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Kimimi🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ @kimimithegameeatingshemonster.com · 13/11/2025

Complaints about modern RPGs "forcing romance" into them always remind me of those studies where guys have to estimate the ratio of men/women in a room or how long men/women speak in a meeting: Grossly overestimating the actual %age and showing their discomfort When A Thing Is Not Always About Them

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THE KREATURE @kreaturelala.bsky.social · 04/11/2025

tall bottoms tall bottoms tall bottoms #scriddler

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THE KREATURE @kreaturelala.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

I put so much effort into Ed’s hand that’s wrapped around his pp pls appreciate it 🙏 #scriddler

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 19/04/2025

We really need to have more thorough conversations about menstruation. I was in my mid 20s before I found about decidual cast when it happened to me. I thought I was dying

Chunk of meat just fell out of my uterus

Hi so I had my period week ago and thought I was pretty much done with it but this morning I woke up to my bed wet like I peed on it. I was so shocked and thought I accidentally peed on my bed and went to bathroom to clean up. The liquid was not clear but very light brownish and while i was cleaning myself, chunk of jellylike meat around the size of half of my palm dropped from my uterus. Google is not giving me clear answers and I am just hoping its nothing serious.

Ps: to think of any symptoms, my left side of lower abdomen was kinda feeling like "tight" or giving very light cramp for few days after my period ended and thought nothing serious of it. Maybe it could be linked to this.

Does anyone had similar experience before? Ty

Decidual cast

Uterine lining sheds as one piece that mimics

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 19/04/2025

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Or you should keep your women opinion and only listen to a white

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 19/04/2025

The way companies like Lysol and Summer's Eve, Massengill and the like tried to convince women they weren't "clean" enough

Husband is disgusted. I'm perplexed.

Communication

My husband is horrified that the vaginal canal is self-cleaning and soap shouldn't inserted into the vaginal canal. I don't even remember the context of how this came up. I mentioned it as a fun fact because I think the human body is fascinating. He has held on to that random fact and said it is disguising.

He said, and I quote, "that is absolutely disgusting and the worst turn off ever. Hopefully you clean yourself. I clean myself so hopefully you do too"

My response to this was: "I shower daily and clean myself properly. The vagina is self-cleaning. Putting soap inside it would cause infections. I use a gentle soap to wash the outside of my genitals (eg labia) and anus. This is the correct way to clean myself. Suggesting that I'm unhygienic is not only incorrect, it's deeply hurtful and unfair."

To clarify on days when I go to the gym in the morning, I exert myself, do gardening or construction etc. I shower after that. Plus have my regular shower in the evening.

I'm at a loss. The female body is amazing and beautiful. Yet he thinks this naturally occurring process is disgusting? I see him in a different light now. I'm not sure how to process this. Or how I'm supposed to want to have intimate moments with him when he thinks something about me is disgusting. It's hard to not jump to the conclusion that he thinks I'm disgusting.

Edit: Since more than a few people have asked I figured I would edit the post. Here are some facts:

I'm 33. I have an undergraduate degree and

a masters

He is 37 and has a college degree

• • We have been together since 2014

• Love marriage, not arranged

• He had no objections to going down on me

before and after learning this fact • Found out last week that he is disgusted

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 19/04/2025

Racism and misogyny often go hand in hand.

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Disgsuting fatherless n*gger loving Mudshark Imao. Can't imagine raising a useless mistake like you that sexually objectifies herself online. What a pathetic shit stain to society. Planned Parenthood was invented for whOres like you. Fatherless low IQ roach with no skills

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 19/04/2025

At 18 why is she being a mom to a grown *ss man?

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u/lilcuteflower 5h

My boyfriend M23 says I F19 'nag' when I ask him to clean... his own mess. How to deal with him?

I ask him to wash his dishes, pick up his socks, maybe vacuum once a month. Basic stuff. He says I'm "constantly nagging" and making home life stressful. But he'll sit in a pile of his own junk and not notice. I'm not trying to control him - I'm trying to not live in a frat house. How is asking someone to clean up after themselves suddenly toxic behavior? Do I just have to live in chaos to be considered "chill"?

Or does he expect me to do all the cleaning, cooking and other stuff just cause I am his girlfriend and its part of my role?

I am not sure if i am too young to understand what is my role in a relationship or cause he is just lazy and like to find a reason to fight...

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 19/04/2025

So deadly e coli outbreak and the FDA mum about it. Yeah, what was that about the market self correcting or something something? Time to read The Jungle again, I suppose

Cover for Upton Sinclair The Jungle

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

Not a single one of these dudes have seen a woman IRL.

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Former_Range_1730

Penis size clearly matters, but it's according to the size of the woman's body. All the wone I've been with who were very, very petite and stood at around 4'8" Or 5'0" height, they all genuinely felt I have a big penis, and it's average (5 inches). And all the women I've been with who were my height or above, felt I had a small penis for them. It's all about staying in your lane.

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Rich-Diamond-8088 9d ago

My wife's friend who is 4'10" loves big sized guys, literally the bigger the better....just shows body size doesn't always say everything.

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Former_Range_1730 9d ago

"My wife's friend who is 4'10" loves big sized guys, literally the bigger the better"

Yeah, what I'm going to say may sound a little rude, but usually the higher the bodycount of a woman, the more likely she's been spoiled into feeling she needs, bigger, taller, richer, etc.

It's no different than a guy who keeps on winning the dating lottery, where each women he gets with has better breasts, cuter face, cooks like a champ, even more feminine, even more submissives, has an even tighter more shiny and pretty vag, etc.

But at some point, if he doesn't get with the best pick, if he keeps on gambling on the chicks, he's going to miss out and he won't be able to attract what he wants anymore.

Same goes for Mrs. Bigger is better lady. At some point she's going to hit a wall, where she won't be able to get bigger-is-better. And she'll be miserable knowing that she gambled past her abilities to land the right guy. She'll end up unsatisfied with Jack the 6 inch guy, when if she kept her bodycount down to 5 dudes, Jack the 6 inch guy could have been perfect for her.

So just don;t go for the women who parade

themselves around everywhere.

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Rich-Diamond-8088

She's married, we're friends with both her and her

husband, and as far as I know (and I'm fairly certain) she is completely faithful in her marriage. In other words she's not out looking for bigger and better, she was just being very open about her preference. Maybe her husband is huge.....I don't know. (On a side note she is also stunningly good looking).

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Former_Range_1730 9d ago

", she was just being very open about her preference"

Usually when a woman has a preference, it's because she's been with enough guys to have a preference.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

Michelle Obama has entered the chat. I remember these same women screaming their heads off because she dared to make school lunches healthier.

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These aren't traditional, left-wing environmentalists. They are the moms in the "Make America Healthy Again," or MAHA, movement: They lean conservative, distrust vaccines and support Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. And they are changing what it means to be an environmentalist in the United States.

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'MAHA moms' are pushing for changes to America's food system

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

Dude makes an AI CEO, proceeds to immediately sexually harass it and happy in giddy shivers announces "she took it rightly" 😒

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

Do not stay with men who won't pay their child support. If they can do that to their children imagine how they would treat you once you aren't "useful" to them.

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u/No-Phase2652 4h

AITAH for being angry my tax refund paid off my husbands child support

My husband and I filed our taxes jointly this year for the past two years. I was completely unaware that he had $7,000 in unpaid child support-I thought he was making regular monthly payments. We were expecting a refund, but only $175 was deposited.

I feel blindsided, violated, and taken advantage of. When I brought this up, he dismissed my feelings and told me I should be grateful the child support is now paid off because it means he can contribute more money each month.

That logic doesn't make sense to me-his child is still under 18, so he still has to make ongoing payments regardless.

I feel physically ill. He is not supportive of how I'm feeling whatsoever and is actually angry at me for how I am responding.

AITAH?

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

Katy Perry's tour is going to be...out of this world....or something. I'm with Wendy's

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

Oh the hypocrisy never stops with them

Leavitt, 27, Joins Easter Event With Rarely Seen Hubby, 59

FAMILY OUTING

Trump's press secretary, a devout Catholic, married her husband in January, months after giving birth to their child.

Erkki Forster | Published Apr 21, 2025

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

Why is Paula White out in public speaking above men? Shouldn't she be home submitting to her husband and let him lead? 🙄 Serena Joys out there... Selling out other women to get their grift on

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 25/04/2025

It's always wild to me how people punish victims to appease the bullies to "keep the peace".

r/AITAH

u/whoaouch 2h

AITA for leaving my uncle stranded 100 miles from home after he went on a racist, misogynistic rant in my car?

This happened last weekend and I still feel like I'm vibrating with rage. I (26F) was driving my uncle (56M) to a family reunion because his car is in the shop and my aunt had other plans. I was doing it as a favor. He helped out a lot when I was a kid, and even though we've grown apart, I figured I could suck it up for a few hours.

Big mistake.

The second we got on the highway, he started in with his usual Fox News-style nonsense. At first, I just zoned out. But then we passed a billboard in Spanish and he went on this rant like, "This is America. If you can't read English, get the hell out." I told him to chill, and he immediately shot back with some garbage about how "you can't say anything anymore without the woke mob coming for you."

tried to change the subject, but it just got worse. He started going off about how "women these days just want to cry about equality while letting men in dresses take over their sports," and how "we used to be a strong country before we let the immigrants and feminists ruin it."

I told him I wasn't going to listen to that kind of hate in my car. He LAUGHED. Told me I was being "emotional" and that "this is why women shouldn't be in charge of anything serious."

So I pulled over at the next rest stop, told him to get out, and when he realized I was serious, he called me a "disrespectful little girl." I told him, "Better a disrespectful girl than a hateful old man," and I drove off.

He was stranded for four hours before some family friend picked him up. Now half the family is furious with me. My mom says I embarrassed the whole family. My cousin texted me calling me a "liberal snowflake." My aunt blocked me. Apparently he was "visibly shaken" when he arrived, like he hadn't just spent the whole ride spewing poison.

But here's the thing: I'm not sorry. I don't care if you're family. I don't care if you're "from a different time." If you talk about people like they're less than human, you don't deserve the comfort of my car, my time, or my silence.

So yeah. Maybe I caused drama. But I'm done making myself small to keep the peace for men like him.

AITA?

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 26/04/2025

Hey Chat what does a r*pist say?

jaicilgin

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9 lies every woman wants you to believe:

"I was r3ped."

"I want a nice guy."

"He's just a friend."

"I'm not like other girls."

"Money doesn't matter."

"My past doesn't matter."

"I want a guy who can open up."

"I'm not ready for a relationship."

"I hate arrogant & dominant guys."

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

Stop marrying toddlers!

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u/ThrowRA3848hd 21m

I(24f) said no once, and now I'm blocked on WhatsApp by my husband(27m).

So after a long day-cooked dinner, baked cookies, did everything-I finally went to lay down and relax. A little later, I come back into the kitchen and my husband asks if I would mind making him a bowl of ice cream. I said, "No, I'm doing something else right now," and he immediately gets irritated. He says, "Fine, whatever, go do whatever else you have going on."

I could tell it bothered him, so I said, "I'll make it, it's fine," trying to smooth things over. Then he says, "If you make it, I'm not eating it." At that point, he puts on his headphones and starts ignoring me. I try to get his attention, and he keeps ignoring me. Eventually, he tells me to leave and go do whatever I want.

So I go to the room, then come back out and say, "I'm free now." He responds by saying he doesn't want to do anything with me and tells me to leave. I say he's being mean, and he denies it and starts ignoring me again. Then he gets up and abruptly goes to the bathroom.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

Like what decade does Trump think we are in rn?

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Trump brags gas is down to $1.98 a gallon in a 'couple of states.' It isn't anywhere

President attacks 'fake news' when reporter questions him on rising prices

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

This is incredibly heartbreaking. And these AHs "Sure you are bleeding out and going through a painful miscarriage, but like did you even consider that you ruined your husband's birthday with it though? Monsters.

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u/ProgressDependent703 1d

AITAH for calling my husband a disgrace after he said my miscarriage ruined his birthday

Advice Needed

TW - loss

I miscarried yesterday afternoon about 12pm. I've never had a miscarriage before and this baby was so wished for so it's all so fresh and I'm sobbing right now so I apologise in advance if it doesn't make a whole lot of sense. My husband turned 27 yesterday.

I 26F was pregnant with mine and my husband's 27M 2nd child. Yesterday, I was 8 weeks pregnant. The day before yesterday we saw a beautiful heart beat flicking on the screen and today I'm devastated. I was playing with our 2 year old when I felt a pressure in my lower abdomen. Not long later, I noticed bleeding and I let my husband know immediately that I had discomfort and bleeding. Before long I had passed what I believe is the fetus and I messaged him "I think I lost the baby". I wanted to keep him updated and I guess I was seeking some kind of emotional support. I asked if he could come home and he said "of course, if it's urgent". I said I think it is because the pain and bleeding is getting worse and I'm starting to feel lightheaded and our 2 year old is unattended in his playroom right now. We have no friends or family near that I could call who would get to us quicker than he could.

I had to clean myself up, crawl down stairs to take paracetamol, make my son his lunch and then put him down for a nap. At this point my husband still isn't home. He was working approx 30 mins away and took closer to 60 mins to get back. Hours later when I asked, it was because he'd stopped at Tesco to pick up

some beers.

I ended up very poorly, losing lots of blood, lightheaded, vomiting etc and he had to take me to A&E. By the time I was discharged it was almost 8pm. Last week, I had said I'd make him his favourite dinner for his birthday which he reminded me when we were almost home. I said I wasn't feeling up to it and that whatever takeaway he wants is on me. He said "for fuck sake" under his breath and then muttered something along the lines of "this bullshit has ruined my birthday". He didn't stop to get any takeaway. He just drove straight home. He put our son to bed and I went to bed and I'm not sure what he did after. I didn't see him this morning as he had already left for work. He's not messaged me all day and he got home a few hours ago (it's now 8. 40pm) and he's been giving me silent treatment. I tried to speak to him about an hour or so ago and he ignored me and I called him a disgrace. He slammed the bedroom door and locked me out of the bedroom. His mum has since messaged me and said I need to be patient as he's also had a loss. She didn't ask how I was or anything. He's obviously speaking to his mum but why isn't he opening up and speaking to me? She said I was harsh?

I'm feeling utterly emotionally neglected right now. My body has been through emotional and physical hell. I understand that my miscarriage came at a fucking inconvenient time for him as it was his birthday and all. I'm not sure if it's the hormones making me feel crazy but is it nuts to contemplate divorce? AITAH for calling him a disgrace?

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Oh no! Anyways...breeder problems.

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It takes two to tango

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Your husband will forever remember losi. his child on his birthday. No Birthday will be the same for him in the future. It will reflect grief. No one wants a grief event, on a usually special day you look forward too. Then men handle grief differently from women. Also you had a tiring mentally A&E visit for both of you. Maybe he cried even after you went to bed, you don't know? So I think using the word disgrace was a poor word choice. UPDAT csfuriosa 6h

SheepherderOk1448 9h

You chose him. You chose terribly.

yta do i even need to explain

Before you read all the posts calling your husband a monster and demanding you divorce him, maybe just realize that the loss might not have sunk in yet. It doesn't seem like he's emotionally realized what's happened. He might not have been in a state emotionally where he could grieve right away.

So quick to say divorce over his grieving for the loss of his baby that'll never be. Give him a break. Pathetic.

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Not trying to be mean, rude, or insensitive but why didn't you call the ambulance?

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dboltse 9h

Well. a miscarriage on birthday is obvioush not the best present

You have to understand how much hopes he pinned on this day being a great one, just because the words this shit has ruined his birthday came out of his mouth Does not mean he wanted it for his birthday but rather he is naming the day that summarizing it was as that. It is a title... and now such a special not a day has been ruined... due to unfortunate circumstances. Sorry for your loss i would have long ago hung myself if this happened

AceBv1 23h

esh you both sound like a barrel of laughs

would you have preferred he say "your miscarriage made my birthday great"?

NTA. Just remember his assholery born of his…

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

Ahh yes the Final Boss of Pick Me Girlies... Who unlike other girls don't post thirst traps. It's the hypocrisy that makes me shake my head, sh*tting on other women while ...

Top 6 things I get called "Pick me" for doing:

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-being a tomboy

-working with cars

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getting hands dirty

-being against OF -making reels (like this one)

Don't You (Forget About

"Pick Me" final boss then

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

So he wants a bangmom

r/Marriage u/landofakr 7h

Partner wants me to do wife things and I'm not his wife

I know this group is about marriage but I need some help. My bf and I have been together for 10 months. He lives with me and my family Mon-Fri for free doesn't pay rent. He works full time and I work a part time job (4 days a week) 28 sometimes 30 hours a week. He has openly stated he wants me to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, for him and I. He wants me to make his breakfast in the morning and pack his lunches everyday for work. He also would want me to start pursuing a full time job soon because he's stated to me my job isn't a "big girl job". The place I work at makes me really happy and for a part time job I make pretty good money. However I see on social media these wives who do a lot of these things my bf wants me to do are 1. MARRIED and 2. stay at home wives/ stay at home moms. But he expects me to get a full time job, do all the cooking and cleaning and maintaining chores and do all thes

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

Cute now they are mansplaining our Grandmas to us.

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Truth

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A lot of women in 2021 don't do the things "our grandmothers used to do for our grandfathers"

BECAUSE OUR

GRANDMOTHERS PULLED US TO THE SIDE AND TOLD US NOT TO

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Actually the government pulled you aside and said that, while your grandmother's warned you not to listen.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

So weak, so triggered that he can't compete with women so he has make up excuses why he sucks.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

Girl dump him. Let him have his AI girlfriend.

My fiancé is using Al girlfriend websites? How should I feel about this?

Advice Received

I went on my fiance's phone last night to make sure his alarms were set for work the next morning. I decided to snoop a little (don't shame me here) and I went through a couple things, one of them being his email. He has a couple different ones and one of them is an old one that he doesn't use anymore. I still went through it, and I found a JOI Al website that he signed up for last week. It basically allows him to talk to Al women and flirt. They can also send Al nude pics, etc. I'm not too sure how to feel about this? It seems like he's used it a couple times and I found some really sexual messages. Should I be mad? It's just kind of weird to me, and the fact it's so hidden on an email he never uses is a little suspicious and rubs me the wrong way. I plan on speaking to him about it tonight, but I wanted some advice on how to approach

this.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 20/04/2025

Listen to Auntie Aubry, it will not get better when the baby comes. It's not like a movie where something snaps once he becomes a dad and becomes a better

'm pregnant and have been with a husband who plays the game non stop when he gets home eats and he has an outside area to play the game. Today my dad wanted to have a meeting because it got so bad he noticed I've been crying. We just moved back with my parents.

Today my dad sat down and talked and said maybe you should tell her how long you will be on the game. Then my husband said I can do whatever I want. They ended up trying to fight each other. And me and my mom were hold them back. My dad felt disrespected with my husband because he was trying to help but he was answering back sassy.

This was all over the game. I'm about to give birth. And my husband is posting he regrets moving to where I live. And he should've never moved. He's in the room sleeping now but I'm scared to go inside and he blames me for everything.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 21/04/2025

Ooo $5000!! Yeah, and how much is the hospital going to charge for delivery?

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The White House has been hearing out a chorus of ideas in recent weeks for persuading Americans to get married and have more children, an early sign that the Trump administration will embrace a new cultural agenda pushed by many of its allies on the right to reverse declining birthrates and push conservative family values.

One proposal shared with aides would reserve 30 percent of scholarships for the Fulbright program, the prestigious, government-backed international fellowship, for applicants who are married or have children.

Another would give a $5,000 cash "baby bonus" to every American mother after delivery.

A third calls on the government to fund programs that educate women on their menstrual cycles - in part so they can better understand when they are ovulating and able to conceive.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 21/04/2025

So about the supporting women thing she said she was about...

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 21/04/2025

He blew up their house because his COUSIN did not want to go out with him.

ATLANTA BLACK STAR

Seven people, including three children, are lucky to be alive after a teen boy broke into their suburban Michigan home last week and discharged an explosive device.

Police say the alleged culprit, 17-year-old Jonathan Michael Brady, acted out after a female cousin who lived in the home refused to go out with him earlier that night.

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A Michigan family has been displaced after a teen placed an explosive device in their home. (Photo: GoFundMe)

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

Few months later this dude, "The divorce came out of nowhere!"

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

Actual good news. This law will help victims of DV when they have to fight back for self protection

Georgia Moves to Protect Survivors of Domestic Abuse

With bipartisan support, the legislature has passed one of the nation's most expansive bills offering protection to abuse survivors convicted or accused of a crime connected to their abuse. Other states may follow.

April 18, 2025.

Shannon Heffernan, The Marshall Project

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

This will certainly help raise the birth rates

Korea JoongAng Daily

Women who don't have children should be jailed, male teacher allegedly tells students

Published: 21 Apr. 2025, 18:08

An empty classroom of a middle school in Daegu [YONHAP]

A male teacher working at a girls' high school was accused of telling students that women who don't have babies should be jailed during a social sciences class, leading to an investigation by the city education office.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

The male loneliness epidemic

A horrible shitty creature sleeps in the arms of such a gorgeous woman, yet I don't even MEET a good looking

woman, let alone **hug** a ** *gorgeous** one.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

Ahh yes the tech field, KNOWN for being bias to women. 🙄

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Today, I remembered something we often forget - people like us aren't great at promoting ourselves. Developers, technical experts... we usually stay in the background. Meanwhile, someone who may not be very smart but looks attractive can easily catch the attention of the boss and rise to the top. No matter how technically intelligent we are, in the end, it's often those attractive yet not-so-knowledgeable women who come out ahead. Sadly but its true

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

And these same dudes will whine about how "fake" women are if they do have their nails done

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As a female if yo nails not done I automatically assume u broke or Starving osts are meant to bring forward dialogue and discussions of

problematic sentiments shown and not in support - Ask_Aubry

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

No matter how many times I see this clip, it gets to me. ❤️

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

This is brilliant. I want to do this.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

Sooo the peen gets smaller when used. Got it.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 22/04/2025

She looks so done with his antics.

Picture of a man kneeling begging his wife in divorce court and she looking so over it

The image depicts one of the final moments in the marriage of Steve and Anna Strack, who were 37 and 33 at the time, according to Nichols' research. The photo was a one-off picture published in the Chicago Tribune, unattached to any particular story, and seemingly printed due to its evocative nature.

"It's just one of those dramatic photos," Nichols told Insider. "I'm sure it was just a photographer who was roaming the halls of the courthouse looking for a picture."

Prior to the camera flash, Anna Strack had filed for divorce from her husband on the grounds of habitual drunkenness, Nichols told Insider. In Illinois at the time, a spouse seeking divorce had to provide the court with a reason for the split, often choosing from maladies like abandonment, mental cruelty, or adultery.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

Wait she's the violent one for defending herself?

My (F34) boyfriend (Charles M38)and I celebrate our birthdays together. This year, I contributed a small private room at a restaurant, and we invited 11 people. 4 of them are my local friends. The rest are his family members. I wanted to celebrate a new achievement in my career and thought it would be great to just splurge a little and get some delicious food. So we had access to the menu, drinks and our cake. I had agreed to pay for ½ of the food aside from having rented the small space myself. The space was paid for in advance, the food at the end (as in any restaurant).

We had issues last year because I felt that he was doing low effort things while I always did my best to give him a nice birthday celebration. We have an income gap, but it wasn't even about money. I was making less money last year, and I still made things work for him.

So this year, he took care of inviting people, paid for the cake, and got me a spice rack as a present (which I loved).

I made myself pretty, got my eyebrows and

eyelashes done, and had my hair done. We were told to pose and pretend to blow the candles (because I didn't want to blow our germs on the cake). Then we each had a picture alone with the cake. When it was my turn, I was holding the cake when he pushed my face towards the cake, so I tried to fight it. His family started cheering, and he arched over my body and forced me to bend over until my face smashed the cake. My friends tried to get him off me, and he resorted to plastering cake and frosting on my hair. I don't need to describe the mess because I'll never be able to end this post, but I ended up slapping him when he attempted to do it again. His mother got up, and she got into an argument with one of my guests. I had to cross the main floor with cake all over my face to use the restroom. When I looked in the mirror, I had cake on my neck, and my blouse had red and blue coloring that didn't come off. I had to wash my face and got my hair i

When I came back, his family were all long faces. I told him what he did was unacceptable, and he said it was just a joke, that everybody has done that for ages and that me slapping him just ruined my image in front of his family. I started crying and gathered all my stuff to leave. I notified him that he should pay for himself and his guests. My friends insisted on paying for their own food, but I refused, and we ended the night right there. My friends wanted to treat me to having dinner elsewhere, but I wasn't comfortable with my appearance. They ended up sending me the money that I spent, and that broke my heart.

Charles had to pay for 1½ of the remaining bill and got charged a cleaning fee. I still love him, but I'm clear that I'll never be able to forgive him. We talked about it, and I ended things. He's convinced that I never loved him. He acknowledged what he did was wrong but is adamant that his family hates me for slapping him and that it's my fault. I told him that he ruined

He says he paid for that cake, that he's not saying that it was okay to smash it, but it's not like I paid for everything. He wanted me to apologize to his mom, but I refused.

Important: I'm not proud of my reaction. We've never had any physical altercations. He says his mother feels humiliated because of what I did and that she has been struggling with mild depression for years (I didn't know), and I came off as violent.

AITA for refusing? I already blocked him.

Edit: his guests paid for the other half of his bill after being told they needed not pay for anything.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

The way they confuse women being appalled by the way they see and treat other women as jealousy.

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Why are woman jealous when a man shows his foreign girlfriend?

I have seen this a lot in my home country Germany. Whenever a German man shows his foreign girlfriend (mostly from Thailand or Brazil) in public or on social media German women start to write negative comments like 'patriarchy still exists' or other negative stuff. What is the reason for this negativity? I have seen it a lot recently in the (German speaking) social media. Is it the same in the US or elsewhere?

Women can get a lot out of men with their vagina or hinting maybe someone will get vagina later on. If you get a cheaper price for better or equal goods somewhere else, it undermines their position. They don't want these men, but keeping them in the circus keeps the bidding for pussy high and the demand strong which is good for them

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

How "Christian" of them. But GOOD for her to sticking up for herself!

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AlO for demanding to be paid after wearing something inappropriate to babysit

hi! i am 15 and have been babysitting this family for over a year. they are more on the conservative side, and a lot more religious than my family, but they are generally nice and i love their kids. i did not receive payment from them the last time i babysat, and so i reached out and they are now saying they will not pay me the full price because i was wearing something inappropriate. just wondering if i am overreactingreacting

for context, i was wearing a sweatshirt over my tanktop (3rd pic) and only took it off after the kids asked me to run around with them.

i babysat from 4 to 10:30, and normally charge 15 dollars w a 5 dollar increase per kid, so 20 dollars for 2 kids.

Hi! Hope you had a great weekend, I just wanted to reach out because I haven't gotten my payment from Wednesday yet. I know you guys celebrate Good Friday and Easter so I totally get that it probably slipped off your radar but if you could Venmo me when you have the chance, that would be fantastic!

Today 10:39 PM

Hello Mae, Dan and I have been talking about it, and quite frankly, we do not feel comfortable paying you the full amount after you wore such an inappropriate clothing to our house. THe kids love you and we are more than happy to give you a second chance, but we cannot pay you more than 50$ after you wore that outfit.

Wow, I had no idea you guys felt that way, I am so so sorry I made you uncomfortable. I just wanted to be in something flexible to run around in with Sarah and Eliza. That being said, 50 honestly does not feel like enough money for 2 kids and 7 hours. I understand you do not feel okay paying me full price, and I'd be willing to do half of what I normally charg

!!! UPDATE: AIO for demanding to be paid after wearing something inappropriate to babysit

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Hi! So this is an update to the post I made last night about a babysitting fiasco. First of all, I had no idea it would blow up like that, from the bottom of my heart, I am so grateful for every single person who took time out of their day to write out a reply, it truly was so helpful!!

If you didn't see that post, I'm Mae, I'm 15, and a parents I was babysitting for refused to pay me because they found my outfit inappropriate.

Around the same time the post started to blow up, my mom sent out an email to my neighbor/the mother, she never got a response, which was not very surprising, as they do not get along very well due to opposing political beliefs and religions, etc (my mom is jewish, she's very catholic). A lot of people suggested taking my neighbor to small claims court, but where I am at, the price of even filling a claim is half the money I would have made, as well as th

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Today 9:20 PM

Hi Marianne, I apologize for the double texting- I know your kids are on break this week, but you haven't responded to my text or my mother's email.

I have been thinking about the last couple texts, and while I feel awful that I offended you and Dan, we had never gone over ground rules about clothing, and I do not think it is fair for you to go back on your word. I think that it is the best decision for both of us if you pay me in total and we can put this

behind us.

Today 10:41PM

Mae - I have known you since you were a little girl and it is quite disheartening to see that you have grown up into another version of your mother. Neither the less, Dan has venmo'd you 150$.

I will take that as a compliment, I think my mother is an awesome person. I received the money, thank you.

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I will take that as a compliment, I think my mother is an awesome person. I received the money, thank you.

You were so lovely growing up andwe always prayed you would find

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

Thomas's entire personality is his money. Also Thomas, "All the women I come across gold diggers?"

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have a net worth of $3.4 million.

I am not interested in women over the age of 40, in fact my filters on this app are set at a maximum of 39.

Located in Woodbury, Minnesota

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

He sure is trying

Is husband cheating ? I have never used the app and have no idea what this is. I found this in his email.

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

Cover your drink around this guy

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Aren't you putting yourself in the situation by being at bars or wherever drinking. Just saying no hate

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

So male terrorists murdered these men and somehow it's feminist's fault? 🙄

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Dear feminists, want to see what male privilege in this country really looks like?

Just look at the list.

Particulars of Deceased persons

Name of the deceased

Parentage

Residence

sex

Sushil Nathyal

Male

Male

S. No 1.

2. Syed Adil Hussain Shah

3. Hemant Suhas Joshi

Male

Vinay Narwal

5. Atul Shrikant Moni

Male

Male

6. Neeraj Udhawani

Indore

Hapatnard Tehsil Pahalgam

Tami Mumbai

Karnal Haryana

O Danyal Cross Road West near Samrat Hotel Thakurwadi Dombli West

Maharashtra

Uttarakhand

Male

Bitan Adhikari

Male

Male

Male

Vishnu Kolkata

Batwali Ropandi, Nepal

Sham Nagar Kanpur City U. P

Malashwar Odesa

Male

Bihar

Male

Male

Male

Lali

Jairaid Nathaly

Syed Hyder Shah

Durav Joshi

Rajesh Narwal

Sri Ram Achal CHS

Pradeep Kumar

Brewer Adhikari,

Kushal Raj

Neupane

Manoj Dwivedi

Baleshwar (9338146180)

Manglesh K.R.

Misra

Narayan Memon

Lakshman Lali

PC Agarwal

Shahi Guhar

Male

Male

Male Male

Male

Santosh Jaghda

Kochi K

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

She's literally dating a racist

AlO? My boyfriend using my race as an "OK" to say things he shouldn't

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(18F, Black & Puerto Rican) have been dating my boyfriend (21M, White) for a little while now. In the beginning of our relationship, he would make these little "jokes" here and there about my skin tone-like saying "if turned the lights off, I wouldn't be able to see you," or calling me "dark" or "monkey" in a teasing way. I laughed in the beginning because i'm all for dark humor but lately? it's been getting worse.

When we go to stores, he'll make a joke and say, "Don't steal anything," or "You probably know how to pronounce that name because you're Black." Or even worse when we're at the cash register, he'll make a joke and say that i abuse and hit him just to laugh afterward like it's hilarious, and if I get quiet or uncomfortable, he'll say I'm overreacting or that it's "just a joke" and to laugh too.

The worst was recently when he told me he was hanging out with a Black coworker, and they ended up in a neighborhood with "Plantation" in the name. He told me he looked at the guy and said, "How does it feel to be back where you belong?" and then followed it up with, "Don't worry, my girlfriend's Black" as if that made it okay.

I haven't said much because I keep wondering if I'm just being sensitive. But deep down, I'm starting to feel like he's only with me so he can say racist things and use our relationship as a shield. It's starting to really mess with my head and make me feel like I'm being used or even degraded for his amusement.

Am I overreacting? Or is this as messed up as it feels

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

Why is the divide getting bigger in Gen Z? Because this is the type of guys young women are having to deal with

foids should stop complaining

about like bro you're fr upset TOO MANY people find you attractive

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AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · 23/04/2025

Imagine being more upset about children getting fed over billionaires not paying their fair share of taxes

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Unpopular opinion ...So apparently some people (mainly single mothers) are demanding that schools supply children breakfast so they can start the day off with food in their stomach. Well isn't that the parents job? If you can rock up to school wearing designer clothes, nails done, hair on flick, you can afford to give your children breakfast. Stop trying to make others pay for your lifestyle choices. You bred them, you feed them.