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Patricia Cake

@patricia.letsgao.net
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38 It/Its. she/her. I am trans, nb, nd, bi, and polyam. You're not my mom or dad. 18+ Banner: Charlene Avatar: @velesarca.bsky.social

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𝔰𝔞𝔩𝔢𝔪 ☾ @w0lfertinger666.bsky.social · 12/09/2026
I had to take 7 billion lashings as a feminine transmasc that's BLACK and non op to see other transmascs express themselves like me it's rewarding but it fucking sucks that I had to see myself compared rcdart or whatever cuz I'm drawing my body type instead of hypermasc black man
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 22/08/2026
I love him so much. I love seeing art that says everyone should have good things. I love seeing black characters happy, I love seeing fat characters happy, I love seeing transgender characters happy.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 22/08/2026
Friendslop multiplayer cheese. Provtogether.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 20/08/2026
Me and who?
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 13/08/2026
Me if I was pious, but only pumpkin pious.
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mochi @miz7xf2.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 09/08/2026
"Which one will hurt me the least? Which one will hurt them the least? Is there a compromise that I am willing to live with?"
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 09/08/2026
they said, "I like your shoes," and now there's a complicated melange of "should I trust this person? Is this person just being nice to me? Is this person going to segue into asking for something? Is it a trick? Is it better to act defensive, stoic, or genuinely appreciative?"
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 09/08/2026
And you have a crying panic attack in public because not only has no one talked to you in such a long time, but you haven't received kind words in months or years, and the last time it happened it was because you interrogated a well meaning person because your fight or flight went off when...
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 09/08/2026
And then these situations stop happening, and then people stop talking to you entirely, and then you start to wonder, "did I overcorrect? am I being an asshole for no reason and starting to push people away to keep myself safe?" And then someone out of the blue gives you a compliment...
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 09/08/2026
I know, rationally, this is very likely true. It's really hard to feel safe after showing someone your soft underbelly after a few pleasant exchanges, and then they go to town on your entrails, and you try and it happens again, and you try, and it happens again...
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 18/07/2026
Read Moonflow, a trans horror story by Bitter Karella. End is transition goals. <3
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 02/07/2026
TSUCHINOKO REAL
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 23/06/2026
1. Some people need and want a place to talk about things they like; saying you don't like something by itself doesn't add value. You are also entitled to *your own* space to say you hate it. 2. If you want to be critical, obviously don't do it in an insulting or patronizing way. 3. Be nice!
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 23/06/2026
This is something I'm trying to figure out a... better way to discuss media with people. I think it's ok to not like things, and I even think it should be ok to say you don't like things. I think the nuances that I've stumbled on are as follows: (continued)
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RayJ ☕️🍰☸️📿@ ACFI, BLFC @theroguez.bsky.social · 20/06/2026
secretary bird maned wolf
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Crowsa Luxemburg @quendergeer.bsky.social · 19/06/2026
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June Martin @theworldsgreatestwriter.com · 19/06/2026
lmao poor yorick. they got his ass
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 10/06/2026
Having only played Myst and Riven, Riven was so much better. I have no idea if the franchise got better or worse; I think my understanding of popular opinion is some is good and some is not.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 10/06/2026
I know this! I was obsessed with this game as a wee little one.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 10/06/2026
I love this god. How do I serve?
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 30/05/2026
Me and who?
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Lilwhorgi @lilwhorgi.bsky.social · 29/05/2026
No one else, just you Traditional quick sketch commission for @speciesnova.bsky.social #furryart #fatfur #furry #biglady
Someone help me I am horrible with these.
Rebecca (rabbit) and Candy (doe) cuddling and sunbathing together on a blanket in a field.
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𝐏𝐚𝐠𝐠𝐢 @paggi.bsky.social · 26/05/2026
PRIDE YCH COUPLES OPEN! 🏳️‍🌈 Opening 4 couple YCH bases for Pride Month! ✨ Early bird: $60 USD (first 48h) ✨ After that: $75 USD More info below 👇 Comment or DM to claim 💖 shares appreciated! #furryart #furryartist #YCH #pride #furrycommission
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 27/05/2026
Are fatter characters allowed?
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 18/05/2026
I'm out of the loop, who's the shih tzu? Are they a new character? They seems to be friends with the transgender.
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HOG HEAVEN @uniboar.bsky.social · 16/05/2026
Doodlin ideas (pulling from that old monster girl composition)
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 16/05/2026
Me and who?
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Punto / Toby - Looking for Work @punto.bsky.social · 05/05/2026
"I am obscene to you, but to myself I simply am." #transrights #smallbusiness #lgbtqart #queerart
Digital illustration of two pigeons, two rats, a snail, a slug, some isopods and a moth in a cuddle pile. The text reads "I am obscene to you but to myself I simply am."
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 02/04/2026
There are people that exists that do not think a tall fat clocky trans femme with a tiny cock towering over you is the hottest shit.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 25/02/2026
Kamala Harris? More like anomalacaris, am I right?
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 10/02/2026
My tummy is so soft, someone squish it.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 01/02/2026
Transition goals.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 31/01/2026
This happens to me more than I'd like to admit.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 29/01/2026
Soft, fluffy, fat girl hugs.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 29/01/2026
We should hug then.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 28/01/2026
I was a *hater* of Harry Potter as a kid. "It's not good, it's just popular." Loved Animorphs though. It's so affirming to find that hating was the "correct" choice all along.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 27/01/2026
Hello there!
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 27/01/2026
I hope it was uplifting to someone. Thank you!
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 27/01/2026
Thank you! It's nice thinking that from someone else's perspective I might be appealing to behold.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 27/01/2026
I really feel weird that there is an "artistic nudity" self moderation, and an "explicit sexual content" moderation; and I flagged this as artistic nudity because it is not prurient by any means, but it feels scummy to be told a body is automatically porn.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 27/01/2026
I got some nude art from @valvondran.bsky.social I was feeling bad about my body, so I asked them to draw my fursona from a photo of my naked body. I think I look pretty like this.
Left: behind view, Right: Front view of a nude, fat, anthropomorphic manul trans femme character.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 26/01/2026
There is a benefit to a kind transaction even if it is completely intrinsic, and I don't think it is completely intrinsic anyway, or maybe I'm just fucked up in doing that magical thinking, "if I put good out into the world, I'll probably get good back."
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 26/01/2026
I've had conversations even with people that have responded to me and said, "of course I can be altruistic, you are just fucked up," and it's like, I mean that more basal, "it feels nice to help people; being nice gives less reason for people to be mean to me; etc." feeling.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 26/01/2026
I have a lot of guilt about reciprocity, transactional relationships, and worrying about whether my being nice is actually selfish. I used to say "I'm evil!" so I wouldn't have to feel guilty about how hypothetically, it seems like pure altruism is impossible... but people got confused by it.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 23/01/2026
I actually feel good about my appearance recently. So much so that I think I could call myself cute.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 22/01/2026
I think this is paramount to good mental health wrt being trans. You have to be able to accept that anyone can look any way they want with whatever physiology they have and be whatever they want to be, and that's good for everyone.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 22/01/2026
I don't know if progesterone ever did anything for my horniness. I'm pretty sure it affects my mood (negatively) though. I cycle it with 2 weeks on, 3 weeks off, and I'm typically a lot sadder during the 2 weeks of progesterone.
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Patricia Cake @patricia.letsgao.net · 22/01/2026
I was feeling a bit ho hum that my follower count is not nearly as high as it was on X, but it occurred to me that if I want to meet strangers for online friendships, I need to engage with other people more. I'll try to comment more on other people's posts and hope people see my personality that way
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