Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 14/08/2026Met a lovely Italian woman at the mall today, must have been in her 90s. She approached me slowly, letting her words seep out, “I don’t like you.” 😒 Bracing myself for possible witchcraft, I said, “Oh no, why?” 😧 “Because you make-uh me feel like a midget.” 😝 (I’m really tall) 110
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Menopause isn’t what tanks a sex drive. Having an unsupportive husband during menopause does. Menopause just changes hormones, not desire for closeness and intimate connection with another person. It can make you go off sex AT TIMES, but not all the time. That’s a relational issue. 100
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Having AI design your artwork is like having the boss’s nephew do it. Even if he’s good, you’re gonna get the same shit every single time and it will look like your boss’s nephew did it. 020
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 14/03/2026Realizing on threads that MAGA literally have the mental capacity of a third grader. It’s not that they don’t want to hear the truth—they simply can’t process the information if it isn’t fed to them by their trusted propaganda dispensaries. 030
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 27/02/2026Are you demisexual or do you have a partner who is emotionally unavailable and you’re just not aroused sexually due to neglect? 020
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 26/01/2026Men worry about your feelings about once for every 18 times you worry about theirs. So if you worry a little less it won’t harm them. 000
Reposted by Nat LaJuneAna Marie Cox @anamariecox.com · 25/01/2026The majority of organizing happening in Minnesota isn’t just peaceful, it’s INVISIBLE. Moms showing up who won’t be interviewed on TV, people whose ICE patrols don’t turn into viral video. The grocery runs, the donations, the people filming bc they happen to be there. Please remember this. 138173164283
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 19/01/2026Radical autonomy honors my partner’s right to be exactly who he is. Any reservations I have are mine to hold. open.substack.com/pub/natlajun...open.substack.comRadical AutonomyPutting you and me before our relationship is what makes it free and safe from control. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 18/01/2026When a man I’m interested in pulls away, I’m disappointed, but in the way you’re disappointed when you’re just getting to the good part of a book and you have to put it down. It sucks not getting to explore him more but there will be other books, other adventures. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 11/12/2025Is anyone still using Bluesky or are we all on threads now? 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 03/12/2025Women who left abusive marriages and tried counseling first, what’s one thing the couples counselor said that made it worse? 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 01/12/2025Sometimes I wonder if love is not to stay As I’m covered in the cries Of weary and worn believers I question the guides when I pray Is there really another life to live Than to be a lover to leavers? 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 17/10/2025Christians are abusing and terrorizing each other in their homes and churches every day, but sure, let’s talk about how meditation is of the devil 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 14/10/2025I was 33 the first time he told me it must be early menopause. I said no it couldn’t be. He said his sister said it could be. I never asked myself why he was talking to his sister about us. I only apologized and said I would try harder. And I did. I tried and tried and tried. #maritalcoercion 110
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 13/10/2025Before you try HRT, try divorce. I didn’t have menopause. I had symptoms of menopause because I was being traumatized by my husband. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 13/10/2025If you divorced an abusive husband I hope you’re talking to people about what he did. There are women going through the same thing and don’t know it’s abuse. 020
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 12/10/2025An abusive man’s favorite word is but. But you said no last time. But women do it too. But men need sex. But you’re my wife. But if you don’t, I’ll cheat. But I did the dishes. But what did you do? But what was she wearing? But she was 18. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 12/10/2025Telling a woman she can give a baby up for adoption as an alternative to abortion is like telling a rape victim, “what are you crying about, he’s not raping you anymore?“  She still has to live with the trauma. 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 07/10/2025“But that’s not legal.” The law is a love poem without someone to enforce it. 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 05/10/2025Men who prey on women wouldn’t be caught dead dressed as one. 011
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 05/10/2025I don’t have the energy to spare for Taylor Swift’s music but I will say, from what others are sharing of her lyrics, I’m pretty sure men are not a good muse for her. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 05/10/2025I know I’m early But I had no reason to wait We said we’d meet at nine But lover take your time A lot can happen before a date I don’t mind being early Time is only a farthing The table is dressed The coffee is pressed And I’m busy watching the starlings 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 05/10/2025Much like the onion, SNL isn’t funny anymore because it’s real now. 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 04/10/2025Talking about what “over them” means. open.substack.com/pub/natlajun...open.substack.comHow Long Does it Take to Get Over Someone?What does it really mean to get over someone? Is it about time, distance, or something more? 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 29/09/2025Apparently this is a hot take, but I don’t believe you’re a girls girl if you have conditions on what makes someone a girl, or whether or not you support them 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 29/09/2025Everyone is deleting tiktok accounts. Be kind to us for awhile. It’s not an easy thing to do. Some of us have made over 20,000 videos on that app. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 29/09/2025Either he’s a liar and a jackass or he’s an idiot and a dingbat. In 30+ years using the internet I’ve managed to get my birth date right every time. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 24/09/2025When I use voice-to-text, Neurotypical is capitalized and neurodivergent is not. 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 22/09/2025The ONLY reason this man is still president is because everyone with the power to remove him wants him there. 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 11/09/2025People don’t recognize abuse in their relationships because their family abused them first and they thought it was normal 020
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 11/09/2025Charlie Kirk has asked that no one have empathy. I think it’s the least we can do for him. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 11/09/2025A chess piece was just moved and there are a few more turns. 020
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 09/09/2025A list of “he didn’t force me but” notes. I’m working on compiling them for a guided journal about sexual coercion for women healing from this particular abuse. #maritalcoercion 030
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 09/09/2025Sometimes when I see somebody being a real tool in the comments, I think it’s a nice courtesy to remind him, “this is the kind of thing that gets you handcuffed to a roof in the walking dead.” 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 16/08/2025I’ve been shifting away from TikTok all year, but it has been my “home” online for 5 years. It’s sad to let it go, but it’s not safe there anymore. I’m putting my energy into Substack and Patreon now (lots of free content still), and will be posting a little less on social media. 030
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 12/07/2025Epstein in witness protection would be something else, wouldn’t it? 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 10/07/2025A man just told me “getting told no did some damage” on a post about women being rejected for saying no. Women: coerced, abused, raped Men: bummed they don’t get laid 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 08/07/2025What if the state of the world is what it is right now because everyone believed it would happen this way. 100
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 08/07/2025Men who objectify women always comment on appearances. So the best defense is to get real comfy in your body. Nothing anyone says can hurt me unless it’s an insecurity I have already. 😘 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 07/07/2025TikTok just found out they’re shutting it down for real in 2026, to replace it with a different app that’s US only. They desperately want us to stop getting information from outside. As far as I know, that was the last place we could interact with people from around the world so easily. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 10/06/2025When you hear rumors of a rigged election, don’t focus on whether or not it’s true. Focus on who wants to hide the fact that it could be. Because it only takes one person to find gold for the whole world to start digging. 000
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 24/05/2025My 30th reunion is next month and I’m not even a little bummed I won’t be there. 010
Nat LaJune @natlajune.bsky.social · 26/04/2025I’ve been saying “asleep to” instead of blind or ignorant and it’s changing my conversations. People naturally think of themselves in the opposing state: not blind, not ignorant. It’s much more fruitful to have them imagine themselves as awakened to. 010
