

PS contributor CeCe Olisa didn't intend to overdose on Ozempic. But after her doctor gave her a sample to try, she miscalculated the instructions — and ended up accidentally taking eight times the recommended starting dose. The next seven days were the worst of her life.

I Overdosed on Ozempic — Here's What to Learn From My Mistake

Can you overdose on Ozempic? This writer did.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 22/05/2025

If you drained your savings or went into debt for The Eras Tour, you're not alone. Concert ticket prices have skyrocketed, with fees and markups pushing fans to the limit. But here's the twist: some die-hards don't mind paying any price to see their favorite musicians — if they can even get a ticket

Concert Ticket Prices Are Exorbitant, but These Fans Don't Care

Amid service fees and resale pricing, concert ticket prices are reaching a breaking point. Many fans, however, are willing to make it work no matter what.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 21/05/2025

Less stress. Less money. More time with the people you actually care about. Micro weddings are having a moment — and it's no surprise. For brides who want their day to feel meaningful (not performative), the smaller ceremony trend checks all the boxes. Intentional > extravagant. Always.

More Intimacy, Less Stress: Why Micro Weddings Are Taking Over in 2025

What is a micro wedding, exactly? PS spoke to wedding planners specializing in micro weddings to learn what they are and how to plan one.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 21/05/2025

So, remember . . . every new blue liquid liner, shadow palette, or pressed glitter that comes across our Explore pages isn’t just a trend — it’s a legacy. Marginalized communities paved the way for today’s looks, turning visibility into a statement long before it hit your feed.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 21/05/2025

"Blue eyeshadow has such a history in [the sex work] realm, going back even to the Victorian era," makeup artist Annie Johnson tells PS. "It's extreme femininity and all about representing who you are."

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 21/05/2025

Long before the "clean girl" aesthetic took over TikTok, natural beauty was already a status symbol. In the 1800s, wealthy Victorian women rejected makeup to distance themselves from "painted ladies" — a term for sex workers. Blemish-free skin signaled a "good girl," while makeup meant promiscuity.

The Blue Eyeshadow Trend Through the Lens of Sex Workers, Drag, and Queer History

From sex workers to the silver screen and drag queens, blue eyeshadow boasts a storied past. Here, experts trace the origins of the trend.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 20/05/2025

"Believing that you've found your person when you're 17 is one thing, but actually staying in that relationship for the long haul? Doesn't always work out that way. In fact, sometimes it shouldn't."

A Case For Not Bringing Your High School Sweetheart to College

Relationship experts share reasons you shouldn’t continue a high school relationship into college, and how to decide for yourself.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 20/05/2025

For Esmaeili, sharing her breast cancer journey is more than just an outlet — it's a lifeline to a network of people going through the same battle. It connects her to a powerful community and allows her to support others who are fighting the same battle, letting them know they're not alone.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 20/05/2025

While sharing her story online has been largely positive, she hasn't been immune to internet trolls. "Every so often I'll have someone say something stupid like, 'Chemo will kill you. Just eat kale,'" she says. "And I just block them."

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Popsugar @popsugar.com · 20/05/2025

When Leila Esmaeili was diagnosed with triple-negative breast cancer at age 30, she decided to share her journey on social media. The shock of the diagnosis motivated her, but as a medical provider, she also felt uniquely equipped to discuss her experience in ways others might not

She Shared Her Breast Cancer Journey With Millions — Here's What She Learned

Here's what it's really like to share your breast cancer journey online.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 19/05/2025

"The W [WNBA] is where it's at, and I'll keep supporting the league with my dollars. This makes every trip, ticket, jersey, and order of stadium nachos 100 percent worth it. You can't put a price on that level of authenticity and representation the W offers!"

The $15,360 Cost of Being a WNBA Superfan

The season begins today.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 19/05/2025

And on high-anxiety days, when even that feels like too much, she skips the coffee altogether. For her, it's not goodbye forever to coffee — it's just see you later.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 19/05/2025

Alongside working with a doctor and starting anxiety medication, she began tuning in to how her body responds to caffeine. She found that more than two cups can trigger her symptoms, so she now brews a mix of half regular, half decaf — just enough to stay alert without the jitters.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 19/05/2025

"Have you tried cutting back on coffee?" is something PS contributor Mercey Livingston hears almost every time she mentions her anxiety — and her love for coffee. And while caffeine can ramp up anxiety, Mercey isn't ready to give up her favorite ritual.

I Have Anxiety, but I Refuse to Quit Coffee — Here's How I Make It Work

The doctors have spoken: caffeine and anxiety don't mix.

Popsugar @popsugar.com · 16/05/2025

The experience reshaped her approach to wellness, and she's prioritizing self-care and her family more than ever. "It's really nice that I can finally feel like not such a huge people pleaser with things," she says. "That to me is my self-care."