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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 12h

The true “glow up” of a woman is distancing herself from a guy who drains you energetically, mentally, and economically.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 18h

Trojan PRRRIIIDDDEEE 💙🧡💙🧡 V-S-U I love it I love it I love it💫

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BlackskyNews 🗞️ @blackskynews.blacksky.app · 20h

“VA will always be home, so bringing something like this back means a lot to me,” Elliott said. “HBCU bands have always brought so much energy, creativity, and culture to music. I want this to be a celebration of them ... that inspires the next generation to dream even bigger.” | Brandon Caldwell

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 18h

A person may lead with how they naturally love, but loving someone well requires studying them too, learning their needs, wants, and what makes them feel cared for, then intentionally incorporating that into how they show up. Can you do that?

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

For sure, what I said before.... it is a HARD NO. No Nope Nuh uh ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Loyalty will really have you staying with someone who constantly kills your spirit. Conversational cues are misunderstood, your tone is misread, playful banter turns into conflict, and suddenly you’re overexplaining things that were never that deep. That shht is bloody draining.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

My day has been a Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 4 kinda day. .... Idk what it is about Tuesdays *sigh*

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I've been in the longest meeting and we may have to meet tomorrow afternoon with a board meeting tomorrow night.... ooommmggggg I just need to move around and stretch!

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

When we know a couple breaks up, we will tell ppl they are missing out & encourage them to work it out, based on our own observations of the. Whole time, you have no real clue what folks were going through because they did not bring outsiders into their business. Let them have their autonomy!

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I think the oddest interactions is telling someone who constantly provides that you are gifting them something. Giving them the expectation & you never doing it or doing half of what you said. Why would you say anything to begin with to someone who has always delivered for you?

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alexjungle.bsky.social @alexjungle.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

BBC interview with kids in 1966 predicting the year 2000. Quite accurate is it? Also do you observe the fluency of the children? Nowdays they would speak with ah, oh, okay, whateva.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I reached out to my brother&my dad asking them what my flaws were. I can always count on them to be honest. Bc my mama played 😭😂🤣💫

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Flaw 2: Patience isn’t the flaw. Staying silent until resentment speaks for you is. Patience has boundaries; suppression only postpones them.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Flaw 2: I often talk about my flaws as ‘eldest daughter woes’, that’s only a lighthearted term, but plainly these are flaws‼️ And this here ain’t nothing but overfunctioning disguised as responsibility. Eeeyuck‼️ They’ll learn I’ll take over, and I learn I can’t trust anyone enough to let go.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Let’s get into this 3-pointer about #flaws It is often easy to talk about what it is we do, offer, what we want for ourselves, how we have our lives together, what we bring to the table & probably less appealing to talk about our own flaws but here goes….

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

A man who thinks he has something to prove, as if there’s some competition between him & his woman, is alarming. But in seeing these memes & commentary, I commend couples who thrive & are at peace with her being more formally educated or the breadwinner without it becoming a threat to his manhood.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

People want to be taken care of. Not just women, men too. I can bear witness. And that’s FINE. If you want to be taken care of you need to also have the capacity to take care of your partner (mutual effort) or BE HONEST AND UPFRONT from the beginning so the other can make an informed decision.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Women are reciprocators. Yet I am an initiator as I am a giver & a caretaker. My relationship problems are often situational. Me as a giver needs to be with another giver. Givers who want mutual effort will always have that as the HEAVIEST problem in the relationship.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 29/03/2026

I need a nail shop open on Sundays

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 19/03/2026

A relationship without support is a burden.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 11/01/2026

In life, if you want more you have to be willing to take RISK‼️ AND STOP WAITING ON PEOPLE. #noted

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 19/12/2025

Deciding to start over when your youngest will be 9 going on 10 and the oldest will be 20. I’m tickled actually💫

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 17/12/2025

Dream a little dream. This is the type of wealth I desire. Wow. Just wow.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 13/12/2025

May you attract someone who fills you with so much joy that they add years to your life

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 30/11/2025

If you’re with someone who feels like an adversary, leave them right where you found them and wait for a lover who is also a friend.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 30/11/2025

The best decision I ever made was allowing a man who truly LIKES ME to love me.

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 30/11/2025

Someone said, “ Givers need to be with givers” and I WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREE

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

Whatever you do, don’t let anybody stress you into an Autoimmune disease. …. * CC *

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 03/11/2025

…Halloween is over, but for some reason i still see clowns… 🤔

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

Manipulation is when someone gives you crumbs and convinces you it’s a whole cake. They make you feel lucky for the bare minimum, then make you feel guilty for wanting more. You don’t owe gratitude for being deprived ..you deserve the full feast, not leftovers !!!

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

It hurts when you have to act cold and detached in a situation where all you really want is to be loving and vulnerable…

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 01/11/2025

marry a man who is a provider. please, marry a man who is sweet and courteous. marry a man who is responsible. marry a man who is emotionally intelligent. marry a man who is considerate. marry a man who is caring & loving. life is already hard enough, spend it with a good man.. #truth

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

I want flowers, notes, lunch, pop ups, dates, walk in the parks, body massages, meditate together, reassurance, praying together, working out together, let’s be creative together ... i just want that all around 💕 #fblifestyle

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 15/10/2025

“I’ve been Black long enough to know you can’t trust an unjust system”

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Paris Finesse @parisfinesse.bsky.social · 12/10/2025

I love knowledge. I love elevating. I love wisdom.

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Ash Pinnick @tvdinnerdev.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

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