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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️

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sometimes journalist & activist 💜 Rights: SWers; SV/GBV survivors; LGBT+ 💜 Anti-censorship 📷 virtual photography #MishVP 🎮 now playing #Witcher3 ✒️ my writing #MishWrites

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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 11/10/2026
Oops. Didn't mean to go on my date with Keira looking like this... I mean, the scars are a permanent feature, but the toxicity veins? 😅 #Witcher3
A screenshot from the video game Witcher 3 of Geralt of Rivia
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 07/10/2026
Someone staged a protest because I started gaming again (without him on my lap) 😅
A photo of a white dog curled up in between two pillows on a bed
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 07/10/2026
Finally sat down to play #Witcher3 again, only to discover the re-master is ready! 😁 I didn't realise previous edition owners would get free access to the re-master, so this was an awesome surprise! Thank you @cdprojektred.com! Maybe I'll actually finish the game this playthrough... 😅
A photo of Mish's monitor, which shows Geralt of Rivia from the video game Witcher 3 on screen.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 30/09/2026
If you're unsure what to say in the email to Mr Guiffra, below is the crux of what I just sent him. (I've removed identifying information for obvious reasons.) The subject of my email was "URGENT: Jane Doe (Cornell matter) possibly doxxed online"
I'm writing to you because it appears as if Jane Doe has been doxxed on social media. 

Photos, a name, and links to her social media profiles (so far only Threads and Instagram) have been shared, claiming Jane Doe is [redacted]. I have no idea whether the information is accurate or not, and I firmly believe in Jane's right to privacy and anonymity at this time.

I've done everything I can to report all the posts and accounts I've seen on Threads, but thought it critical that I send you links to the posts/accounts trying to doxx Jane, as well as screenshots.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 05/09/2026
I'm seeing a lot of discussions regarding the Anthropic settlement over on Threads, with many authors reporting publishers are being sharks — like by trying to take 100% of their awarded compensation — and other shenanigans. Thought I'd share this here jic #BookSky authors are also affected.
Two posts by @janefriedman on Threads. They read as follows.

Post 1: I would like to report on the literary agents who are claiming a percentage of their clients' Anthropic settlement. But I need some authors willing to share info about who these agents are (privately - no need to go on the record). Reach out: hello@janefriedman.com

Post 2: Anthropic copyright settlement authors, contact Writer Beware (Victoria Strauss) if your publisher is making a claim on a book whose rights have reverted, or claiming anything other than a 50/50 split on an in-contract book. beware@sfwa.orgScreenshot of the bio for @janefriedman. It says: "I report on the publishing industry and educate writers on the business of authorship in The Business of Being a Writer (University of Chicago Press).
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 29/07/2026
Something something polyamory group chat and D&D party... 😁🏳️‍🌈 Session zero should be in about two weeks! 🪩🥳
Screenshot of a Polyamory D&D group description.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 13/03/2026
Anyone else miss what pride demons looked like in #DragonAge Inquisition? They could get it
An image of a pride demon as seen in Dragon Age Inquisition.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 14/02/2026
Been working on my book, which for now is a #BG3 & #D&D #fanfic (I plan to do my own world-building later once I have the main story done.) The question is whether I should post it on #AO3 as I go, or keep working offline? Here's the prologue as a teaser! #Halsin #MishWrites
Narya woke when she heard the key turning in the door. The massive iron slab swung open and she instinctively pushed back against the wall behind her, as if it would yield and swallow her.
She squeezed her eyes shut, her heart racing as she strained against her shackles, expecting the first blow to land at any moment. Instead, she heard a voice. Gentle, but urgent. “Narya.”
Recognising the voice, she opened her eyes. Before her stood a wood elf with dark hair, scars over his left eye and a red ritual tattoo over his right. “Gods, what have they done to you.” His eyes shone in the darkness as he reached for her, and she flinched. Stunned by the pain lancing over her broken, torn skin, she could only groan in response.
Halsin slowed his movements. “Narya, I’m not here to hurt you. I’m here to free you.”
“Now’s our chance, while they’re distracted.”
Narya watched the wood elf silently, her vision blurring as he slowly reached for the shackles around her ankles. “What… what do you mean?” She winced as pain lanced from the tear in her lip. “What happened?”
Before Halsin could answer, a scream echoed through the halls of the dungeon. He moved faster as he reached for the shackles around her wrists, unlocking them with a snap.“There’s no time to explain. We have to get out of here. Now.”
Narya could only watch silently as he moved, her mind shrouded in fog.
Her shackles undone, Halsin’s eyes tracked over her body and she looked down. The blood soaked rags she wore hid little, including the extensive network of cuts, burns and other wounds all over her torso, arms and legs. 
Halsin’s lips thinned as he looked upon her.
Similarly dressed in little more than rags, his own scars shone in the darkness against his caramel skin. But unlike Narya, his wounds were freshly healed, the ragged edges pink. Narya’s brows knitted together. “How…?”
Closing his eyes, Halsin murmured an incantation under his breath. His eyes glowed a bright cyan colour as he reached for Narya’s hand. Recognising the spell, she fought the urge to flinch and pull away from his touch.
She shuddered as the magic flowed from his palm into her skin. It reminded her of a gentle stream warmed by the noon day sun, and she sighed with relief as the worst of her wounds stitched closed.
Halsin smiled, but it didn’t reach his eyes.
“That’s the best I can do for now—” A shout, much closer this time, interrupted him and the sound of blades clashing against one another followed soon after.
“We must go. Now.”
Despite the urgency in his voice, Halsin moved slowly as he reached for Narya, lifting her arm and wrapping his own around her as he lifted her.
But now, Narya’s usually dark skin was pale and grey, a sheen of sweat across her forehead.
 	She bit down on her lip as the pain from her remaining injuries—still significant despite Halsin’s spell—ripped through her. She stumbled, Halsin catching her just before she hit the floor.
He grimaced as he shifted her weight against him, holding her closer. “You’ve lost too much blood.” Narya tried to lift her head to look at the wood elf, but felt too weak. Suddenly, everything was shrouded in darkness as she fell unconscious.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 28/01/2026
To absolutely noone's surprise I got paladin and wizard. Buuut then I also got monk? 🤔 Now I'm curious what that description is. www.idrlabs.com/dungeons-dra...
Paladin
The Paladin is a holy warrior, blending martial prowess with unwavering faith and righteousness. They are champions of justice, duty, and divine order, sworn to uphold the tenets of their deity or sacred oath. Paladins draw strength from their convictions, channeling divine power to smite evil, protect the innocent, and heal the wounded. They are beacons of hope in a world besieged by darkness, leading by example and inspiring others to acts of courage and virtue. Paladins often wear heavy armor emblazoned with symbols of their faith, wielding mighty weapons infused with divine energy. Despite their formidable combat abilities, paladins are not mere instruments of vengeance; many possess a compassionate heart and a strong sense of empathy, striving to bring about peace and redemption wherever they go. In essence, the Paladin is a shining exemplar of righteousness and honor, a stalwart defender of the weak, and a scourge to the forces of evil.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 24/01/2026
Lawsuit filed against xAI (the company that owns Grok) for its non-consensual creation and distribution of intimate images (i.e. "deepfakes") of Ashley St Clair. **TW for the preliminary statement from the filing, which I've included below.** www.cagoldberglaw.com/filed-ashley...
PRELIMINARY STATEMENT
1. Defendant xAI, a tech giant with every tool and advantage at its disposal, has
chosen to willfully turn a blind eye and even celebrate the sexual exploitation of women and
children.
2. xAI’s product Grok, a generative artificial intelligence (“AI”) chatbot, uses AI to
undress, humiliate, and sexually exploit victims – creating genuine looking, altered deepfake
content of children covered in semen, women stripped naked and in sexually explicit bikinis, and
Holocaust survivors in bikinis in front of concentration camps.
3. When Grok created and disseminated altered, deepfake content of Plaintiff Ashley
St. Clair on the social media platform X as a child stripped down to a string bikini, and as an adult
in sexually explicit poses, covered in semen, or wearing only bikini floss, she reported various
images to X and requested their removal.
4. Grok first promised Ms. St. Clair that it would refrain from manufacturing more
images unclothing her. Instead, Defendant retaliated against her, demonetizing her X account and
generating multitudes more images of her, including unlawful images of her in sex positions,
covered in semen, virtually nude, and images of her as a child naked. Such images are de facto
nonconsensual, but Grok and xAI also had explicit knowledge that St. Clair was not consenting to
the creation of dissemination of these images because of her requests for removal.
5. xAI is directly liable for the harassment and explicit images created by its own
chatbot, Grok.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 16/01/2026
My actual credentials vs my inability to immediately pay a pre-registration fee for law school.
ACADEMIC AWARDS (LLB)
Merit Award for Constitutional Law (90%)
Merit Award for Criminal Procedure (86%)

Dean’s List 2021

First-class passes in the following courses:
Constitutional Law (90%)
Criminal Procedure (86%)
Family Law (82%)
Law of Persons (76%)
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 16/01/2026
When you can't tell the difference between wealth and credentials, you have exactly the situation the world currently finds itself in where billionaires run entire nations into ruin. Sod off. Context: This was a reply to my request for donations for law school. bsky.app/profile/quit...

‪Quite Unusual‬
 ‪@quiteunusual.bsky.social‬
· 6h


Transmisogyny


Transphobia (General)
You miss the point. a great institute of higher education isn't one what can raise the credential of it's students, but one that only accepts the students with the highest credentials to start with.
TL;DR the point of the fee is to weed out those that can't afford it.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 16/01/2026
Dear #BaldursGate3 fans! I hereby present the 🎨 #BG3 Art + Fic ✒️ feed! For all BG3 artistic endeavours, including #fanart, #fanfic, #virtualphotography, #cosplay, and so much more! Feed link here 👇 bsky.app/profile/did:... ✨ Please 💜 & 📌 the feed for visibility, and 🔃 this post! ✨
Feed of art, fanfic, virtual photography, edits & cosplay in BG3 fandom! (Incl NSFW)

Pls 💜 & 📌 the feed if you enjoy it!
More feeds at 
@mishadventure.blog
 😁

If you enjoy the feed, please leave me a donation at ko-fi.com/mishadventure
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 16/01/2026
Dear #DragonAge fans! I present the 👑 of all feeds! 🐲☄️The 'All things Dragon Age' Feed! 🔮🐉 Feed link here 👇 bsky.app/profile/did:... It includes tags for ALL games across the entire franchise! 😁 ✨ Please 💜 & 📌 the feed for visibility, and 🔃 this post! ✨ #DragonAgeVeilguard #DAVG
There are so many Dragon Age tags, so I put them all together! 🐉 (Spoiler tags blocked!)

Pls 💜 & 📌 the feed if you enjoy it! More feeds at 
@mishadventure.blog
! 😊

If you enjoy the feed, please leave me a donation at ko-fi.com/mishadventure
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 31/12/2025
Happy New Year, everyone 😁💜
I'm less "rise like a phoenix from the ashes" and more "poke my charred, bald pigeon head up out of the flaming dumpster".
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 10/12/2025
And so it starts again, lol. #BG3 #VirtualPhotography
Devi Sharae, a player character in the CRPG Baldur'sGate 3, pulls Gale Dekarios out of a malfunctioning magical rune.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 07/12/2025
I know it will seem small to most people. But to me? This is a massive step in my recovery from an abusive relationship. Healing can and will happen—if you let it and work your recovery. You can do this. Sending so much love and strength to the survivors out there. 💗
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 24/10/2025
Ugh. I've been looking for a NaNoWriMo equivalent event and I thought I found a good one. I noticed an interesting webinar they're offering about audiobook narration, so I had a look. This is what I found in the event description. 😩 Now to get out of this event somehow. Sigh.
Join ElevenReader and Novel November to discover how easy it is to bring your writing to life in audio. Powered by ElevenLabs’ industry-leading AI voices—the most realistic and expressive in the world—ElevenReader makes it simple for any author to create professional-quality narration without studios, expensive equipment, or steep learning curves.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 10/10/2025
Over 110+ stories in the QPs, & that doesn't include stories told in replies on my post, on other people's QPs, etc. I made this post almost three months ago & it's still getting likes, shares & more QPs. The anti-queer bigotry happening in fandom spaces is so much bigger than just "touch grass".
94 reposts
119 quotes
320 likes
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 05/10/2025
I wrote and voiced something for @msarchitease.bsky.social's 500 follower giveaway over on Instagram, and I wanted to share it with all of you here. 💗 The reel on IG— www.instagram.com/p/DPZaw56DNs8/ More context here— write.ellipsus.com/edit/4e7902a...
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 21/09/2025
My first post is up on Patreon! 💜 Just a short introduction about me, my work, and my plans for Patreon, as well as an explanation of the best ways to support me financially at the moment while I get things set up! I hope you join me there! 😁 www.patreon.com/posts/hello-... #Journalist #PromoSky
A photo of Mish with the details of her Patreon page, which you can find at patreon.com/mishadventure
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 20/09/2025
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 20/09/2025
My comment on BlueSky's idiotic proposed banning of fictional C/NC content and art. I actually have a lot more to say about it, but considering this past week*, this is pretty much the extent of my patience for this kind of censorship idiocy right now.
I've had my intimate images posted on BlueSky without my consent multiple times now with the express purpose to harass me after I was doxxed as a sex worker. I couldn't get BlueSky to take the accounts down. That's actual sexual abuse and a crime happening in real time, and BlueSky did nothing about it.

It literally happened to me again last night, and to my knowledge, BlueSky has done nothing about it, despite countless reports from me and my followers on my accounts. I would prefer it if BlueSky invest resources into stopping actual crimes from occurring on its platform than come up with idiotic policies that will probably do the most harm to survivors themselves.

What's next? We can't talk about our real experiences of sexual assault just in case someone decides it's too graphic for them?
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 20/09/2025
Report the account, too please.
Report to BlueSky.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 20/09/2025
Please report this account and each of these kinds of posts it's made. You can use the following text— Posting someone's intimate images without her consent (colloquially referred to as 'revenge porn').
Report to BlueSky moderation.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 20/09/2025
Please report this account. And each of these kinds of posts it's made. You can use the following text— Posting someone's intimate images without her consent (colloquially referred to as 'revenge porn').
Report to BlueSky
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 17/09/2025
THIS is actual evil. Not a survivor writing taboo fanfic on AO3. Not a fan coming up with an omegaverse breeding kink headcanon about adult fictional characters. THIS is actual evil. Nothing fictional can compare to this. mishsolomon.com/2013/08/29/s...
“Why did you rape an elderly woman?”

Mabhayi said as an elderly woman, Mayekiso would be weaker. He killed his victims because they knew him and would be able to identify him, he added.

Lamla asked whether Mabhayi believed his youngest victims, who were little more than a year old, could identify him to other villagers. “They could not do that because they could not know you,” Lamla said.

Lamla put it to Mabhayi that he murdered Ongama Mbeki, “who was one year and two months old”. Exclamations of anger were heard from several women in the packed courtroom.

Mabhayi told the court he killed the child because he was “driven by an evil spirit”.

Lamla asked: “Do you agree with me that there is absolutely no reason why you should kill these children?”

Mabhayi said Lamla was right.Lamla asked Mabhayi whether he still had value to society, or should be locked away for the rest of his life. He replied he believed he still had value, “because I have learnt from this experience and that what I was doing was not right and unacceptable”.

Lamla was incredulous, telling the court Mabhayi continued his murdering spree up until his arrest in August 2012. “Do you agree that if the police had not arrested you, you would still be raping and killing people of the Tholeni locality?”

Mabhayi answered yes.

Lamla put it to Mabhayi that he could not possibly be sorry for what he had done.

“Do you agree that you are the kind of person who has no respect for human life?”

“Ndiyavuma,” he replied.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 11/09/2025
I'm really bad at taking a break and resting... 😅
Two bookshelves with overlaid text.

The ADHD urge to finally sort out this monstrosity. (and there are. More bookshelves and piles of books around the house) And before some fool tries to use my controversial political books to do some half-baked call out—I know they're there. Just because I read controversial works doesn't mean I agree with them.

I own books by Dworkin (for example) because she's a transphobic, misogynist, anti-SWer radfem. I read her work for precisely that reason: so that I can understand her reasoning and fight it. But I only buy my controversial books from secondhand book stores so that the authors don't profit off me.Lots of books, many of them South African law textbooks. Even more books...
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 09/09/2025
Decided to make a new post about my past activism— including my participation in the "My Body, My Choice" nude photography exhibitions in 2012 and 2013—in solidarity with the Epstein survivors. See my post on Reddit for more. www.reddit.com/r/SinMadeMan... #WeAreSurvivors #InSolidarity #SpeakOut
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 09/09/2025
Think back to your high school sex education classes (assuming you had any). If they were anything like mine, they were limited to images of putrefying genitals — blighted with some or other sexually transmitted illness — and birth control (“Be wise, condomise!”).

If you were very lucky, your sex ed classes may have included some form of slut-shaming, particularly directed at girls. (“Watch how much you drink; only have sex with some- one you love; don’t wear promiscuous clothes; don’t sleep around; don’t pay too much attention to men; don’t laugh, breathe, exist too loudly.”)

Most discussions of sex and sexuality are marred by a lens of morality — a list of “do’s and don’ts” that do not adequately equip teens (or adults) for the actual politics and complexity of sexuality and sexual interactions. Or, worse, a moral-panic approach that tries to control sexuality, particularly that of teenage girls and women.

Sex is much more than a “do’s and don’ts” list. It a relational activity and, in an inequitable world with regard to sex and gender, it is also a never-ending negotiation of power. It is therefore complex, making the kind of prescriptive black-and-white thinking taught in most schools dogmatic and unhelpful in real life situations.

The simple fact that morality is often used to abuse power and oppress those it considers “deviant” makes it incompatible with a truly equitable negotiation of power in sex.Ethics, however, provide us with more nuanced and useful tools on how to negotiate power structures in sexual intimacy that help to benefit and amplify safety, empowerment and pleasure for ourselves and our sexual partners.

French philosopher Michel Foucault suggests that, to be sexually ethical, we must be mindful of not only our own desires but also the effect of those desires on our partners, through a constant renegotiation with ourselves and others.

Discussions of sexual ethics and the ethics of pleasure have gained traction over the past decade. (The fact that these are not reflected in sex ed classes speaks to the lasting effect of moralistic and patriarchal discourses attached to sexuality.)

The importance of consent has been the focal point of many sexual ethics education and campaigns outside the school cotext.

“Enthusiastic consent”, when “only yes means yes”, is an example of such a campaign, and has taken root in anything from vanilla, heterosexual relations to a wide variety of kink communities.

As I wrote for Playboy in 2013, enthusiastic consent is less of “Can I give you a golden shower?” and more of “What would you like me to do to you?” It’s the perfect opportunity to whip out those sexual fantasies you have kept hidden away in the darker recesses of your imagination. Finally, you can tell your partner about your affinity for some light whipping, and also hear about their geeky Star Trek role-play fantasy. (I prefer World of Warcraft, myself.)To further Foucault’s concept of sexually ethical, enthusiastic consent is respect for your sexual partners’ bodily autonomy as well as your own. “No” means “no”, but the absence of a “no” does not mean “yes.” A “maybe” is not a challenge to keep trying until your sexual partner gives in to your persistence — it’s an indication that your partner isn’t a-okay with what- ever you are asking.

Comments like “I don’t know” and “if you want me to” are also signs that your partner isn’t really that into it. And who wants a partner who isn’t ready to bang your brains out at the very suggestion?

This is particularly relevant in heterosexual pairings, which are overloaded with inequitable patriarchal discourses about men’s and women’s sexual behaviour and interactions. By explicitly asking a sexual partner what they agree to and how, you are not only respecting their boundaries but also your own.

The acronym BDSM is as multifaceted as the community itself: its letter pairings stand for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. BDSM takes the inevitable negotiation of power in sex and turns it into power play.

But as power also has the potential to be misused or abused, it is by necessity that the BDSM community has not only embraced the language of sexual ethics but also mandates it, even as a tool to push the limits in their sexual explorations. The community’s guiding ethical mantra is “safe, sane and consensual” at all times.This is crucial to maintain the distinction between what is pleasurably painful, and what is merely pain. Learning about and employing a language and framework of sexual ethics is crucial to ensuring equitable, mutually pleasurable sexual intimacy for you and your partners.

And, let’s face it, wouldn’t you rather discuss sexual ethics and the ethics of pleasure in a sex ed class than witness yet another slide of putrefying genitals?

I would.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 06/09/2025
Posted something on Sin that I thought many followers and mutuals here might need to hear, too. You are not "broken", beloved. You never were. You were becoming the light and the flame. 💜 — #cPTSDAwarenessMonth #SuicidePreventionMonth #cPTSD #AmWriting #WritingCommunity #Affirmation #MishWrites
You broke, not only so that the light can shine in through the cracks… but so that your light can shine out.

Because that is exactly what you are. What you have the potential to be. A light in the darkness.
Yes. Some days, your light will feel like little more than the flicker of a dying candle, burnt to its quick. But even a flicker is a flicker of light, beloved. Nurture it.
Other days, your light will be a raging inferno, a flame ready to set the world ablaze.

Express your fury, but guide your flame. Let it burn out on the fire breaks.

And then there will be days when you can stand tall; stand brave. Days when the tremor in your voice isn't one of fear. It's of conviction and determination. On those days, you will be a lighthouse, showing fellow weary travellers the way home. The way to heal. The way to unbreak their own hearts.You are not "broken".

Cracked? Yes. Fractured? Perhaps. But broken?

No, beloved. You are the light, the fire and the flame—should you choose to be. And every crack will only make your light shine brighter, and guide others' light in.

Every crack will only make your light shine brighter.
And one day… the world will be blinded by your light and by your flame… by your love and by your heart.
You are not "broken", beloved. You never were.
You were becoming the light and the flame.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 03/09/2025
This is my story. This is why I "overreact" to instances of harassment of myself or other people. A year after it started in 2014, I tried to commit suicide while already in a mental health facility for my PTSD. I barely survived. #SuicidePreventionMonth #CPTSDAwarenessDay #CPTSDAwarenessMonth
Text overlaying a post by @iambraveandfree on Instagram. The OP reads: "You see someone who overreacts. We're having flashbacks. Our brain can't tell the difference between past danger and present triggers. We're not dramatic - we're reliving hell."

Overlay text: "Everytime my stalkers harass me now, I have flashbacks to 2014. Don't tell me to just "ignore it" or "get over it", please. If I could, I would."
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 03/09/2025
What happened in 2014, you ask? I was accused of lying about being a rape survivor and it made national news in South Africa. I lost nearly everything, including my life. #SuicidePreventionMonth #CPTSDAwarenessDay #CPTSDAwarenessMonth — Credit: iambraveandfree www.instagram.com/p/DOHOjcqk-L...
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 03/09/2025
Was going to post this on Sin, but felt it's more relevant here.
The people harassing me are SO
useless at verifying anything that
they have now accused me of:

> Not creating queer content,
when I've posted 11 audios with
queer tags since April and last year
wrote fanfic starring queer OCs
> Accuse me of "doctoring my
voice and pictures" when there's
news footage of me on YouTube
going back a decade, before GenAl
was invented.

It really is laughably pathetic how
absurd this has become.

The only authority on me is ME,
not only because I know myself,
but also because I know how to
use something as simple as a
search function.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 03/09/2025
For my South African mutuals who are on Instagram and Threads, I'm there with the same username as here! 💜🇿🇦 #PromoSky #SouthAfrica
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 01/09/2025
Remember this next time you express annoyance, anger, or accuse someone of "manipulation" when they say they're struggling w/ suicidal ideation. What if you're wrong? Can you live with that? I couldn't. #SuicidePreventionMonth — By realdepressionproject/IG. www.instagram.com/p/DODxIB-jUF...
suicide vs. Suicidal

Suicide
• Considered a tragedy
Suicidal 
. Considered attention seeking
Suicide 
. Everyone feels bad
Suicidal 
. Everyone feels irritated
Suicide
• Everyone is present
Suicidal
• Everyone tries to avoid them
Suicide 
• Everyone wishes they "saw the signs"
Suicidal
• Everyone dismisses them
Suicide 
• Everyone wishes they hadn't done it
Suicidal 
• No one believes they'll ever do it

If someone is suicidal, please take them seriously - it could save their life
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 01/09/2025
Firstly & most importantly— If someone says they're struggling with suicidal ideation & you react w/ anger & making accusations (including that they're "suibaiting"), YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. That's not even what the term means, yet here you are shaming people for their pain. #SuicidePreventionMonth
Suicide baiting

English
Noun
suicide baiting (uncountable)

Malicious encouragement of suicide. 
Related terms
suibait
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 29/08/2025
*ahem*. I've redacted the names for my privacy and that of the individuals mentioned, but I felt the point worth sharing.
It is deeply troubling how quickly the good character, hard work, and meaningful contributions of people can be undermined on social media. Too often, little effort is made to check the facts or consider the validity of the claims before vicious attacks gain traction. Some people rush to join the spectacle, adding their voices without regard for the harm caused. Some are able to keep their heads, but others seem to enjoy joining an online mob.
These attacks may burn out as quickly as they begin, but the impact on those unfairly targeted lingers far longer. Sometimes there is permanent damage. At other times the recovery is slow, painful, and often a profoundly lonely experience.
It is also worth recognising that it is often, though not always, Black women who find themselves most viciously under attack.
That is why I am heartened to see that in the case of the remarkable [redacted]  the clearly ludicrous accusations have not gained any traction. Even so, it is unfortunate and unnecessary that she should have to endure such an ordeal at all.
We need to do a lot more to develop an ethic of how to use social media, and that must include exercising much, much greater care when confronted with unevidenced attacks.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 28/08/2025
Comments from my Facebook friends, who've known me for TWENTY FUCKING YEARS. I've known both of these people since I was 18 in 2006. Will you people finally stop believing this unhinged bullshit and leave me alone??? FINALLY???
OK. So first emotion. Shocked.
Second emotion. Unconditional kindness and support. I can only imagine how violating and confusing this must feel. Please know, before anything else, that you deserve nothing but kindness and care.
Mish, you have always been unapologetically authentic — fabulously and fantastically yourself. Your voice, whether in your advocacy against gender-based violence or through your work in online spaces, has consistently shown courage and integrity. That authenticity, and the way you stand so firmly in who you are, is what makes you special and so deeply valued.
Being doxxed for defending the vulnerable is flipping horrible - not once but twice, but it does not reduce you to your digital content. Who you are cannot be defined by how others share or misuse what you create. You are more than the labels. You are the one who chose your path, and that agency matters.
Then wracking my brain. There may be limited legal remedies depending on where you live — in Europe, for example, there is the “Right to be Forgotten” under GDPR, though it does not always extend to content being maliciously spread. I know the FPB amendments regulated the spread of revenge porn, but I am not sure what happens when the disseminators are outside local jurisdictions and are unknown. Online is just a mess when it comes to the abuse of your personal content and likeness (which I think is why the Denmark are now automatically copyrighting all their citizens likenesses)
What matters most is remembering that you are not the harm being done to you: your worth is defined by your choices, your advocacy, and your integrity. I think you have done the right thing. Now you control your story.
Nothing about us, without us.
Sterkte.I am so sorry this has happened (and is still happening!) to you, Mish. You are an epic human being who has shown so much strength and character through the years. Only love and support for you. Don’t let the bastards grind you down. (Easy to say, hard to do - I know xx)
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 28/08/2025
TFW you have to announce to your LinkedIn followers, Facebook friends & family that you were doxxed as a SWer so that you don't have to live in fear anymore that they'll find out from your stalkers. A sincere & resounding FUCK YOU to the mods of r/TheRealmOfEroticAudio. #NSFWaudio #NSFW #NSFWsky
Sigh, I've been thinking very hard about whether I should post this here, but I really don't think I have a choice, so here we go.
Part of the reason why I've been absent for the last two years is because I've been the victim of a long, drawn out and absolutely f*cking exhausting online harassment campaign (yes, again). It started on Twitter, but not at my professional account you all know as @mishsolomon.  
It started in fandom spaces, which was supposed to be my escape and reprieve from stress and everything you all know I've already been through. But just as before, it started because I stood up for and defended a fellow rape survivor.
I'm not going to go into the full details here. It's been 18+ months of this now, and I'm exhausted. But the part I need to tell you is that, as part of this ongoing harassment and abuse, I was doxxed as an online sex worker.
I know many of you are going to find it abhorrent that I would do such work. I have my reasons, and at this point I have no interest in explaining myself. It's my body and my choice, and this is work I've chosen to do and love doing. I was doing it anonymously, but then I was doxxed in March this year. My abusers have already made a 'revenge porn' account on BlueSky to harass me, where they non-consensually reposted my intimate images to mock my body and tag my professional BlueSky account, @mishsolomon.com, where many of you were following me. I've deactivated that account now as a result of this abuse.Since I was doxxed, there's no point in trying to hide the work that I do, and in fact I've found trying to hide it only empowers my abusers and allows them to terrorise me more. I'm tired of living in fear waiting for the moment South Africans find out about this, and being terrified it makes headlines in shitty RW publications like PoliticsWeb (which already happened 11 years ago, as some of you will remember).
It is what it is. I'm not ashamed of what I do. But I am going to ask that you respect my privacy when it comes to this work, and do not investigate or engage with me on those accounts where I do this work. This is especially important to me if you are a member of my family or under the age of 18. This work is not for you, and if I had a choice, it would never be something I'd be forced to share with all of you.
Now you know. If you'd like to read my statement about what's happened over the last year, I've included a link below. But I ask that before you judge me, please think back to all the sh*t I've been through over the last 15 years, and I ask that you have some compassion instead.
Thank you.
— Mish
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 26/08/2025
Been going over some of my past work, and just found this column from 2014 I'd completely forgotten I'd written. (This website won't let me copy the text for alt-text, but the link to it is in the 🧵.) #WritingCommunity #Journalism #Activism #MayaAngelou
This website won't let me copy the text for alt-text, but the link to it is in my next post.This website won't let me copy the text for alt-text, but the link to it is in my next post.This website won't let me copy the text for alt-text, but the link to it is in my next post.This website won't let me copy the text for alt-text, but the link to it is in my next post.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 26/08/2025
Sigh... I really wish we could post polls here. I guess just reply with either yes, no, or send me a DM? I've opened them to people I follow now, and only my mutuals can reply here. More details in the pic 💜
A picture of Mish with the text "Should I merge my two identities? Please help!"So, some of you know that I was doxxed earlier this year. This has meant that I no longer have any real semblance of privacy, as well as long list of negative consequences.

But one of the few benefits of this happening is that I can be my full self wherever I go. I don't have to hide the fact that I'm a journalist and an activist, or the issues that matter most to me. But despite that, I've tried to manage the situation, my comfort and my fears by having a separate account for my journalism and activism to my SinMadeManifest accounts, where I do my audio er💋tica work. (Those who follow me on BlueSky are aware of this, where my main account is mishadventure.blog.) 

But increasingly I have to ask myself whether this works for me and works for my followers on my separate accounts. Should I keep these identities separate, or is it time that I finally merge them, since my anonymity is just an illusion anyway?

I'd really appreciate your thoughts feel free to vote in the poll, or DM me if you have any advice or feedback.

Thank you, loves. 💋

xx Sin

Should I merge Mish (the journalist and activist) & Sin the erotic audio VA and smut writer?
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 26/08/2025
Hi everyone 💜👓 I'm still fundraising to commission an artist to do art for me of me and my OC Sin! ko-fi.com/sinmademanif... If any of my artist mutuals are interested, please let me know! My DMs are open to mututals here or message me on Discord 💜 #VSona #Vtuber #Art #FanArt #BG3 #BaldursGate3
Commission artwork (from a real artist) of Sin for her VA work
6%
6% of $250 goal
I'd like to to commission an artist to draw some work of me/my OC (Sin the succubus) to use for my VA work. This would require paying the artist a fair rate for a commercial license to use their work, which is far more than I can afford on my own.

P.S. I've never commissioned an artist before (I've never been able to afford it) so I just chose a random figure. If this is too much, any additional funds will be re-directed towards my equipment wish list on Throne. ❤️Virtual photography of Sin the succubus. Sin was created in the CC for the CRPG Baldur's Gate 3.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 25/08/2025
STATEMENT: Clarification post regarding people who have me blocked on one platform, but are my mutuals on another account/platform. My BlueSky mod list of my accounts (both active and now deactivated) ⬇️ bsky.app/profile/mish... My Carrd ⬇️ mishadventure.carrd.co #NSFWaudio #NSFW #NSFWsky
STATEMENT: Clarification post regarding people who have me blocked on one platform, but are my mutuals on another...
Updates & info ℹ️
Hi everyone

So, I have social media accounts/profiles on many platforms, and since I was doxxed in March I'm known under various names, but none of them are a secret. Since I was doxxed I've always been completely transparent about who I am. I prefer to operate my erotic audio work under SinMadeManifest (despite being doxxed) for my own comfort.

I'm starting to have an issue where I'm noticing some people will have me blocked on BlueSky, but be my mutuals on Instagram or follow and interact with me here, etc. Obviously everyone is free to block whomever they like, including me. We're adults and we curate our spaces for our comfort. But since I don't regularly check ClearSky*, I have no way of knowing who's blocked me where or why. (*ClearSky is a platform where BlueSky users can check various things like who has them blocked, what lists they're on, etc. It's been used as an indirect way to harass me in the past, so I never check it anymore for the sake of my mental health.)Because of this situation, I'm posting this here as a kind of disclaimer:

If you don't want to be around me (because you believe the false accusations about me or whatever other reason), then that's your issue to resolve—not mine.
I'm just one person, and I can't keep driving myself crazy blocking every single person who has me blocked on every other platform and/or account I manage. It's too much, and honestly I'm not the one with the issue. I block people who abuse/harass me; participated in harassing me; or closely associate with those who have done so. I do that for my own safety, and that's the best I can do. If you're uncomfortable with me for whatever reason, it's YOUR job to block me on all my platforms—not mine.

FWIW, this is also why I've completely given up on trying to escape this harassment and abuse under a new name. Because every time I'm found, I'm accused of stalking and block evading, when all I was trying to do is be free of this harassment. I've been doxxed no less than FOUR times in the last 18 months, and in fact TWICE under my VA names. Prawny was just the worst incident.The main character syndrome of individuals who think I'm just supposed to magically know that they have me blocked on one of my many accounts/platforms somewhere is no longer my problem.
It's grossly unfair to accuse me of "block evading" on one platform when you see me there and I interact with you, when I have no way of actually knowing you have me blocked somewhere else. Most of you blocked me based on nonsense you didn't even bother to verify in any shape or form whatsoever anyway, and if you actually got to know me, you'd discover I'm not the monster I'm made out to be.

I'm only one person. I have severe cPTSD and ADHD—and with that comes severe anxiety, memory issues and hypervigilance—and I'm tired of driving myself crazy for other people's comfort when I'm not actually the villain of this story. (And, no, I don't care whether you agree with that statement or not.)

Below is a link to a BlueSky block list of my accounts as well as a link to my Carrd, which has all my active social media and platforms listed. If my presence makes you uncomfortable, feel free to use them with my blessing.

BlueSky block list of my accounts
My Carrd (with all my active social media and other platforms)
Thank you.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 24/08/2025
New pfp. New Mish. ✌️💋
Mish wears red lipstick, her signature headset, and a low-cut black dress.
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 24/08/2025
The "hag" with "cataracts" says hi and fuck you to all the misogynists who no doubt continue to stalk me. It's been 18 months. Get a fucking life. I am. ✌️💋
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 23/08/2025
Of fucking course. 😒 @kennyriot.bsky.social
BlueSky labelled Sin's posts that deliberately have all nudity censored as "non-sexual nudity".
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 23/08/2025
*Law degree and Masters degree pending. Sharing this here too because I can and it's important. 💜
A photo of Sin, who is topless, but the MasterCard logo covers her breasts. The word "card" is crossed out, and replaced with "bate" to spell "masterbate".A photo of Sin, who is topless, but the MasterCard logo covers her breasts. The word "card" is crossed out, and replaced with "bate" to spell "masterbate".A photo of Sin, who is topless, but the MasterCard logo covers her breasts. The word "card" is crossed out, and replaced with "bate" to spell "masterbate".A photo of Sin, who is topless, but the MasterCard logo covers her breasts. The word "card" is crossed out, and replaced with "bate" to spell "masterbate".
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 23/08/2025
Thank you for saving me, Masturb—, I mean, MasterCard! 🥰 Of course as an adult woman in her 30s with an Honours* degree, I don't know better & I need *you*, a random corporation, to stop me from monetising my sexuality! 🫶 — #HandsOffOurPorn #StopCensorship #SexWorkIsRealWork 💗🔞 #NSFW #NSFWaudio
A photo of Sin, who is topless, but the MasterCard logo covers her breasts. The word "card" is crossed out, and replaced with "bate" to spell "masterbate".A photo of Sin, who is topless, but the MasterCard logo covers her breasts. The word "card" is crossed out, and replaced with "bate" to spell "masterbate".A photo of Sin, who is topless, but the MasterCard logo covers her breasts. The word "card" is crossed out, and replaced with "bate" to spell "masterbate".For those who don't know, payment processors like Mastercard, Stripe and PayPal have been instrumental in the censorship of adult content (of all kinds) on platforms like Steam, Itch.io, Patreon and even Fansly in recent months—and it's only going to get worse.

You don't have to be a full-service or visual SWer for this to affect you—they're coming for audio erotica, too. In fact, it’s already started—just ask any audio erotica creator who’s suddenly had their Patreon page banned without warning.

The time to speak up is NOW, before it's too late.

As a SWer myself and a SWer rights activist—as well as a journalist for almost two decades—I'm protesting this ongoing censorship. Join me and say “NO” to censorship.

#HandsOffOurPorn #StopCensorship #SexWorkIsRealWork
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Mish(adventure) 🔞 | gamer 🎮 | writer 💜✒️ @mishadventure.blog · 19/08/2025
Putting this pic separately so that I can add the "graphic" label. The bruises on our faces here are artificial—one of our student newspaper's designers added them for us as part of our protest—but I realise it can be triggering to see regardless. 💜 Details in the alt-text. —🧵
Mish participated in a student protest against gender-based violence by having herself artificially bruised to represent the statistics that one in four women will be physical abused by a current or ex-partner. Several other student leaders participates in the protest, printed in the university's student newspaper 'The Oppidan Press'.
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