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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

Tangential but important: if someone makes you feel guilty for using a safeword, run.

Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

I'd personally advice against that. Try to reflect on why you feel that way afterwards. Remember, you will be always have a chance to make it happen inthe future but you can't undo things and that there's no shame in using your safeword. The Dom(me) would appreciate your honesty.

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

It can as simple as: "I'm not sure if I want to/ I don't want push it past the talk phase, I just want to enjoy that part for now" If you feel unsure in your unhorny state, it might be tempting to push through with it when the juices start flowing.

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 10/07/2025

It is ok to just be into the kink talk, no matter the reason(s) behind it (you might be unsure about the kink, just into talking about it....) As long as you communicate it clearly beforehand.

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 28/10/2024

I don't know how you ended up on a findom feed. But what's the current #1? You got me curious

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 28/10/2024

What should I make you do today: beg, serve, or stay silent? #BDSM #femdom #findom #prodomme

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

PSA: do not put grapes inside other holes besides you mouths! Do not accept unsafe ads or customs!!!

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

And if you don't master that particular kink and are able to participate in it safely

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

Findom: findom findomme goddess finsub humanatm rt game financial_domination Prodommes: prodomme Prodomme ProDomme Femdom: Femdom femdom Femdomme femdomme female_domination

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

Made few feeds to finally have for our communities to interact Findom: bsky.app/profile/did:... Prodommes: bsky.app/profile/did:... Femdom: bsky.app/profile/did:... I'll put in the attached comment the terms that would get you on each of them

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

A new account is easy to make though. I'm not saying this to scare you and I really appreciate the warning, I just don't want you to have a false sense of security

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

The block function doesn't actually work. Your profile is public. It can be seen in any browser without the need to login

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 27/10/2024

A negotiation talk is a must including soft and hard budget limits. Do not take any subs who "doesn't have limits" that's a huge 🚩

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 26/10/2024

Yess. Every Domme should know how valuable she really is!

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 26/10/2024

Tiny, worthless, and desperate… the only time you’ll feel big is with your wallet in my hands #BDSM #femdom #findom #prodomme

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 25/10/2024

The art of humiliation is not about breaking you; it’s about sculpting you into something more. What does that make you? A work in progress, waiting for My finishing touch. 🎨 #BDSM #femdom #findom #prodomme

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 25/10/2024

A good sub always knows their limits. Consent is sexy, don’t forget that. #femdom #findom #prodomme

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 24/10/2024

...that will still be mine to accept or decline. But, they're not entitled to anything. I wear all hats, in a non mainstream way and honestly don't find an issue communicating

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 24/10/2024

I think it's on us too to pick the labels if that's so important to us. I identify with all of the above and yes people want some stuff but I'm very clear that I'm faceless and not physically explicit. That if they want a session they can book one. If they want content they can ask for a custom..

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 24/10/2024

I honestly don't think confusion is a real problem. Communication is key. And I suppose we both know that kinks rarely come in singular form

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 24/10/2024

I think it's bit more nuanced than that. Financial domination done by a fem presenting person is by definition femdom. However every dynamic is unique and this is one of the reasons negociation and setting expectations are important.

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 24/10/2024

Oh I don't like him either. I was just curious to see because some were moving to escape the stupid blocking decision. But they're not aware that this will not really solve that

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 24/10/2024

Any non fiction recommendations? (No spirituality, no health and fitness, no browy stuff) #bluesky💙📚

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 24/10/2024

Negotiation isn't optional. It's essential for the pleasure that follows and it keeps all parties safe. For both sides of the slash: don't jump into play immediately! This is for your own wellbeing. And yes all parties are responsible for it. We're all adults. #BDSM #femdom #prodomme #findomme

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 20/10/2024

Last night, you were slightly useful. I was drinking your money away with my friends 🥂 #findom #prodomme #findomme

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Goddess Fae ( Nightshade Fae ) @nightshadefae.bsky.social · 18/10/2024

Your life is hard. Your responsabilites are weighing on you. The money you make doesn't even bring joy. I know what you crave though....what will make you complete.... It's sooo close....You can almost feel it You know what it is. Come on. Do it!

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