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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Took a mental health day off work and ran into the woods. Perfect and beautiful fall day for a hike, I feel like my brain has been scrubbed out and set back to rights 🍂

Rocky path next to a big tree big tree and some fall colours

Autumnal leaves and a wooden staircase in the forest

Tall trees just turning on a leafy wooded path (I was lied to about the leaf peak being on right now but it was still a nice day)

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

How I feel after the last two weeks of immense work-family-relationship-financial-despair over the passage of time-impending seasonal depression-looming big sad stress and struggle (and a few good things) rollercoaster all converging at the same time.

Bug-eyed scrungly orange cat curled up on a couch with a red and brown plaid pillow, looking as raggedy and forlorn as I feel.

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

the two Lashleys when it comes to administering the game guild

Ashley in the roblox gaming discord when we were bad at starting probably snakes or outlaster and she said "I'm not doing this again. I'll kms, I hate y'all so much I give ample time warnings. Y'all are so annoying" but I corrected her punctuation. There are several fun emoji reactions

a not at all edited version of the previous screenshot again from the gaming discord where Ashley lovingly said to us "I'm loving you all again, I'll kiss all y'all so much I give ample hugs and kisses, y'all are so splendid". Again I corrected the punctuation. I forget why I made this janky edit but I found it in my screenshots when looking for the other one (which always makes me laugh) so I included it in this post. If you read this far thank you Ashley we love you <3

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

The order in question, if you care (dried up)

Sephora order comprising of a dr jart soothing sheet mask which is nice in the summer after a hot day if you put it in the fridge first, a set of biodance pdrn masks which I have used before and are nice when you want some self care and feel dry, L'Oreal professional metal detox shampoo sample size because I have hard water and my hair looks like an old mop as a result, along with the L'Oreal professional oil treatment which is supposed to make it hydrated and shiny, I don't know my bestie does hair and this is what her salon uses so I asked her advice and went into a fugue state on the Sephora website and this what arrived at my house a few days later these were all wants not needs thanks for reading if it you made it this far 🦒

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 02/06/2026

Patio spritz is SO important for mental health

A Hugo spritz on a wooden table with a friend in the background

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 25/05/2026

Big day in my calendar. Happy birthday Julia!!!!!

Screenshot of my calendar with a reminder that today is Julia (of The Lesbians™) birthday today, May 25th

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 16/03/2026

If you like old art and ridiculously opulent townhomes, the Wallace Collection is a must if you're ever in London

Dramatic marble staircase with black and gold balustrade and art

Fragonard's The Swing painting, one of my favourite pieces I have seen on this trip so far

Blue pinstripe wall with gold srt frames and tabletop sculptures

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 11/03/2026

I am in the UK for a wedding and it is in centuries old manor. My assigned bathroom is a privy that's been modernized and I felt only chat can truly appreciate this old maiden type of toilet

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

I walked literally everywhere possible in Glasgow today (40k steps, about 35km/22 miles), Scotland remains my favourite country I have ever visited

Apparently the actual oldest pub is contested but I had a half pint of cider here anyway just to say I did

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 09/03/2026

Also the fact that they have all these games and stuff showing the legacy of the Titanic but don't have the iconic pivotal game from my childhood, Titanic: Adventure Out of Time felt like a personal attack

Modern day Titanic-themed puzzles and games

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 09/03/2026

Does anyone want a replica Heart of the Ocean from the Titanic museum in Belfast?

Replica heart of the ocean necklace being sold at the Titanic museum in Belfast

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 23/02/2026

How the promise of all this Resident Evil has me

Pants with a wet mark in the shape of a heart to indicate ... Well...

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 08/02/2026

In case anyone was wondering what @carmbern.bsky.social DJ Fishbob debut's first automodded terms were (featuring @mynameisshyra.bsky.social )

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 08/01/2026

Thinking about the first 2 episodes of Heated Rivalry, which I (finally) started watching last night 🏒🇨🇦

Anthony from Sex and the City sitting on a park bench with Charlotte talking about a man's butt

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 24/12/2025

Me trying to organize my 3 siblings and our mother to do literally anything

Lesbian Ashley crashing out in the Roblox guild because people couldn't get it together despite several notices of advance warning

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 21/12/2025

My Oma had one of these! It was very elaborate with cotton sparkle cloths as a snowy base, and there were little people in different vignettes. When she died each grandkid got some; I took the bookstore, footbridge, and candle shop, I love them so much

Porcelain bookstore. The lights on it change colour but blue sky wouldn't let me post both photos and videos

Porcelain footbridge with stone sides and wrought iron balustrades

Porcelain candle shop, it has 3 slots for candles in the back to make it appear like a lit up storefront

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 19/12/2025

Does it make you feel better to know I saw this dumb meme and immediately thought of you and @reidie.com

Some snazzy pencils with iconic quotes from the 1996 Patti LaBelle tree lighting fiasco performance. I was going to end this by saying "rip" since I thought she was dead and this fuzzy filter makes it look like she is, but it turns out she is still alive. May she have many more years

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 23/11/2025

Happy birthday to everyone in chat (especially @potcake216.bsky.social who I had added to my birthday reminders calendar). I have updated accordingly

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 11/11/2025

I have been in a huge reading slump for the better part of a year. This is the first book that actually piqued my interest enough to make me want to read again. Usually I don't buy hardcovers ($42 CAD 🙈) but that seemed a fair price if it gets my head back in the game. 📚

A hardcover copy of Cory Doctor's newest book about why the internet sucks now. It is black with a poop emoji on the cover. The book is resting on a purple furry blanket. Please be good 🤞🏻

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 20/10/2025

Conversion of my building's parking garage to also be publicly available continuing to not go well for residents

The third parking ticket I have received in the past month directly next to the note I have resorted to leaving on my windshield that reads "I am a resident. This vehicle is registered to this parking space. Please stop giving me tickets!" . The please is underlined to indicate my frustration and desperation. My property manager sucks for this continuing to be a problem

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 15/10/2025

Stopped by one of my favourite public art pieces this afternoon

One of six of Louise Bourgeois's Maman sculpture outside the National Gallery of Canada. It is a 30 foot tall metal spider with a few egg sacs in the abdomen. The background is bright blue sky with some clouds and fall leaves; a smidgen of the gallery glass dome can be seen at right and one spire of Canadian parliament is above the trees to the extreme left

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 25/09/2025

I have curly hair and the protein/moisture balance is a struggle all the time, this is my go to. It kind of stinks (floral) but it is so cheap and does a great job in just one use. I try fancy curl brand ones sometimes but keep coming back to this

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 27/08/2025

Spooky Snow Globe twins!! I have a beloved year round one that plays Ding Dong the Witch is Dead and the glitter in it is bats 🦇

A snow globe of a spooky tree with graves. The glitter in it is bats

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

My skincare lineup - obviously I don't use these all at the same time. I clearly have brand loyalty and despite the "hag" in my name it keeps me looking fresh and youthful, along with some 💉💉💉 help

A row of skincare products, all of which are fragrance free: Hada Labo premium hyaluronic milky lotion (ride or die best ever base layer for dry skin), PC BHA, PC omega serum, PC retinol, PC azelaic acid, big ol' tub of cerave lotion,

For sun care: Avene oil cleanser for breaking down makeup and body sunscreen, Murad city skin SPF 50 (mineral, has a peach tint so no white cast and melts in nice), supergoop protectint SPF (I think it's a combo mineral chemical), I like a separate SPF product because I burn super easily and I'm vain about aging and this doubles as a foundation so I look put together for work while also being sun safe. For my body I use Eucerin complete hydration lotion sunscreen which is a chemical sunscreen and is fragrance free and about as cosmetically elegant a sunscreen you can get

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

Une verre de vin sur la terrace avec Miss Rosetta Stone

A balcony with me holding a glass of wine and Rosetta Stone lesson selector screen on an inexpensive tablet in a black and blue case

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 26/07/2025

There is a Spotify playlist called early 2000s romcom that I have in heavy rotation that should suit your needs!!

Screenshot of early 2000s romcom playlist on Spotify

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

A little #treatcheck as a reward for doing well in a presentation I was very nervous for!

A caucasian hand holding up a pink hibiscus iced tea with a green straw that was enjoyable but honestly wasn't really worth the 7 dollars I paid for it

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 11/07/2025

Friday evening #treatcheck: a slice of slightly squished chocolate truffle cake from Farm Boy

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 20/06/2025

This one! (The price is in CAD). It was cheapest with best reviews and wasn't also a lift kit (which I pay someone to do, I don't have the patience to do it myself). I also ordered a set of under eye pads so I don't stain my skin. Both have lasted well over a year for an ~35 dollar investment!

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 17/06/2025

Just got added to a bachelorette party WhatsApp group

DW from the show Arthur with enormous black bags under her eyes, which represents how I feel about large group event planning that will inevitably have a terrible cost to fun ratio. Happy for my loved ones and their life events but my god I thought this phase of my life was over

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 08/06/2025

My mother sold our childhood home (😭😭😭) and gave me the family photo collection to digitize, so my project for the next while is sorting and chronologizing all these while also spiraling about the passage of time. At least I also scored an airfryer in the downsizing process 🍲

A flat Rubbermaid tote bin stuffed full of drugstore photo centre prints from the 90s with photo albums off to the side

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 02/06/2025

Those barstools evoked such a visceral reaction in me

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 20/05/2025

Spent the end of my long weekend just how Queen Victoria would have wanted: with nachos and a fishbowl at the theatre, seeing the newest Final Destination movie 🇨🇦🎇👑🍹📽️

A gin-based fishbowl drink that has 3oz of alcohol and was delicious but excessively large

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 17/05/2025

A little nostalgia playlist for my day of deep spring cleaning

Screenshot of a Spotify playlist titled Much Music 90's-2000

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 14/05/2025

I went again because the bloom report said it was even better than the weekend

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 11/05/2025

Treated myself to a long walk through the tulip festival 🌷

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miserable-hag.bsky.social @miserable-hag.bsky.social · 08/05/2025

I do! I use the inkey list over a light moisturizer on my upper chest/base of neck area - it's a bit harsh so buffer is needed, the Paula's choice on my face (it is more cosmetically elegant but also more $$) and I was recently given this prescription which of course works best but is harshest

Three rosacea products stand before me: inkey list 10% azelaic acid serum, Paula's choice 10% azelaic acid booster, noritate 1% metro cream

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