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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 43m
If you're going to misbehave, darling, at least do it with enough flair that I don't have to roll my eyes before I reprimand you. 📸 @acalculatedrisk Model: @charisunderscarlet #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 3h
Watching a woman realize she doesn't have to pretend to enjoy anything for the next two hours is like watching a Victorian ghost finally cross over. 📸 @atglamldn #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 15/10/2026
There is a specific kind of relief only possible when another woman looks at your deepest, weirdest desire and just smiles. 📸 @templeofmary #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 15/10/2026
A butch aesthetic, listening hands, and zero male ego in the room. You’re welcome. 📸 @captsydney #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
I’m entirely comfortable with puppies, kittens, and those who need a little nursery discipline. Just wipe your paws and listen to Mommy. 📸 @captsydney #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 13/10/2026
Flirting with a clever woman is like fencing with silk foils. It’s lovely right up until someone gets disarmed and pinned to the wall. #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 13/10/2026
A woman who knows how to open a heavy oak door, pay the cab before you reach for your bag, and undo your posture with one glance is a vanishing art form.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
The best part of dating women is the eye contact. The best part of booking me is that you don’t have to guess what happens after. 📸 @atglamldn 💅 @hollyartistry #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
It’s not called being demanding; it’s called having high standards. 📸 by @acalculatedrisk #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
When you learn to own your fantasies you become able to practice true shadow work. This essay is ideal for the practitioner and the enlightened sub. Link to Substack post in thread below
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 09/10/2026
As a co-creatrix of fantasy worlds, I am your guide, priestess, and gateway to the divine within you. We can all learn these skills no matter the path we follow, on which side of the slash we fall. Link to the full post in the thread below.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
What we fantasise about is the language of our own divinity, sacred 3r0s is holy magic. This guide teaches you how to understand it, lean into it, cultivate it, and work with it, whether your own or that of your charge. Link to full article in thread below
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 07/10/2026
I’m entirely comfortable with puppies, kittens, and those who need a little nursery discipline. Just wipe your paws and listen to Mommy. 📸 @captsydney 🐶 @Pup.Lani 🐶 @pup_xenox 🐶 @rhythm_pup #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #selfexpression #kinkcommunity #puppyplay
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
The real sapphic dilemma isn’t choosing between high-femme and dapper butch; it’s figuring out which one I’m wearing while ruining your weekend plans. 📸 @atglamldn 💅 @hollyartistry #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 06/10/2026
A tall woman in a bespoke double-breasted suit rolling up her sleeves is essentially a public health hazard for gay women. 📸 @atglamldn 💅 @hollyartistry #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 05/10/2026
Lesbian dating rule #1: You can spend six months moving in together, or you can spend one evening letting a 6’4” woman handle the pacing for once. 📸 @atglamldn 💅 @hollyartistry #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
Every high-achieving lesbian executive needs a taller woman to remind her that "in charge" is a position you can resign from for the evening. 📸 @atglamldn 💅 @hollyartistry #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 04/10/2026
To the men who equate penetration with domination, go read Sun Tzu's "Art of War". Baby, I've got you surrounded. 📸 @ATglamldn 💅 @hollyartistry #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 03/10/2026
Feeling punchy #femdom
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
A woman who knows how to open a heavy oak door, pay the cab before you reach for your bag, and undo your posture with one glance is a vanishing art form. 📸 @captsydney 👷‍♀️ @_consttantia #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
The secret to great rope on a woman isn’t the knots; it’s the quiet confidence in the hands pulling the tension. 📸 @captsydney 👷‍♀️ @_consttantia #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Why do some people have a problem paying for sex? My new essay is about money, intimacy, female agency, the whore stigma, emotional labour, and the right of a woman to own herself. What if the thing that unsettles us about paid intimacy is not the money at all, but the clarity? Link in thread
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
I don't know how you run your household, but mine runs like clockwork... 📸 @charlotte.douleur 💅 @hollyartistry 👷‍♀️ @c.aaaitlyn 👷‍♀️ @lois.spookedd #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
For subscribers only, but hey, what better reason. Here is a detailed piece on Interrogation Scenes: how to conduct them, their archetypes, and the layers beneath. A must read and one of my most popular posts... Link in thread below #bdsm #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femdom
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
This piece on Substack has been one of my most read articles...prompted by the genuine question of a thoughtful man who asked what he could do to help. Link in thread below. #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Flirting with a clever woman is like fencing with silk foils. It’s lovely right up until someone gets disarmed and pinned to the wall. 📸 @atglamldn 💅 @hollyartistry #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
A soft butch aesthetic with high-femme execution. It keeps everyone wonderfully off-balance. 📸 @atglamld 💅 @hollyartistry #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Every powerful lesbian reaches a point on Friday night where she just wants another woman to hand her a glass of wine and say, "Shoes off. Now." #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
I don't care how many promotions you've had; in my suite, your only job is to kneel and remember your manners. Photo credit @acalculatedrisk #femaleledrelationship #flr #feminineleadership #relationshipdynamics #gentledominance
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
A girl will spend £400 on skincare just to avoid admitting she needs a very tall redhead to pin her wrists and tell her she's done a good job this week. #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
There is a specific kind of relief only possible when another woman looks at your deepest, weirdest desire and just smiles. #bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Two women sharing a bottle of vintage champagne, dissecting art, and figuring out who takes the lead first—that’s a proper Tuesday night. #sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
This philosophical musing posits woman's choice as the natural, dominant ordering system of all life. The co-option of female choice by male-dominant systems is unnatural and unhealthy. mxvalentina.substack.com/p/771-pretty...
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
Men are wired to follow. Society was meant to be organised and run by women. Everything else is a perversion of truth. I campaign for this in all aspects of my life by living it, owning it, and breathing it. mxvalentina.substack.com/p/73-this-is...
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
"Shame is the mechanism by which patriarchy maintains control. Shame tells us not to want, not to speak, not to show. Shame ensures women do not stand too tall, laugh too loudly, f*** too freely...." mxvalentina.substack.com/p/shame-is-t...
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
A good top doesn’t just give orders; she creates an environment where you genuinely don’t want to do anything else but obey. Thanks to @acalculatedrisk and @charisunderscarlet
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
The best part of dating women is the eye contact. The best part of booking me is that you don’t have to guess what happens after.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Sapphic yearning is lovely, but sapphic surrender under the hands of a trained somatic practitioner is what actually fixes your posture.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
There is an art to ordering oysters like you intend to cause problems later.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Everyone is looking for peace of mind, but deep down most people just want someone steady to push them up against a wall.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
I like my conversations like my linen sheets: slightly rumpled and impossible to leave in a hurry.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
You’d be amazed how many boardroom titans melt into a puddle the second someone says, “Hands where I can see them, please.”
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Our fantasies are the keys to our shadows and to the Divine. In this seminal article I look at where fantasy comes from, what creates the resistance that makes a fantasy hot 🔥 🌶️ and how to lean into it and play deeper whether the fantasy is yours or one you facilitate. Link in Comments
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Submission becomes art when it becomes strength, purpose...my job is to help find that sweet spot, and to guide you once you are there. Be the best you can. Read the full post, link in thread
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
1,000 hours of somatic training and I can confirm: your back doesn't hurt from the gym, it hurts because you haven't been touched properly in six months
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
My favorite yoga pose is lying flat on a hotel bed while someone else figures out the dinner bill.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Men will sit through twenty years of therapy just to avoid paying a tall woman to tell them to sit up straight.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Arrigo Cipriani had it right about Harry’s Bar: a great bar is one where one bad girl sets the room on fire.
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Mx Valentina @mxvalentina.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Being 6’4” means I never have to look for trouble; it usually makes eye contact right around chest height.
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