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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

It stopped being worth it when 5 different pick-me's started to jump me. Yeah our friendship was worth something, but having to fight 5 brain-dead amoebas is NOT. Windy's a coward, i know that now. Thank you for enlightening me, I really appreciate it. Enjoy beating my dead horse for years to come.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

yeah sure. windy's not worth all this.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

we're all just making assuptions about each other and it's getting no one nowhere. we're talking each other in circles. - call out post bad - upset is okay - we baited each other we GET it. GODDAMN. windy's not a saint and i'm not either. our relationship was stale and doomed? okay. fine.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

This is a funny little paradox ngl

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

i feel the same way :D glad we can agree on something

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

this is a whole circle where being upset is unhealthy. if you hadn't stalked our accounts like we KNEW you would, neither of us would be here. you're all predictable.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

got nothing to say? i thought we were having a good time.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

THAT'S LITETRALLY WHAYT I DID AND THEY GOT MAD WHAT ARE YOU ON ABOUT

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

But you wanna know what I did. I developed and reflected as a person. I changed. In fact, the conversation that lead up to this is PROOF that I took her words into consideration. Windy was upset I didn't let them have a say in the breakup. So what did I do? I created a space for us all to talk.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

What could possibly preoccupy someone for months to not say a "hello how are you" in a group chat. That takes literally 5 minutes at most if you're typing with your feet. I treated them poorly as a REACTION to them poorly treating ME. I don't lash out easily and I know I messed up with that.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

I don't condone the way she went about it, but there's got to be a sliver of empathy in you that can understand why she lashed out, even a little. And what's the twist in our point of view? I'd love to hear it since you know sooo much.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

if they wanted conversations with more substance, i wish they would've said so sooner. then again they can't bother with the bare minimum so why should i expect them to do more? I also agree Bun got aggressive, but we were just told our friendship meant nothing. Of course she'd get upset!

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

it's crazy how windy bun and i could have gotten past that part of the conversation if they didn't call us worthless (which made us upset) and dipped (leaving it unresolved). we put effort into our relationship, and i didn't see windy complain about us in the 3 years we knew each other.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

oh so if you have a friend that doesn't talk to you for several months, or a partner that vanishes for months on end, is that not neglecting a relationship????

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

well maybe i'm not as strong as you. maybe i valued windy as a friend. we can keep talking in circles all you want but the point still stands. it wasn't even a call out post fr. a call out post would be more like "WINDY IS A NEGLECTFUL PERSON AND AND BAD FRIEND HERE'S WHY" but we didn't do that.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

i do ??? too ?? it's like i treat having online friends like having irl friends. the difference between windy and i is that i have the respect to keep up with my online friends them even when i'm busy. you know. making time for the people i care about. something windy couldn't be bothered to do.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

windy disappears for months at a time in waves. that's just how they are and i adapted to it. so no, i didn't see it coming. it was a normal behavior from what i witnessed.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

okay but it's okay that i'm upset. have you considered that social media is where i go to vent? im not obsessive, i'm upset. this isn't something i can just brush off like it meant nothing. if you think me wanting to share my story is "stirring the pot" you should reconsider what you're cooking.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

it's unhealthy to be upset a friend ditched you and called you worthless? is that was you're saying?

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

but for now it stings and aches.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

how can you not understand that something like this hurts people? every action has a reaction, and this is mine. you and no one else has to like it, and that's not going to change it either. i'm upset. i'm hurt. i'm spiteful. that's who i am. sure in a month or so i'll come to terms with it.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

It's easy to overlook people's bad traits when you care about them, and it's not something I didn't talk to them about. We spoke several times about their relationship with the "dead horses" they'd beat. I'll welcome no contact, sure, but it was so abrupt that it left me in shock and frustration.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

So we're just making assumptions about each other. Huh. Funny how that works. But yeah I don't have a social circle or support group. That's why this whole thing hurt so much. I really valued windy, like, a lot. so yeah i'm going to be like- really upset.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

wait we dated ??? bro i don't even know you T^T

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

and you're PROVING i was right by RESPONDING. i know windy enough to know she told a bunch of people, so CLEARLY i was going to address them. i had an inkling they were stalking my account so i tried to make CONTACT so things could be RESOLVED.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

can i see them ??? i'm sure there's more context

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

what stories ??? it's like im asking the same questions over and over again. you're being told half-truths i PROMISE. give me an example of a story and i ASSURE you there's more to it.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

oh my god i'm UPSET and posting about it. cry me a RIVER. BOOHOO my friend's ex friend is upset they were deemed worthless WAAAAA. that's what you sound like.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

what things are you talking about ?? we haven't changed at all ! windy's been distant for months and we know their home life is shit, so we gave them some space so we don't stress them out more ! when they wanted to talk we were ecstatic to hear from them !

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

well clearly she went around and said SOMETHING since you're all jumping me for being UPSET. i'm not trying to cancel ANYONE. i'm trying to share my side of the story cause again, you're CLEARLY being told SOMETHING that made you think i'm the villain.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

venting all the time ?!!?? windy vents more than me . our relationship was me being windy's personal therapist when THEY wanted to reach out. i hardly vent, maybe i vented to them a few times, but you can't look at me and say windy didn't do the same. we supported each other. that's what we do.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

then CLEARLY you're not on the receiving end. how could you POSSIBLY understand my point of view when yours matches windys! maybe they didn't care about YOU enough to fight for you. have you considered that? i don't care about being windy's friend, i just don't want my name to be slandered.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

i'm not delusional or weird for thinking one of my FEW and VALUABLE friendships vanished overnight. that's not a crazy thing! you want to see development in character i can SHOW you.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

what i WONT tolerate is my name and story being slandered. i don't care that windy blocked me. i don't care that they want to forget me. i CARE that i'm being made into some cartoon villian! i CARE that the truth is being distorted.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

she doesn't treat us equally and you KNOW this. whenever windy needed support i was there just like you. sure i'm not the best conversationalist, but she isn't either! you can't scold me for the same actions windy took! it's a two way street! we failed each other and i KNOW that.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

im glad she has you guys to support her. truthfully. the phone goes both ways and i TRIED. okay, i TRIED. they don't want to talk to me anymore, that's fine. i would've loved to know that and had a healthy conversation before parting ways.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

how about the way windy didn't contact me for 3 months which is why i broke up with them. how about my numerous attempts at contact before i broke which LEAD to the doc. how about the way windy only cared when THEIR way of life was disturbed. im glad she has friends to talk to.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

oh so they never told you that i was unmedicated and spiteful? did she not tell you i had a conversation with them afterwards about how selfish i was and that they didn't deserve that treatment from me? almost sounds like i developed as a person. clearly you're not getting the full story.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

i wonder why that happened. i'm not going to act like i know either. was it a mutual decision, or were you cut off after being told you meant nothing to them. there's a huge difference that you're refusing to acknowledge.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

the argument you're making contradicts the very thing windy was upset about!

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

how am i toxic because i struggle to make friends ?? if im codependent then i must be really clingy, but the whole problem was that i was respecting their distance! that doesn't make sense! if i was codependent and toxic, i would be jealous of their friends and need them for everything, but i don't!

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

if that's how she felt towards me, how will she feel about you! think about it! how can a person put so much effort and care into a relationship only to throw it away when it's convenient! that HURTS people. i'm HURT. im allowed to be upset. im not going to stifle my emotions for their convenience.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

not ??? normal ???? mars you cannot be serious. im not codependent, windy's being apathetic. you're not even trying to see this from my point of view! i'm all for boundaries and respecting decisions, but this means something to me! 3 years! worth nothing!

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

it's hard to try to contact her outside of social media when i don't know them in real life. it's like everyone around us wants nothing to do with us overnight because ONE person had a problem. why should windy's opinion have such a large say? unless she's making us out to be something we're not.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

she cut us off because she couldn't accept that she was wrong. how am i supposed to sit here and "accept" that my friend of 3 years decided everything we had was worthless and i could be discarded and replaced. am i a robot to you? of course i'm spiraling! i'm human! i feel things!

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

you call it drama but i'd call it "people desperate to talk things out"

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

the falling out became drama the moment people started blocking us and distancing themselves from us. you wanna talk toxic? how about the shit talking windy's been doing huh? cause i know for a FACT they were telling you alll the details.

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Perseus @ozymdis.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

you got screenshots? so do we windy. we can do this if you want, just know we TRIED to talk like adults in a respectful way. yeah it got heated but arguments DO that

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