Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 14/09/2026If you can steam milk like this, you are boyfriend material. 140
Reposted by OnyxOnyx (knotty) @knotdogtor.bsky.social · 29/07/2026weirdest part of being verse/switch is that everyone assumes what you do with them (or, conversely, someone they feel threatened by) is "the real you" and what you are "the most interested in" in ways that can damage the relationship 261
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 12/09/2026Recently someone new entered one of my regular friendgroups and it went so well so it’s got me reassessing how I navigate relationships 060
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 12/09/2026Every time I see someone write “per say” I lose several brain cells 120
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 02/09/2026a single event, huh? reading this gave me flashbacks though, I've been to a few TeVPAs (and nothing notable ever happened at any of them...) 010
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 01/09/2026dunno how long I'll stick it out (I'm gonna burn out eventually) but I think the longer the better as long as I can keep it going. 030
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 01/09/2026been at Current Job for one year can say definitively, this is the hardest I've worked & the hardest I've been pushed in my life, but it does feel like the work is meaningful and like I'm learning from the senior people around me. 130
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 31/08/2026work’s less obnoxious when you have a fun weekend planned 🙂 030
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 27/08/2026should still lose ~10 but I’m fine riding it slow for a while while the gains are still coming in. 000
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 27/08/2026got super fat during winter crunch, but I’m down 18 pounds and setting new gym PRs. 💪 130
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 24/08/2026It’s insane how much RDLs fuck me up, I did ONE set with 1-2 RIR and my hams are dummy sore 3 days later 000
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 21/08/2026the more I use codex like a caveman the more productive I am BROKE: “here’s my problem, here’s my context, use my readme, here are the relevant logs, here’s what I think you should try, confirm or deny my theory and make a plan to fix it” WOKE: “FIX BUG PLS” 000
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 21/08/2026bandwidth's low lately, and I spend a little too much energy assimilating into circles I don't vibe much with anyway. not sadposting or subtweeting anyone here -- there are many people I *do* get along with and part of the problem is that it's a disservice I don't prioritize them more 020
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 21/08/2026been feeling distant from the fandom lately, having thoughts of paring down my Online presence. the circles I spend my time in largely don't understand me (and tellingly, our relationships would deteriorate if they understood me better) 120
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 17/08/2026It is after all not the writing that is chiefly responsible for success, it’s hot art and fan art that’s shareable on Twitter and bsky. 010
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 17/08/2026FVN writers don’t need to become better writers, they need to become better editors. But the economics incentivizes poor pacing. Writers are encouraged to produce a maximal amount of cheap text for each expensive visual asset to maximize the updated and Patreon revenue. 250
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 17/08/2026at this point I might as well be an honorary shep with how much dna we've all exchanged 120
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 14/08/2026It’s also such a cliche that you shouldn’t use it in writing anyway. 000
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 14/08/2026tired of hearing “more art than science” and variants — it’s disrespectful to both how technical art is and how creative science is 110
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 10/08/2026kewpie + aji amarillo paste + honey = bomb-ass chicken sandwich sauce 110
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 31/07/2026to those following my silly star fox story on ao3, I will get to it one day, but the job's been kicking my ass lately. I've had to choose between gym and the rest of my hobbies and gym's been winning 020
Onyx @nubdogtor.bsky.social · 29/07/2026bout to push the biggest change I’ve ever made in my life to prod wish me luck if I get fired tomorrow you know what happened 260
