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m (she/her).

@mochabeans.bsky.social
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36 / black / childfree

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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 09/07/2025
no kids means no kids ☺️ not 1 kid, not a foster kid or stepkid, not i only have my kids on the weekends, not but my kid is in college/out of the house, it means NO kids at all
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 07/07/2025
praise be to god i won't be cursed with the children of a man like this 🙏🏾
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 26/06/2025
popping in to say: what a beautiful month/year/life to be #childfree 🙂‍↕️
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Devin 👸🏾 @devinthedudette.bsky.social · 25/06/2025
So many of us would’ve removed our uteri by now if the medical system was on our side and not the side of hypothetical children we don’t want.
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 22/05/2025
again! antinatalist and promortalist are not the same thing, that dude was just a suicidal loser, we do not claim him ✋🏾
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
no one will save us but us 🤷🏾‍♀️ nothing wrong with taking a chance, i would rather regret not having kids than regret having them or being kept alive by wires to be an incubator
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 19/05/2025
idk how many more stories need to be told before the message is clear! the day after the election, i called my gyno for a bisalp consult, i was not waiting around for 'things to get better' or risking my state banning that procedure or birth control
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
some of us have! tubes gone, hysterectomy is next on the agenda, i am not waiting to see 'what happens' 🙅🏾‍♀️
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 16/05/2025
they're doing THAT to pregnant women even in death and you're still choosing to have kids?? good luck!!!
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
i can trust none of us are running up to kids and saying we are 'free' of them lol some of us aren't even ever around kids long enough for any more than a polite wave or a smile
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Danielle Lalonders @dlalonders.bsky.social · 13/05/2025
freeing yourself from religion is one of the best things you can do for yourself as a person of color
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
that would be....every day! lol
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
www.youtube.com/shorts/AJ0e_... my fave
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Ted Cruz eats batteries.
YouTube video by Carter Vail
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 11/05/2025
if you are not filling today (or any day) with things that bring you joy and peace, i simply do not have time for you. life is entirely too short for you to be this miserable. ✋🏾
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willy wonka quotes @handle.invalid · 11/05/2025
On days like these, kids like you should be burning in my chocolate factory
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
i was pleasantly surprised lol also he doesn't want kids either so yeah easy decision 😂💕
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
that's how i was before i met my bf on a damn video game lol i didn't even try for years because it sounded like WORK and also i was tired of getting the usual you sure you don't want kids? lol yes i am sure, dummy
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 10/05/2025
i can't imagine trying to navigate dating nowadays if i was still in my 20s, i probably would've went to a convent to avoid the trouble 😂
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 09/05/2025
i agree!!! because tbh if you are comfortable having sex with the person, you should be comfortable talking about whether or not you want kids, let's not pretend like that's 'rushing' anything lol
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 09/05/2025
⚠️ if you are not explicitly talking to your significant other about how you want or do not want kids, you are doing them and yourself a huge disservice ⚠️
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 09/05/2025
every day i feel blessed 🙌🏾
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caitliwinx ⚔️🍂🪾 @caitliwinx.bsky.social · 01/04/2025
I’m sorry, but if you’re a man, why are you not dressed like these guys
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 08/05/2025
haven't read these books in quite some time but this makes me so happy that anita has remained without children, all my other book series in my lifetime have failed me lol
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 07/05/2025
if i see them throw something out their window while driving i lay on my horn honestly fuck those people ☺️
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 07/05/2025
i refuse to let bluesky doom artists tell me what i should be paying attention to or care about lmao the met gala has no bearing on your life or wellbeing so either keep paying your bills and keep it pushing or perish, you choose!
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
good luck with recovery! once you heal up, you'll feel so much better with that thing GONE lol, trust me!!! 💚
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
doing nothing is taking a side imo but what do i know!
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
i still cannot believe that people decided NOT voting for anyone at all was better than a vote for kamala lmao good job, y'all sure showed them
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
she simply does not MISS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
that is very kind but no that's ok! i'm gonna go see them all in the near future! i like going in blind to shows :)
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shrek is love, mugler is life ❤️‍🔥 @bleeker.bsky.social · 05/05/2025
✨BRIAN TYREE HENRY✨ is in custom Gucci! #MetGala2025 #fashionsky #filmsky
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
i'm glad they understood how essential it was to do that important 'work' at that exact time! lol
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
no idea how you kept it cool with all that going on honestly even if you were at work! my gawd a perfect circle was the only thing that got me through my teens, i would've fallen apart had i been there hahaha you're so lucky
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 06/05/2025
did primus play their new song with maynard? you are extremely lucky 🥲
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RALSEI.pk3 @steamedrice97.bsky.social · 30/11/2024
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 05/05/2025
congratulations!!! hope that your recovery (once all is done) goes well💓
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 05/05/2025
i feel very lucky! i wish anyone wanting this procedure could just get it without having to pay a lot/jump through logistical hoops 😔
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 05/05/2025
do you have your phone connected to onedrive? i have all my photos and stuff saved to that! which ends up on my comp
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 05/05/2025
just found out my bisalp/tube yoinking surgery was 100% covered by my health insurance and i am due a refund 💓
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 04/05/2025
media.tenor.com
a man in a suit and tie is crying and says " look how they massacred my boy "
ALT: a man in a suit and tie is crying and says " look how they massacred my boy "
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 04/05/2025
is this ansem? lmao!
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 03/05/2025
every day it's discourse about raising children and every day i am grateful i never have to experience that 🙂‍↕️
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
you would think! but after that birth and a very tumultuous second pregnancy where she couldn't keep down WATER for god's sake, same reaction 'what a trooper' 🤢✋🏾
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
plague rats lmaoooo
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
if 'crotch goblins' is offensive and cringe, is brood better? litter? spawn?
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
congratulations!!! 💚
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 01/05/2025
you'll feel a tangible difference once you're all healed up, trust me! 💓 happy there's a light at the end of the tunnel for you!
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m (she/her). @mochabeans.bsky.social · 01/05/2025
from a fellow bigger lady lol once i got my gallbladder out last year i (surprise) stopped feeling sick after eating and no stabbing pains through my back/side that brought me to my knees! it's such a beautiful feeling 😩
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