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Nick Bognar (he/him)

@nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social
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#LMFT in private practice in CA / Helping #therapists build their dream practices / Lover of #cats, baker of pies, rewriter of #networking rules. A Meta-refugee, here to make genuine connections. www.nickbognarcoaching.com

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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 28/01/2026
People change jobs, insurance, cities… or just capacity. My job is to make the transition kind: name options, offer solid referrals, and bless the next step. Clients remember how you handle the handoff. That part really matters. #therapistsky
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 21/01/2026
Honestly, my consult calls with therapy clients aren’t fancy. We just talk. I tell folks how I work, what it costs, how scheduling works, and we see if it feels right. If it doesn’t, I help them find someone who will. That’s the whole thing. #therapistsky
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 14/01/2026
You don’t have to bend to build a full practice. Set a clear fee, a clear schedule, and a clear fit. Be kind, not contortionist. Say what you do best, who you’re for, and hold the line. The right clients find you. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
A calmer 2026 starts with one choice: make room for clients who actually fit you.
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 02/01/2026
I don’t think January needs to be a sprint. I think it needs to be honest.
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 31/12/2025
Year-end pep talk, minus the hype: You CAN build the version of private practice you actually want. Not overnight and not by force, but by alignment + repetition.
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 29/12/2025
Nothing magical happens at midnight. The therapists who end up with practices they actually like didn’t wait for a reset.  They made small, aligned moves and just kept going. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 26/12/2025
You don’t have to out-tech the world. You have to be you, on purpose.
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 24/12/2025
AI can assist but it can’t replace you. If you’re wondering how to “stand out”: be findable, be referable, be human. What’s one human thing you’re proud of this year? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 22/12/2025
Hot take: your most powerful “tool” isn’t a tool. It’s you. Real presence still wins in therapy, and as we head into 2026, don’t try to out-robot the robots. It's time to double down on relationship, trust, and clarity.
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 19/12/2025
Best choices I’ve made came from quiet clarity, not panic. Conversations with trusted colleagues > chasing trends. Who’s your “call before you pivot” person?
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 17/12/2025
“I have to or I’ll fall behind” vs. “I want to because it aligns.” Same action, totally different energy. What’s one aligned move you’ll make before year’s end?
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 15/12/2025
End-of-year buzz can sound like: “do more, be everywhere.” Quick check: is this move fueled by fear—or by vision? Write down 3 business decisions you made lately and label each one. No shame, just clarity. What did you notice? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 12/12/2025
Networking ≠ “get clients now.” It’s relationships, trust, and long-game impact. Even if you’re full, you can still be the person who connects people well. What’s a low-pressure way you stay in the game?
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 10/12/2025
Burned out and still want to grow? Try the 60-second move: Forward a kind note to a colleague you admire. One sentence about what they do brilliantly. That’s it. #therapistsky #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 08/12/2025
You don’t need your dream job to start building your dream practice. If you’re tired, keep the moves small: connect, refer well, be generous. That kind of generosity has a way of coming back around. Who’s one colleague you can lift up today?
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 05/12/2025
Therapy practices grow on trust + time and December is great for both. What if you sent a 2-line “thinking of you” to a colleague you value today? #therapistsconnect
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 03/12/2025
Not rewriting your whole website this month? Same. But you can still: • check in with 1 colleague • clarify what you want more of • post a short “here’s my best-fit work” note Quiet moves still count! #therapistsconnect #therapistsky
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 01/12/2025
Therapists, If nothing changed between now and Jan 1, how would you feel about your practice? If that stings, you’re not alone...and you still have time. What “small, honest” step feels right this week? #therapysky #therapistsconnect
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 28/11/2025
Sometimes the most “business-savvy” thing you can do is go to bed. You can’t out-hustle burnout. You can’t market your way out of exhaustion. Therapists — what’s your go-to move when your tank is empty? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 26/11/2025
Everyone wants the “3 easy steps” to a full practice. Here’s mine: 1. Talk to people. 2. Build trust. 3. Repeat. (Sorry, no crazier answer.) What would you add to this list? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 24/11/2025
Therapists: stop feeling bad about enforcing your cancellation policy. If a client cancels 2 minutes into session, that’s not your problem — that’s the policy. Otherwise, you’re trading in your sleep and sanity. Do you enforce your policy? Why or why not? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 21/11/2025
Almost 100% of my caseload comes from referrals. Not SEO, not socials, not even my podcast. Just other clinicians who know me. Networking is the unsexy secret nobody wants to hear. What’s been your best referral source? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 17/11/2025
A therapist once told me they wanted to combine therapy, cooking, and retreats into one offering. My take? If you’ve got the ingredients, cook the damn recipe. Therapists — what’s your wild dream for your practice that you’ve been too scared to say out loud? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 14/11/2025
Being “squishy” with your schedule doesn’t make you more accommodating. It makes you resentful. And your clients can feel that. What’s the hardest boundary for you to hold in private practice? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 12/11/2025
Another therapist once told me: “I feel like I’m not fully recognized anywhere.” That line gutted me — and also nailed the experience of so many high-achieving, burned-out therapists. Do you resonate with that? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 10/11/2025
My old business card said: Depression Destroyer. My next one might just say: Not the ketchup guy. Not the guitar amp guy. (There are at least two other “Nick Bognars” out there so I have to clarify.) Should therapists lean into humor with their branding, or keep it buttoned-up? #therapistsconnect
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 07/11/2025
PSA: Feeling fried ≠ ‘not cut out for it.’ It usually means ‘under-resourced and isolated.’ Find one colleague. Start with ‘I thought of you today.’ #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 05/11/2025
You’re carrying the weight of ten stories a day. No human body—no matter how trained—can hold that alone. Peers are how we metabolize the work. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 04/11/2025
The open hours you may have in your schedule right now aren’t dead space; they’re networking office hours. Text a colleague, book a coffee, join a consult group. Calendars fill from conversations, and if you have time to see clients, you have time to build the relationships that bring them.
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 03/11/2025
I'll be honest. I don’t buy into SEO for therapists. You’re not competing with 4,000 random Googlers; you’re competing with BetterHelp’s $20M ad budget. And I swear that the best referrals don’t come from strangers on Google. Agree? Or is SEO your hill to die on? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 31/10/2025
Networking isn’t always about who knows your name. It’s about who remembers you when an opportunity shows up. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 29/10/2025
Not every connection becomes a referral. But some become your business partner. Or supervisor. Or friend. Or life raft. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 27/10/2025
If you're waiting for the “big break” that finally fills your practice, here’s a wild idea: what if it’s a quiet referral from someone who trusts you? #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 24/10/2025
If your therapist self feels sturdy but your business self is flailing—that’s not failure. It’s a sign that one part needs more support. #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 22/10/2025
You’re allowed to want help before everything’s on fire. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 20/10/2025
Being the ‘strong one’ doesn’t mean you never need support. It means you’ve probably just gotten really good at hiding it. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 17/10/2025
Just because you can rearrange your whole schedule to accommodate someone...doesn’t mean you should. #therapistsky #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 15/10/2025
You’re not ‘too sensitive’ for needing emotional safety in your calendar.
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 13/10/2025
Structure is not rigidity. Sometimes a predictable schedule is the thing that keeps you regulated enough to do the damn work. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 10/10/2025
You can’t learn if you’re in fight-or-flight. And that includes in supervision. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork  #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
I had a supervisor once who I thought I had to impress. So I hid my mistakes. You can probably guess how well that went. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
Good supervision helps you grow—it doesn’t make you doubt yourself every week. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork  #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 03/10/2025
Power dynamics in supervision are real. And if you’ve ever frozen in the moment, then spiraled for weeks about it—you’re not broken. You’re absorbing something that isn’t yours. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
I used to think I had to be agreeable to get hours. That if I made things hard, I’d be labeled ‘difficult.’ Turns out, being agreeable didn’t make me safe either. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
It's just so important to find your people. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 29/09/2025
Build a network of professional colleagues who don’t believe in “keeping it all for themselves” and watch your practice grow in the best possible way. #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky #referralnetwork #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth #GrowWithReferrals #ReferralStrategy
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
Full-fee therapy doesn’t mean greedy luxury on the part of the therapist. It means I’m not spending the session calculating how many no-shows I can afford this week. It means I remember your story. It means I’m not tired of holding space. It means I’m still in it with you. #therapistsky
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 25/09/2025
High fee doesn’t mean high ego. Sometimes it just means “I value the work. And I value me.” #therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky
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Nick Bognar (he/him) @nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
You probably wouldn’t know if your therapist was burned out. They’d still smile. Still ask how you are. Still nod in all the right places. But maybe they’d run a little late, or forget what you said last week. Or seem kind of... tired. Like they’re somewhere else...
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