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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 13/10/2026

What is Remembered Lives with @sharonpinkishere.bsky.social Tues Oct 20 7 p.m. ET A gathering to honour y/our beloveds passed, sending a thread to y/our futures & anchoring into the living now. Cost $0-PWYC Registration:https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/what-is-remembered-lives-tickets-1985107495958

What is Remembered Lives

Tuesday October 20 at 7 p.m. eastern

Queer Death Salon is a virtual community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. It is a facilitated drop-in discussion space, with the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities.

You are invited into an experiential gathering to honour y/our beloveds who have passed, sending a thread forward to y/our queer descendants and anchoring into y/our current aliveness.

With ritualized practices, a guided meditation and space for sharing, this QDS is held near many celebrations of death such as Samhain, All Souls Day, Dia de los Muertos, Hallowe’en.

It is also the time of year when death is all around, the land begins to rest for winter before composting for spring. So, let’s follow that cycle of birth-alive-death-birth…..

Everything is optional and there will be multiple ways to engage, including listening/witnessing.

Sharon Pink (she/her) is a portuguese / polish queer leatherFemme witch who lives her time on the territories of the Squamish, Musqueam, Tsleil Waututh and Stó꞉lō peoples.

Cost PWYC including free
Registration:https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/what-is-remembered-lives-tickets-1985107495958

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

I want every library card I can get

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Body Grief with Kirthan Tuesday October 6 at 7 p.m. eastern Queer Death Salon is a virtual community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. Cost PWYC including free Registration:https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/1999417219727

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

Geez I definitely do not post enough horny things here and mostly reshare death things. This spot needs a refocus!

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

Grieving Spiritual Wounds Tuesday Aug 11 7pm EDT Hospital chaplain & writer JS Park facilitates a care-full & open space where we can talk about losing faith & the grief of how it changes due to tragedy, crisis, & church harm Cost PWYC including $0 Registration: www.eventbrite.ca/e/grieving-s...

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Grieving Spiritual Wounds

Queer Death Salon is a drop-in community discussion space to build skill, connection, and resource sharing networks for 2SLGBTQIA+ people.

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 11/06/2026

Tarot for Grief and Crisis Tuesday June 23 at 7 p.m. EST Participants will be led through Jungian, Hermetic, and Rider-Waite tarot traditions and what it means to read in different modalities, especially in times of grief or crisis. Cost PWYC Registration: www.eventbrite.ca/e/tarot-for-...

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Tarot for Grief and Crisis

Facilitated by E, Queer Death Salon has the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people.

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 17/03/2026

come try on a lens where we see death as a natural part of cyclical human maturation, & digestion of experience as an ongoing, mundane yet essential practice of being with death. pleasure & power are essential for surviving despair & resisting rising fascism. www.eventbrite.ca/e/digestion-...

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digestion maturation and death

Facilitated by hannah harris-sutro, Queer Death Salon has the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people.

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 06/03/2026

Join Yoga Therapist in training, Des for a trauma-informed yoga practice. Explore yogic practices, such as pranayama/breath work, asana/physical shapes, and pratyahara/tuning inward to aid in processing grief. Register at www.eventbrite.ca/e/yoga-for-g...

Yoga for Grief
Tuesday March 10 at 7 p.m. EST

Queer Death Salon is a community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. It is a facilitated drop-in discussion space, with the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities.

Join Yoga Therapist in training, Des for a trauma-informed yoga practice.
Explore yogic practices, such as pranayama/breath work, asana/physical shapes, and pratyahara/tuning inward to aid in processing grief.

Des (they/them) is a Yoga Guide and Grief Doula who lives, breathes, and plays on Michi Saagiig Anishnaabeg territory, Treaty 20, and the Williams Treaties in Nogojiwanong, what is colonially know as “Peterborough, ON” in so-called “Canada.” Nogojiwanong means “the place at the end of the rapids” in Ojibwe.

Cost PWYC including free
Registration: https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/yoga-for-grief-queer-death-salon-tickets-1980408626513

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 28/01/2026

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Teeth Become Weapons: Trans Grief and Rage

Tuesday February 17 at 7 p.m. EST

Our bodies, lives, and very beings are increasingly politicized.  Our stories and histories are flattened, made palatable for the sake of survival.  Our unique grief becomes increasingly buried and unheard, unshared.

What makes this grief unique?  What do we grieve?  How does that grief affect us? What prevents us from engaging with that grief?  How does our grief connect us and bring us together?

Queer Death Salon is a community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. It is a facilitated drop-in discussion space, with the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities.

Guest Facilitator Imogen Reid is the last of the feral trans women, a proud dirtbag, degenerate, and fuck up. She is a harm reduction advocate and educator, a former founding member of Communities Organizing for Harm Reduction, one of the first organized groups in Ottawa doing harm reduction before there were any safe sites.
Imogen is a recovering drug addict, survivor, fighter, activist, shoplifter, parent, story teller, and the holder of the memories of her dead.
She is a visual artist, photographer, shitty punk musician, and author whose work explores themes of bodies, gender, queer desire, poverty, trauma, drugs/addiction and her own very weird life on this hell world we call home.

Participants are encouraged to bring their own questions, stories, and complexities to share.

Automatic closed captioning is enabled for the zoom session. Follow the link in bio for more information about Imogen, on format and accessibility, and to get the zoom link.

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 31/12/2025

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Write Your Grief
Tuesday January 13 at 7 p.m. EST

Participants will be led through a short meditation/reiki offering to ground and center in the space, followed by some intentional and prompted writing time, where we’ll pick a source of grief, or grief itself, and write letters. There will be optional time for sharing about the experience itself or what you’ve written and some additional prompts for continued writing practice. Participants are also invited to submit completed letters to a queer grief zine for publication.

Queer Death Salon is a community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. It is a facilitated drop-in discussion space, with the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities.

Guest Facilitator Melissa Delizia, MSW, LSW, DSW (she/they) is a writer, witch, social worker, educator, death doula, and Reiki Master Teacher whose work lives at the intersection of sacred care, social justice, and transformative education. Their practice centers queer and transgender experiences of death, dying, grief, and ritual, with a deep commitment to equitable, accessible, and community-rooted death care.

Participants are encouraged to bring their own questions, stories, and complexities to share.

Automatic closed captioning is enabled for the zoom session. Follow the link in bio for more information about Melissa Delizia, on format and accessibility, and to get the zoom link.

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 19/11/2025

Psychic Death and Transitions with @badlylickedbear.bsky.social Queer Death Salon is a facilitated drop-in discussion space with the purpose of building connection, skill & resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating grief & end of life. More info & registration: www.eventbrite.ca/e/psychic-de...

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She is the foreground to green leather texture background with event information all around her.

Psychic Death and Transitions
Tuesday December 16 at 7 p.m. EST

Badly Licked Bear loves death. As a transsexual person, as an Indigenous person, as an adoption survivor, as someone who works with the knowledge of the body and of bodies, death is a constant companion in her work.

Participants will be held in exploring psychic deaths, what it means to be “once dead and twice born,” and how our sexuality often skirts, confronts, plays with, or outright embraces death.
What does it mean to bring death and the process of death consciously into one’s daily life and practices?

Queer Death Salon is a community space for all 2SLGBTQIA+ people to come together to discuss death, dying and grief. It is a facilitated drop-in discussion space, with the purpose of building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities.

Participants are encouraged to bring their own questions, stories, and complexities to share.

Automatic closed captioning is enabled for the zoom session. Follow the link in bio for more information about Badly Licked Bear, on format and accessibility, and to get the zoom link.

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 09/11/2025

Grieving Medically Assisted Death at Queer Death Salon. Queer Death Salon is a facilitated drop-in discussion space with the purpose of building connection skill & resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life. More info and registration: www.eventbrite.ca/o/queer-comm...

Grieving Medically Assisted Deaths

Tuesday November 18 at 7 p.m. EST

Medically assisted death is becoming more common globally, and yet there are few places to share about this experience. Join us as we discuss our experience and share about our loved ones who chose medically assisted death at the end of their lives.

Some questions to consider:

How did you support or interact with the decision making around this choice?
What opportunities has this choice opened up?
How did this compare to other deaths you’ve experienced?
How does it feel to know ahead of time when a loved one will die?

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Erin Wraithburn👻 @erinraeburn.bsky.social · 26/09/2025

"In some places, French postal workers now pick up prescriptions, return library books, and deliver flowers. Last year, only twenty eight per cent of La Poste’s revenue came from sending mail." Services can evolve in positive ways to meet new and growing needs.

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 24/09/2025

It has been so long since I’ve taken any pervy photos. Truly these times have chilled my desire to be horny on the Internet. Which is a deep loss. See alt text.

Recently I took my boy to a secluded off grid cabin. We were only clothed long enough to make a game of removing clothes.

This is an image of him standing and facing away from the camera. His white y-front undies have been sliced away, exposing his luscious butt.

My ankh flogger by Talisman Leather is resting over his shoulder while I take a break to enjoy the view.

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 07/09/2025

Tues Sept 9 7pm eastern on zoom. Grief & Political Identity What is the meaning of grief in the context of political identity? Who gets to grieve? When? How? Prepare to move just a bit, think critically, sow hope, & acknowledge the grief of living in this world & dreaming the futures we desire!

What is the meaning of grief in the context of political identity? Who gets to grieve? When? How?

Drawing from her own intersectional identity and spiritual evolution, Victoria is thrilled to guide us through an exploration of our bodies and minds as we discuss what roles we have to play in our unfolding future.

Prepare to move just a bit, think critically, sow hope, and acknowledge the grief of living in this world while dreaming into the futures we desire!

Victoria Rutledge is a tenured yoga teacher and certified death doula, with experience leading group processing sessions, leading workshops and retreats, and hospice volunteering. Passionate about self inquiry and creating an equitable and just world for all people, she finds purpose in creating spaces to hold the vastness of the human experience.

This is a facilitated drop-in space hosted on zoom, in English, with automated closed captioning. The purpose is building connection, skill, and resources for 2SLGBTQIA+ people navigating end of life in our personal lives and in our communities.

Follow the link to learn more about Victoria and register for the zoom session.

See you September 9th at 7pm eastern

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 15/06/2025

The cool thing about pride celebrations is they happen all over the place on different days. If you live in a city, where prides are quite large, consider a little roadtrip to a smaller town to bolster their numbers and make new friends!

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 05/04/2025

One way to counter repression is to get louder

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 03/04/2025

You’re invited. Bring your friends.

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 22/03/2025

This weekend I got to force feed some pups some Queen Anne cordial cherries until their mouths and throats could hold not more and there was spit up to rub their snouts in and vomit to praise them for. Invite me to all your parties 🍒

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 03/03/2025

Tuesday March 11 7-8:30 pm eastern we are having a zoom about Writing, Preserving and Sharing our Stories. Optionally includes pre-writing our own obituaries! Join us and guest Jeffrey Canton of Queers In Your Ears queercommunitydeathcare.ca/queer-death-... #deathpositive #lgbtq #archive #story

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AORTA Films 🖤 Berlin PFF @aortafilms.com · 01/03/2025

TRAILER DROP! We're thrilled to announce the first in a new series from AORTA films... CUMPILATIONS: 10 Years of Group Scenes features the hottest moments from our best queer & trans gangbangs and orgies!! Premieres March 7th only at aortafilms.com

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 11/02/2025

Whoops I forgot to post here but Tuesday Feb 11th we’re doing a Queer Death Salon with presenters talking about medical assistance in dying and a discussion afterwards. #deathpositive #maid queercommunitydeathcare.ca/queer-death-...

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Jason Koebler @jasonkoebler.bsky.social · 29/01/2025

Suddenly, out of nowhere, a declassified World War II-era CIA guide to sabotaging fascism in the workplace has become one of the most popular free ebooks on the internet: www.404media.co/declassified...

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Declassified CIA Guide to Sabotaging Fascism Is Suddenly Viral

The World War II-era "Simple Sabotage Field Manual" is full of steps that office workers can take to resist leadership.

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Seditionist Distribution @seditionist.bsky.social · 17/01/2025

[Mexico City, Mexico] Following the attempted murder of a trans woman. Cops just let the alleged perp go. So actionists from the Mexican sex workers union stormed the judicial building. Via Ghost of Durruti

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Queer Community Deathcare @queerdeathcare.bsky.social · 17/01/2025

Often when I’ve spoken of the dead in the present tense, people got really uncomfortable about it. 😂😂 #deathpositive

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Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha @thellpsx.bsky.social · 15/01/2025

Hi, we're about $851 CA away from hitting 2 million CAD in Crips for E Sims. This is wild. We've also had a big dip in donations lately, understandably from monies going to LA mutual aid. If you can chip in or repost, it really helps. chuffed.org/project/crip... and paypal link 4 US is in there.

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Crips for eSims for Gaza

Crips for eSims for Gaza is a collaboration between Jane Shi, Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, and Alice Wong.

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 15/01/2025

My goal is to make a pervert cabin/cathedral in the woods with all perverted stained glass depicting the shit I got up to in life.

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 14/01/2025

Turns out this just got accepted in an art show 🔥🔥🔥

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 14/01/2025

Oh that IS a bummer!! You can’t just make a good hot strap, NOT make it available to dykes, and expect no one to make their own. I sure love the open-source leather workers out there 🔥🔥🔥

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

“Trash Hole” 2024. My latest piece of stained glass. I just submitted it and a couple others to a show 🤷‍♀️ #pervert #pervertart #queerart #queerstainedglass #stainedglass #chain #hole

A circular work of stained glass depicts a t-boy’s front hole getting stuffed with stainless steel chain. The same chain I’ve had in him,my muse, previously. The wire hanger expands on the shape of his torso , chest scars, nipples, and belly button. The chain is free-moving for that realistic feel.

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 07/01/2025

Come hang out, share about your dead people, and make a bit of art if you wanna.

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Autogyniphiles Anonymous @autoanon.bsky.social · 06/01/2025

I feel like t4t trans men are the hardest to find, not cause they don’t exist in large numbers, but because no one who is t4t wants to enable the men setting on dating apps

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Chain Mommy @motherarchetype.bsky.social · 19/11/2024

I’m in a moment of confluence where my life is kink/BDSM, end of life care, and accessibility work and I want to know who is also engaging with all three lately?

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Odette Engle @mistressodette.bsky.social · 06/12/2024

Ok but who is gonna let me carve “deny defend depose” into their chest with a scalpel 😇

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