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Raven Allen

@momimlookingfor.bsky.social
26 followers 10 following 44 posts

Im just your typical mom next door! We all have a wild side, let me help you find yours...💙🤍

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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
If your relationship depends on controlling another person, it doesn’t depend on love. #nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
The moment you stop trying to control your partner, you find out if the love is real.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
Choice is more powerful than obligation. #nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 08/06/2026
Freedom exposes what’s really there. #nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
Some of the best experiences come from saying yes to connection. #nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 05/06/2026
More connections. More memories. #nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
Natural things rarely require this much conditioning. #nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 03/06/2026
The default isn’t always the best fit. #nonmonogamy #polyamory #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 28/05/2026
Cheating exists because people confuse social conditioning with genuine compatibility, and force themselves into relationships that don’t actually fit. Pressure can imitate commitment for a while.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 16/05/2026
People tolerate less once they genuinely value themselves.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 15/05/2026
People usually love honesty in theory more than reality.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
People romanticize dependence in women far more than they realize.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
That’s very different from obligation. #relationshiptruths
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 13/05/2026
People say they want honesty until honesty becomes uncomfortable.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 12/05/2026
People really struggle separating love from ownership.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 08/05/2026
Some relationships survive comfort, not compatibility.
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 07/05/2026
Love isn’t limited. Why should I be?
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
Normalizing failure doesn’t make it healthy. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
The pattern says more than people want to admit. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 06/05/2026
What’s natural usually doesn’t need this much enforcement. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 05/05/2026
That’s usually where the problem begins. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 05/05/2026
The outcomes never seem to change the conversation. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Something being common doesn’t automatically make it natural. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 04/05/2026
Sacrifice gets romanticized too easily. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 02/05/2026
Fear isn’t the same as devotion. #relationships
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Raven Allen @momimlookingfor.bsky.social · 02/05/2026
Real loyalty isn’t forced. #relationships
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