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Paul Ryder

@paul-ryder.bsky.social
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NSFW. 18+ only. Gay. Husband. Leather and bondage fetishist in Leeds, UK.

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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
You got your revenge a later night - to some extent!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Next up: wedgies and swirlies!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Overnight bondage sounds like a dream, but I just know my nose start itching!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
I think the harder task would be convincing me to get out
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 13/09/2026
@cinlay4details.bsky.social would like you to know that he totally iz dog #folsom #folsomeu
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Him-bull ready for auction @vilaingarconmtl.bsky.social @furrjoi.com #folsomeu
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
I recognise that box! I also remember being waterboarded by the condensation that builds up on the lid! 😅
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Naturally!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
OK, let's work this out: 1 guy for each arm, 2 guys for each leg. An extra guy to secure the head. 1-2 more guys to apply the restraints. An additional 1-2 guys as look outs and 1 getaway driver. 9-11 guys total. Sound about right? 😜
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Is that an Elgato StreamDeck controlling everything? If so, that is cool!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
I'm being selfish and thinking what it would take to take me: two to hold down while the third binds... maybe we need a fourth just to be sure!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
Just need a kinky man (or three) with a van. It shouldn't be this difficult
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
"Coach says I need to practise more"
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
My question would be: why do you need a bunk bed in 'solitary' confinement? But I'm guessing they just repurpose the cell
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
I guess there'd be no harm in me trying relentlessly then! 😈
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/07/2026
That's a bad thing to let me know
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
Lately I've been getting more cruises in Recon and honestly I wish I could turn them off (the feature seems to be lost in the new version). Often I'm not in the right mindset when they come in to respond/react.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 14/07/2026
Thank you! It was a brilliant experience!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 05/07/2026
That looks comfy!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
I bite my tongue more than I used to when I see this sort of thing. I believe most are just bots, the rest are people so entrenched in their opinion that even the best orators in history couldn't persuade them to even meet half way, or it's someone who gets off on negative responses.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
My knees would definitely crumble to dust
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 19/05/2026
Sorry, can't hear you through that pup hood. I think you said "woof"?
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 18/05/2026
That may work, thanks! I would need to make sure the material is food safe though
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
Thanks! Unfortunately I lack alot of the skills necessary to put my crazy ideas into practice!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
That's actually a good idea. I have a solid one but hadn't thought about it. They do have one already with an air tube and a nice warning about "not inserting or sucking liquids" 😅 I wonder if the hole is big enough or whether I could make my own 🤔
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
Does anyone know any products or has a DIY solution?
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
On the gag front, I've seen tongue depresser gags, but they're usually in the form of an O Ring gag, which would be messy without a good seal around the lips.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
For the bag, I've found this survival gravity bag. It hangable, but it's meant for water and I worry the tube is too small so either the food flows slowly or easily clogs the tube. Also it's unlikely to be the right diameter to connect to an existing gag.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
The closest I've seen is a piss funnel gag but I prefer the idea of the bag as it stays out of reach and can't be easily tipped. I also don't know if it meets the later requirement of keeping the mouth open and tongue out of the way.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
Picture this: a sub, kneeling, gagged, with hands cuffed behind. Above them hangs a bag filled with liquidised food connected via a tube to the gag, which keeps their mouth open, tongue depressed/kept out of the way so they can't stop the flow.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
Lately I've been exploring a feeding kink and I have an idea for a future scene. I'm struggling to find the equipment though and could use some help from the fetish collective.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
It's nice that Uber added the "Kidnapped" option. I look forward to it being rolled out to everyone!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
Still too much freedom! Maybe you could have used the other bollard and tied his hands back to that one as well
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/04/2026
Easter Berlin 2026 📸: @geargregj.bsky.social
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 02/04/2026
I was getting too Dom so some reprogramming was required, courtesy of the folks at @vilaingarcon.bsky.social
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 11/03/2026
The power is going to have to remain low for the time being while I build up resistance (pun intended)
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 11/03/2026
I lost the original 4mm to my e-stim box ages ago so I've been sans electro until I finally replaced it. I even added to my collection, including some nipple clamps. After all this time I'd forgotten what 9v to the nipples felt like! 😵‍💫⚡️
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
So what you're saying is, you have... plausible "deniability"! 😎
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 09/03/2026
Toys in and of themselves aren't evil... it's how you use them and on whom! 😈
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 25/02/2026
Well done!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 24/02/2026
I can't even imagine the flexibility required to get your arms through the bars in the first place!
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
As for Trip, he was later auctioned. All record of his new identity and the purchase were erased. His current wearabouts and owner are unknown.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
In a bitter twist of irony he would wear the mask permanently when The Company sought to make an example of him. The techniques they developed in breaking him would be used on future drones, leading to a 68% improvement in the conversion process.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
His signature tool was his gas mask, relying on the base level programming which caused even incomplete drones to cluster together. This resulted in a 99% retrieval rate which made The Company very pleased. That was until they discovered Trip was taking massive bribes to let the 1% escape.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
Charles "Trip" Ryder, an ancestor of mine, was a bounty hunter specialising in the reacquisition of rubber drones that had escaped the programming facility run by The Company.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
Ultimately I agree that people participate in kink and fetish based on their values. I've always believed that it's a personal journey and just because someone practises it one way, doesn't mean you have to do the same. Labels are a jumping off point for the conversation (whatever form that takes)
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
Some folks will want 24/7, no negotiation, and CNC. Others will want a casual hedonistic experience. The majority of people will sit somewhere inbetween, with some oscillating between two points depending on their current needs/mood.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 23/02/2026
It's interesting to see the terms "scene-based" and "identity-based" kink/fetish. Personally I don't see the community as two seperate groups, but rather the two philosophies as ends of a spectrum with some bell curve distribution in between. So little of expression is ever binary.
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 18/02/2026
Thank you Sir
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Paul Ryder @paul-ryder.bsky.social · 18/02/2026
Even though I'm generally fine showing off my fetish side, there's still some anxiety showing my sub side. Anyway, here is a tastefully cropped pic from a recent visit to my Sir - @mancsrigger.bsky.social
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