iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 13/09/2026

I FOUND MY ❤️ IN SAN FRANCISCO SF is the largest influence in my journey. In 1994, the LGBTQ+ Recovery Community took me under their wing and gave me my life back. Just so happens, the same year I became a Sister of Perpetual Indulgence. #MBGFL #QueerRecovery #SoberLife #FoundMyHeartInSanFrancisco

010 1

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 13/09/2026

I FOUND MY ❤️ IN SAN FRANCISCO SF: At a sober New Year’s Eve dance welcoming 1997, I found my true heart—the man who would become my husband. This Dec. 31, 2027, we’ll celebrate 30 years together. Who would have thought? ❤️ #MBGFL #loveWins #QueerLove #loveislove

010 1

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 13/09/2026

I FOUND MY ❤️ IN SAN FRANCISCO With sobriety and love in my life, I followed another dream: becoming a professional Makeup Artist. I started as the resident MUA for Borghese at Macy’s—an 80s icon! I thought I had arrived…life would show more to come. #MBGFL #MakeupArtist #MakeupCareer

010 1

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 13/09/2026

CAMERA READY COACH. After the Camp Fire, I taught solopreneurs to master hair, makeup, wardrobe, set design and lighting for social media—on a budget. I was onto something. Then COVID hit. You’d think the timing was perfect. Unfortunately, everyone was broke. Damn it! 💋 #MyBigGayFabulousLife

000 0

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 13/09/2026

MY LOGO & DESIGN WORK. Self-taught, my love of logos and font creation began at 12—with lids, caps, Tupperware covers, coins, any straight edge I could find, pencil, TV tray and hours of VH1 videos. No Canva. No computer. Just imagination. Oh, the good old days. 💋 #LogoDesign #MyBigGayFabulousLife

010 1

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 13/09/2026

MY LIFE AS A MAKEUP ARTIST. One of the most fun shoots ever! Just a portfolio piece, but SO creative. Hair hats, Mylar feather lashes & makeup were my contribution. Add an amazing stylist, photographer & model...and THIS was the result. 💋 #MakeupArtistLife #BehindTheBrush #MyBigGayFabulousLife

000 0

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 10/09/2026

Hotels, restaurants or beauty counters—customer service is my jam due to one philosophy: treat it like your own business. How would I care for this person if my name was on the door? Customer service is all common sense. Sadly, it isn’t common. Maybe I should teach it. 💋 #mybiggayfabulouslife

Me being customer service professional...

000 0

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 10/09/2026

Sober in SF 1994, won Miss Gay SF, ➡ LA for MU dreams, lost all 💰 after 9/11, rebuilt in Miami & SF, opened an oncology-safe day spa in Paradise, CA, survived the 2018 Paradise 🔥, started coaching—and landed in SC. 32yrs sober. Thriving through all of life’s messiness. 💋 #mybiggayfabulouslife

031 3

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 10/09/2026

From a Barbie bust head to becoming an agency-represented makeup artist. 💄 The road included a gentlemen’s club, luxury cosmetic counters, regional artistry gigs, television, indie films—and ultimately my true calling: print and advertising. Oh, the faces I’ve painted… 💋 #MyBigGayFabulousLife

000 0

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 07/09/2026

🐶 OMG! This little girl is my whole heart! 👶🏻 This was when she was a baby...she's a moose now...but the cuddliest, cutest, most lovable moose you will ever meet! 🫎 #PuppyLove #FurBaby #CuddleBug #MyLittleMoose #MyBigGayFabulousLife

010 1

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 07/09/2026

❤️ The 2 loves of my life. 💍 🐾 Long over due vacation-ish get-a-way to Savannah, GA...scouting for our forever home. #ChosenFamily #LoveMakesAFamily #FamilyOurWay #QueerFamily #MyBigGayFabulousLife

000 0

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 07/09/2026

❤️❤️❤️ I hope everyone gets the opportunity to find a love that just gets you! 👨‍❤️‍👨 👨‍❤️‍👨 👨‍❤️‍👨 One that loves unconditionally...through good, bad and... all the messy stuff 💩💩💩 in between. #mybiggayfabulouslife #loveislove #QueerLove #GayLove #LoveWins

000 0

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 05/09/2026

OUR DEEPEST FEAR By Marianne Williamson is a fav...and words I aspire to live by. Not always easy...but I do believe every word to be a universal truth. In case you haven't read it in its entirety...I will have it on my website soon. #OurDeepestFear #QueerJoy #SelfDiscovery #MyBigGayFabulousLife

010 1

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 04/09/2026

SR. AURA LEE...GIFTED! of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, Inc. 💒 Sister since 1994 🕍 Houses: San Francisco, Sin Sity Sisters, Savannah Sisters Have always loved this pic...first photoshoot with the Sin Sity Sisters...by the amazing Shane O'Neil at SON Studios. #sistersofperpetualindulgence

020 2

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 04/09/2026

DON'T YOU DARE SAY NUT'IN DISPARAGING "BOUT MY WAFFLE HOUSE! 🧇 By far one of the best things about living in the South. 🍞 Raisin Toast. 🍳 Scrambled, Cap'd and Smothered. 🌽 Grits. And of course a 🧇 Waffle. What's your fav Waffle House breakfast? #WaffleHouse #SouthernLife #MyBigGayFabulousLife

010 1

Miles Berdache Lynk @mybiggayfablife.com · 04/09/2026

Well, hello there. 💋 I’m Miles. Nearly 60, proudly queer, sober, inherently fabulous & still figuring shit out. This is my life—travel, activism, self-care, Sister shenanigans, opinions, adventures & whatever happens next. Welcome to My Big Gay Fabulous Life. 🪩🌈

040 4