Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 02/10/2026The only reason to dox her is to shame her. #IamJaneDoe 1202
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 29/09/2026Enough is enough. I am tired of hearing about officials, including judges in other cases, worrying about ruining a young man’s life while ignoring the fact that these young men also ruined someone else’s life. What about her life? Is her life not measured the same as these young men’s? 117450
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 14/09/2026Be Like Betty. Check the source before you share. 2267
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 12/09/2026One of the things I hate most about election season are the campaign ads. And nobody infuriates me more than Rep. Tom Barrett of MI. His ads show him reliving his glory days as a helicopter pilots in the ARNG. A proud veteran on TV, yet he cuts benefits for veterans. Make that make sense. 2345
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 11/09/2026That table read of An American Tail was so much fun!! I laughed; I cried; I loved. And such a worthy cause, too! Thank you, @workerscircle.bsky.social for all that you do. As a 3rd gen American, I feel the contribution of immigrants everywhere. I see you. You matter. I'm so glad you're here. 1112
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 28/08/2026Where are my MI peeps? Kids in this state learn the Great Lakes by the acronym HOMES. DJT signed an EO renaming Ontario as America, giving us HAMES. A hame is part of a harness used by a plow horse, which is exactly how he sees Americans. Something to carry the load while he just keeps grifting. 7438
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 27/08/2026In a surprising turn of events, the DOE accidentally created an important history lesson by posting an honest comparison of Trump and Hitler. They may have deleted it, but the irony remains: Trump’s Department of Education is anything but educated. 3336
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 14/08/202653.5 Scaramuccis! I think that's a record for Press Secretary. 3252
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 13/08/2026Da da dun dun dun Another one bites the dust Whether Karoline Leavitt resigned because of family or the thought of being left on a decoy plane made her rethink her life choices, all I can say is... And another one gone And another one gone Another one bites the dust 5365
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 12/08/2026Coffee: When you don’t want to do your documentation, but your supervisor says "make it so." 5284
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 01/08/2026They say it's a myth, but I've seen strange things afoot at the Circle K during a full moon. 2271
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 31/07/2026Everyone supposedly knows someone who talked to Mitch McConnell. It reminds me of REO Speedwagon. 🎶Heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who heard it from another Mitch was still kickin around. 🎶 4485
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 21/07/2026I just heard an ad from a progressive super PAC attacking a local progressive candidate because he openly disagrees with establishment democrats. What kind of 🐎 💩 is this? Apparently, one cannot be progressive if we disagree with other dems. That's not progressive, it's control. 74610
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 19/07/2026The People vs The Powerful: @sanders.senate.gov, @aoc.bsky.social, @wewill2026.bsky.social @abdulelsayed.bsky.social So excited! The energy is palpable. 15515
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 12/07/2026So, let's talk about Lindsey Graham's now open senate seat. South Carolina has elected only 2 men to this U.S. Senate seat since 1954. Over 70 years. Let that sink in for a minute. Before... Disneyland (1955) The Interstate Highway System (1956) The Beatles (1960) Barbie (1959) ZIP codes (1963) 35484552722
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 12/07/2026US Senator Lindsey Graham passed away... Anyways, has anyone figured out how to fold a fitted sheet without accidentally opening a portal to Narnia? 5254
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 08/07/2026I love the fact that Mitch is doing what Coke tried to do in the 70s. He's bringing us all together in our mutual hate for the Turtle. Coke tried to sell us on teaching the world to sing. This Mitch fiasco is teaching the world to meme. 3213
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 08/07/2026And the Weekend at Mitchie's movie has officially jumped the shark. It's hilarious to see a bunch of people trying to pretend that they talked to him. What? Through a Ouija board? The only thing funnier than those guys are the memes and posts. I especially like this one from Massie. 0334
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 04/07/2026It's time for my annual watching of 1776. DICKINSON: Be careful, sir. History will brand Mr. Adams and his followers as traitors HANCOCK: Traitors, Mr. Dickinson? To what? The British crown? Or the British half-crown? Fortunately, there are not enough men of property in America to dictate policy 1147
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 04/07/2026Thinking today about William Henry Harrison, who gave the longest inaugural address in U.S. history, got sick soon after, and was dead 31 days later. Anyway, I hear 47 is threatening a very long speech soon. History is such a fascinating subject. 0202
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 03/07/2026Do you remember in A Christmas Story when Ralphie gets his decoder ring only to find the message was, 'be sure to drink your Ovaltine'? That's like filling out agency forms and waiting for help, only to get another letter asking for more info. No wonder people give up without ever getting a cent. 2172
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 03/07/2026When a client becomes "noncompliant," don't treat it as a character flaw but as the symptom it is. In some areas of social work, accountability is mandated. CPS, court-connected work, and other systems have different stakes. So no, we can’t always say “it’s okay.” But we can still avoid shame. 0100
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 01/07/2026Some clients are not ready for change. Sometimes the kindest, most honest thing is saying: “If this isn’t the right time, we can close your case now and you can come back when you’re ready.” Closure does not have to be punishment. Sometimes it is a pressure release valve. 070
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 30/06/2026Humans are rarely black and white. We are shades of gray with messy histories, emotional trauma, and backgrounds that can make things harder than they seem. Our work with clients should reflect that. 0110
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 29/06/2026Mutual aid is vital to our communities. It’s neighbors uniting under a shared promise...'we keep us safe.' It's how wars and hardships are survived and civilizations flourish. As Virginian delegate Carter Braxton wrote in April 1776, "A true saying of a Wit – We must hang together or separately." 0106
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 28/06/2026Wording matters when reaching out to clients. “Tell me if you need help” can put someone in the position of admitting failure. “Tell me how I can be helpful” assumes support is normal. And support should be normal. 1309
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 27/06/2026For every $1 billion in new SNAP benefits distributed, households are able to redirect about $0.7 billion toward other things. Having food needs met allows people to use wages for other important stuff like gas, clothing, and diapers. Freeing up funds frees Americans.twp.aiQuantifying the Impact of SNAP Benefits on the U.S. Economy and Jobs | Economic Research ServiceParticipants in USDA’s Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) generally spend their benefits soon after receiving them, spending that has cascading effects through the economy. A recent ERS analysis finds that during a slowing economy, $1 billion in new SNAP benefits would increase GDP by $1.54 billion and support 13,560 jobs, including 480 agricultural jobs. 1112
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 27/06/2026Happy 🌈Pride Month 🏳️🌈 all you fabulous people!! I had too much fun with @naswmi.bsky.social at our local Pride festival. It is hot but the heat isn't stopping us from celebrating. 1201
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 26/06/2026When an involuntary client becomes "noncompliant" you can say: “One of our agreements was that you would do X. I want to help you. What do you need from me to meet your responsibilities?” That’s accountability without humiliation. 081
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 25/06/2026SNAP spending helps generate over $4.5 billion in state and federal tax revenue. That's because SNAP dollars flow straight into grocery stores and retailers, helping support jobs in related industries. Those tax revenues help fund public services we all rely on.twp.aiwww.nationalgrocers.orgNew Economic Data Underscores SNAP’s Critical Role in Supporting American Jobs and Local Economies - National Grocers Association 175
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 24/06/2026Increased SNAP participation is linked to lower Medicaid and public health care costs. When people are fed, they're less likely to visit the ER, more likely to avoid costly hospitalizations, and better able to manage chronic conditions. Fed Americans are healthier Americans.twp.aiwww.ncoa.org7 Ways SNAP Supports Better Health for Older Adults 091
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 23/06/2026Kids who grow up in food secure homes tend to show up to school more focused, with fewer behavior issues, and they miss fewer days. Research links SNAP access in childhood to stronger test scores and higher graduation rates. Supporting SNAP benefits just makes good sense. twp.ai/4hqgvc 1256
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 22/06/2026When a client thanks me, I say I'm doing my job and I mean it. Social workers don't empower people, we support people to empower themselves. They put in the hard work to change their own lives and we provide the tools. Being part of their journey is a privilege and an honor. I love this work! 1195
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 21/06/2026In 1990, homeownership could be achieved at the median age of 30 with an average of 3.2 years of savings, and home prices were about 3.1x the median household income. Today, it takes 10 years at 40 & prices are >5x the income. Next time someone tells you to just cut costs & save, show them the math. 3124
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 20/06/2026Clients that don't follow through, miss appointments, or seem to lack motivation are often labeled as “noncompliant.” Behaviors are like the visible part of an iceberg...the outside manifestation of what is going on inside themselves. A missed meetong is info. It is not a full character assessment. 151
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 19/06/2026When social workers label someone “noncompliant” too quickly, they lose... ...the ability to model accountability. ...the ability to help. ...the clear lens of what they’re seeing. When dealing with non-compliance go back to the principles of empathy, accountability, curiosity, dignity, & respect. 011
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 19/06/2026When history calls, some people get Springsteen and some people get 💩 1125
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 18/06/2026This is a reminder that burnout isn't a sign of weakness. It's more about staffing issues, low pay, high workload, trauma exposure, and unrealistic expectations. Agencies need to get on board. Pizza parties are cool and all, but real self-care comes from better working conditions. 231
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 17/06/2026Social workers have a duty to the truth. It's so much more than just stating a fact. It means seeing the world and ourselves with a clear mind. Our strengths; our challenges; our biases. It all matters. Admitting that the world we know may not be the same world for others is hard but necessary. 183
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 17/06/2026Too many social workers turn non-compliance into a lecture. Most people who are struggling with follow-through already know they’re struggling. They don’t need a lecture. All it does is drive a wedge between you and the client Address issues with support, clarity, and accountability...not judgment. 041
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 15/06/2026Over 80% of SNAP-authorized retailers are smaller stores. Cutting SNAP benefits directly impacts many of those local businesses we care so much about. Saving money by cutting food assistance doesn’t just hurt hungry Americans; it impacts us all. twp.ai/4hqgfm 0187
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 14/06/2026Some people come to services because they feel like they should be ready. But underneath, they aren’t. Provide options to move forward. Maybe we need to... start smaller make a strategy make that hard call together Or maybe this is not the right time. Let the client decide what they need 181
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 13/06/2026SNAP benefits don't just help hungry Americans. According to the USDA and CBPP, during a weak economy, every $1 in SNAP benefits generates about $1.50 to $1.80 in economic activity. When we feed people, we feed our communities.twp.aiQuantifying the Impact of SNAP Benefits on the U.S. Economy and Jobs | Economic Research ServiceParticipants in USDA’s Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) generally spend their benefits soon after receiving them, spending that has cascading effects through the economy. A recent ERS analysis finds that during a slowing economy, $1 billion in new SNAP benefits would increase GDP by $1.54 billion and support 13,560 jobs, including 480 agricultural jobs. 24220
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 12/06/2026Stop taking things so darn personally. This job can feel like a whole life, but it is rarely about us. It’s about the client. Their readiness; their barriers; their shame; their capacity; their life. Too many social workers lose that perspective. 1151
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 11/06/2026My gut reaction to a "noncompliant client" can be frustrated irritation. 'They want services but don’t want to do the work.' I'm human. Let's reframe. 'They want services but they're scared or overwhelmed or not ready.' It's ok to be human. Just don't forget your client is human, too. 1213
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 11/06/2026This is exactly the kind of decision that makes me smh. America protects access to guns more aggressively than it protects survivors and children. Even if the ruling is legally narrow, the policy implications are terrifying. 33117
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 10/06/2026In a 2019 USDA report, we learned that $1 billion in new SNAP benefits supports approximately 13,560 jobs nationwide. For a party that’s all about jobs and pulling yourself up from those mythological bootstraps, this seems pretty ironic…don’t ya think?twp.aiQuantifying the Impact of SNAP Benefits on the U.S. Economy and Jobs | Economic Research ServiceParticipants in USDA’s Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) generally spend their benefits soon after receiving them, spending that has cascading effects through the economy. A recent ERS analysis finds that during a slowing economy, $1 billion in new SNAP benefits would increase GDP by $1.54 billion and support 13,560 jobs, including 480 agricultural jobs. 0126
Kirsten Grady @mrskgrady.bsky.social · 09/06/2026Every day, I write these little reminders on my whiteboard for myself and my clients. Today’s is about asking for care before we talk ourselves out of it. Take what you need and pass it along. 1111