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Philly suburbs dom that’s actually just a big nerd who likes to read (and tie up men and degrade them) Consider myself an accommodating dom—love helping subs with their fantasies Recon, Fetlife, Venmo: PHLsuburbandom linktr.ee/phlsuburbandom

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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
84 books down in 2026. This is definitely top 5 of the year. It did remind me of the time I was in my early 20s first time on Grindr trying to find friends and local community, psyching myself up to go to a “party” not knowing what the capital t was for. You only make that mistake once.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 20/06/2026
I really love when a foot slave really goes for it. Could let him worship my feet for hours. Love a good #footslave
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 20/06/2026
Been a while. Y’all still do #fcf ?
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
Philadelphia is such an unserious place. I love it.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 31/12/2025
Ending the year with reading 178 books. My goal was 150. Pretty proud of myself.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
I finished the gay hockey book series and the two other standalone books by the author. And then I pulled out my old skates and got them sharpened the first time in years.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 05/12/2025
Traveling for work and trying to relax by taking a bath in the world’s tiniest bath apparently.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 02/12/2025
If only I had a foot slave under my desk during this zoom meeting. #footdom #footworship #gayfeet #mensfeet
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 29/11/2025
When the Eagles Offensive coordinator is so bad that finsubs feel obliged to soften the blow for someone else’s humiliation. #findom I guess? #humiliationkink but I’m just an eagles fan
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 27/11/2025
Spending my Thanksgiving cooking while listening to smut. It’s the perfect way to spend the afternoon.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 16/11/2025
Today I reached my goal of 150 books read for 2025. Want to especially thank all of the subs that keep me well read. Over 1/3 of the books funded by subs and another 1/3 from the library. Still 1.5 months left and plenty in my TBR. Btw I’m coming back online lol needed time
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
Who what’s to come over and play? #fcf
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Sometimes when you’re doing something nerve wracking like sounding, it’s good to give your sub something to focus on—-like hot wax dripping on their chest.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Imagine starting your work week still feeling the sting on your ass from the night before.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Hey, he said be brutal.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 24/03/2025
Lol my masochist sub I’m seeing tonight seems to be challenging me.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 22/03/2025
Always been a leather guy, but I’m really starting to see the appeal here.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 21/03/2025
Happy Friday to all my locked subs :)
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
No notes. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
Hunger games obsession is fully back. This book is so good.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 18/03/2025
Green? For St. Paddy’s Day? Groundbreaking.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
NSFW AUDIO🔈 Something a little different for today. Last night I had a gloved edging session with a sub I’m training and brainwashing. Grab your headphones and listen to all the intoxicating sounds he makes for me.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 17/03/2025
“Who do you belong to?” “You, Sir.”
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
You should know that if you’re going to leak precum all over my gloves, you’re going to have to lick them clean.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
What a coincidence. Look what showed up at my doorstep today.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
I did fill out the stuff for JFF but on the fence about following through with it. Feel like it’s a big decision.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Definitely! 1 there’s a lid to every pot. Not everyone will like what you like, but the internet is great for finding community. 2 it’s supposed to be fun and enjoyable. Explore with someone knowledgeable that you trust and make sure you like it. 3 communication, consent, and trust are essential.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Yes. Recently wrote about it on my fetlife page. It really depends on the situation and the guy. While I try to say yes to my sub’s ideas, that one I turn down way more than I say yes to. Can talk more in dm if interested.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
I play hockey and lacrosse (goalie). My equipment is old & so smelly I have to keep it in the shed. It’s also basically held together with tape. Personally, I don’t find sports gear attractive, but I love indulging in a sub’s fantasy. I would probably need to invest in new gear though.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Yes, but not as often as I’d like. I’ve had a few subs lately with a desire for ruined food—food I’ve stepped on, spit on, thrown on the floor, etc. I haven’t had a WAM sub in so long and, especially with today being PI Day, I’d love to make a sub into a disgusting mess soon.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Similar to my thoughts on being vers, I think a dom should know how to submit and it makes them a better and more informed dom. Also, like being vers, I feel like I so rarely submit I can barely call myself a switch and I am quite bratty and dominant.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Im trying to stick to a monthly budget and I’m failing haha A custom wolf hood from @mistrbear.bsky.social, an old school canvas straight jacket, a latex @furrjoi.com drone hood, or a latex rubber short sleeve suit (feel free to recommend vendors), or wait and get a leather sleepsack.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
A hard question to answer because it changes often. My current fantasy is to get a sub in a canvas straight jacket. Popper him up and tease and edge him with my leather gloves. Maybe tickle him, spank him raw, or shock him with estim. Never let him cum and throat train him until he’s gagging.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
When a submissive boy is active and willing in his submission. When I give him a command or spit in his face and he makes unbreaking eye contact, accepts his position, and says “thank you, Sir.” Enthusiasm and confidence in submission drives me absolutely feral.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 14/03/2025
Happy Friday to all the subs, pigs, gooners, pups, and slaves on my phone #fcf
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 13/03/2025
Inspections are more fun with skin tight leather gloves.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 12/03/2025
If your dom called you and asked you to watch him with another sub, are you answering the call? Last night I called much more deserving subs to tell them how I’d rather be face fucking them than this piggy.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 12/03/2025
When I say worship my feet, this is what I mean. #footslave #gaypig #footworship #gayfeet
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 12/03/2025
Such a good boy for me tonight. Made the prettiest, neediest sounds.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
Hard as a rock in the post office on a Friday afternoon.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 07/03/2025
Worn right after sex wasn’t enough. Neither was wearing them to the gym. Wanted to make sure my sub could really taste and smell me in this pair.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
Pups, where do you recommend getting a hood from? While I do have a full leather one, I was considering getting a neoprene one too.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 06/03/2025
I love Philadelphia
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 05/03/2025
Sensory deprivation hood is one of the new additions to my toy collection.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
Book 28 of 2025. Canceling Amazon for March 1 which means Audible and Kindle. Going back to hard copies until I find my footing with a new audiobook and e-reader system. I love Libby, but any recommendations? Trying to keep the average of 14-15 books a month to stay on track of my goal of 175.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
Reorganizing my gear. What should be my next purchase? (Besides more storage 🫠)
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
Take it all and bury your nose in my bush.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
Really making it difficult not to cancel plans tonight.
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 21/02/2025
I love introducing knotted dildos to subs. Working a sub open to take that second, larger stretch and realize they’re locked in makes me absolutely feral. (Bound sub for scale).
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PHLsuburbandom @phlsuburbandom.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
See what happens when you flinch too much? Now relax and let me have my fun.
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