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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 22/09/2026

*holds tongue so I won’t get banned*

Grace's account of her relationship with Capriglione included other disturbing allegations. The former dancer told Current Revolt that Capriglione expressed a desire to ejaculate into cookie batter intended for a bake sale one of his daughters was participating in, according to the San Antonio Current. She elaborated in a TikTok post on Sunday. "His fantasy was that — when no one was looking - that he would produce 'baby gravy' to put into the cookie batter before they were baked, because it was a turn-on for him," she said, claiming that he enjoyed the idea that "all of the girls in the neighborhood would be consuming" his ejaculate.

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 09/09/2026

I think these are some of my favorite looks ever That first dress 🤯🤯🤯

Megan Thee Stallion in a white artsy backless dress

Megan Thee Stallion in a yellow flower-like two piece

Megan Thee Stallion wearing a low cut brown and black dress

Megan Thee Stallion wearing a strapless dress with a geometric swooshed bottom

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 06/09/2026

You can take her out of the South, but you can’t take the South out of her 💁🏾‍♀️

My NYT Dialect Quiz results indicating my dialect pattern is most similar to (in descending order): Greensboro, NC; Raleigh, NC, Montgomery, AL

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 27/08/2026

I feel lucky that I got to walk on a glacier earlier this month before they all disappear

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 21/08/2026

I’ve never heard anyone, other than my therapist and psychiatrist, talk about how high-functioning ADHD presents itself in women

High-functioning ADHD in women describes individuals who maintain outward success in their
careers, families, or studies while secretly fighting a massive internal battle. Because women often display inattentive or mentally hyperactive traits rather than physical disruptiveness, they rely on exhausting coping mechanisms and perfectionism to mask their symptoms, frequently leading to severe burnout.

Hidden Signs and Traits
• Internal hyperactivity: A mind that never stops racing, filled with constant mental chatter rather than physical bouncing or disruption.
• Exhaustive masking: Over-preparing, doublechecking work, and using intense anxiety to force organization, making them look completely fine on the outside.
• Time blindness: Chronically struggling to estimate how long tasks take, leading to last-minute rushes despite best intentions.
• Emotional intensity: Deep sensitivity to perceived criticism, known as Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), alongside quick emotional meltdowns or sudden overwhelm.

Why It Gets Missed
• Gender socialization: Girls are often conditioned to be quiet, polite, and compliant, causing them to internalize stress rather than act out.
• Misdiagnosis: Internal chaos, anxiety, and exhaustion are frequently mislabeled as generalized anxiety disorder or clinical depression instead of underlying neurodivergence.
• Hormonal impact: Estrogen drops during menstrual cycles, postpartum phases, and perimenopause can sharply worsen ADHD symptoms, often unmasking the condition later in life.

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 16/07/2026

I’m 10x more likely going to pull up if you do this

Lined notebook paper with handdrawn stars, hearts, and stick people. The handwritten flyer reads: “I would rather your event flyer look like this than see more Al slop. I will come to this event.”

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 05/07/2026

I’m not sure if I smoked too much and I don’t understand or if people use yelp to solicit hookups now

Module on Yelp app prompting me to join conversations in San Francisco. The first conversation’s message reads “Any nightlife spots that are good for a casual night out? Available for adult hook up”

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 07/06/2026

I live in LA and have a hard time telling some white people apart because so many faces look alike I’m constantly asking “Have we met before?” at parties So I’m using #RHORI to learn ways to tell people apart through quirks, voices, and visual ticks. Because all of these women look the same to me

Photos of each cast member of the Real Housewives of Rhode Island, with minor details about them that are irrelevant to this post. They share similar skin tones and features that may be more easily differentiated by certain types of people

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 20/04/2026

Aww, I love a good calico kitty. And they can be sassy, so this fits 😅

Calico Cat Energy

You're socially intuitive. You know who needs comfort and who needs space.

You take care of the whole group, even if you pretend it's no big deal.

You're the calico cat who gathers everyone into one cozy. harmonious pile.

You're encouraging.
Purring supportively.

You're sensitive to conflict, so you become the peace-making heart of the home.

Good Matches
Cream Cat
Brown Tabby Cat

Bad Matches
Silver Tabby Cat
Gray Cat

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 14/02/2026

If I send you this, it means I warned you

Video screenshot of a school boy with his arm pulled back, ready to punch a kid who was defending ICE

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 04/12/2025

We dragged our luggage up five stories for the view

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 04/12/2025

Introduce yourself as a Black TV character

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 01/12/2025

I went to the oldest bookstore in the world yesterday 👩🏾‍🎓

Bookshelves at Livraria Bertrand in Lisbon, Portugal

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 01/12/2025

I laugh like this kid whenever some guy who peaked in high school adds me on IG who wouldn’t dare give me time of day when I was a younger, chubbier me

Nelson from The Simpsons pointing at someone, presumably while saying “haha”

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 23/11/2025

I’ll save y’all the guessing. It’s quality time and words of affirmation for me 😇

Maria sits in front of a blue external door in Paris, wearing a white dress and holding up a peace sign

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 10/10/2025

I am flummoxed by how beautiful Earth is. Why would you ever want to live on Mars???? 🤢

Maria and her fiancé stand in front of colorful mountains in Sedona, Arizona

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 09/10/2025

I’m on a road trip and I was looking for things to do in Roswell. I’m not a beer drinker, but I found this brewery???

The Trip Advisor page for Black Cock Brewery in Roswell, New Mexico

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 05/06/2025

I’m less impressed than I am wishing this bingo was more freaky

Masturbation bingo with all but one scenario highlighted

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 25/05/2025

Ever since I was diagnosed with ADHD, I’ve been confused about how I don’t resonate with a lot about “typical ADHD people.” And then I got the language for it, and it’s so relieving 😭😭😭

"high-functioning" ADHD, is a subset of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity
Disorder (ADHD) characterized by a paradoxical combination of hyperactivity and exceptional organizational abilities.
Symptoms:
Individuals with hyper-organized ADHD typically exhibit the following symptoms:
Hyperactivity:
Restlessness, difficulty sitting still, and excessive talking.
Impulsivity:
Acting without thinking, interrupting others, and difficulty waiting their turn.
Exceptional organizational skills:
Highly structured, meticulous, and efficient in planning and organizing tasks.
Hyperfocus:
Intense concentration on specific tasks, often to the exclusion of other responsibilities

Challenges: ®
Individuals with hyper-organized ADHD may face unique challenges, such as:
• Burnout: Their intense focus and hyperactivity can lead to exhaustion and burnout.
• Difficulty with social interactions:
Their hyperactivity and impulsivity may make it challenging to maintain social relationships. •
Perfectionism: Their organizational abilities can sometimes lead to unrealistic expectations and perfectionism.

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 17/05/2025

As a DV survivor, I have an entire plethora of fuck yous for people who refuse to even acknowledge the complexity of abusive power dynamics

Heaux Hefner:
Meanwhile Diddy shot a woman in the face in the middle of a club, the victim named him
And a whole ass nigga took a charge for him I'm pretty sure he didn't wanna take, he blew up another nigga car and that nigga never said shit about it
Grown ass men scared of this nigga but y'all asking why a girl young enough to be his child didn't leave him? Shut tf up.

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 17/05/2025

I still genuinely do not know how to conceptualize this genre

Spotify end of year wrapped screenshot that says “February was your boujee football rap phase”

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 15/03/2025

Shout out to anyone else who also hasn’t forgotten this promise

Screenshot of a truck driving into distance, from the end of the Telephone video by Lady Gaga and Beyoncé. The text overlay reads “To be continued…”

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 25/02/2025

Here’s a bunch of poison while you sit in the hospital waiting room 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

Vending machine with unhealthy chips, candy, and other snacks.

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oat chai latte @oatchailatte.blacksky.app · 18/01/2025

I googled this as a Black and Jewish person, and I take umbrage with Google AI deciding whether this opinion is “correct” Because I really do think the aliens would come here, hover, and be like “we out” *zooooooom*

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