n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 03/09/2026I constantly feel ashamed because I can’t finish many of my drawings. 120
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 27/08/2026Any misgendering that gets written to me won't be discussed. it will simply be deleted without dialogue, perhaps not even by me, but by someone else. It doesn't matter what you wrote on my page misgendering me completely is prohibited. I don't give a fuck about your political stance. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 27/08/2026You've decided you know us better than we know ourselves, which is completely wrong. By addressing us with incorrect pronouns, you're not expressing your position. you're imposing who we are on us and you imposing on us pronouns we don't want to hear while we completely disagree with you. 100
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 27/08/2026I believe that pronoun usage shouldn't be a matter of personal opinion. "But I think you're actually a man, so I'll use men's pronouns." Let's pause there for a moment. It's not up to you to decide who we are, and it's not up to you to decide our pronouns. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 18/07/2026I'm amazed by those transphobic people who say that Jax is biologically male when Jax literally is a digital consciousness without a biological body, like all the characters of this circus. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026I stopped drawing Art because I'm completely busy drawing the first chapter of my comic. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026The system should have changed long ago, because how many times have we kicked out cis women and intersex people because they naturally have high testosterone levels? In theory, sports try to be fair and honest, but in reality, they kick people out because they don't fit in binary boxes. 020
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026No one is equal in body composition, and if these advantages don't provide an extremely significant advantage, then banning trans women from sports is absurd. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Athletes may have genetic mutations that give them an advantage in sports unrelated to their biological sex, but for some reason they aren't kicked out of sports for having these advantages. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026And there's no evidence of a significant advantage for trans women who have been on hormones for a long time in sports. Hormone therapy affects the body, and even if there are some correlates, sports have never been completely equal. 120
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Many rapists, in one way or another, aren't random passersby, but people who already know the victim, and most often, these are cisgender men. Not transgender women who simply want to go to the bathroom because they need to go to the toilet. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Amab folks aren't monsters by default who undergo surgery and take hormones because they want to infiltrate women's spaces and cause them harm. On the contrary, transgender people are more often victims of violence than perpetrators of it in public spaces. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Afab folks aren't victims or those who need to be saved from themselves. Saying otherwise completely takes away people's autonomy and agency. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Transgender afab people don't hate women or have internalized misogyny. They simply don't want to be women because they don't feel like women, and they feel like something else, and want their body and presentation to match how they feel. They don't hate women. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Thirdly, I'm tired of infantilizing afab people. The idea that if you don't want to be a woman, you hate women is exactly the same as saying that if you're a lesbian and don't want to date men, you hate men and are a poor victim, not an independent person with your own tastes and orientation. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026There are feminine trans guys and masculine trans women. Gender presentation and style don't equal gender identity. What defines a trans person is their gender identity, not how they dress. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Firstly, if a trans man wants to dress masculine or a trans woman wants to dress feminine, that doesn't mean they believe that's what makes someone a man or a woman. It's their personal expression, not a statement about anything. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 10/07/2026I want to say something because I'm just fed up from people. I'm tired of people justifying transphobia by claiming that trans people feed stereotypes with their very existence. 130
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 21/06/2026Better quality in my telegram channel t.me/n1kogrint.men1kogrinYou can view and join @n1kogrin right away. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 21/06/2026I made this base for myself to make my own characters, but you can use it too. (Oh my god, I drew the toes incorrectly, they're positioned incorrectly 😭 but I don't want to fix it anymore) Tags #drawingbase #angel #angelbase #base #artbase #art 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 21/06/2026People commit vile acts, like bullying and oppressing others, but trans people who can't come out of the closet are somehow to blame for other people's vile behavior. A normal person wouldn't humiliate people based on their suspicions that they're transgender. 010
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 21/06/2026Actually, you can, you just need a very light hoodie made of breathable fabric. 010
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 21/06/2026Because Jax forces herself to be masculine and is afraid that someone will see who she is, so she makes up all these things, it's a mask to not show what's inside. 020
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 21/06/2026the only thing that was expressed in my actions was my preferences in clothing and my reactions to it 010
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 21/06/2026Well, it's like, because on the outside, the fact that a person is trans inside may not show up at all. When I was an egg, people didn't notice anything at all and were surprised when I opened up. You can smile at others and at the same time suffer deeply and hate everyone. 140
Reposted by n1kogrin 💕they made gooseworx @gooseworx.bsky.social · 20/06/2026Jax if she wasn't a huge piece of shit. 28698149221293
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 28/04/2026Eveline for the card from #Animeshopsimulator ❤Tags #Elfgirl #animeart #anime #art 072
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026And not everyone thinks that a this last percentage matters; for some trans people, they have a different organism, not the one they had before, and what remains does not affect that. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026I also see how many people use the words male and man, etc in english as a synonyms in everyday speech. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026You also need to consider that in some languages, there's no distinction between the words "women" and "female." And that the words themselves carry very strong gender connotations, which are unpleasant for people who don't want to associate themselves with them. 100
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026but if I hadn't gone through medical transition, I wouldn't have been happy either 010
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026But honestly, I wouldn't want to date someone who chose me because my birth sex matters to them, not because they are attracted to me as a non-binary person. After all, I'm first and foremost a person who's medically transitioning. 100
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026I believe people have the right to date who they feel comfortable with. I'm non-binary and wouldn't want to date someone who doesn't like me; there's no reason to insist that people accept their preferences. 100
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026The main thing is that it changes us a lot and this change needs to be acknowledged, not rejected.You can't say "you're still have the same sex you had at birth" after your body has been 60%-70% changed. 110
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026It would be nice if you could have children one day without the need for sperm of a man. 010
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026Okay, but biological transition shifts you from the female sex category because sex is many things in the body, not one thing, we can change half of them and after that our sex pretty much changes, even if not everything is changed 210
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026The problem is that we've turned a fact about our bodies into a way to define who they should be and control their behavior. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026Sex as a category is socially constructed. It's truly biological, but how we define sex is socially dependent, because at different periods in history, we've defined it differently based on our knowledge and culture. 100
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026I don't deny that this part of your past can be important to you, but I also believe that it shouldn't define who we are today and shouldn't be relevant today. If it's still relevant this may mean that society attaches importance to our past and places us in the framework of our past. 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026Okay, but I don't want to discuss gender identity vs. biological sex because I don't believe they should conflict, I believe both things don't interfere with each other. 300
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026Okay, I just asked because I don't want to spam this post with too many conversational comments, but since that's how it is, I'll just ask. Where is the proof that she's a TERF? I'm new here and don't really understand. 010
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026Can I talk to you via chat? Or social media about it? 000
n1kogrin 💕 @n1kogrin.bsky.social · 19/02/2026This doesn't mean I'm saying you're transphobic, it means that some of the things you say may echo the words of those who have harmed our community. 100
