Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 05/10/2026In today's silly "this would only happen in the gay world" news: I went on a date and we have the same first name. I figured whatever, gay guys all have the same ten first names, it's fine. But then found out we also have the EXACT same car. At least he looks less like me than my ex did... 140
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 29/09/2026I suppose eating on the plane was out of the question 100
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 29/09/2026With the time difference, that must have been quite an early breakfast and quite a late lunch 110
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 18/08/2026Not me accidentally sitting on the sunny side of this 90-minute train ride because I forgot what hemisphere I’m in 🙃 020
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 12/07/2026To be fair I don't think the news broke until right after 2 AM. Unless there's a DC club that lets you dance after that. When I lived there forever ago I seem to recall most places wanting us out the door by then 000
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 10/07/2026Nevertheless, I now have a ton of checklists and schedules and so forth that I did not even have three days ago and it is already helping my anxiety. I've found that I live my life best the more structured it is. Without structure I quickly just become lazy and aimless and nothing gets done. 000
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 10/07/2026That said, its tone is way too flattering. Anytime I suggest something to see if it might agree, it is always like "that's an amazing idea!" (No, it has not always agreed with me, sometimes it has found flaws in my plans.) I think it may be trying to be a bit too parasocial. 100
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 10/07/2026As much as I hate AI art, AI-written school essays, and AI slop on my feeds, I must say that the Google AI mode has been very helpful in regards to a bunch of problems I have to tackle before and during my upcoming vacation that I've been too busy, anxious, and/or overwhelmed to deal with 110
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 05/07/2026Waking up at 2 PM when my Sunday bedtime is around 9 PM... yikes 010
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 04/07/2026Last night a local hot guy said I have the best jawline in Minneapolis. Someone else said I looked like a 1980s **rn star. I love attention! (Disables replies) 150
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 27/06/2026If I worked 12.5 hours at the gay bar during Pride and didn’t post “1 down, 2 to go” on social media, did I even really work? 050
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 20/06/2026Quiet night at work so I got out early. Vibing at the apartment with some jams. 030
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 18/06/2026Yeah mine is heavily census-based so we shall see. None of my Gen 0-2 had birth records but 1 & 2 at least had WW2 draft cards, which list DOB & place of birth but not parents. Hopefully the census will be considered proof of parentage but this could go either way. 000
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 17/06/2026I only just moved into “in process” but I’m totally gonna be forced to jump through a bunch of hoops that don’t exist now. I almost wish I was less far into the process so I could just play wait & see. 000
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 14/06/2026This must be what it was like in the 1950s when a family of 15 would gather around a tiny television that cost like $20K in today’s money 090
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 14/06/2026When “it” happens, we can all be partying like they are in NYC 2132
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 14/06/2026God, New Yorkers are fucking annoying even though I’m happy for y’all because fuck Texas. But anyway lol at the ONLY game the Knicks lost being the one that you-know-who cursed by attending. 010
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 13/06/2026Not a bachelorette party coming into the gay bar on fucking underwear night of all things 250
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 07/06/2026Yeah I’ve heard 10% is more typical for summer lean 010
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 17/05/2026Oh my fucking god get me out of the service industry 130
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 15/05/2026My two physical jobs make me too tired to be kinky unless I go on vacation so you may be on to something here 020
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 05/05/2026Wordle 1,781 X/6 Oh fuck off 🟨🟩⬜🟨⬜ ⬜🟩🟩🟨⬜ ⬜🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬜🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬜🟩🟩🟩🟩 ⬜🟩🟩🟩🟩 020
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 03/05/2026I don’t know why people of a certain age seem to love having really weird stuff in their yards. 010
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 03/05/2026Working at a gay bar on a full moon when there is also a nearby D*mi Lov*to concert starting soon. I am this close to saying the f-word 051
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 02/05/2026I thought the trees were a reflection in water and that they were on a weird metal dock or something 020
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 02/05/2026Broke several of my own usual travel rules and decided to change to aisle seats on most of my flights when I do a little round-the-world jaunt in August. I love a window seat but I have 5 flights over 5000mi and I’m not planning to sleep on them. I’d rather be able to get up whenever I want 000
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 28/04/2026I also have a lot of hair and I've noticed that when I take my shirt off after a long work day, the hair has gotten all matted down and that's a good time to see the definition. 010
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 25/04/2026It worked out, this was back when Steamies had the cheap weekday special and let you bring in luggage so I went there just to vibe and pass time until I could go to my hotel. Nobody was even there but it beat dealing with tourists 020
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 25/04/2026One time in 2016 I came here to watch rugby and by total coincidence I arrived right before the Cubs victory parade… 100
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 25/04/2026The most important part is that the Cubs are on a road trip 😆 110
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 25/04/2026I would have arrived to this if my train wasn’t 50 minutes late. But I guess I saw a nice glow up around Glenview 110
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 24/04/2026Mine just lives there permanently. But ooh I head there tomorrow 110
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 22/04/2026Props to Katie for actually giving a real answer reply though 010
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 22/04/2026If you’re that psychic…media.tenor.coma woman is talking to another woman and says i have a fifth sense .ALT: a woman is talking to another woman and says i have a fifth sense . 000
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 22/04/2026It’s gym day but I forgot my headphones DURING ROAD WORK SEASON on a Wednesday. This means I get to go straight home through shit traffic only to turn around and head back to the gym and then do it again. 010
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 21/04/2026Got one step closer to dual citizenship today 🦅 🍁 🦬 🫎 🇺🇸 🇨🇦 020
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 21/04/2026I always find these people on vacation 1000 miles away 130
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 21/04/2026media.tenor.coma woman on a boat says " everything they do is so dramatic and flamboyant "ALT: a woman on a boat says " everything they do is so dramatic and flamboyant " 030
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 21/04/2026When I was a kid and even well into my 20s, I thought my dad’s sneezes were absurdly loud, mine were nothing like that. Now I think I sneeze as loud as he does. I don’t know how this happened. 130
Sandy Ericsson @mnriverotter.bsky.social · 21/04/2026Had to deliver a package to a business next door to a dispensary today. With a shared parking lot and all. I felt like I was at a Trader Joe's parking lot. 020