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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 25/04/2026

My birthday and 4/20 last week were both days of joy with my wife ❤️ while I still identify as a #relationshipanarnchist I’ll tell you what, having someone show up for you in a major way might insert unexpected #hierarchy into your #polyamory , ngl.🫶 the incredible @dysfunctionista.bsky.social ❤️❤️❤️

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 14/06/2025

So excited for this #PrideRead that just showed up today 🥰❤️ Don’t Drag This Out by @mishiiarts.bsky.social

The book, “Don’t Drag This Out” by Emery Lee, resting on multicolored fabric

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 19/04/2025

35 seems pretty great so far, ngl ❤️

Two people stand in front of a metal sculpture (Sky Landing by Yoko Ono)

A person grins while pressing their nose into a cherry blossom

A person poses next to a sign that reads: “The Understudy
LETS GO LESBIANS”

Three people smile at an outdoor picnic table

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 29/03/2025

@dysfunctionista.bsky.social and I (and unpictured spouse) off to celebrate a friend’s birthday 😘

Two femme presenting people (my wife and I) smiling outdoors

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 28/03/2025

Want some #polyamorous #transreadathon recommendations? I gotchu! 🫶 check out these reads 👀👀👀

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

Surprising nobody who knows my audhd and cptsd status 😅

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 17/02/2025

Not Heavenly Tyrant shouting out a fave of mine 😍 I’ve been diving into Polish history thanks to living in a Polish heavy area and my very Polish last name, so a shout out to Rosa Luxemburg makes me EVEN more hype 😍😍😍

The dedication page of the book Heavenly Tyrant by Xiran Jay Zhao, which reads:
“To Qiu Jin, Rosa Luxemburg, Thomas Sankara, Salvador Allende, and others who came before. Along with those who will come after.”

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 02/02/2025

Wasn’t expecting a pretty art book this morning but my kickstarter pledge for @gdbee.bsky.social came and I am so happy to have physical copies of this art ahhhh so gorgeous 🤩🤩🤩

Book cover with the words “Dreams” above an illustration of a girl holding a wand in the rain above smaller text that reads “The Art of Geneva Bowers”

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 27/01/2025

Honestly? Yeah, Hybrid Theory WOULD be Mountain Dew yellow on vinyl. That is the appropriate color for Linkin Park.

A screenshot of a listing for a vinyl edition of Hybrid Theory by Linkin Park that is translucent yellow

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 08/01/2025

I haven’t decided if I like the rep or not (Nathan Hill loves writing thick tomes), but, hey, #nonmonogamy rep alert!

Cover of the book Wellness by Nathan Hill

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 07/12/2024

Ope, posted first as a new post but I am seriously obsessed 😍😍😍

A bug person holding a septre with the text “Aries Sun” above the artist’s name, Yoshi Yoshitani

Two people in femme clothing with the text “Capricorn Rising” above the artist’s name, Yoshi Yoshitani

A merperson wrapped around a sculpted head with the text “Capricorn Moon” above the artist’s name, Yoshi Yoshitani

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 24/11/2024

For #Polyamory Day yesterday, my nesting hinge all started our holiday season right 😘😘❤️ thanks for the excellent evening, @dysfunctionista.bsky.social and @transscadutree.bsky.social

Three people standing in front of a marquee reading “STARKID PRESENTS VHS CHRISTMAS CAROLS”

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 03/11/2024

Pet baby picture? My pleasure ❤️❤️❤️ My first picture with Nova was of her licking my face when we stopped for gas on the way home after picking her up. And both pups were pretty small when Bo joined our family ❤️❤️❤️

A picture of two people with a dog sitting on each of their laps.

This was the family picture the rescue took when Bo came home to us ❤️

A dog licking the face of a person.

This is the first picture we took after picking up our baby girl, Nova, from her rescue ❤️

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 31/10/2024

Celebrating giving up on finding coffee and just meeting @dysfunctionista.bsky.social in a park by getting a Michelin star restaurant brunch because we might be bad at plans but we’re excellent at waiting in line for A+ experiences and crafting the perfect bite 😜🫶

Two people standing against a black brick wall

A plate with a macaroon, a tart, and a croissant and a knife

A bowl full of food worth two forks filled with a perfect bite each

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

This could be a massive mistake 🤣👀

A hand holding a bottle of 7-11 branded electrolyte hydration beverage that is caramel apple flavored

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 08/10/2024

Spouse and I almost had the theatre to ourselves for our anniversary matinee but then someone sitting in the middle walked in during trailers 😤🫶 so close

Two people with glasses, one smiling, the other sticking their tongue out

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 08/10/2024

Never say the burbs don’t have culture 😤🤣

Photo of a building with “Niles Polish Deli” on the front

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 23/09/2024

Today was a really beautiful day. Went for a meander in my old neighborhood, got all you can eat hot pot with my people 🫶 got ice cream with my spouse, then fixed my bed. #Polyamory and being surrounded by the people you love is pretty wonderful.

A copy of The Pairing by Casey McQuiston, Thyme Travellers and Midnight Tarot Stick It

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 11/09/2024

I knew that this book was going to have #PolyamoryRepresentation but that didn’t diminish how much I enjoyed it! A YA triad trying to save each other from hell creates one hell of a premise 🥰

The cover of Death’s Country by RM Romero

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 10/09/2024

I got surprised by #NonmonogamyRepresentation again! Chain Gang All-Stars was an incredible and poignant story. The fact that the protagonist is in a relationship with someone who is non-monogamous is such a small part of the story, but that sort of representation means even more, imo

An image of the cover of the book Chain Gang All-Stars by Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyah

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 10/09/2024

First time in over a year I’ve been able to see my beautiful collection of books ❤️ I’ve missed you, my beautiful babies 🫶

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 09/09/2024

It’s therapy dayyyyyyyy hopefully my Mohawk still fits my noggin after head shrinking 😜✌️

Photo of a white person with a Mohawk holding up a peace sign

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 06/09/2024

Rallying to get out to my local #queer #polyam social group is always 1000% worth it

A white person smiling with their tongue sticking out.

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 02/09/2024

if you see this post show 4 of your favorite games Is anyone surprised I’m a narrative nerd but I also love cozy play?

Night in the Woods is written and the text is surrounded by anthropomorphic animals who are all characters in the game.

“Pokémon snap” is written above a photo of a camera lens with different Pokémon appearing to jump out from it.

“Stardew Valley” is written over an 8-Bit landscape

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 02/09/2024

What a weird world where this isn’t an @theonion.com headline

Screenshot of a them headline that reads: “Gwen and Tim Walz Once Supported a Gay Student by Taking Them to an Indigo Girls Concert.”

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 02/09/2024

Night in watching my parasocial friends play d&d while frozen noms make your nose water with spice is exactly what this weekend called for 🫶

Image of a television screen that is in split screen between 5 people, playing dungeons and dragons. The image is from Dimension 20.

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 01/09/2024

I truly don’t understand how anyone can look at me and think “ma’am” is the correct honorific, but it’s also not shocking that CPD is so unaware of social cues that they wouldn’t pick up the highlighted, underlined text that is my presentation today 🙄

White person with a Mohawk wearing glasses

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 30/08/2024

When you’re a good bean earlier in the week and don’t get either of the books at Costco that you want, then your wife goes back to Costco after payday and buys them both for you 😭🫶 thanks @dysfuntionista.bsky.social ❤️❤️❤️

Pictures of a Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark collection and a book called Food to Die for.

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 29/08/2024

New hair, feelin very fluid with it 💛🤍💜🖤

Photos of a 34 year old wearing a tank top and glasses

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 18/08/2024

When you have to buy yourself an IKEA stuffie since everyone else in your house has one

Photo of me on a couch snuggling a polar bear stuffie from ikea

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 17/08/2024

Cishets think ikea with your spouse is hard? #WhyGetMarriedIfYouHateYourSpouse ? I’ve now been to ikea with both my spouses and honestly? 10/10 still love to go again.

Swedish meatballs with mashed potatoes, lingonberry jam, and peas; garlic toast; and Mac & cheese

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 17/08/2024

In celebration of both of my spouses loving The Birdcage, I’ve made ice cream sin sundae. Just Friday night #hedonistic #polyamory things.

Picture of an ice cream brownie sundae with crushed up bits of chocolate goodies on top

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 16/08/2024

This photo of her good works was meant to be included.

A plate with eggs, sausage, hashbrowns, toast, and toasted tomato

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 14/08/2024

We know a thing or two about rat boi charm in this house 😜🫶

A picture of the rathole, a former landmark in Chicago, gone but not forgotten

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 13/08/2024

if you see this, post an image you saved because it made you laugh (I couldn’t pick)

Screenshot of a post that reads:
Wife: no, I don’t want to go to a Star Wars themed sex party. Ew

Me: first off its Star TREK and secondly it’s called a Borgy

Screenshot of a post that says “Tim Walz has definitely drunkenly eaten handfuls of shredded cheese in the dark at 3 am with no pants on and that’s why he has my unconditional support”

A screenshot of a post that reads “Kelly Rowland checking if Microsoft is working yet so she can send a text on excel” with a picture of Kelly Rowland from her music video in which she’s clearly texting in an excel document for some reason.

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 12/08/2024

Only in #Chicago can you: - Start the evening at #SugarHile getting ice cream from puppets - Visit a used book store on the way to #SilentBookClub at the lesbian bar - Get hammock time in the backyard - Eating dinner with both my spouses while watching Dropout 🥰 What I’m saying is, I love my life

Three people standing together, tongues out, the middle and right people are holding up peace signs. They are standing in front of a brick facade with rainbow letters that say “The Sugar Hole”

A kindle sitting on a hardcover book, next to a drink menu and a drink

Photos of legs in a hammock with the night sky above

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 11/08/2024

When you’re excited at the idea of being home alone for a night, but then you remember you stayed at a hotel this week by yourself so you’ve already done a lot of the home alone by yourself stuff 🤣🤷🏻 at least now I’m watching Dropout while cuddling my pups

A white femme person, sticker her tongue out, surrounded by a fawn puppy butt and a brindle puppy butt

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 10/08/2024

Excuse me, how, at 2:40 pm, am I only on my second cup of coffee????

White, femme presenting person holding a coffee cup that is iridescent with the words “Now A Warning?” On it. The person has their eyes closed because they are far too under caffeinated.

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 10/08/2024

Also, tell me these two were not the original #BiDiasasters

A person in all black and a person in a red dress with blond hair roll down a hill.

A person in all black and a person in a red dress with blond hair roll down a hill.

Seriously, this scene is total bi disaster energy.

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 09/08/2024

My favorite thing that my #weddings made me confront is that this is the face I make when I’m trying not to cry. 🤣 I look like I’m grumpy, but really I just don’t wanna ruin my #makeup with my dang tears 🤷🏻 Thanks, #polyamory 🫶

A white person in a wedding dress holding a bouquet, with a frown on their face

Two white femme presenting people in dresses, the woman on the left is speaking, the person on the right is frowning (to try to keep themself from crying)

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 09/08/2024

Plus, look how gay we look 🥰🥰🥰 (this is literally the first time I’ve shared any of our wedding photos because I’ve been touching grass too much this summer lol)

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 03/08/2024

MY SWITCH HAS BEEN LOCATED YALL THIS IS NOT A DRILL THAT SHIT HAS BEEN MISSING FOR A YEAR AND A HALF … soooooon

Picture of a grey switch lite plugged into a charger, resting atop a purple squishmallow

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 29/07/2024

Y’all not enough people scrolled through my post about the new Scene Queen album to appreciate how much I’m pulling off this bikini top and, honestly? That’s a crime cuz my tits look incredible 🤘

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Polyanarchy @polyanarchy.bsky.social · 29/07/2024

Hey #PlantNerds of BlueSky — do any of you know what this tree/bush in my alley is? I thought I understood it and then it started making beans???

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