iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 03/08/2025

Isn’t it wild that 1993 felt more open minded than half the discourse we see in 2025?

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 01/08/2025

Which games always survive the uninstall purge when you run out of storage? Here's mine:

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

Wild to cheat in a time when technology is more loyal than you are

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

Skip the movies for the first date. Playing a video game together is the fastest vibe check. You’ll know if they're endgame material soon enough.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 17/07/2025

Shoutout to everyone who has to wear their hair down 24/7 because putting it up gives them migraines

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 03/07/2025

Genuinely, what is it about disabled and chronically ill people that makes you call their inclusion “wokeness”? Why do you believe they deserve less dignity and humanity? Just say it plainly if you are so sure of yourself about this.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 01/07/2025

I’m so over fireworks. With the 4th of July coming up, I can’t stop thinking about how I get alerts about fires near me daily & it’s exhausting living on edge, keeping a bag ready to evacuate, while people set off sparks for fun. Can we please update how we celebrate things?

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 28/06/2025

Thinking about the Ashley Madison leak (a site for married people looking to cheat, but user data was leaked.) Researchers found those on the list were more likely to cheat in business too. If you’ll betray the person who trusts you most, it’s easier to betray others.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 18/05/2025

Search discipline. Let the algorithm work for you, not against you.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 18/05/2025

If your phone has a grip on you, use it to your advantage. That same device pulling you under can be the tool that rewires your brain. Addiction is a loop & your brain doesn’t care whether dopamine comes from something harmful or not. It just follows the signal. So change the signal.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 18/05/2025

Your phone isn't the villain. It’s that we let it replace silence, rest, and presence. We stopped setting limits. Now we wake, scroll, perform, compare, spiral, repeat. The problem isn’t tech. It’s the absence of boundaries and the overstimulation we normalized.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

“Gaming is just a waste of time.” Tell that to the kid who stopped a mass shooting 2,000 miles away because he paid attention to chat in a game and chose to act.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

You’re allowed to disengage. To protect your peace. To let their ignorance echo in the silence they created. Because connection begins with respect. And if they can’t offer that, they never deserved your presence to begin with. 5/

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

Remember this: Your time is a currency. Your energy is finite. And not everyone deserves access to any of it. You don’t have to explain yourself to people who never planned to listen. You don’t owe your insight to someone committed to misunderstanding it. 4/

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

They show up to perform, not connect. To extract attention, not exchange ideas. To argue with intent they invented, just to feed their ego. Then they wonder why no one wants to talk to them. Why people block them. Why timelines feel tense, shallow and exhausting. 3/

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

They don’t ask for clarity. They don’t offer good faith. And when you do clarify, they ignore it, because they were never interested in what you meant, only in feeling above it. It’s not about truth. It’s about control. 2/

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 13/05/2025

Some people don’t respond to understand you. They read your words just enough to twist them. Not because they misunderstood. But because attacking you makes them feel smarter. 1/

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

This Mother's Day, daughters are watching. And they're deciding what they will and won't accept when their time comes.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

These daughters aren't selfish. They're observant. They watched their moms disappear into everyone else's needs and get thanked once a year with rushed gestures. They're choosing differently.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

They want Mother's Days that aren't another task for mom to coordinate. Lives where care isn't a solo sport. Relationships where "she's better at that stuff" isn't an excuse.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

So they're holding out. Not because they hate kids or families. Because they want actual partners. Someone who remembers appointments. Who notices when supplies run low. Who doesn't treat their own children like a favor to their wife.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

These daughters realize: The problem isn't motherhood. It's being the only one paying attention. They've scrolled past countless "mommy needs wine" jokes. They've also seen relationships where both people just handle what needs handling. No hero medals for basic parenting. No martyrdom required.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

Some daughters see different dynamics though. Friends whose dads just... know things. When school starts. What size shoes their kids wear. Their mothers don't manage everything because they don't have to.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

Mom knows every teacher's name, every practice schedule, which kid hates tomatoes. Dad needs reminders for parent-teacher conferences. Mom handles sick days, doctor appointments, birthday parties. Dad asks "do we have plans this weekend?" when it's on the calendar she updates.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

Daughters are watching. This Mother's Day, they're watching their moms pretend excitement over last-minute cards and wilted grocery store flowers. Watching them book their own brunch reservations and remind everyone what time to show up. They notice patterns.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

I don't have an absurdly long masamune but I do have Sephiroth's ethereal, silky long silver-white hair and blue-green eyes 🩸 #VRising

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 10/05/2025

Black cats are the least adopted and most euthanized in shelters. Superstition still shapes their fate and too many people still overlook them. Ron Perlman set a great example by adopting one. It made me respect him even more 🖤🐈‍⬛

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

Their stories tell us something crucial: when your image belongs to everyone else, reclaiming it isn't vanity. It's freedom. The real power isn't in being desired. It's in no longer needing anyone to look at you at all.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

Pamela and Björn. Two people separated by time and circumstance who faced the same predatory machine. She fed it for years before refusing to serve it anymore. He ran from it, understanding that visibility without control is just another form of captivity...

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

The attention crushed him. The expectations hollowed him out. When he tried to build a music career, people only wanted to look at him, not listen. So he vanished. Grew a beard. Refused photographs. Lived in obscurity so complete that rumors spread he had died...

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

In interviews years later, Andrésen spoke of the profound impact this objectification had on his life. How being valued solely for his appearance damaged him. How he was too young to consent to becoming a global symbol of beauty...

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

Artists across Japan based their most beautiful male manga characters on his features. His likeness became immortalized in countless drawings. His identity distilled into flowing hair and haunting eyes. He never asked for any of it...

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

In 1971, at fifteen, a film director put him on display at Cannes. "The most beautiful boy in the world," they called him, cameras flashing as he stood awkward in clothes chosen for him. Before he could vote or drive, his image traveled far beyond film...

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

No makeup. No stylist's vision. Just her face: natural and defiantly her own. The media called it "brave," missing the point entirely. This wasn't bravery. This was freedom. It made me think of what happened to Björn Andrésen...

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

For decades, we watched Pamela Anderson through a lens crafted by others. Playboy spreads. Baywatch slow-motion runs. Tabloid scandals. Her body became public property, her image currency in a market she never controlled. Then one day, she stopped playing along...

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

Burnout doesn’t always look like collapse. Sometimes it looks like success that feels empty. I know because I’ve stood in front of a mirror looking perfect and felt like fog inside my bones.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

This dress is so versatile. Now it's giving Western outlaw vampire 🩸 #VRising

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 06/05/2025

My new favorite thing is pairing femme fatale dresses with greatswords

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 06/05/2025

I don’t want a vacation. I want to disappear into an old forest with no wifi and a robe that touches the floor.

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 05/05/2025

Game developers who understand that sound design is as important as visuals deserve more recognition

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 05/05/2025

Can't believe people go outside during peak UV hours voluntarily

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𝕺𝖓𝖞𝖝𝖎𝖈𝖈𝖆 ♱ @onyxicca.bsky.social · 04/05/2025

WAIT I just found out I could change my character's appearance if I build a magic mirror in my castle. I can be Alucard for real in any form I want, whenever I want?! 🩸 #VRising

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